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Romance / Re: What Does A Side Chick Have That Wife Doesn't Have ??? by realtalk19: 2:04pm On Mar 24, 2021
Nonexistent:
Firmer breasts because children haven't sucked them dry. Pussy flexibility, a man is free to scatter the pussy anyhow unlike that of his wife. Sidechicks don't nag, you don't owe them your itinerary. They are loyal even when you disrespect them.

I disagree with some, having kids doesn't justifying loosed or falling boobs and not having kids doesn't determine firm boobs it depends on the body. The private part is still intact after CS. Some wifes even after having kids are more hotter than the so called side chicks who hasn't gotten any.

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Family / Re: Fear Women by realtalk19: 1:12pm On Mar 24, 2021
YoungDaNaval:
Saw this Somewhere and decided to share

My Wife’s Salary Was a Mystery Until I discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth

In 2016 she told me her salary was GHC950. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only Ghc350 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. GHC4,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

Normally it is a man's responsibility to cater for the basic needs of his family. The wife is a helpmate and for support when things get a bit thight till the husband bounces back.
Family / Re: . by realtalk19: 12:36pm On Mar 24, 2021
Zzor:
Please what are the consequences of marrying a man with kid/kids from a previous marriage(widower)? I really want inputs from married women here and anyone with such experience should share please. Now would you advise a 20yr old lady to marry a 44yr old man(widower)with kids(four kids to be precise),real money is involved here lol.This is the current situation of my friend and she's already kind of attracted to the man and he's very handsome,fit and so young looking you wouldn't even know he's 44yrs already,your matured response is highly needed. NOTE:Please romance section e-warriors should stay away,I always come to this section for serious issues,please respect yourselves and please I'm not the person in question. Thanks


If she's comfortable,compartible and matured at heart she can go ahead. With the senario you gave I wuld give it a shot.

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Family / Re: . by realtalk19: 12:35pm On Mar 24, 2021
Zzor:
Please what are the consequences of marrying a man with kid/kids from a previous marriage(widower)? I really want inputs from married women here and anyone with such experience should share please. Now would you advise a 20yr old lady to marry a 44yr old man(widower)with kids(four kids to be precise),real money is involved here lol.This is the current situation of my friend and she's already kind of attracted to the man and he's very handsome,fit and so young looking you wouldn't even know he's 44yrs already,your matured response is highly needed. NOTE:Please romance section e-warriors should stay away,I always come to this section for serious issues,please respect yourselves and please I'm not the person in question. Thanks

If she's comfortable,compartible and matured at heart she can go ahead. With the senario you gave I wuld it a shot.
Family / Re: Easter Giveaway by realtalk19: 10:50am On Mar 24, 2021
IyaTola:
Good morning!

Easter is a time to reflect and celebrate, but unfortunately many are not celebrating because of the situation of things.

I want to help atleast 10 people who have genuine reasons to be assisted.

You must provide evidence

Happy easter

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Family / Re: DEBATE: Mother And Father Who Is More Important In The Family And Why ? by realtalk19: 1:19pm On Mar 22, 2021
chichriso:
Now let reason like a reasonable people in this thread.

Remember the roles each of them are playing in your family.

Both parent are very important in a child's life and both have their individual roles to play.

These days women survive well with the kids than men especially when there is enough funds to cater for the needs of the child(ren).

I still believe so much in the nuclear family of the father, mother and child (ren)rooted in love,care , maturity understanding and good role models to their kids.
Education / Re: What Is The Highest Monthly Salary You Have Had As A Sec Or Pry School Teacher? by realtalk19: 7:01am On Feb 28, 2021
Mrshape:

It is a local point blinded by poverty.
I am a local boy.
I don't think the way he thinks

Noted
Education / Re: What Is The Highest Monthly Salary You Have Had As A Sec Or Pry School Teacher? by realtalk19: 6:45am On Feb 28, 2021
4ckyou:


Why are you lying oga, even igbinedion education center, one of the leading school in Nigeria doesn't pay up to that amount self

It's like u are talking from a local point of view.

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Education / Re: What Is The Highest Monthly Salary You Have Had As A Sec Or Pry School Teacher? by realtalk19: 6:44am On Feb 28, 2021
Zero2Hundred:
Big fat lie. Who places a teacher on 120k/month salary in this naija? If the school like make e be Oxford affiliate, who fear u to pay that kind salary in this country?

It's very possible. How much do you think Corona,Greensprings , Chrisland pays their teachers? Some schools even pay in dollars.
Family / Re: Save Me From Entitled Inlaws by realtalk19: 6:36am On Feb 28, 2021
badmusatari:
I was convinced by a topic on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6433385/how-saved-brother-marrying-into/1

I went to Nigeria to bring my wife some years agom ever since we arrived it has always been money, money, materials, materials especially money. At some point my wife accused me of trying to separate her from her siblings. I told her that a time is coming she will be begging me to help her stop them. It has happened and is now happening. As a matter of fact I even brought her dad for a visit from Nigeria. Her dad was a God fearing person but the moment he started living with his oldest shameless and jobless son he has been brainwashed that her daughter and her husband owe them especially me. It's always about money, money, money. The oldest son is a jobless and shameless irresponsible man that impregnated a woman and they now have four kids. I have even got a job for him from here but he refused to go and work there in Nigeria.

Not minding the fact that he even have other siblings in abroad. One of those in abroad is always in support of this stupid irresponsible oldest guy but the other one is a very intelligent person and knows the whole truth.

If you send money to the dad now trust me he will request another in less than a week which obviously the irresponsible was the one telling the dad what to say. There was no time my wife or me or we call the dad that the irresponsible will not pretend he's not there but will put the phone on speaker so he can listen to our concert with the dad. All he's doing is yahoo and Yahoo. The second born there with him is a little bit fair but they all the same.

They always have this strong believe that their sister who is my wife owe them because they always says they took care of her. This is one of the reasons their sister who is my wife and the other siblings in abroad are yet to build a house for their dad. The oldest irresponsible always cause trouble, tell lies and create issues that the dad will be telling his children abroad that he's gonna curse them if they don't build house for him or send certain mount on so so so date. I am really tired and confused. Enough is enough because I also have my own family to look after. Even a bike I never buy sef.

I am beginning to regret getting married in the first place. I love my wife and we have been together for over a decade and half even before we get married. But my wife is now their enemy because she always turn them down now. Infarct of I mention the irresponsible man's name or talk about se don't a penny to them she will go mad for days. Everythinf about them is money, money, money, build house for our dad, etc. The guy is now a yahoo + man over 40 yrs with no future and still unambitious.

My wife and I have wasted a lot of money on his travelling but he doesn't even care. Imagine all the siblings in abroad have been sending money for their dad's house rent only for the landlord to tell us that this guy's has never paid a kobo for almost two years. All he's about is to drink fvck and club.. very dirty hungry looking guy. They never appreciate anything indo for them, instead it's always more more and more. There was a time this guy tried to fight me but I just ignored him.and since then I never talk to him again till now. But they are bullying my wife emotionally that she cries almost everyday now uptill this morning when I asked her what happened and she told me that her brother the irresponsible man sent a nasty message to her.

But the other ones in another will always tell her that she and them need to take care of their dad and must send him money regardless of who highjack it as long as God knows they did the right thing, please how does this make sense? I need opinion on this in particular. How could you be sending money to the dad when you know that the idiot is the one that will collect and spend the money because he's with the dad's ATM card? Does that make sense?

I only pity one of the two siblings in another country that always support him and that one's wife have started complaining to my wife too because they gist a lot.

Sad sad

You and your wife shuld block them from communicating you.
Career / Re: What Made You Resign From A Job? by realtalk19: 10:05pm On Feb 26, 2021
Iatrogen:
Ppl complaining about insults upadan should know they're paid for the amount of insult they can stomach than for what they can actually do...


That's quite unprofessional. Am being paid for services rendered not insults.

Na condition make crayfish bend. If you know your worth you will not permit to be trash talked rather you take a dignifying walk.
Career / Re: What Made You Resign From A Job? by realtalk19: 10:04pm On Feb 26, 2021
Iatrogen:
Ppl complaining about insults upadan should know they're paid for the amount of insult they can stomach than for what they can actually do...

That's quite unprofessional. Am being paid for services rendered not insults.

Na condition make crayfish bend. If you know your worth you will not permit to be trash talked rather you take a dignifying walk.

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Career / Re: What Made You Resign From A Job? by realtalk19: 9:40pm On Feb 26, 2021
NiRfreak:
Most people never resign from Job for here....No be person wey geh job dey resign?....
.
The most reason people resign is when they get better offer....

I disagree with you. I never had any job when I resigned.

That was my first time of having a peaceful sleep. Some jobs can make you depressed and worthless or violent depending on your tolerance level.

Peace of mind is more important than having a toxic job. It can drive you nuts

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Career / Re: What Made You Resign From A Job? by realtalk19: 9:32pm On Feb 26, 2021
dosage150:
Sorry for the long story

I couldn't take it any longer I had to resign on 14th February, 2020 over the hurtful words of my MD.

I manage his filling station and building materials warehouse.

I really came to work with all my heart, I run the place as if its my own business that my landlord once asked me if its my dad's business.

I wake 5am everyday to set up the station at exactly 6am and closes 9pm .
There's no sales boy/girl in the warehouse beside the station, am the one selling the building materials, yet under the salary of manager of the station.

He pays me 33k which I don't mind, yet there's nothing I will ever do that will be good in his sight
He seems to hate me.
Any Lil mistake of mine, he calls me "idiot, I didn't go to school, am foolish, that he allowed me to be here because he doesn't have chance, that I add no value to the company, money he pays me is waste to him"

These words makes me feel worthless, I cry most a times in the office.
I handle millions of his money, none misses #5 for a day. He once called an auditor for me because he doesn't trust the account I give him monthly, yet no fund was missing.

After work on January, 2021, I paid other staffs on 3rd of February.
He pays me directly, and pays me whenever he likes.
I waited till 13th of February, I had to call him to know if did anything wrong and why delaying my salary. He hung up the call.

On 14th of February, I took the money through the Cashier, tendered my resignation letter and left the company.
The cashier made it known to him, he called me on phone and started shouting at me saying "why am I rushing money like this, that am foolish and very stupid, he had small regard for me before but now he knows am worthless, that he will never forgive me for this act". Without knowing that I have left the company already.

The next day, he paid me through my account same 33k.
I had to return the 33k I collected from cashier.

I resigned because I was fed up of the toxic and nassisist abuse I got from the head teacher which got me depressed and unhappy.

I was under paid yet I did the job with so much passion and commitment.

I was being constantly reminded that I was indispensable until I resigned and i became irreplaceable. They are presently on the 5th newly employed staff between August 2020 till date. They keep leaving because they couldn't endure what I endured and they couldn't do the work as much as I did.

I was hunted for eventually with offer of double pay, promotion and other mouth watering insentives but I turned the offer down because at that time God provided a peaceful , dignifying and stress-free job for me in a place where there was no vacancy.

The salary is still the same I was earning at my former place of work but I got a more dignifying position with minimal stress and I close early even though the transport fare is on the high side, it's still very peaceful for me.

I am always happy going to work and I come back home grateful.

Despite my experience at my former place of work ,I respond any time am being reached out to for help on how to handle some things joyfully because God already prepared a peaceful place for me and fought for me.

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Family / Re: Am I About To Make A Wrong Marital Choice by realtalk19: 9:28am On Feb 24, 2021
Iamafinegirl:
Please I need your help or view point in this matter. Am I just over reacting at is this a red flag to which I need to run far away from?
My current boo asked me out for like one and half year, it was like it’s either me or no one else. His friends and bosses in his office had to speak to me to consider him as I might be missing a good man and how crazy he is about me.
I finally accepted.
I decided to move in with him after a while just to see what marriage to him would feel like with him. I have stayed a year with him and it’s void of sex and kissing.
When I came he would say they should put on the gen anytime there was no light for me and all, he was sweet.
With time he started complaining that he was buying all the food in the house and I wasn’t contributing as much as he wants.
He eats about 5 times a day while I eat twice or one and half times (fruit, oat and pap) a day because me I am watching my weight.
He would complain the milk he bought had finished and all...and it was with some level of anger or bitterness about buying the food stuff.
Pls note that I consume 25% - 30% of all he eats.
I later started buying my milk to avoid issues since I knew that’s what I consume most (with my oat or pap) which makes one of my meal for the day but he was angry about me buying it separately but I did that because I felt there would be peace that way. I would still buy milk and keep and he can say I am using more than he is using inside the milk
He complained about repairs (light), complained about buying dstv subscription, nepa light payment etc. You just list any house thing he started complained about doing it.
I on my path do contribute the way I spent before I came to stay with him. (I wasn’t a huge spender as I eat very small food) and so my money use to remain which he used to borrow from me when we werent together.
We had a him 60k and me 40k arrangement for food fuel light etc but we never put it together and so each week I did ensure I spend 10k. But apparently he wasn’t seeing it. I would come from market and he would say what is all this, this is worth 5k. It use to hurt so much because I wld show him the list but he would still say this same thing. I have never asked him how much he bought things if he goes to market talk less if say it’s not up to a certain amount.
He said later that he can’t marry a woman who works and won’t contribute for light, food, repair, gen etc....
So even today we contributed for dstv 4700, I paid half and he paid half.
It looks sort of absurd and a no no to me
Yesterday he bought apples 800 naira and I paid half and he paid half....
And so that’s how the current life would be....
I contributed to the rent also but he said no... that he would “dash me” rent.
I see it upside down for a man to be saying he is paying rent and see it that he is dashing me. When I can pay my rent by myself. If I was living alone the same way he has been living alone, won’t I do my repair, dstv subscription etc without asking anybody? So why is it a big deal the moment I stepped in? This are things if my friend came to live with me to God who made me I would do/ take responsibility for because the dstv subscription I would have paid for before won’t change with your presence...the only thing that may change is water and food.
This is dating phase, please what marriage would become of this.
Am I the one at fault?
I need honest reviews so I can know if I am having problem and if I need to work on myself or if I need to run.
My parents marriage wasn’t like this my dad bought food and mum did other investments for the family or so and it was never an issue or was there a specific fight that you, you are not buying enough milk on the house or I can’t see d 10k food u said you just bought...it doesn’t look it etc.
He would also say me I want to be saving my money and all.
Pls what’s d way forward or backward married folks, married men and women, what am I not seeing that you can see?


Firstly u need to leave his house and go home, you are not his wife yet. Pay him a visit either weekends or when it's convenient for u.

I feel he could also be sexually frustrated.

You need to learn to make firm descisions about what you want not out of sentiments or pressure.


Follow ur instincts, it gives u signs.


Good luck

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How I Chose The Wrong Job by realtalk19: 8:57pm On Feb 21, 2021
pocohantas:


Sorry about what happened. I do see your posts and you are quite an optimistic and calm man. Congrats on your upcoming fatherhood and better jobs ahead.



They won’t sack you, but the things you’ll see ehn? E go big pass your eyes.

Any organization that has a high staff turnover rate is most likely a bad one. Except it is KPMG. lipsrsealed
Very true
Romance / Re: Admin Please Hide My Identity by realtalk19: 10:44pm On Feb 20, 2021
9japride:
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It might be possible. Though they are not yet married and I believe the mom takes her son's house as hers too. If they where married, then she can claim full responsibility over the kitchen. Best bet is for her to apologize and learn from the situation. It's not every fight that is necessary.

Well said

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Romance / Re: Would You Marry Someone Who Deceived You Into A Relationship? by realtalk19: 8:36pm On Feb 20, 2021
ikorodureporta:
After accepting his proposal & fixing wedding date, you discovered that he's got nothing - the house he said he is building belongs to his brother, the car he said he bought was given to him for transportation business, because he is jobless.. Meanwhile he said he just bought the car..


When confronted, he said he didn't want to miss you to someone else..

Would you go ahead with the wedding??

This happened to someone, & she's even pregnant!

Wedding suspended because even if the wedding goes on they will still separate due to frustration and not able to meet up with expectations.

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Romance / Re: Admin Please Hide My Identity by realtalk19: 8:27pm On Feb 20, 2021
9japride:
Approaching her was wrong. You could have reported her to your man, so that he can kindly advise her not to touch your pot. Me I would not be happy if someone else goes to my pot without my consent. The mother in law might be a troublesome person, I don't believe in the saying that the mother in law is testing her.

There are ways to go about it without giving a wrong first impression. I feel her boyfriend's mum was only trying to be free with her and make her comfortable besides she is still on the girlfriend stage and not wife. For now it's soldier go soldier come

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Romance / Re: Admin Please Hide My Identity by realtalk19: 8:24pm On Feb 20, 2021
SaintXto:
Admin please hide my identity

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I am this kind of lady that hates pretense. They said what you won't tolerate in marriage,don't tolerate in courtship.

I have known my boyfriend for a year, but this is my first time of coming in contact with his family.

Because of my long holiday at work, I visited him and met his mum and siblings. They were so happy to see me and they welcomed me so well.

Yesterday, I cooked and served everybody.. I later noticed that his mum went to my pot and took more food. I calmly told her that I don't like people going to my kitchen and pot.

I fold her that if she needs more food, she should notify me and I will serve her more... If you see the way the woman looked at me. So disgusting.

Later on, my boyfriend told me that my action was wrong and that I should go apologize to his mum.

For the records, I didn't tell my boyfriend, so invariably, the mum reported me.

I gently told my boyfriend that I won't tolerate that, even after our marriage. I told him it is better they get use to the real me so they won't say I changed after marriage.

Since yesterday, the mum and siblings have refused to talk to me even when I greet them.

WHAT'S YOUR VERDICT?

Wuld you have acted the same way if your mum took food from that same pot?

Wisdom is profitable to direct. You just gave a first wrong impression.

Person wey get head no get cap.

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Crime / Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by realtalk19: 10:03am On Feb 18, 2021
RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped

Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.

I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

Now I met her and asked what's up.

She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.

She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.

I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?

No insults please. Thank you all

I still feel you should get involved and give him a Stern warning so he will be aware the issue is exposed and eyes are on him.

If you have a male(brother or friend ) you can take along so he will know how serious it is.

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Romance / Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by realtalk19: 12:57am On Feb 15, 2021
Gang90:

That the best I will be in my family house and i will make it faster and we divide everything for a start, and I will be a landlord

Entitled bitch

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Romance / Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by realtalk19: 12:08am On Feb 15, 2021
Gang90:

It okay since no one understands my plight but rather keeps pushing it to the angle of childish or not, let me ask you, can she do same in her fathers room and not wash the sheet especially if shes aware that the father is aware, some things looks strange how lacking in moral this generation is, soon she will spread her menstrual blood around so it is her house

Are you her father? What generation are you? How will u feel if your wife is being referred to in your own words? You sound so entitled and bitter. If you don't feel comfortable overlooking this or possibly using a stick to remove the bedsheet into their laundry basket ,move your proud ass to the living room or more still stay awake all night.

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Religion / Re: Valentine's Day Special: Share Your Favorite Love Song For God by realtalk19: 11:01am On Feb 14, 2021
Excess love by Mercy Chinwo

Jesus you love me too much to
Too much o too much o
Excess love o

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realtalk19: 8:22pm On Jan 30, 2021
threegees:
Good evening, all.
Please I'd like to know what moms here think about Pea.k baby formula, compared to Nan 1, especially if you have used the Pe.ak for your baby.
Baby girl is 3 months plus and finishes a can of Nan in 9-11 days.

Nan is more preferred for me because peak is sugary. Your baby is a healthy eater

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Family / Re: How Safe Is Ikorodu In Recent Times by realtalk19: 9:37pm On Jan 13, 2021
amerengues:
I will like to hear from someone who is conversant with Ikorodu precisely from Agric.

1) Is it a good move to relocate to EBUTE area?

Please, 1 is important.

2) What are the best areas around Agric to live in?

Criteria: Proximity to the road, security and road networks.

Would be glad to hear from you.

Ebutte- ibeshe is very cool. Agric is a no go area for me because it's too conjested with dusty road and traffic
Family / Re: How Safe Is Ikorodu In Recent Times by realtalk19: 9:35pm On Jan 13, 2021
Naughtysex:
Houses at Ebutte is one of the best in Ikorodu, get house around the place and have rest of mind

Ebutte- ibeshe road, igbogbo or Awolowo -itamaga road are very okay
Family / Re: How Safe Is Ikorodu In Recent Times by realtalk19: 9:33pm On Jan 13, 2021
mastereditor:
Hello guys,

How safe is Ikorodu in recent times? Is it a safe place to move to, or does one need to constantly watch over one's shoulders?
And the road network, electricity?

Firstly nowhere is safe. It's just God's grace and protection. Asides from the traffic, ikorodu is affordable anf okay to stay.

Try out ebutte, igbogbo, ibeshe, Awolowo- itamaga road,cele- ewu-elepe road. Those areas have good light and good road network too with lovely apartments depending on your pocket.
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realtalk19: 4:39pm On Jan 04, 2021
Mhiznaphysat:
Im a FTM.
Please i noticed a small growth on my dd navel...i don't really know of its a growth thou but I checked google and found out its called umbilical granuloma.I'm still cleaning with spirit but havent seen any change. Has any mum experienced this? If yes,how did you treat it?

Also,my dd nappy rash is so stubborn.
I've used sudocrem but it maked the nappy rash spot look so dry n red...i had to stop.
Kinldy recomment a good nappy rash cream for me pls.

Lastly,pls she's light skinned...I'm using Jimpo ori...is jimpo ori good or i should get only Ori.

The navel hasn't fully closed up. I experienced it with my daughter because her navel didn't fall off until after a month and 3 days. I applied menthol on a knotted hankie and placed on a heated white stone(checked the heat temp on my hand before use) and applied at intervals to the navel.it was not too hot or too warm then I applied metholathum after cleaning with spirit
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realtalk19: 4:35pm On Jan 04, 2021
Orubebe01:
Please what can I use for my one year baby having this kind of rashes. She has taken ampliclox, it subsided but came again

Use baby tribotan.apply small quantity to the affected area
Nairaland / General / Re: Mention One Thing Nobody Taught You How To Do But You Can Do Perfectly Well by realtalk19: 7:37pm On Jan 01, 2021
EXLOVER:
Me how to ride bicycle oh, nobody thought me how to do it, but i can ride perfectly well, but i started as an adult.


Happy New Year My People


Making braids and weaves and cooking
Food / Re: Biggest Christmas Chicken 2020 by realtalk19: 9:42am On Dec 26, 2020
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