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You should take the job since you are already unsure if he's going to be faithful. You do not trust him implicitly so it's better you take it so you don't lose both ways if things go south.

You have already made your decision. You're just trying to clear that nagging feeling with this thread. Sad thing is that feeling ain't going away.
It's a dilemma really.

200k per month them don relegate oga sharp.


Poverty: Bastard!!!

Zodiac61:
A right wing shrill sprouts nonsense and most of men on Nairaland think she is talking sense.
Who is the bigger fool - Candace Owen or black people who take her serious?
The woman is talking to the racist element, the right wing nut jobs, the kind of people who think she is a third class citizen.
She was never a feminist.

Focus on the message. Not the messenger.

monimekaz:
See guy! I have trekked from Oshodi to Iyana Ipaja to and fro for 20 days . This is not a farce or a sort of make up story. I would trek some times with empty stomach. I didnt die. Not that I cant beg for help but I am not just comfortable begging people for stuffs like this .Everyone get their own problem ,I no go like disturb others with mine. Call it pride or whatever but some of us would rather not beg for anything,that is how are brought up.I hope You understand my point . There is clear difference between soliciting for help and begging for it.They might be synonymous but there is a clear difference in semantics . Thank you.

You were walking straight on the express abi you know shortcut

Craziestgirl:
An hour should be around 5,000 words
I assume it's English audio to English text.
What setting?
- indoor
- conference
- lecture
- outdoor etc.

Also is audio spoken with a foreign accent?

Pls SMS me on 0708..070...3390

For real?

AntiBrutus:
Because you need me to care.
Can any of you ignore me?
Abeg shift one side, I am done with you.

Obi1kenobi:
It's demonstrated by pretty much every sociological study that women are discriminated against in the upper echelons of the industries they work in.

Exactly how was this demonstrated? It's funny how you say my observations are subjective yet you come with this

The notion that the overwhelming dominance of men in boards is a function of their objectively superior qualifications is a falsehood

What is the truth then? Is it right for a qualified men to miss out because there are too many qualified men and too few women

People spend a lot of time railing about diversity initiatives, but it never seems to have any adverse effect on companies that adopt them despite the fact that all these "qualified" men are supposedly being discriminated against and unqualified women are taking their place.

It's because the men always find a way. It's that innate resilience that builds civilizations. It's like how female students in the West are incentivized to go for STEM courses but still cannot meet the threshold to equal the male students. They don't have it in them. Have many women have you heard talk about black holes

I keep going back to the 20th century because it would be ridiculous to discount the history of suppression of women in evaluating their present outcomes. Like talking about the contribution of women in scientific discoveries when for centuries, women had little representation in higher education. There is nothing vague about patriarchal constructs. The history of human civilization is a history of the patriarchy suppressing the expression and the will and the ambition of women

Let me humour you. How much time do you reckon women require to catch up?

If you want to know what women have innovated, Google is your friend.

Nothing groundbreaking. The names of all the great innovators are known to me. At best there will be an exception or two.


The dotcom revolution started less than thirty years ago. We discovered the internet and people began to build multibillion dollar businesses from their garages and dorm rooms. All males as far as I know.
Do you think its because of your so-called patriachal construct that this is the case?
The reason for this is that women do not possess that single-minded obsession, the focus, the grit, that is required to do those things that lead to groundbreaking innovations. Exceptions nothwisthanding.

Just show me how this construct you speak of has prevented women from taking advantage of the dot-com revolution as much as men.
The internet is a very recent invention. I'm waiting.

AntiBrutus:
So white men are superior to black men?

You are just looking for an argument. I have never said men are superior to women. This is strawman mining. I like to liken the gender divide to two sides of a coin. Equal, complementary, but different. The feminist movement seeks to eradicate this divide because they wrongly (in my view) perceive this divide; something natural, to be skewed in favor of the male.

You also concede to that?

Nah, nothing is above any mental ability. The way you people attach your dark pricks to innovations that is 99% from the West is shocking

What is "you people"? When have you seen me do that!

They are not more innovative, they are innovative, you all just stay in your continent looking for extra toto and arguing with your women. The only people y'all will ever get a shot at being above.

What are you on about?

Lil wonder you all are holding hands and dancing kumbaya here. Who would wanna lose their only subject. I think I understand una pains sha...

Incoherent. You should get some sleep.

AntiBrutus:
Lmao. I can spot Ranchhoddas.

Hahahahahaha!

Another one. Do you have a crush on me or something

Modified: I did not look at the picture before commenting. My condition right now is the exact opposite. I currently live alone in a big house. Everyone have either travelled or gone to school. A large four bedroom house with just one occupant. It has been my situation for the past two weeks.
Don't even know why I'm telling you. Ignoring you is more fun.

AntiBrutus:
Men or white men?

What do black men innovate if not crime and corruption. Yet you want to carry your useless dark prick and attach to world class innovations because you are a MAN ba?

And you don't want women to attach because they are humans. Black Alfa males have never reasoned well.

Unlike you I'm not a fanatic. I'm willing to concede that white men are more innovative than black men if you can demonstrate it.
It's probably above your mental ability though.

Obi1kenobi:
Am I supposed to be trying to sound stupid? You said something is a reality without demonstrating how you came to the conclusion. I'm demonstrating the subjectivity of "reality" by pointing out that the reality of a Christian or Muslim is different from my own reality as an atheist. Who said anything about whether you're Christian or Muslim?

What is there to demonstrate?
The guy you quoted gave an example of seats been reserved for women on a board regardless of whether men were qualified or not a position i.e affirmative action. Is that subjective? Is affirmative action subjective

Again, even in the West, women only got suffrage in the 20th century and for decades more after that were hindered by patriarchal constructs about the role of women in society. So again, at what time and for how long have women had equal opportunity to "build civilizations" as you posited earlier?

The reason you keep going back to the 20th century is because you have nothing to hold on to in 2019. You talk about vague "patriarchal constructs". I don't know what you mean. Please clarify.

How are men more innovative? Did you conduct a study demonstrating the superior innovative ability of men?

Once again my observation. I can't think of any groundbreaking innovation or discovery by a woman. He operative word is "groundbreaking".
Think black holes, air travel, space exploration, television, internet etc.
Show that this is false. How would you carry out a study of innovative ability if not by looking at the innovations

Obi1kenobi:
Your reality is not a source though.

Observation is part of the scientific method no?

As an atheist, I don't lend much credence to the "reality" of a Christian or Muslim No, there is not equal opportunity for everyone in the West. That's just obtuse. Can you specify these things that men are "better at taking" that feminists want to be given?

An atheist is someone who lacks belief in deities. I don't know why you are telling me you are one. Are you trying to sound smart
Why do you think I am Christian or Muslim?

Men are certainly more athletic than women on the mean. The rest is bullshiit. Men "built the civilizations" because they suppressed women in them. If even the advanced West only gave women suffrage in the 20th century, with women denied many opportunities in society, at what time in history were women supposed to "build civilizations"?

It is not very sensible to call something bull without showing how it so. Are men not more innovative??
This is 2019. Tell me one thing that men have access to in the West that women are denied?

sexy74:
I will advice you learn how to concentrate and CA down when. you get your question papers.
Try and get coconut and use the water inside to wash your head, while doing that say "no one knows how water gets into the coconut no one will know how I pass my exams.

This is the second time I am seeing this coconut water stuff on Nairaland.

Is there anything to it?

Master Loj

Your attention is needed

Obi1kenobi:
I'll wait for you to provide the source of this "vast majority" of yours. I won't hold my breath though

My source is reality. There is equal opportunity for everyone (in the west especially). Men are just better at taking them. Feminists want to be given.

Wait...you think "male privilege" is something to be "earned"? So what exactly did males do to earn this "privilege" of theirs?

Everything. Men are stronger, faster, smarter, more innovative. They build civilizations. That's how they earned it.

Obi1kenobi:
So much of what you wrote up there are ridiculous generalizations and strawman distortions and irrelevant (probably fabricated) anecdotes. I know many girls/women who are self-avowed feminists and I literally know not a single one that fits in with your caricature up there about feminists - even 3rd wave feminism. That's the nature of corrosive modern political discourse: either distort or invent positions that your political opposition/adversaries do not hold and then argue against the strawman that you created.

Rubbish. What he said is true for the vast majority. That you know a few exceptions does not change anything. People who call themselves feminists want to be given male privilege that they haven't earned. End of.

This one pain them well well

Wailing right and left

The truth is always bitter

My kids are taking my name. Not my surname.

I'm tired of this thread.

Hijackers have spoilt it.

MariaLavina:
Lol, so an educated human right activist opportune to speak at a women leadership conference wants to emphasis the importance of man-woman relationship and her first point is Sex! oh well that's laughable.


Anyway She has a point , Feminism is no longer practiced the way it should be. What we have these days are bitter women fighting men.

Who hacked your account.
Kindly return the account back to the owner. Thank you.

liberalchick:
Candance Owens!! No one takes her seriously. She is a shill for pay for right ring wing nuts. Even her racist right wing nuts don’t want her. She was fired!

Candace is barely 30 and she is engaged to a rich racist right wing white dude from the Uk. She was never a feminist. She is a provocateur. So take anything she says with a grain of salt.

AGAIN! what she is talking about is NOT feminism.

Cry

We take her seriously. She's saying the truth.

MissJoy29:
Don't mind them. They know the truth but just choose to project something else entirely to feed their ego & make themselves feel good!

I know a lot of guys who are ready to settle down but haven't seen the one they want yet. You really need to see how worried they are. Here, our NL warriors hide behind their keyboards causing gullible women to be depressed by impressing on them how scarce men are & how their time is running out. But these friends of mine are facing reality not VIRTUALITY! Their time is also running out!! They very well know that the key word in the choice of a partner (any partner) is GODLY. There are ladies and there are wives...same for men and husbands.
Even these ones here talking about being the prize might also be finding it difficult to get a wife. Of course why won't they when every Nigerian girl is a hoe, loves money & is a leech. One arrogant friend then was boasting how he could get someone to marry in a day if he wants. He was on my case and still boasting up & down. But even with all the money he has (and he has a lot!) he still isn't married yet.

No one is more important than the other in this marital journey biko. Our alphamales should be aware that the God-designed differences between male and female are to be seen as COMPLEMENTARY not competitive

CC: essenceplus & Ranchhoddas

This is gold. If this is your worldview then why are we arguing

Ideally yes

But the dynamics of today's relationships skew it in favour of one group. You know the group.

MissJoy29:
Prize ko! Prizeless ni!!

My husband will be a prize to me...

& guess what?


































































































I WILL ALSO BE A PRIZE TO HIM!!!!!!!!!

franchasng:
Finding a wife is difficult only to a broke or financially struggling man, and a man who has not truly made up his mind to settle down. Once a guy decides to settle down, he will settle down and wed the very day he wishes

Truth. People in denial will never agree.

You are unworthy of my attention. Stop quoting me. Thank you.

AntiBrutus:
Why didn't you ask this question on the threads where alfa males are looking for wives? Who is the prize indeed.

Ignored!

Yewandequeen:
The truth is there are few responsible men out there
As at last might 2of my female neighbors and I actually discussed this.
Not that there are no men out there but there are less of those responsible ones, who will be committed and settle for one woman. Many still wanna play around till they are 34/35yrs before they think of settling down.
As I always say there are less responsible partners out there, if you have anyone that loves you so much, stay and brush the person to what you what. Stop all these yanga and time wasting thing.

I know she will have friends that loves her but cos they are not really her spec she won't look in their direction. As my dad always says, when a man/woman has 75% qualities of your desire help him make up the 25%.
Stop looking for 100% made cos no one is!

It's another one.

Funmisticqueen

MissJoy29

Who is the prize

funmisticqueen:
how? the most valuable you can be is fools gold. A fake, a phony.


is that not why you come here to rant all the time. No time for nitwits today

Oh well...

openmine:

Oga your perennial echolalia of "strawman mining" is getting rancid and mouldy!
And your neoteric iteration of yoruba dialect is a new one!
Did my uppercut responses intimidate and ultimately retrograde you into an acrolect mode?

Which kind grammar be this

Cc: KingEbukasblog

Two bottles of sniper in one gulp should do it. Immediately before bedtime.

Google the "Oedipus Complex". Could be it.

funmisticqueen:
The man is what

Lol, in that case, wait in your castle like the trophy you are, let a dragon come and guard you while we women slay it to acquire you like the piece of property you are. Since you are the prize? the object? Your balls should be hanging on your woman's wall to be displayed for all to see.
Nonsense

Yen yen yen. Your signature vindicates me. Gold is the prize. Argue with your signature.

MissJoy29

See what I told you.