carammel: The housemates will spent two weeks to identify the two wild cats, a correct identification will lead to their evictiin immediately and a wrong identification will have them competing for the money and they will have exclusive right to nomination.
Crossalpha: I've finally made up my mind to get married. Please forgive any errors in my post.
I created this account to remain anonymous I am a man of 38 yrs. I decided long ago not to ever get married due to very unpleasant experiences I've had with women. I've had reasons to rethink my decision lately. I have 3 women/girls am considering for marriage, they all have their strengths and weaknesses. As I will list below.
1. Janet: This woman is 39 yrs old, a year older than me. We had a very troublesome relationship that lasted for 17 yrs and produced 2 kids; boys. This woman have done things to me that few people will ever experience in their lifetime. She once locked up my mum in the police cell when I was not around. She brought her boyfriend when she was pregnant and introduced me as her brother. She has taken me to social welfare office and gave false allegations against me. She has accused me of trying to use our kids for money rituals. She has accused me of attempting to rape our house maid which she knows was false. She has gone round the neighborhood telling anyone that cares to listen that am Hiv positive even when she knows it to be false. No evil known to man that she has not done to me and my family. I pay all the bills, takes care of her, she's unemployed and very religious. I still consider her for marriage for the sake of my boys I don't want them to grow up in a broken home. We have been apart for 3 yrs now. Also, at 39 with 2 boys and loads of trouble it will almost be impossible for her to get married to any man.
2. Cynthia She's 26 yrs old and a single mother,(she gave birth at 17 with her 1st boyfriend) I met her after I stopped cohabiting with Janet and got a new apartment. She's what many will call a high class lady, she clubs,she dresses to kill, she drinks and we smoke together, she's the one that even taught me how to roll properly Despite all these, she has a very good character and personality better than most girls who doesn't do what she does.I've met quite a few. She doesn't hide who she is. She's a very good cook, she cleans and she's very neat.
This lady is also special cos I've come to understand that things fall into place whenever she's around me, I've never lost any business opportunity or favour whenever she's with me. Whenever I tell her of challenges am facing, she will tell me that as long as she's with me that I will never fail to achieve whatever I want and this have always been the case. 3 times I brokeup with her just to test if she being around me have anything to do with the good fortune or if it's a mere coincidence. Things started crumbling around me. Clients no longer takes my calls, some of my contracts were terminated for no good reasons, clients will refuse to pay me for no reason. Everything will come back to normal immediately we reconciled.(this mystery about her is beyond logic) I am considering her for marriage for her personality, the good fortune she brings to my life and business.
3. Queen
Queen is a 20 yr old girl that is very beautiful and a virgin. She loves me so much. she even told her mum about me. She's yet to gain admission into the university. Her parents have agreed that we should go ahead with marriage on the condition that she will graduate before coming to stay with me as wife. Her mum is optimistic that we will make a good couple, she told me to come with my people cos other suitors are coming for her daughter' s hand in marriage and she will prefer her daughter marries me. Somehow, I am not comfortable with her cos of our age difference; I am 18 yrs older than her. Girls of her age are known to change or become promiscuous when they get into the university. I am considering her for marriage because of her beauty, her love for me,her smartness her parents support to the our union.
There you have it guys, which of these women/girls do you think I should get married to?
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Was the second pregnancy through CS , I'm asking cus i heard when a lady give birth to CS for the first birth that the future delivery will also be CS
Yes the second was also CS. In some cases There is VBAC(vagina birth after cesarian). Google to learn more. Some can also have a vagina delivery for your first and second pregnancies and end up with a cesarian on the third. Each pregnancy comes with its own challenges.
katchycouture: Good evening mamas, please recommend a pediatric hospital in Lagos, we live in ikorodu and I would really love to see a pediatrician, the general hospital in ikorodu wouldn't let you see a pediatrician until the general doctors have done all they can before they call in a specialist..
+2348033336085(Dr Olugbade), King O' David Hospital. 7, Ladejobi Ita- Alaje Street, Aga Ikorodu Lagos
Ugmama: As a single guy of less than 30years of age. What will you do with N4million?
Let's hear the views of different people, different ages and class on this one.
4million is not huge but by wisdom you can use it well. You may wish to marry, buy a land or buy a car or use it for business. Whatever you decide is based on your reasoning,experience or thoughts.
So let me hear from everyone.
What will you do with 4 million?
I will invest in foodstuff business in bulk. Man must chop
UcheMondayDuru: You are right but do you know why I beg the admins not to suspend me this time? Do you know why I put the ** signs in between my account number and bank name? Do you know why I have never been on Nairaland for months? Fine. I got so many promises to the extent I never received the promise I was already praising the people. Someone gave me 50k to start an indomie cooking business and someone also registered my kids into school last year. I am not a graduate and since my business collapsed I no bi person with handwork because all my life it has always been business. Like I explained everything about me in my first nairaland account before it was suspended after my business collapsed I gather everything I had in my house trying to travel out to go hustle for the sake of my family. (In shot) I was still duped by someone I have known for years. Why my first account was deactivated is because someone commented under my post asking for my account details that he/she wanted to help. Immediately I dropped the account details Nairaland moderator abi auto admin suspended my account for 24hrs. Then after the 24hrs I never knew it was because of the bank account I posted I thought it was because of the hate and insulting comments coming in. Then I rushed to reply to the same person with my account info again then I was blocked until 2030. Since I have only 1 email address I thought by deactivating the account will delete my details from NL then I did that and wanted to register again by changing my names upside down but it refused. Since my kids were put in school they go to school by 7:30 AM and return by 2:00 PM while they are in school me don go hustle any job all I always do is half-day hustle I go by 8 and leave the place by 1 PM to make sure I get home and arrange for the kids. It has not been easy for me. For the indomie business, I started within 8 days problem started after all my management and packaging them landlord association blah blah blah come up that I will need to pay 15k before I go do business for the street space cos is not shop. Where I see money nah? from one delay problem to another na so the business close down. We all know what the country is saying now and how things are so expensive then imagine a man with 2 little kids without a job. But I kept on pushing and hoping. Let me not talk about kids' unexpected sickness, bills, my son who doesn't eat anyhow things apart from golden more and indomie and these things are so expensive to get. You can't cook any pot of food in 9ja with 1k anymore apart from indomie. After every, I still have to push myself and my kids back to my hometown in the village. I have never come here recently asking for anything. Coming back to the village from the city is more like from fry pan to fire. I never prayed for this but God knows why. If I start by sharing screenshots of all the promises that were never been fulfilled everyone will shock but it won't make sense cos of their privacy and all that. You are talking about twitter did you also see where someone sent me 50k instead of 5k and messaged me which I asked for his account details and send back his 45k back and he posted with happiness then publicly promised my kids a scholarship with a 10k monthly feeding fee? And wetin happen at last? They are so many of them. But those who were touched by my story were sending at much as they can I will not say as (little) because every amount sent to me REALLY MEAN a lot to me. I explain this same thing in every post I made then which people attacked me but only a few understand and listen. And some will always things that once I post I keep getting millions never even from this Nairaland na 2 people assisted us then which I really appreciated. I am not a "Mummy thank you" person I am a man with lots of responsibilities, a man who is doing a woman's job by taking care of little kids, not even grown-up kids. It breaks me deep down when people don't even understand my situation and still use the wrong idea and hate comments to add more depression to my already gone life. I know it's very hard out there I am only asking for help from any good heart person, those with serious responsibilities will understand what I am facing. Since school vacated the last time my kids no fit continue no money for their school fees I did not do a post about it because I became so tired of asking. People visited me and my kids and confirmed my situation. I only cry out when the load is more more more than what I can carry. I can't even count how many people I am owning money even fcmb and renmoney which I borrowed small small money when e don hook me to death. If I lost any of my children I and the remaining one will join the person but I no pray to lose any and that is why I have swallowed my pride to ask than to die in silence. Na still those who are condemning me will still blame me for not speaking out if anything happen to us. Thanks anyways who will help will help and God's reward will always locate them. And the way you describe me, is my late father was a huge person same as my sick dying mother too. I like this I can't even remember the last time I ate food with pepper inside. Na so so bread cos I am after my kids first once they managed to eat then I will just taste whatever I see and sleep. Na person whey get money dey barb hair and look fresh. So I am just as I meet myself
Oga look for something to do.the economy is biting hard on everyone even to feed is not regular for an average Nigerian due to the high cost of foodstuffs. You can't keep coming back all the time asking for help when you have two hands and legs.
mutter: For the first time I talk to my 9 year old son about his autism. He didn't know the word but he knew all along that he was different. A look at his struggle to find a place and his heart melting advice to people at the end. Please support him by leaving words of encouragement in the comment section of the video.
hbemigho: Laurence and I were at a shop close to the house trying to get one or two things when one lady I knew only in passing asked if Laurence is my son and I said yes.
Shey I for just buy wetin carry me come and go back to my house?
I now added, he is my first son actually.
Lady was like wow, you mean you have another son? Like this boy don senior person already?
Pride nor gree me just say yes and go my way. I was like he has two siblings following him already.
This lady legit shouted Obara Jesus!!!!!!
Everybody just start to turn look me, like make we even see the guy wey dey talk sef �
Omo!
One old mama, that was selling pap for the store owner now said, when your age still dey mama house you don born children full everywhere.
To be honest, I didn't know whether to laugh or to vex, because I nor understand the mama.
But whatever she meant, clearly, the mama was deceived by my babyface.
That was how one Oga that was newly posted to our department asked if I was a Youth Corper.
I just said "No sir" and jejely walked to my office.
Me, a whole Registered Engineer and Head of Department oh.
Abeg, I don't want to do baby face again.
Abeg where dem dey sell old man face?
Meanwhile, do you have babyface? What's it like for you?
I don't look anywhere close to my age even with two kids and I have accepted my date.
Sometimes you see very young boys of 16 whistling calling "baby whats up" or being called a student .
A man once told me he had my type as his last born and I asked him if he knew my age ?
Most people I don't know find it hard to believe I have 2 grown kids because of my looks .
Sometimes I ignore and move on.its not worth arguing about.
Looking good and packaging myself neatly gives me joy and smiles especially when I get compliments. I love my Babyface even after 2 be grown kids I still look younger than my age.
Diadem2020: Hello mamas, please I’m a first time mum and my LO is 2weeks old. Her tommy has been making a lot of noise. Especially when she’s feeding. Her pediatrician said there is nothing to worry about but I’m still worried. Did anyone experience this with their new born? My mom wanted to use agbo called inu iwo in Yoruba but I didn’t allow her. Please help me
It's colic in babies. It's normal. Let her lie frequently on her Tommy. You can give 2.5mls of gripe water once a while to ease her of discomfort
Thanks for the useful advice. But I want to ask if Pregnatone which contains folic acid and Vitamin B12 used with Iron drug is enough or there is a need for calcium drug with either or Neither of these combination?
I noticed the prevalence of jaundice in new born this days, I once asked how to prevent it and fermented soaked unripe pawpaw water was suggested, please how safe?
Fermented pawpaw juice taken in pregnancy is very safe and prevents jaundice in babies
Thanks fam! I'd be working towards that God helping me, if he never kill me troway.
You really need to start planning your exit and ask for help from as many people you can so u can get enough funds to cater for u and ur kids alongside accommodation. Ur husband is taking advantage of your fear so you wunt make a move. You need to be brave and take the bull by the horn with wisdom for you and ur kids sanity ND safety.
I'm trying to do that but I'm only scared of what my personal decision can do to my kids(I have 2 aboy7yrs And a girl 1yr).
Seeing kids from single parenting around is making me scared which he knew and is using constantly against me.
I had a slightly similar case to yours and I took a long walk for the sake of me and my kids sanity. Abuse and violence isnt healthy. You will gradually slip into depression and feel hopeless.
You will survive, just make sure u have a good and reliable source of income and a supportive family. It's a gradual process. If ur husband decides to turn a new leaf you can decide if want to give him a second chance. Mine got a second chance and still messed up. Av moved on long ago and am happy I made my decision.
Note that Good and responsible children still come out of single parent while rebellious and bad kids come out of homes with both parents intact.
Marriage is sweet when you are with ur best friend, and with someone who understands, tolerates, forgives and matured psychologically with strong financial support.
Obakashdee: I have a man in my church, he has three children now, he gave birth to twins twice but unfortunately for him one of them died. This man and his children are suffering like it’s so obvious that they are suffering, the man takes up so many menial job just to provide and the wife also does menial job too just to feed. Now his children are 10 and 8’s respectively and his wife discovered she’s pregnant again in this buhari regime and he knows how suffering is peppering him.
I was thinking why can’t they just abort it and keep managing, I do not see the rationale of bringing another child into this world to suffer or am I wrong ni? What to do? I
She should give birth first and use family planning.
I trust we are doing well and keeping safe. Lets come together and share minds and views on this topic.
I am yet to be married and planning to do so before am 33.
I understand to get married for a guy or lady is not easy, so many things must be in place, like your emotions, cash, house, car, job etc.
Without most of these, getting married is not easy for a guy.
The purpose of this topic is for us to share experiences and also motivate people into how good or things to expect or avoid during marriage.
Moreso, things to put in place before you work down the aisle.
Thank you and I expect your wonderful comments.
#stay safe #family #life
I was married at 27yrs.
My experience wasn't a pleasant one but thank God for sustaining me till date.
What I learnt was;
Don't rush into marriage if you are not emotionally, financially and psychologically prepared.
Involve God always.
Get married to your best friend,gist partner and someone you are attracted to and have a common interest.
Be forgiving and learn to over look irrelevant actions.i know sometimes females hormones tend to react and can be annoying. You need to have a lot of self control to avoid being violent , abusive or having extramarital affairs.
Be transparent and honest
Don't start what you can't continue. If there are intolerable behaviors you notice during dating ,tackle it before you settle down because it may continue or get worse.
Make sure you have a job or a good source of steady income that can pay your bills especially rent, feeding and other major expenses because when you start having kids the bills will increase. You need to plan ahead .
No third party and don't sleep over grudges and misunderstanding. Ensure you get it sorted fast.
There are no permanent rules to a happy marriage. It takes the two parties , Dedication, tolerance, maturity and God's guidance to make it work because no one is perfect. We all have our flaws and good sides.
Every Human change based on situations, circumstances and conditions.
Trust no one even yourself. How you act or react can either make or Mar you.
1. If she said the fight ensued in the kitchen, was that where the body was discovered and this picture taken? 2. I would conclude this was manslaughter if indeed that is where his body was discovered. 3. I would have said it’s murder had it been he was discovered in a position like a bed, sofa etc. 4. He died facing up which means she had power over him proving the theory that she must have drugged him before the act therefore making it murder and not manslaughter.
In law to prove death, two things are important;
1. Mens Rea (mental premeditation) 2. Actus Rea (Actual killing) which has been proven. You prove actus and mens rea we have murder. However with the way it’s going, Mens Rea is yet to be proven so she might get away on manslaughter...
Ahmed0336: Do you mean him being a Catholic is a big deal or what?
You have two options 1. Manage am like that and marry him.
2. Look for someone you thing fits your spiritual life and marry.
But remember this, NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD.
Marriage alone needs to be well managed talk more of a partner. If the op isn't convinced in her spirit them she still has a choice to make if not they may end up as enemies
Hathor5: Every woman experiences pregnancy differently. What was yours like? If you already have several children, how were the pregnancies different/the same? What did you enjoy about being pregnant? What didn't you enjoy? What were the challenges?
The first pregnancy was smooth, little nausea with large appetite later on ,no cold water and beverage all through .i constantly kept a good hygiene and slayed well till I delivered. Took pregncare all through. I eventually had CS because I wasn't dilating after 7cm and baby was in distress. I healed very fast and baby was calm all through.
The second pregnancy started with serious itching and smelly vagina discharge which lasted till I delivered, I couldn't wear panties most time because of the hot, red and itching feeling. Despite the constant hygiene , antibiotics and all the infection didn't stop. I had lots of cramps and kicks, I felt tired most times but had a good appetite and ate healthy. I couldn't slay much, i used Obron 6 for a while and stopped at 8 months. I eventually had CS because I was in very active labour but wasn't dilating. It took me two months for my stitches to close up.
I only added 10kg for both pregnancy ,no swollen feet
For both pregnancies I enjoyed special attention from people,public places and given considerations. Since I was still schooling part time when I had my first baby ,I had my class colleagues helping me out with my child. It was fun.
Challenges for the first pregnancy was funds because I didn't plan for CS and it was a private standard hospital which was an emergency later on and my delivery bill sky rocketed beyond plan. I was delayed for a week till I was able to clear my bills. For my second I opted for general hospital which was okay in terms of fees but had lots of stress with moving around, appointments, blood donation and crowded unhealthy ward I was kept in with noisy nurses.
Try reading up online abt jaundice- causes and co. That way U arm urself wt the knowledge of what causes it n what to do in the event that ur child gets jaundice after birth.
Knowledge is power!
You can pass your idea without discrediting suggestions. I give my response based on my experience not hear say. Knowledge is very broad . Fruits and herbs has its benefits too.
ThatPetiteChic: Hello mummies in the house, my body is itching me badly. I am 24 weeks pregnant. In the first trimester, my breast was the only part itching, now, it's my breast, chest, neck and face that is itching badly. The itching is accompanied with pimples/rashes(I dunno what it is). On my last ANC visit, I complained about it and I was prescribed loratidine and it's not working for the itching. Pls what can I do because I have small injuries on my chest and neck from the itching
how sure about this? For how long must it be soak, any measurement?
I started taking the unripe pawpaw juice when I was 7months till 9 months before I stopped .
Get unripe pawpaw sizeable quantity , peel wash , remove seeds and cut to sizeable pieces and soak in a bowl with clean water. Cover the bowl and place it on a cool surface (not fridge )for 3 days to allow it ferment. On the 3rd day seive out the liquid in a cup when you want to drink, then replace the water at night so that by morning the juice would have extracted again . Prepare a fresh one ahead with same process once you notice the juice is tasting lighter.
You can take a cup of the pawpaw juice in the morning and night for effective results
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by realtalk19: 8:38pm On Jul 25, 2021 
, kisses and hugs to the Ninjas, the superions, extending a handshake to core wayadem. To the rest goodnight 
? Hmmmm .. If na really true then African mobile market is on fire 
