Hollysaint:
Put your self in the shoe of the MD.Get the evidence of them of them stealing money.Tell them straight up if you steal again in this company I will tell the MD or simply tell them to resign or you report.Free your conscience report them.There sins are on your head because you knew and kept quiet.If you don't have the courage send me the details and the number of your boss I will call her up and inform her.

Telling them of his intentions is risky .they can set him up or harm him.

Abbeylanre15:
I work in finance company and I'm in charge of all accounts. All monies are been remitted to me. The M.D of this organization is such a generous but uneducated woman. My colleagues are leveraging on this to siphon organization's funds to their various pockets. I'm not oblivious of this fact because I'm so sensitive to things around me,but I am d God fearing type that won't participate in such a dirty act.
I've called majority of those in this illicit act privately to warn them and let them know the implications. But to my utmost surprise, the bull-shit keep getting high and d MD is not the type to tell such hidden things, she will reveal the identity of her Intel.
The problem now is that,if this act persist,the company may go bankrupt sooner than later. Even though,the job is not worth dying for,half bread they said it's better than none. I can't afford to be jobless.
Please advise me on what to do?


NB: I'VE SUBMITTED APPLICATION TO OTHER COMPANIES BUT NO RESULT YET.

Gather strong evidences and anonymously inform your boss. since your boss is a nice person and that job is your source of income for now , protect it with all you have got. Apply wisdom and don't allow your colleagues know that you blew the whistle on them.

DriggityDre:

Those are series tho. I believe you ought to post this in the series thread here;
https://www.nairaland.com/671147/what-series-watching-now-part/1646

Oh well I felt it was also a movie

Money heist

Money heist

It was challenging when I was much younger because younger or fat people wants to chance me or even want me to respect them.

Am enjoying my look now because even at 36 with kids,I look 22 with swag.

#

Great100000:
No oooo not Gretchen now, Gretchen Join Prison Break in season 3 but i mean His (Mucheal) Russian Girl he helped in Season 1. I mean this Girl in the picture. She love Micheal in that Series.

Oh I remember, it's because she didn't stay long in the series.

Was she later killed by Mahone or did she escape?

Great100000:
Let Sara (his onscreen wife) & that Russia Model (The Beautiful Lady that also love Micheal) catch you. Lol .

When Sara saw that Russian Lady hug Micheal, she take it personal.

You mean 'Gretchen' funny enough Scofield is gay in real life.

iyke926:

True. He is also very eloquent and charismatic.

Yes

iyke926:

You just nailed it.

I also find T-Bag way intelligent than Scofield

He is smarter but Scofield is more intelligent

iyke926:
Samuel L. Jackson
Eddie Murphy (Coming To America)


T-Bag (TV Series: Prison Break)
Penguin (TV series: Gotham)

T- bag and penguin has similar traits of a cat with nine lives .they never die no matter the accident or tourture, they always have a way of escape

Kingluqman:
Any day
It is Wentworth Miller (Michael Scofield)

I remember one of his quotes “Preparation will only take you so far. After that you gotta take a few leaps of faith”.



White boy... you a king.

My crush

Michael Schofield in Prison Break

Sunny and Widow in Into the Badlands

Jason Statham

Nikita

Cookie from Empire

Indigbo:


Please how is life especially security and amenities in Ewu-Elepe extremely close to uncle bayus?

Can't say much about those areas but people I have around there never had issues with securities asides good road which is still under construction and some areas lacking power

dominique:


That's why she needs to strike back, talk back, FIGHT back. Men like these are like wolves, they won't back down unless you face them and fight back. She has been calm and respectful all these years, what did she gain with it? High BP. Mutual respect is what makes marriage work not one spouse demanding for respect by frustrating his spouse all the time.

You are on point.

mrblessed:
How dare you use the word "narcissist" in your post? Can't you find another synonym to use? Don't you know that the usage of that word is strictly reserved for the invincible captain of "Men are Scum" FC. Be warned!

Thank God you indicated its my post and opinion not yours. I guess u haven't had much experience with relationships for u to know the meaning of narcissist. U sound like one I guess!!!

farady:
OP, I took time to flip through some of your previous posts and I can deduce that:
(1) You have not been so lucky with relationships
(2) You seem to be married for at most 7 or 8 years

Now from your post above, you said you are a family of 6, meaning you have 4 kids.

Based on the above, it is safe to say you settled for the lowest hanging fruit for a husband and the foundation of your marriage was faulty from the start. I say this to disabuse your mind and the minds of so many young folks that Nigerian men are generally like the way you described your husband. Now we only heard from you. I'm sure if your husband give his side of the story, we would see a different picture. That is normal.

Next is that both of you did not (1) quite know yourselves, (2) didn't go through a marriage counseling class, (3) did not discuss in details things like the standard of living, number of kids you both intend to have and how to run the finances of the home etc. The lack of this gave rise to you having 4 kids within 8 years of marriage with inadequate finances to cater for and run the home. This can easily lead to high BP for you, in a bid to try your best to keep things afloat.

Your type may not be the talking type but wen una open mouth, una fit reduce a man to chaff , and of course that is the last thing a man would expect from his wife. This is taking sides with your husband oh! Just being objective here.

Way forward?

Option 1. You both need to sit down and discuss budget to run the home and family planning. You also need to save part of your income and take care of yourself (At least try and look good without being expensive, since he is giving you any money for upkeep). I would not subscribe to you hiding anything from him. If what you are saving is 10% and another 20% for yourself, tell him what is available henceforth is 60% (after you pay your tithe).

He might get upset and would want to hit back at you or blow his top.

Option 2 : If this is the case, please call the attention of your parents. I say this, since they have once intervened

Be prayerful and ask God to intervene in the affairs of your home. Ask Him to correct every faulty foundation of your home.

Cheers and wish you the very best.

Some men are beyond damaged and beyond control , no respected of anyone even their parents and elders ,people even avoid him because of being a trouble maker and once you don't support him you bcome an enemy.

YemyTemmy:


Permit me to say it the way it is. You didn't choose wrong, and you have all it takes to enjoy your marriage.
Take note of these few points. We are all humans, and we are what we are not matter who we are ( I hope you understand that code).
Love is not enough for marriage
From your submission here, I sensed a little pride( mentioning your parents got him the job yadayada!! Are you God, are your parents God!!!!??) It shows you mock him once in a while with that, in your words, actions , deed or body language. Also let me tell you this, intelligence in a woman is an attractive package. It's obvious he wants you to develop, read more and be well versed in a lot of things then engage him with intelligent conversation. Pls the home belongs to you. Win your man back, get more wisdom from the book of proverbs, meditate, reflect and act on it.
You husband didn't do well, he is a ponmo man, in this present age keeping malice is a turn off. He should man up and say his mind and what he doesn't like. If he is hiding his own money or not making effort to increase his income with side hustle, that is not fair too. I think what you both should centre your gist upon is how you can build side hustle to make more money. Kim Kardashian na woman too.
So be the Kim to your hubby, speak to him, apologies and engage more with intelligent and more talks and act on how you both can make more money. Your are there to assist one another and not to count scores who got job for one another. In marriage one has to be goat, the other sheep to make it work. Two goats cannot marry neither can a union of two sheeps work.
Compliments one another, make money together... Don't reason moving out even If you have the money unless for domestic violence case.
I wish you well. Stay blessed

Some men wunt blink even if you apply all these to satisfy him,he will still get worse. I know someone like the OP hubby and trust me it got worse. People like the OP husband are cold hearted and very cruel. Not even their wife's dead body moves them. They are not worth the stress.

Your husband is cold blooded narcissist, manipulator, pretender, egoistic, troublesome and immatured man.

I once knew someone with his kind of attitude and believe me no matter how calm,quiet and peaceful you try to be,it fuels his attitude more and will keep frustrating you till you break and loose your self worth,then you fall into depression and then you start looking for a way of escape but what keeps holding you back is how to start a fresh with 4 kids to take care of and no funds. It's not going to be easy at all especially with four kids except you are financially loaded.

You are the only one that can put a stop to all these. U may need to take a break and change environment so you can recover your sanity.

It is well with you.

There are still good,responsible,loving, caring and God fearing men out there . It only takes God's grace and Devine favor to end up with them. Most of them are also in the hands of a crazy, cold hearted woman who don't know the value of what they have and take them for granted.

May God help us all.

Healingstringz:
*Your opinion please*

There was nothing at home, no money in account and the children were hungry. He started thinking of way out. Who can I meet in this lockdown period?
It's serious a issue. He felt embarrassed that his family could not eat properly.

As he was scrolling on his phone then he found his Ex- Lover's Number. Old memory came and he decided to send a funny message as thus, "My wife that run away with another rich man. Tell your husband to send #2k because he snatched my wife".

After a minute the lady replied as thus, "Tell me you don't have money, old husband". Then he replied, " Yes, I don't have money, just send something". In a nutshell, the lady send 20k into his account instantly.

He jumped up, took his Visa card to the nearest ATM and withdraw. He gave his wife 10k and keep the remaining. He lied to her that a friend sent the money. She buys food stuff and prepare food. He was eating and left his phone on the TV when a message came from his EX asking if he had seen the money.

His wife saw the message, she took time to read the previous message. Now, his wife suspend everything. She decided to be starved than to eat from that food. He tried to explain but all in vain. Worst part of it is that she instructed the children not to taste or touch the food.

*Is the man justified?*
*Is the woman right with her action?*
*How can the situation be handled?*

Hunger bad. Trying to survive instincts at work

Wumnaf:


that lagos life is tiring as i hve never been in lagos in my entire life.
besides i dont want be far from my family

Which is more important between your family and your marriage? You need to reach a compromise and make up your mind about your home. Lagos is very interesting,you will adjust with time.

frubic:
Good day fellow Nairalanders,

This is my first post and I'm going to summarize my gist. I m staying in a room self contain and met this beautiful & fair lady in her middle twenties in the compound I just move in. Before we stopped talking, I got to know that she can't sleep without light on (either her candle, rechargeable or electric light must be on) every night. I have confirmed it. When ever I come home late at night due to my nature of job. But she refused to give me details why she must sleep with light on.

I suspect her and same time inquisitive to know why? Because she has a strange attitude and I have never seen her goes to Church since I moved in.

Please, members of Nairaland if you know any good reason, let us know. Thanks.

I always sleep with at least a ray of light on so I can see everything around me. I have phobia for darkness.it creeps me out

Wumnaf:
FEllow Nairalanders,

We have been married for 4 years now and i have been working as a bank teller for like 9 years but my husband does not like the fact that i works in the bank because he is religion biggot i.e he believe in not working in an organisation that the salary is from interest made on people"s money.

He was employed by a telecommunication company in lagos in less than 2 years, he usually complained of being eating outside and being starved of sex. and mainly fpe this two reasons he prefer to move me and less than a year old boy we had to lagos.

Please advise me .

i dont want to go astray when i get to lagos as i know he is not capable of taking care of me as he is the breadwinner in his family and virtually all his siblings and parent depend on him.

Why don't you work your transfer to lagos so that you can be with your husband

pmoye:
Lovely!
@foreign movie... I wonder if we have Nollywood action movies. I mean realistic scenes, and not the piroro kind where gunshots end up being bloodless.

Lai Lai ,we have a long way to go with Nollywood movie.we don't even have studios to shoot movies

pmoye:
Nice choice. I didn't know ladies also like action movies.

Am an addicted foreign movie freak. I love actions,thriller, suspense,detective, horror and sci-fic action

Into the Badlands,- sunny and widow

Ishilove:

How do we know the scammers?

Cc ifyalways. Always verify their claims with concrete evidence before giving out anything

pocohantas:
PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE APPLYING;



Thanks for your cooperation and I hope the outlaws keep their madness to themselves this time.

I just read thru.thanks

GreatResearcher1:

Bro I am pissed. Even when you show them true love they misbehaved.


You see how illogical you are?

U sound damaged and relly bitter.

GreatResearcher1:
No single mother would reject a guy in his 20s who has a well paid business, two cars, two houses, shopping mall etc.

Hmm no wonder you are still very immature in reasoning to understand life situations. It's guys like u that will end up producing single mothers. With all these achievement you couldn't buy common sense.

Mavis3:
Dear Nairalanders,
I had to open this new account Because I have friends here and family members.

Please kindly advice me on this. As I am so bitter and unhappy right now.

I have been married for close to mine years without a child. I have had two miscarriages and couldn't take in again and we tried IVF once which failed.

My husband has been patient and supportive and have been wadding off any form of interference and other than that we had a beautiful marriage and close friends even think we are a perfect couple.
My pain started some months back when our pastor called me for an urgent meeting. On reaching there I met my husband and pastor told me my husband has a confession to make.
My husband told me he had an affair with a lady for a year which he ended because he was feeling guilty. But the lady had a child for him from the relationship which he just got to know recently when she called to tell him. And baby mama has threatened bringing the child to the house if he doesn't meet her demands.

He begged me for forgiveness and so did our pastor. I was heartbroken but I forgave him and took him back.
Early this morning, he told me he wants my permission to become involved in the child's life and be a father to the child.
We own a joint account and our finances is usually.planned as we talk about what we use money for. He wants us to include the upkeep of his child in our budget for each month .

I feel batrayed,angry and bitter.
I told him i will give him an answer when I am done thinking about it.
But I am not happy and I also feel cheated.

How do I handle this please?
Married folks in the house please I need your advice on this.

Pls mod, front page.

A lot is going to change. A child is involved and soon his family may get involved.Be prepared and pray for God's intervention and wisdom. It is well with you.