OkpaAkuEriEri:
God will healed him.

Lol. The baby is not sick o.its just a normal skin issue

nautybride:

Antiseptic on a newborn, don't complicate issues

Antiseptic soap is too harsh for baby skin

Use baby tribotan. Apply on the affected area mildly. It will clear off with time. I hope you did the scrub bath for the baby with the use of palm oil and local sponge?

It will clear off with time.

All American

Corporate2020:


PLEASE, let her get the job for the sake of your kids. God will give you a much better job. At least she will take care of herself and your children. If she becomes too arrogant, leave home for her and get somewhere to squat, at feast your mind will be at rest that your kids are being taken care of. All women are like that, I repeat, all women ate like that, self centred and selfish.

In my opinion I think God shouldn't have created women. They are a bunch of problems

Are you really serious? This is a selfish advise

Naxtrad:
I was on my way to fill gas today when my car broke down so I had to come down to fix it as a real guy... so I overhead a Man presume to be married saying he can not go and fill gas while the wife is at home. I was surprised because I do this for fun when my late wife was alive (RIP) without reasoning anything even when I'm busy and suddenly gas finish and food is on the cooker bro na my responsibility to go and fill the gas and come back to what I was doing... I no understand

So sorry about your loss. May God continue to strengthen you.

I have been filling gas for the past 5yrs I started using it because I got no choice or another option.

daddycrazy:
This thread is created to serve as an outlet for movie recommendations and reviews.

Threadstone series

Sermwell:

So you mean someone you are about to get married to should inform you before coming to visit you??

Is there any big deal in someone who am about getting married to informing me about his coming? I wouldn't even show up at someone's doorstep without informing them ahead. It's not my style. I respect people's privacy. We are different in our ways.

fallingsky:






Just imagine this kind of excuse ���

That is my policy. Whatever rocks your boat may not rock mine.i don't like impromptu visits.

kamez:


look for a 1 room self con, as soon as possible, make sure the landlord is willing to accept two years rent upfront, (so u don't start bothering urself about rent renewal anytime soon) then quote or send me a pm I will pay for it agent fee and any other cost included.. be strong dear it is well

Wow! This is breath taking.God bless you more for making hope alive.

Ishilove:
See them making mouth on the first page like lions, meanwhile in reality if she shows up unannounced they will meekly welcome her and rush to go and buy fuel for the house. Shior

Lol.

fallingsky:






Only a cheat will have issues with this. You can't be in a serious and honest relationship with your partner and expect your partner to always inform you first before coming to your house. If you are doing this, you are a cheat.

It's not about being a cheat. It's planning and preparation. You can't be showing up at my place unannounced and maybe I may not be around/ i already have my mum or siblings around/ my resources can't carry us for that period of showing up.

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming. No

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

I am of the opinion of informing the person before visit. I am not a fan of imprompu visits because I like being prepared so you wunt come to my place and what I have planned out doesn't include an extra mouth or invasion of space. I cherish my privacy a lot.

I always inform whoever am visiting ahead of time.

chiddyok:

You face front. Live as if you are alone in the compound.

On point.thank you

frozen70:


They are fools, just be careful with them as you have been and silent is the best way for them

If you are their senior greet then and if they are your junior don't greet them unless they greet you

If you have your way, just pack out

Envy can make people behave as if you are intimidating them

Thank sis. Well said

truthsayer009:


You need to leave the Compound, once you gather enough cash, please leave.

Number one rule is progressive people shouldn't live amongst non-progressive people.

Also one reason why people leave the hood once they have money, relocate please.

Noted with thanks.

bukatyne:




Goodluck and God bless your family.

Thanks sis

bukatyne:


How far with your neighbors now?

My dear,I have pack well and am minding my own business. Just greet and pass. No talks. And it's been so peaceful for me since then and has also stopped her from coming to ask for things.

Oluromantic:

Don't worry I'm no more interested. you're welcome.

Why are u following me up and down?

Oluromantic:

No dear. But we now know each other on Nairaland.

How was your night?

Why the interest? I slept well.thanks.

Oluromantic:

I feel like kissing you even without seeing you.

Do I know you?

whiteshark101:
Toxicwap.com

Into the Badlands

czarr:
I am fighting this stay at home boredom by binge watching YouTube videos and interesting TV series.

At the moment I am obsessed with

RIVERDALE and

BILLIONS.

What series are you watching?

Money heist on point .I am watching the 4th season .within 2days I started

chatinent:
Hello fam,
I'll be brief as possible.

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Few weeks ago, I had a little misunderstanding with my landlady or should I just say my landlady just wanted an issue with me. Because everyone knew I didn't nothing wrong.

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There's this woman in the same neighbourhood. I know her to have a Doctorate degree in gossiping, backstabbing, and hypocrisy. There's another cohort of hers who she feeds with her gossip; the latter is more dangerous in the tongue. Well, I blame it on unemployment. Both husbands turned them to full students and workers of UNIHOME Ltd.

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Immediately after my landlord left that day, the woman came and asked me what happened. I just told her nothing was actually wrong, because I knew she wasn't any confidant! She responded: 'emm, you know how the landlady behaves like a witch, just ignore her,' then she left.

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So surprisingly, I discovered this same woman went to the landlady and lampooned me too. In fact, her actions became more visible to me that her smiles and all that towards me was all greeks bearing gifts.

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I couldn't tolerant such hypocrisy. Unfortunately for her, it backfired and everyone knew who she really was. She was also given fair hearing but the truth couldn't be dinted. Landlady later knew about her hypocrisy and judasic nature. This is the same woman I do help and her kids (because they attended a school I worked in), as her husband was ...should I say incompetent? Maybe, lazy.

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Now the issue is she has been slandering me, lying to people and exchanging the role she played in the problem as though I scripted it against her and for favours.

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How do I deal with this legally, please?

Aviod her completely and face your lane. No unnecessary attachment

Carchoice:
i don’t know why you people are making marriage sound like it’s a war zone. You married the wrong person no doubt. We all get to find out after marriage.

Here’s the truth of the matter, it’s either you married the wrong person or YOU ARE THE WRONG PERSON.

Very true

Dyt:
What is Before, In Between and After?

Yeah we all know marriage is an institution between 2 persons with the aim to have offspring and companionship, but is this all we see and make of it?

I am a person that believes in relationship/marriage and tries to go far in making it work well except when it starts to affect my mental health (i cant go mad all in the name of i want it to work)

Some say marriage is easy while some say its a hard work, we all have different opinions..
I for one been married before, it didnt work not because i couldnt try but (my choice anyway)

I am considering going into another and all the things that we do that counts now may not in few years, I mean the sexiness, the kamasutra and all, well ofcourse i am not just gonna be offering just sex, we both got more to keep us going for a 100years to come (my favourite part is the friendship and companionship)...

I am scared sometimes waking up to him every other day and same way it excites me

How has it been with those married for 5years and counting? the joy, feeling, the tears, the arguments, the sex, I mean all of it....

Exactly how I feel too with relationships which is why I narrowed it down to enjoy the moments with my kids till I am emotionally stable and ready. Am here to learn.

masterpiecer:
i am 29yrs old, i hope to get married soon, since i was 23, i ve always wish to be the best husband to the woman that would be my wife, but i ve noticed that a lot of married folks(mostly women), complains about their husbands, so i want to know what are d most necessary things that a woman would want from her husband to make her happy?

would appreciate tips from married ladies most.
thanks all.

Firstly, marry the right partner ( no sentiment or pity) and it takes two to make it work.

Lisa001:
Good evening Mamas I circumsised my Lo last week via the ring method,took him back to the hospital today as we were told to do if the ring falls off, it isn't healed properly so we were told to apply pennicilin ointment but he has been crying and uncomfortable all day besides I noticed stain of blood on the diaper

Pls what can I use to speed up healing ad ease pain?

Thanks

Brake oil and penicillin will make it faster

hyb33:
Good day house,please my 1 month old daughter grunts and stretch every now and then,she also go for like 3 to 4 days without pooing and when she does,she always do with discomfort and her stools are not that hard,i complained to her pediatrician and she said she's fine.I and her mum her bothered about the grunts and stretching at night..please experienced mommas help with any info or suggestions please.

It's colic.she will outgrow it after 3 months. Use gripe water once a while.

Giftedniye:
Good morning mummies, please can a 1 month old take Acepol paracetamol suspension?

Drops is ok for now

illicit:
Next time you see her like that, call your wife gently to come and see. When your wife see her like that, make a scene....

The two of them will beg u.

Don't ever advise the girl by calling her to yourself alone. It will be misinterpreted.

I suggest this opinion to avoid false accusations. the wife should be able to do the needful after this.

Hunye:
I'm new to this forum though I've been a guest for over 3yrs but decided to register today so I can pour out my heart and frustration hoping I get well meaning advise from married and matured people here.
I'm 37yrs female married for over 10yrs now without a child. My husband is a nice and caring young man of 42yrs every woman will pray to have. Along the line he got tired of waiting and told me that he still loves me dearly and since we can't afford Ivf and he doesn't want to loose me, that I should permit him to get a woman pregnant aside our marriage, that he isn't going to marry another wife but that I should give him go ahead to atleast have one child outside pending when God will bless us with our own. I thought this through on my mind and gave him go ahead but ever since then the love I have for him dropped to zero, and I left him though he has been begging me to come back .

Recently I met a man online and we have been dating online he lives in a different state from me but this man has shown me what real love is all about, he is a widower of 57 yrs extremely caring and loving and Godly, Recently he proposed to me and we have discussed extensively about our past relationships . He is not rich, he earns a little less than 300k and he has grown up kids. He has told everyone about me including his friends, pastor and children.
Now to the main issue why am writing this... I just found out that after he lost his wife some years ago, he remarried last year and the marriage lasted for only six-month before it packed up, And he never told me this throughout our discussion.he hid it from me.
We were discussing over the phone and he suddenly said something which I became inquisitive and he was forced to tell me about it mistakenly.
Note this man has been so eager to marry me if not for the Lockdown we would have been done with the marriage.
I told him that same yesterday I can't continue with the relationship since he hid something as important as his marital status from me, he broke down over the phone and cried uncontrollably like a baby.

Now the issue is that my ex husband is on my neck to win me back, he said over his dead body will he grant me divorce. My heart is with this other man, but how do I forgive him and continue with him.
Pls I need mature advise

I prefer your husband to the widow. Your accepting the twins as yours may be a test of having your own kids. Your husband ment well. Most men would have thrown u out and remarried in your face. Be wise. Good and responsible men are very hard to come by and your husband falls into that category. He loves your dearly. Goodluck