Dannyxy:
pick who... Laycon for what??.. When she is not moving mad

Lol, wetin laycon do u

majamajic:


She is picking Kidd , her and laycon has no issues again
She gave him a final hug yesterday

Aww, I guess her heart is with kiddwaya. Am happy for Erica as the HOH

Erica should pick laycon as DHOH so her emotions can be in check and be disciplined. With kiddwaya she may loose control and get distracted.

DeeMain:


Fear is a wrong teacher? It can achieve you your goal of getting compliance but it can mess up or warp the mind of your child.

Most Nigerian parents use the line, "my parents beat me and I still turned out great" to justify child abuse or using violence to train their children. If you all turned out great as being touted Nigeria wouldn't have been this bad, unruly and ill--trained as a nation.

Your opinion.

Xinox:
I started driving at 15 and became a defensive and trained driver at 19.Don't get me wrong, I am a graduate from one of the prestigious universities but my love for driving pushed me into a difficult situation. My Boss is a nice man and the wife will always want me in bed! How can I pay this Man that is so kind to me with evil. At 25 iam a mess if I can do this to a good man... I resigned from this job a week ago cos I can't tell the man this is what the wife is doing and the man keep asking me to come back to work. Please I am confuse, advise me.

U need a concrete evidence like recorded conversations, calls or videos. Just incase his wife turns it around to frame you up.

DanoskiDaniels:
I have my reservations about this viral "Mommy Calm Down Video" first I don't find it funny nor interesting (but that's my personal opinion). As you are aware, the boy in the video is already getting endorsements and scholarship from both individuals and top brands alike and even the Governor of Lagos State wants to meet with the boy and this of course is always the expected result of anything viral that is seen exceptional by members of the social media community, however I'm only wondering why a parent would decide to punish a child and make a video of it to post in the social media, I mean what is actually the true motive of it? Is it to correct the child or to gain cheap popularity? In as much as there have been an open widow opportunity resulting from its publicity, I am still of the opinion that this act doesn't show maturity as it is not everything that should come to the public space except it is utterly necessary. As this has now become a trend now, just watch as many parent would in the following weeks, be flooding the social media with different versions of their own well scripted melodramas in other to cash out too from the already awaiting pseudo good hearted Nigerians who will also be showing concern for the cameras too. But anyways having said that, it is still my opinion, I mean, what do I know?

The video was funny and he was being disciplined not tortured. Most of us got disciplined and flogged too either from parents or school as far back as the 1980s and we turned out great and so why making this issue a big deal. Some Kids these days dont respect or fear their parents or elders any more. Talking doesn't work for me all the time but constantly raising my Cain along without using it passes the message. I don't entertain misbehaving kids.

Gforce2015:


Thank God that's not.the way we are being promoted in my office...

My promotion is not in the hand of my immediate boss.....my promotion is from Oga at the toppest top....No oga local oga can hinder my promotion...the promotion comes from the headquarters...

Lucky you.

Ibechris2:
I was in this same predicament some years back...I hated the job and hated everyone around me then and it affected my health a lot.

As time went on,I got another job with a low pay compared to what I used to earn and today,I am fulfilled and now I know why money alone does not make one fulfilled in life.

Well said

Gforce2015:
I'm.sure you didn't do any interview before you got the job...they just brought the appointment letter to you in your sitting room. that is why you don't value your job that is paying 300k...

Ask Seun if he values his job? But because of the money attached, the value comes with the money attached...

85 percent of Naija workers don't want to work where they are presently working but because the job is paying bills, they don't have a choice but to keep till things balance...

Personally, I don't like where I'm working, but I have to fake the likeness so that. I would be promoted...

My brother, the ball.is in your court....if you like to move if you like to stay...

There are some jobs that don't have promotions and no matter how best you become at your duties they will always see u as a threat and look for ways to set you up or embarrass you.

Dayonsky:
When you tell us the full gist we will advise accordingly.

i see no reason why your boss and colleagues will hate you at the same time except if you are lazy or complains or give excuses too much and dont meet up as expected if not why will your boss hate you and love others. Bros there is something you are not telling us ooo.....You better brace up and face reality

Sometimes it's just intimidation, envy or low self esteem on the colleagues part. Once they see u have what they can't offer,they see u as a threat they do everything to frustrate your efforts no matter how best you put into your job. I have been Tru this and it affected my sanity till I took a walk and resigned.

pocohantas:


I could relate to your situation. Thank God I left my toxic boss and his unit . It is a very common situation in some private organizations. They employ you to do one and tell you to do another. That you feel unfulfilled is a good sign, some people love to earn their pay and do things that aids their career growth.

If it is what you can learn, maybe you should try learning it, just free yourself. I get that you are angry- but you need to free yourself and give it a shot. Maybe you might end up enjoying the extra job function. If you don’t, just know it is tough out there. You can start applying for other jobs, make person no become online ED, like zmpp.

I wish you the best, Richie.

Well said

prekumohtim:



Oga respect does not pay bills . Respect is just a feeling , forget about that stupid thing that has no cost. Right now over #5m people have applied for a 30k npower job and here you're with a whopping 300k for only you and you're busy talking about respect? Who respect epp. The test shows that you're mad and I command you to receive sense. Anyway, if you feel you can secure a job outside, I still think you should do that first before resigning. We don't want to hear in few months: Don't look me down o , I was once earning 300k/month

Hmm you haven't been in a job situation where it can make one lose his or her sanity. I have been Tru such toxic experience and it wasn't funny at all even with the peanuts I was being paid, I had high BP because of the toxic boss and her right hand person. Even when I resigned, it took a while for me to recover from the emotional trauma I went Tru.

Carchoice:
She came since yesterday noon and she’s been complaining of buubs pain.

Is this a lie to prevent me from sucking?

She said it feels heavy


I’m just seeing it off and on but I haven’t sucked yet.

It's symptoms of her monthly flow coming soon

Didn't experience it on Google chrome browser.

The old guard and Mulan

Am feeling praise

Lucy ooo. Acting possessed

fortunately i work in a private school and all staff were paid till April. May till date only staff involve in virtual class are paid full salaries. other staff are getting half of their pay. please dont be a cheap private school teacher. get certification (international) and get a good private school and you wont have to pass through stress like this. honestly there is money working in a private school if you have the right qualifications.

Speak for urself. Some certified big schools didn't pay March and April salary and stil slashed the salary for virtual learning period on top ogboju that March and April salary will only be paid when school fully resumes. I agree with the OP. School owner have already collected most of their fees before the lockdown but withheld paying so they could use it to sustain their family during the lockdown hereby leaving the staff to their faith of struggle and survival. For me That's wickedness.

Zeal2rhyme:
My former colleague (lady) at work is coming to my place next week. She just got a job around here and she would need to settle down for sometime (maybe 1 to 3 months) before getting her own apartment.

Both of us would stay together in my self con apartment. We're to share the same bed. We were not close when we were working together but she seems to be a gentle girl. My place is her only option at the moment.

Can we sleep on the same bed together without us having sex? If I don't initiate it, will she? How can I cope with this? Any advice on how to manage this situation?

Tell ur girlfriend to move in with you pending the time ur ex colleague gets her own place.

Into the Badlands
Prison break
Money heist
Empire

Indigbo:


Please what do you think of this area in terms of security and electricity:

Lascomed Estate, Ekiti Bus stop, Erunwen, Ikorodu?

Erunwen is known for very bad road ,am not too sure about the light but Radio or Itamaga is preferable.the light and security is okay and steady.

Lol

MondayOsunbor:



pray that the sharks are sleeping

Are there sharks in these kind of waters? Thought they were abroad

Megaflex:
How did you deliver your kids? is it through operation?? Because I'm also scared she might have an attack during child birth

Yes I had them through operation but asthma has nothing to do with how your wife delivers

Megaflex:
I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.

I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.

Mod please help me move this to front-page

I am asthmatic but on the mild.it get triggered by stuffy environment, smoke,dust, cold /taking cold things,fried foods/ oil, perfume ,insecticide and choky odors. I make use of my Ventolin inhaler when I start having symptoms of wheezy breathing or I start feeling chocked. There are also intravenous injections given at the hospital for relief of asthma attacks.

Even if your wife gets pregnant she will be fine. She should always have her inhaler close to her always for emergencies and stay off things that will trigger it.

Btw I have kids already. Good luck

Eulalia:


I thought there used to be safety jackets in these boats commercial boats. So how come people still get drowned? Hm.

RIP.

Exactly my thoughts.isnt life jacket supposed to keep them afloat till the resue team arrives.

Pasquale212:
Very good advice.

Well received and applied with thanks

UniQue84:
Madam I can relate totally with what you faced sometime ago, I was just laughing, you see when you are not living your life to what people expect of you especially when all of them do a particular thing and they can't really decode who you are they hate you for it. When we moved to Lagos me and my brother, we rented same flat but he later relocated to Abuja leaving me there cos he was transferred.

My brother is the kind of guy that can bring two women in one day to the house one in the morning & the other at night, and talks for Africa also he has his ways of relating with everybody in the neighborhood, he was also this type of guy who likes to please the Jonesses. Nevertheless, he is still a good guy and that's his life and non of my business.

But I am different, am an introvert, but not a saint, a church guy, fashion guy, music guy, futbol guy, movie guy almost had knowledge in everything with all humility, I will be all churchy dressing one month and the other month kind of a yahoo guy of dressing, according to one lady she said and I quote, " you have this appearance going for you and I have not seen you with a woman in 2years in this area, when I asked her why she likes me.

I wasn't pretending at all I drink occasionally inside my house ( red wine mostly my favorite), don't smoke but cook with weed, nobody except one boy in my neighborhood has entered my house in 2years not even my next flat neighbor, they hated me for it, always dress to kill cos I was once a model.

You see one weapon I have been using to defeat thier gossip, jealousy, hatred and all had been silence, as they say it is the best answer given to a Fool and ontop of the silence I will be smiling and still have respect for elders greeting them anytime I see them morning, afternoon and evening. I so use this weapon to the extent I can enter a commercial bus travelling to a destination of 7 hours I won't say a word after greeting those beside me, this same man can talk for 4 hours unhindered cos I am a motivational speaker and was once a teacher.

You see people don't like those they cannot understand, especially when they don't have information about u, they just get angry with u, madam pls continue to use this weapon it works like fire. It has helped me bring down mountains even in my relationships.

I have a fiance and she is based in Europe, infact we are waiting for this yeye CONVID-19 to go cos she has all the papers so that we can be together, they will wake up and not see me again forever.

That's life it pays to be a private person, ontop dem go dey fear u join cos dem nu understand u and the only major weapon for this is SILENCE.

Have a nice time ma.

U deserve a bottle of chilled red wine. Thanks. Silence and being private does a whole lot of good.

I registered in 2014 with my former moniker and deactivated then re- registered in 2016

SweetCunt97:
Shapen the head? Sounds too much but thanks.

Shape the head so it wunt look pointed or squared.

SweetCunt97:
Please what's the essence of the scrub bath?

It scrubs off the aminotic fluid and waste off the child's skin to prevent body odor. The child is rubbed palm oil from head to toe of feet and scubbed with soft local sponge and local soap(kogi soap)and warm water,then you massage all the baby's joints too and shapen the head along side after bathing with Shea butter

I have been refunded.