Mumben:
Get lemon, cut in two and use it to rub ur armpit after bathing it has drying effect which will control excessive sweating thereby eliminating d odour.

This suggestion is very effective, also try soaking ur armpit with baking soda and leave for 15 minutes before rinsing. Shave regularly

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mascot345:
I am just 34years with a good job but I am still single. I plan to marry at 35 or latest 36.

Just last month I bought a land in a good environment to build a small estate.. like 6 buildings inside the estate...

Should I tell the woman that I want to marry that I am building a small estate or I should just keep my mouth shut.

Please what do you guys think?

Keep your mouth shut.

Chii59:

Mostly action movies.
The old guard
Need for speed
John Wick 3 .. I can't remember many of their names now.

The cure- shortest action packed 30 minutes movie ever watched

Angel196:
This question was posted on a facebook group and I was baffled by some of the response that was given.

To me, maritally no woman has the right to undergo a family planning without first discussing with her husband just as a man doesn't have the right to do the same without discussing with the wife. Doing that would not only be inconsiderate but suspicious as well.
Being married means you don't get to decide something that affects your spouse alone, unless you are ready to risk your marriage. That's why it's very important to discuss things like the number of children you'd like to have and the number of years you want between each before getting married. After all it's called Family Planning.

What's your take on this? Do you think a spouse be it a wife or husband has a right to undergo family planning without discussing with the other party?

In some critical situations the wife can go for family planning codedly if the husband refuse to see reasons to it.

Are there any implications ( cultural or spiritual) of a child not able to attend the burial of the father being that the child grew up with the mother alone due to early separation and the father never reached out to the child until death after which the father's family informed the child who is the first born?

CaveAdullam:
Nothing there is difficult for a woman. It is as simple as ABC as it requires little muscular work and a good dose of mental capacity. In fact, all women were born with the aforementioned qualities, but squandered it away out of negligence, liberality, ignorance, and poor parental upbringing. Only when they are done with their debauchery days, and decide to settle down will they begin to discover and analyse the mistakes they've made in the past. Many of them are lucky though, because since majority of men has veered off from virility traits, they still settle for such kind of women----They've found true love at last. Loooooooool.

If women will not settle for less, men also must raise the bar and not settle for less also. This is stable enough.

Ride on jare.

I just hope you are perfect enough not to have flaws , very tolerating and never get pissed.

There is no perfect human anywhere.

frozen70:
Do lots of exercise

Read more about anxiety management
Read more about men's health

Learn to take things calmly so far threat to life is not involve

Learn to take charge of your happiness

Avoid people who triggers you

Learn to avoid engaging yourself into arguments

Leant to give yourself peace of mind

You are responsible for all that I have mentioned

Very right. It helps a lot

Casalindal:
Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help all my body is now over weight my social life is gone I feel stalk with this babe all day and night. I’m taya I’m exhausted

Your baby is so cute and adorable.

Sorry for getting stressedout.

You will get over it soon. Try have ur mum or someone trusted around you who can look after your baby while you relax.

You will shed the baby weight soon.

Be positive and stay strong

kenny1111:
Good afternoon everyone,

please I need advice from all parents and Educators and parents on Nairanland. today I just realized my 3years old son cant even read Letters A to F talk less of A to Z but can read Figure 1 to 10, I am seriously worried.

I don't stay at home except for weekends as I am working outside my state, but due to the curfew I find my way back home yesterday so I was able to discover this problem in the early hours of today.

I know the mother is trying cos I have seen different live videos where she was teaching him and working on his assignment, most times I pity the boy so much because of the beating from his mum alone makes me sick but I can't really complain since I know is for his own good and I know how stressful it is for a mother with 2 kids to manage her time and all that....

I called his teacher immediately and she told me my son will be going to Nursery class when the present term is over due to his age, sadly she didn't say things I expect to hear from her so I told her I will visit the school once the curfew is over, I need explanation, is private school that bad these days ? my son can't even write 2 and 3
I have bought Video CD, bought many play book materials containing letters and figures displayed boldly, I bought counting and so on when he was 2 years so i expect a better result by now.

pls sir and ma, I need help on how to guide this boy to learn better, what should I do and how should I go about it.

Note: any time I am home, I always go through his books, assignments and read his school rhymes for him.
pls Help
concerned Daddy

posted this on Other Educstion sections as well so as to have a wider views and opinions

thank u

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your son. He is still a toddler and at this stage they are developing and absorbing everything they hear or see. Sometimes they repeat whatever you say.

At this stage your son is just able to sound letters through songs and learn rhymes, identify colours and shapes, development of their pincer grip( finger muscles)using coloured pencils or wax crayons. At this stage they are able to communicate in their own words and also scribble not write.

All kids are not the same ,some are slow learner's while some are fast learners , some kids have interest In pictures(visual characters), songs , puzzles, activities that develop their cognitive learning.

Pls stop the beatings, encourage him and introduce Intresting activity toys to him, you can also try to find out their learning procedure at his school to be sure of what he is being taught.

He wil turn out amazing and intelligent. Pls be patient.

My kids don't start school until they are exactly 2yrs depending on their birth months even if they will exceed 2yrs I wunt mind ,what matters is their activeness and maturity in learning.

Klass99:


I was just smiling at your own narrative which seems to debunk OP's own.

But, all of una get mind to still comot from house, dey waka about on Lagos streets right now, with what the hoodlums/criminals are doing.

Check the day and time my comment was posted .that was the last day I stepped out of the house.

soulstalker:
Evening everyone,
I was robbed this morning at ikorodu garage by thugs, I lost some cash and my phone( this is my mom's phone am using). The cash was meant for my jnr brother hospital bills. No one would be I trekked from ikd to yaba today. I really need help so I can discharge my brother 2mao( he was operated for appendix) need just 20k remaining. Pls someone In d house should help.
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Fcmb
Solomon.a. a

Sorry about your junior brother and may he be healed. Ikorodu garage wasn't in chaos in the morning,I pass tru there to work. The garage was on lockdown by evening, vehicles were not allowed to pass through or out. The round about was used as a protest point.The areas affected on Sunday till yesterday were ogolonto- Agric - and it's environs. How can u trek from ikorodu to yaba? Be safe. It is well with you

anonimi:


That is the real talk that you have just said ma.

I experienced such recently so I can relate deeply. It took a lot of gut to resign without having another job in sight. I was loosing my mind and depressed already. The said place has lost 2 staff that replaced me after I left and the third just resumed just with in a space of 3 months. Not everyone can tolorate rubbish and insult.

yemre:
Bros, I had a similar experience. The ball is actually in your court but my piece of advise.,...
1. Try studying the man with the aim of winning him to your side (in my own case I did that thru his gf).

If that doesn't work....

2. Ensure you save up enough to start sth on the side such that your side hustle will give you sth substantial even if it's not up to 200k but make sure it's well over 100k.

3. Then, make yourself so valuable and plan your exit around the time you know the company will need you most. (Tho, they always claim no one is indispensable but replacing valuable staff is not always easy).

4. Write your boss a notice to quit and give him very short notice with a genuine excuse.

Also make sure your mind is made up so that promise of a payrise or better treatment will not appeal to you.

That way, he would realize his mistakes but would be too late to make amends.

Exactly what I did at my last place of work. I felt relief for the first time In my 3yrs of working there.i got another one based on my experience at my former place of work with a reference from an official who knew me. All thanks to God

thesicilian:

In Africa family responsibilities come before peace of mind. Funny but true.

Not everyone can endure abuse and toxic situations. It can lead to depression,blood pressure or suicide

AuntRose:

I bet you haven't worked in a tensed environment where all you think of is to leave just for the peace of mind. Peace of mind is all that matters. Only Africans put money or pay above their happiness so I actually don't find your post surprising.

U just spoke my mind, some situations can't be solved by money

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

It will get to a point the money wunt be able to sustain your sanity and peace of mind and then depression begins to set in. I will eventually take a long walk and never look back.

Emir8:
Hello Nairalander,
I really need advice concerning making a choice between the two jobs before me. My family members are divided over which job I should choose.

I'm working in a highbrow secondary school and my start up salary was N75,000. After three years, my salary is now N96,000.00. I just got a lecturing job with a private university and my gross salary according to the appointment letter is N88,000.00. My father wants me to continue with my teaching in the secondary school but my mother and fiancee are pressuring me to write acceptance letter to the university and accept the offer. There's no time, both the university and the secondary school will be resuming on 12/10/2020 and I have to make a choice between now and Thursday. My fiancee is already calling herself "wife of a lecturer" and threatening that she will quit the relationship if I did not accept the university offer. My mind is in the secondary school because there is free lunch and N150,000.00 housing allowance per year, but the university doesn't give lunch and housing allowance.

Should I go and become Mr. Lecturer and sacrifice my secondary school benefits?

Hold on to the private secondary school post and be firm in ur discision. If your girlfriend like let her go she isn't meant for you. A better spouse will take over .

PeacenLove2:
He left Again Part II story loading. Take him back, you hia?

To be serious, there is need to find out what occupied his life for 8 years when he abandoned you. So it's very important to know what kept him away. Only wicked, selfish people could do that ... forget how great he was back in school. Men can do anything just before climbing the mountain No be today. No

Yeah, your kid is having a ball with a dad in his life and you are probably lonely too but use your head, madam. You can help him out from a safe distance. He can have access to his child as well as long as it's good for the kid. You could even date him if you want but don't be quick to commit yourself to anything. Looks like guy is just desperate and you're making it too easy for him. Chances are he would bolt again when he feels comfortable enough.

In other words, let guy go get his act together first before you let him in again. You have a good heart sha. I hope this doesn't land you in soup. I don't know how you can trust such a person again. Be very careful and good luck whatever you do. I hope his intentions are good this time and he does right by you if you take him back.

Well said. Just what I was about to type

ayando:
New record

Lay lay of laycon record breaker

realtalk19:
Count down to LAYCON 85m lockdown.

He came ,he saw and has finally conquered.

Lay lay laycon

....................85m loading for LAYCON

Save the last dance for lay lay of Laycon

Less than 20 hours to BBN lockdown cash out

we stand and here we are

LAYchampions

Yess. We came,we saw, laycon conquered.


Lay lay of laycontent

Bbn85m lockdown

Count down to LAYCON 85m lockdown.

He came ,he saw and has finally conquered.

Lay lay laycon

....................85m loading for LAYCON

Save the last dance for lay lay of Laycon

Less than 20 hours to BBN lockdown cash out

Fehm:

I'll advise you to stop wasting your time.

I'm just getting started.

All those who supported and wished Erica death, wished her unborn kids to be bastard and cursed her mum for her broken home will know how it feels.

The truth remains that Laycon is a disease carrier. A sickler. Another truth remains that 85m can't change his genotype. Thanks.

It's like laycon winning is driving you nuts. Try to be sane enough to see him lockdown the 85m on Sunday . I guess laycon success is already making u crazy

Lay lay laycon
Giving Dem haters pepper back to back

englishmart:
I got my highest gift yesterday, as in 21/9/2020.
I was going for lunch when I saw some stranded looking rich men. I summoned courage to enquire why they were that disheveled, and one of them told me they were going to the administrative floor and needed to attend an important meeting, but waiting for someone to pick them up since they've not been there before.

I took them to the lift, we got to the admin floor, alighted, and then I took them to the location of the meeting. When they got there, I said bye hurriedly but not intentionally, I knew they were going to call me back for being that nice. As I made the first step, I heard "Gentleman, don't be so fast. I returned and got handled a bundle of #1000 notes. Me that that was crying for losing #10k stake on 10 odds because of Manchester United's loss. Which kain luck be this one? 100k just like that?

The thing was sugary.

A mini laptop

KingAzubuike:
Normally BBN usually do medicals for potential housemates but due to the covid 19, they were asked to do the medicals themselves and submit the results. The only thing BBN did was to quarantine them for 14 days and that was all. The medicals was to be done by the HMs individually before the quarantine. I know this because prince is my boy and I was there when he did his.. For laycon to be in that house means he must have forged a medical certificate. He used a false medical result. He deserves to be disqualified for this. Who knows if he might be carrying HIV self coz his extreme skinny body looks like something that resulted form AIDS and a history of tuberculosis. Laycon is not a deserving winner of this.

Lay lay of laycon got the 85m on lockdown. You cannot change that irrespective of his health status,it didn't restrict him from performance on the show.

Vanessa88:


I concur

Lay lay of laycon

WaterPurifier:
I need advise cos I'm just so confuse right now

My fiancee want me to come and see her family cos of pressure. She's been on my neck since last 2 months.
That's not even the problem.

The problem is the funds I intend to use to go see my bae parents(travels expense , gift buying and Co.) is from my budgeted salary this month end.

I've started setting a new biz for mum since last month, and intend to complete the business with my salary this month.

Bae has been giving me attitude unlike before untill I come. To her it's as if I'm only playing her heart. But deep down in me I love her.


I'm very confuse right now...

Should I choose to set up my mom business or postpone?

Pls advice

Pls settle mumsie first before bae. God bless u

SimplyFacts:
As a husband or wife, what are the helpful measures that one could take to absorb anger when one's blood is boiling

Just take a walk outside or lock yourself in a room. Sincerely one needs a whole lot of self control not to reply or stay silent no matter how painful and angry it gets.