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You're 10? Damn!
First of all don't come to social media to take advice you will probably end up being a mean and bitter person.
It is not all people that are normal on social media,live and relate with people offline and not try to get advice especially on cases like family and love.
Also just know siblings fight when they are young, don't start counting scores or keeping malice you will just create bad blood.
When you and your brother grow up into matured men, that's when you will know if your brother is a bad person but for now don't think he is, mischieve is something most people do when they were young.

Money ritual up and down because of what?
You want to ride exotic cars,build good house, waste money in clubs,carry chicks up and down and wear over size clothes but You Black Face Demons no wan work legally to achieve it.
Once you price, it does not matter how long it takes just know you will surely pay,them no dey escape am.

Dj! 3 kegs of palmwine for me
Barman! Play me "The gullible man" by Rafael Nadal and Ini Edo.

Those people are the real devil and they won't go unpunished, it does not matter if they sacrifice 7million cows they will reap what they sow.

Maybe AA or AZ
But e be like AA dey get malaria sometimes sha

How we go dey see maize buy like this?
Hope no be say we go dey do home delivery for corn like this?
I no fit dey pay #500 transport for them to deliver #200 corn o

Dj! 2 keg of palmwine to digest this Cornish news
Barman! Play me "No more hawking" by Tim Hawkins and Tim Godfrey.

jojothaiv:
Maybe RedChiefPriest and his team of Vawulence DJ will find us something suitable for the occasion.

Meanwhile, DJ play 'Me I Canno Kneel Down O' featuring Portable and Enrique Iglesias.

make I reason my barman to play something.

Hello everybody somerin just happen righ now and I'm angry
Congratulations sinzle money
May God bless you for always making me laugh.

Dj! 21 kegs of palmwine ASAP,1 for me and 20 for Lasisis
Barman! Play me "Na wedding remain" By Ariana Grande and Bishop Desmond Tutu.

Magnoliaa:


Oh, I see...I don't get. Are you not a balanced person no more? You have no problem with Adeboye addressing women alone, but you have an issue with Abah addressing men alone? I thought you don't do things along gender lines?

What a funny character you are.

So I should start jumping on any lady that advice her fellow ladies to do something?
Lol that's silly
Of course i don't do things along the gender lines,if I do I would have said some demeaning words like YOU and some of your females friends here and be bashing the writer left and right and sart telling him how he wants men to be slaves by doing stuffs he wrote.

I'm a balanced person because I'm not an hypocrite.
When I see a lady bashing men,I don't start bashing her because I know some men will bash her back and when I see a man bashing women,I don't correct him because I know some ladies will show face to bash him.
So unlike some of you folks that won't bash ladies that bash men,but will easily bash men that bash ladies and start pulling the "You men" card I'm so so so balanced.
So everything is 50/50 with me.

Also
Don't be afraid to speak up when you don't agree with something,you're a lady not a baby .
Starting from now any lady that says things you don't agree with,just question them and pick the points you can live with.

Magnoliaa:
I am not interested in all of that... too. Believe what you will.

You too believe what you will believe!

Magnoliaa:
Smh.
I am not disagreeing with what the man said, I am not arguing for or against what the man said. You just answer me this simple question: do people give marital counsel to women or not? Just answer yes or no. Submission and respect is for the family, not for the man? Is it every couple that have kids? So for a couple that do not have kids, the wife is not expected to cook and clean the home?

I genuinely believe everything i wrote before this is not hard and very easy to comprehend.
I definitely know that.
Since you want to go that way then let's ride.
I already said men and women are preached too,but since your eyes did not see it,that's on you because you won't ask me"do people give marital counsel to women or not? Just answer yes or no".
Go back to the points the writer wrote,then tell me the ones that shows cooking,submission or anything the lady should do for the man.

Magnoliaa:
If you mind your business, then you should not have insinuated that I fight gender wars online.

It's like you are not following your own points. You said when Mrs. Adeboye came out to advise women, that a lot of ladies were complaining, not so? Now that Mr. Abah has come out to also advise men, YOU and other men are complaining, just like the ladies.

I minded my business before you replied and started with the "You men and the Cooking and submission" strategy
And yes I can complain as long as the man is trying to be an hypocrite.

Magnoliaa:
Okay, answer this one too and we'll done. When Mrs. Adeboye, that you did reference came online to speak to women, did you ask her to balance it with speaking to men as well? Did you demand that she speak to men too and tell them what to do? Since your issue is that people should always balance their advice... I hope whenever you see men speaking to women, you do always tell them to BALANCE it by telling them to talk to speak to men as well.

Damn!
In my last reply I said "I replied to the writer because he's a man and what he said I don't agree with it and I said WHEN A LADY SAYS SOMETHING YOU AS A LADY DONT AGREE WITH THEN TAKE IT UP AND QUESTION HER" hope it is clear now.
So I have no business with MRS Adeboye, I don't even really care actually,she's not talking to me.
So why will I jump on an advice of lady to her fellow ladies?
What's my business?

Magnoliaa:
I do hope you simply asked Mrs. Adeboye what men should do when she came out to give her advice to women... that's what I am interested in now. Since you are a balanced person, show me where you asked the same of her just as you are asking of Mr. Abah here.

I don't need to ask her,you can question her since you're a lady.
I questioned the writer because he's a man and I don't agree with all of his points.
If you say stuffs that I don't agree with,I will question you as long as you're a man.
So when any lady starts telling you to do things for your man and you're not comfortable then you ask the question "what should my man do for me?" Many ladies do that nau,you should to.

Magnoliaa:
Do respect your methuselah self, stop disgracing yourself, and quit referring to anyone that disagrees with you as a kid, please. Most especially, don't be forcing on me what I have never done, especially as you and I haven't even had any interaction. Address and face exactly what I am saying at this point in time. Where is the gender war I am starting or engaging in?? Where am I fighting any factional thing with you, excuse you? Are you for real or kidding me, right now?

Incase you do not get my point, I will reiterate it again... 95% of the time, people are always preaching to women. 90% of the time, everyone is always giving marital counsel to women... they are always focused on women all the time... so now that in a very rare scenario that a man is preaching to his fellow men, why do you have a problem with it?

I used kid when you used the word "immature" because that's what you use for someone that's not of age, incase your "ancient of days" sef did not know or your hands got slippery.
Also there's nothing like 90% of time women are being preached too, both men and women are preached too and even men more.
Starting from the the dating stage,the first preaching go to the man "Hope you have money because that's the main thing" that's the first preaching and what do they tell a lady in that stage?
But I'm not even interested in all of that for now.
You diverted my point since the beginning, so I will set you straight now.
Acording to the writer he said a man should do things he wrote for his lady.
When you talk about cleaning,submissive and cooking that's for the family,the same way you will say the man should love his wife and work really hard to provide and take care of the needs of the family.
So check the points the writer wrote,he said stuffs like buy charger every week cos wife charger will keep getting spoilt(that's a man doing for the lady),Charge the powerbanks Coz the wife will use anyone(That's a man doing for the lady),when you're at a party - he gave some rules for the man to please the lady (That's a man doing for the lady) and everything he wrote is for the man doing for the lady.
So my question was,what should the lady do for the man also,not in the aspect of cleaning,cooking and submissive now(that's family related).
He should have said As couples,do this for each other.
Maybe "you get your wife this and as a wife you get your husband this" "As a wife you do this for the husband and as husband you do this for the wife" .
So hope you get the point now and if you don't,then check his points again.
So it's not about fighting,I only asked a simple question.

Also you said "But that is exactly what you and some other men are doing on this thread. One small advice that the man gave, you people have started complaining"
I don't know what you have against those men and I don't know what they have against you but I'm not interested, that's between you and them.
I have seen men bashing ladies and ladies bashing men,I don't reply to any or try to correct any gender.
I mind my own business.


Also you said "so now that in a very rare scenario that a man is preaching to his fellow men, why do you have a problem with it"
I don't take advice from social media but I take advice from people as long as the person is not trying to be an hypocrite and says the real thing.
You tell me "do this for your lady" and you don't balance it with "do this for your man" then I will stand and leave.

Omo! Things dey happen o
Make u smile no loose guard yourself when one of your guy just enter dey smell Arab Money.
Pesin wey no dey work for Microsoft,wey no get any legit business,wey no get better skills dey change car like cloth and you dey carry your hand follow am.
I pray them no off your head one day use am do better ritual.
I pity the dude sha,make pesin no get mother from hell.
My mama go always clear me say,she no dey rush and make I no follow my friends wey I know say na gee dey row or go rush because I wan big like them.
Mama no dey compare me with my mates,instead she go say everything go work out well one day.
I thank God everyday for my mama and papa,if not maybe man sef for don miss Road when I never get sense.

Na photoshop be this nau
Why pesin go barb hair like this one,when the barber and barbee no be yabaleft patients.

Magnoliaa:
Did he say the husband alone should be doing everything? This is just one perspective he's sharing and FOR young men...how you people just say something just to feel smart sef. Boya it's childishness ni abi immaturity, I no know.

What happened to all of the advice women have been getting about cooking and washing and cleaning? What happened to all of the respect and submission that gets preached to women? Why are you forming brand new as if you have NEVER seen women being advised in marriages before?

90% of these advice are always directed at women, yet when you see a rare man, 5% of the time advising his fellow men, you people will still be shaking and want women to be dragged into it.

Abeg! Ordinary respect,be submissive and very few points that Mrs Adeboye said tha time e get some reply some girls dey give back then and she never even write epistles like this.
"I can't cook,I can't clean,we are equal,I should be treated like a baby and live baby lifestyle,he should get me this,get me that because I am a queen and I know my worth" hope they all sound familiar to you ba?
Let's stop with the hypocrisy, any small do like this for your men many ladies will flinch and start yapping nonsense on social media.
A man came out to write epistles about what should be done in marriage because he's celebrating 30 years anniversary and everything he said was how a man should do everything he wrote,without even dishing up to 3 points of what a woman should do for her man.
If it was a woman saying that, I am 100% most of the women hailing this man will you bash the lady as being a slave and type other jargons.
Also this nonsense Men Vs Women,
Women vs Men,
Misandrists vs Misogynists,
Redpillers vs feminisms,
That you people do here on nairaland I hate it and don't want to be involved.
I only asked what should the woman do when the writer wrote all that for the man or do you see me bashing women in my write up?
You kids can do the gender war but I don't want to be involved.

Magnoliaa:
Did he say the husband alone should be doing everything? This is just one perspective he's sharing and FOR young men...how you people just say something just to feel smart sef. Boya it's childishness ni abi immaturity, I no know.

What happened to all of the advice women have been getting about cooking and washing and cleaning? What happened to all of the respect and submission that gets preached to women? Why are you forming brand new as if you have NEVER seen women being advised in marriages before?

90% of these advice are always directed at women, yet when you see a rare man, 5% of the time advising his fellow men, you people will still be shaking and want women to be dragged into it.

Abeg! Ordinary respect,be submissive and very few points that Mrs Adeboye said tha time e get some reply some girls dey give back then and she never even write epistles like this.
"I can't cook,I can't clean,we are equal,I should be treated like a baby and live baby lifestyle,he should get me this,get me that because I am a queen and I know my worth" hope they all sound familiar to you ba?
Let's stop with the hypocrisy, any small do like this for your men many ladies will flinch and start yapping nonsense on social media.
A man came out to write epistles about what should be done in marriage because he's celebrating 30 years anniversary and everything he said was how a man should do everything he wrote,without even dishing up to 3 points of what a woman should do.
If it was a woman saying that, I am 100% most of the women hailing this man will you bash the lady as being a slave and type other jargons.

Haha! I'm looking at potential Olympic athletes here o
Usain bolt and Okagbare no do pass this one.

But omo! Prostitution no be the way o
Learn skills,be patient, be contented and everything will surely fall into place soon.

Dj! 1 bottle of palmwine for me
Barman! Play me"Stop hoeing around" by Donald trump and Tiwa Savage.

Haha! You mean dem cut off the head of a strong man and use am dey play monkey post for pitch? Obara Jesus!
This one brutal pass Squid game season 1 and 7 o

No join cult,you say no
No join cult,you say life without ruggedity No sweet
No join cult,you say you wan make them fear and respect you
No join cult,you say a cry for one must be a cry for all
No join cult,you say no be cult na brotherhood of wise men
No join cult,you say na association of brothers wey dey deliver brothers.
No problem,as you lay your chair na so you go sleep on it.

Dj! 2 kegs of palmwine for me
Barman! Play me "One Man Down" by Davido and Kanye west.

Police talk say she no commit suicide, mama wan use that format escape from the country.
She too go die and burn noni.

DukeNija:
You no get faith?

I no get
Pesin wey go buy 60m car must have nothing less than 400m

Na mistake I use open this thread
No vex

Awww you've gotten yourself an obsessive Ogbanje,so romantic .
Brother flee from people that are too obsessive or jealous, they are ticking bomb waiting to go off any minute.
People like that reeks of low self esteem,insecurity and trust issue.
Flee like that dude that slapped our igwe while he was sleeping inside the Palace, run as far as your legs can carry you.
But you can also try and talk to her also maybe she will listen,
Na your choice.

Dj! 2 kegs of palmwine with peak milk for me
Barman! Play me "na so e dey start" by Kelvin Hart and Pasuma.

Lol people like this dude has no sense of loyalty but since our politicians lack loyalty and honesty also, he is just the perfect match for their party.
Normally if naija na better country hand suppose touch am wella for saying he be the founder of 1milli boys.
Saw one of his video shaking some dude,it looks like eiye fraternity kinda of handshake but probably it is fellow 1 million boys members.

Dj! 2 calabash of cold palmwine for me
Barman! Play me "birds of the same feather" by Mr Ibu and Rihanna.

ImaIma1:
Lol don't take it to heart. Even my phone...I wake up to see it charged after I fall asleep with it in my hands. I hardly have to worry about buying chargers.

It's the same way he doesn't have to tell me he needs hot water to bath when it's cold. Or he hardly ever feels whether we are out of food stuff or not. He always gets something to eat.

There are some silent codes and things couple should do for each other to make life more bearable.

You do stuffs for each other and that's how it should be.
Not like the husband should be doing everything.

2 days ago,wife carry petrol station nack am for him husband head and use matches burn am till he die for oshogbo .
Today husband don turn Anthony Joshua beat his wife till she no breathe again.
Something is definitely wrong somewhere, should I say the youths are messed up unlike the old folks or what?
Rip to the lady

Dj! No bring me anything, this news na bad one.
Barman! Play me " what's going on sef" by 2pac and Desmond tutu.

Are you on drugs bro?

Cesclxg:
Like I said. It gets old. But I earn that much because I work for a foreign company remotely.

Alright then

Cesclxg:
And I have a #36 mil per annum job. Yet, I am writing my IELTS exams this week. The money is over-rated. You have it and you want more.

36milion job and you're not satisfied ?
Make I send account chief,make you bless me out of the 36million?

The only problem now is the bitterness and toxicity some of you carry with you is clouding your reasoning.
A girl created a thread about how marrying foreign men is better than marrying Nigerian men some weeks ago.
Now you're here saying Nigerian men treat white ladies better because you heard just 1 story online.
Thats reeks of insecurity and low self esteem fr.

See if Nigerian men are not okay for your please get yourself a foreign man and be happy
And if Nigerian women are not okay then get yourself a foreign woman and be happy.

A man can treat you bad regardless of your race and a woman can treat you bad regardless of your race either.

Well as long as they have committed the crime then they should face the music.
Abeg no send them to prison,death by electric shock or hanging will be better.
These ones have showed the attribute of a wild animal and they must not be allowed In the human community anymore.

Dj! No bring me anything this news no sweet
Barman! Play me "The Devil Incarnates" by Didier Drogba and Emma Watson.

Lol I don't understand and will never understand why people use drugs.
I know life can be cruel and hard but drugs won't solve it and it is even more stupid when people using drugs and harmful stuffs as a form of celebration and enjoying life.
Like what's wrong with buying better peppersoup and palmwine to enjoy yourself instead of buying molly.
Na una sabi sef abeg do drugs everyday, do it 24/7 infact do it every minute of your life please.

Dj! 2 keg of palmwine, 1 for me and 1 for this Op.
Barman! Play me"E go soon clear for your eyes" by Robert Mugabe and Sheyi shay.

Abeg!!!