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Politics › Re: EFCC Chairman, Bawa, Sentenced To Kuje Prison For Disobedience by REALretep(m): 6:47pm On Nov 08, 2022

Lawless country
A country where leaders have no regard for the rule of law

Education › Re: ASUU: Buhari Will Intervene Soon, Gbajabiamila Appeals For Calm by REALretep(m): 5:42pm On Nov 07, 2022

Story for the gods
Buhari will not do anything
The so-called summit will not achieve anything since the current government is rounding up.
Education has been successfully levelled to the ground by APC.
Congratulations Buhari
Congratulations Ngige
Congratulations Adamu

Food › Re: How To Cook The Popular Ofe Owerri You Can't Resist (Photos, Video) by REALretep(m): 3:31pm On Nov 07, 2022

Yummy

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Sports › Re: World Cup-bound Referee, Facundo Tello Shows 10 Red Cards In Argentina Cup Final by REALretep(m): 1:26pm On Nov 07, 2022

ok nah
Who football epp sef

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Family › Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by REALretep(m): 12:51pm On Nov 07, 2022

There more to this story than what the OP has said.
It's either there's a weird sexual culture in OP's family or OP and his sisters are not the biological children of their father.
How can OP's father, mother, uncle, aunt and grandma turn a blind eye to molestation of these girls.
This story is not complete. OP should ask questions

Family › Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by REALretep(m): 8:24am On Nov 06, 2022

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

First of all, don't forget that "karma is a bitch". Nature will always run its course. We shall reap what we sow.

However, we can amend the past in certain situations and soften the heart of karma. Nature can forgive us and give us soft landing if we do the needful.

The bolded statement above suggests you are not sorry for the anguish you consciously caused your fellow woman. Whether you assist her anonymously or otherwise and you still don't deeply feel humbly sorry for your past actions, you leave yourself at the risk of mother nature taking a swipe at your 'happy' marriage in the future.

God bless

Politics › Re: FG Takes 40 Ekweremadu’s Properties, Secures Interim Forfeiture Order by REALretep(m): 5:56pm On Nov 04, 2022

Cheiii
This life no balance
Is this how someone will just move from grace to grass

Sports › Re: LGBTQ: FIFA Ask Worldcup Teams To Focus On Football Not Gay Rights by REALretep(m): 5:40pm On Nov 04, 2022

This LGBTQ madness had better be constrained.
You can't force your criminalized habits down the throat of another in his own country

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Politics › Re: Gov. Diri Orders Arrest Of APC Secretary In Bayelsa, Keyamo Demands Release by REALretep(m): 5:31pm On Nov 04, 2022

Ahhh
Looks like this Festus Keyamo is high on weed.
The tone of the letter is barbaric and unbecoming of a SAN and a minister.
The Governor and Inspector General of Police are not under his authority to warrant such a tone.
Anyway shaa... this is Buhari-APC regime where the abnormal is normalized

Family › Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by REALretep(m): 12:54pm On Nov 04, 2022

There are many factors that determine the sustainability of marriage. Sometimes people erroneously think that happiness in marriage determines how long the marriage will last.
Sometimes, a couple may remain in marriage physically, living under the same roof but they are far apart emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Sustainability in marriage is therefore quite different from happiness in marriage. A happy marriage today can become an unhappy marriage tomorrow. An unhappy marriage can sometimes even outlive a 'happy' marriage.
There's hardly a one-size-fits-all factor in marriage.
Understand yourself, be true to yourself, find a partner that is willing to continue this earthly journey with you and pray to God to help you both have a lasting and happy marriage

Travel › Re: Why Lagos Commercial Drivers Are On Strike by REALretep(m): 8:47am On Nov 04, 2022

Wow
It is becoming clearer now

Politics › Re: TikTokers, Mubarak Uniquepikin & Nazifi Muhammad In Jail For Criticizing Ganduje by REALretep(m): 8:44am On Nov 03, 2022

Omenlon:
that is more reason you don't follow the crowd.

Well... there's no crime in following the crowd.
Just that following the crowd blindly and without adequate knowledge is very risky

Politics › Re: TikTokers, Mubarak Uniquepikin & Nazifi Muhammad In Jail For Criticizing Ganduje by REALretep(m): 11:26pm On Nov 02, 2022

Those guys most definitely were coerced to plead guilty or they are ignorant of how the judicial system works.
Why plead guilty to a crime when you can argue your way out of conviction of the crime through good counsel.
Nevertheless, they can still appeal any judgement given on the grounds that they were coerced to plead guilty

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Celebrities › Re: Fans, Celebrities Mourn As Davido's Son, Ifeanyi Dies by REALretep(m): 9:46am On Nov 01, 2022

Jeeezzz
This is sad
Really sad

Politics › Re: Ayo Adebanjo: Peter Obi Remains Afenifere's Candidate by REALretep(m): 5:06am On Oct 31, 2022

Desperate Tinubu
God forbid BAT thing grin

Travel › Re: Married Guys That Relocated To The UK, Whats Your Experience by REALretep(m): 11:10pm On Oct 29, 2022

kbower:

We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and loyalty.

I really don't know how you two managed to remain together for 11 years with the issues bolded above. Those are major issues in marriage capable of shattering it.
Maybe the Naija factors (society's view of marriage, extended family members, no special rights for women, etc) helped keep you guys together. Just maybe...I don't know.

These factors don't operate in the UK and thus, your marriage will face various baptisms of fire.

I pray your marriage survives.
Plenty battles ahead.
May God help you

Phones › Re: I’m Addicted To My Phone. How Can I Reduce It? by REALretep(m): 4:58am On Oct 29, 2022

Rule number 17
Never allow yourself get addicted to anything in this life.
You become a slave to whatever you get addicted to.
Don't allow yourself to the enslaved by anything
on this planet.
Take charge of your life

Obembet

Politics › Re: Ebonyi: Appeal Court upholds Umahi's defection to APC by REALretep(m): 2:56pm On Oct 28, 2022

Cherrybae:
South East is now fully an APC state.
S.

APC now has 4 South East states in the bag.

Tinubu us our next president and will develop the SE as he developed Lagos.

God forbid BAT thing
Tụfịakwa

Politics › Re: Malami: Why FG Is Keeping Nnamdi Kanu Despite Court Ruling by REALretep(m): 2:51pm On Oct 28, 2022

This Buhari APC government is shameless.
An example should be made of Malami by initiating contempt of court proceedings against him at the proper time

Computers › Re: Features To Consider When Buying A Laptop.. by REALretep(m): 7:00pm On Oct 27, 2022

KvnqPrezo This is lovely op

Very educative and enlightening

Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Partakes In Russia's Nuclear War Drill 'GROM' In Message To NATO (Photos) by REALretep(m): 6:25pm On Oct 26, 2022

TriitNG:
Thanks mod, I love you

Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Partakes In Russia's Nuclear War Drill 'GROM' In Message To NATO (Photos) by REALretep(m): 6:14pm On Oct 26, 2022

The mod that did this must be high on weed

Agriculture › Re: My Snail Farming Journey by REALretep(m): 12:37am On Oct 26, 2022

Good one OP
Keep it up

Phones › Re: Whatsapp Goes Down For Users Across The World by REALretep(m): 9:24am On Oct 25, 2022

No wonder
I've been here wondering what just went wrong with my WhatsApp

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Politics › Re: Why We Won’t Release Kanu, FG Tells Appeal Court by REALretep(m): 8:27am On Oct 25, 2022

How can FG be above the law.
The court should not itself to be used to legalize an illegality

Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman Slams Police For Killing Suspect On The Spot by REALretep(m): 4:31pm On Oct 22, 2022

Lawless country
Lawlessness right from the Presidency

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Family › Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by REALretep(m): 12:50pm On Oct 15, 2022

Wahala be like...

Education › Re: ASUU: UNICAL Officially Resumes Activities, Set For Examinations by REALretep(m): 7:46am On Oct 15, 2022

This is inhuman.
This is certainly not education

Phones › Re: British Man Traces His Missing Iphone To Nigeria A Month After It Went Missing by REALretep(m): 7:40pm On Oct 12, 2022

Omorrr
Na 5G network oo

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Christianity Etc › Re: What Did The Bible Teach In Regard To Abortion? by REALretep(m): 9:28pm On Oct 09, 2022

meobizy:
This is more of the answer I sought. Though the situation related more to accidental miscarriage, it was the only perceivable situation at the time. Hundreds, if not tens of thousands of years later, women pay for societally accepted means of ejecting unwanted fetuses.

My reason for creating this thread is to prove that the Bible either needs an update or abandonment as a means to guide one’s life — especially in a future where many commonplace events were inconceivable during creation of then laws.

You see constitutions, those serve more to guide the common man than any religious text will.

The Bible doesn't need an update.
It has stood the test of time and it's still standing.
The spirit of God still ministers to the hearts of people in these latter days as written in the scriptures.
Abandonment of the Bible or otherwise is a choice every Christian must make. Remember, he who puts his hand to the plough and looks back is not worthy of the kingdom.

With regard to your question, as written in the old testament book of Exodus, the husband of a woman together with the judges determine the punishment due for men that cause a woman to miscarry.
In my interpretation therefore, I see it that God has vested the decision to condone or forbid abortion on the couple and the rulers/judges of a society/group of people.

The old testament scriptures however has already fully condemned premarital sex and only condones it on the grounds that the man must pay the bride price of the girl.
In my thinking therefore, a boy and a girl that engages in premarital sex without the boy paying the bride price of the girl afterwards have already condemned themselves and must both bear the consequences of their actions. Whether they opt for abortion or carrying a pregnancy to term, the consequences will live with them.

Politics › Re: Parts Of Anambra Buried In Flood Water As Communities Cry For Help (Pictures) by REALretep(m): 6:13am On Oct 09, 2022

Really unfortunate
This flooding from Cameroon due to release of water from their dam is a very frequent occurrence, yet the Nigerian government keeps watching with glee as the waters devastate the land.
God help us

Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike & Women Wearing Penis Pants Attend Don Jazzy's Mother's Funeral by REALretep(m): 6:00am On Oct 09, 2022

This guy must be paying these girls heavily.
Too much money

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