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izonborn098:
You can make ur statement without insulting others... People talk from experience the same way u also have ur own experiences... If people reject ur sisters and daughters because they have a fail relationship/marriage i hope u will understand better...
They are single moms and not killers' they don't force anybody to marry them' life is all about choice...

fvck foolish experiences! in most cases, it doesn't end well... my sisters are well vast in these relationship games.. in fact I lecture them day in day out... everyone have his or her own life to live, if you make mistakes due to your foolishness, you have yourself to blame... even me as your brother won't be there to save you because you were warned...

Samantha124:
Well, if they feel they can handle it, then they can go for it.

until they get burnt, they now come back to nairaland crying and making long posts, begging for advice... most men are led by their dicks...

Samantha124:
I'm not a man, but I would never date a single father, especially if the baby mama is still alive.

it seems you're more sensible that the so called "men" that commented up there... some where even saying it shows she's "matured and responsible"... most men just don't have sense, they think with their dick.. why was she not matured for the guy that impregnate her? why did she leave him? why was she not matured enough to know that spreading pussy like onana is an act of irresponsibility? why was she not matured enough to understand that nothing beats chastity? why was she not matured enough to keep her purity? why was she not matured enough to not ride huge amount of dicks until the pregnancy finally stuck after several attempts to abort proved abortive? you dress like olosho all year long deceiving yourself that you're now woke, which type of men do you think will approach you?? your body your choice abi? ehn carry your cross alone naa...

the only single mothers I have pity for are those that lost their husband through natural means like accident, illness or issues of domestic violence... or maybe cases of genuine rape incidents, not fake stories as many modern women portray these days... other than that, a single mother shouldn't expect any commitment from a sane man... even a lion don't raise another lion's cubs...

giving your commitment to a hoe is another thing, giving your commitment to a olosho single mother is one of the fastest way to reach 6 feet below the ground...

GodWrites:
The irony is that op is still poor

how does this correlates with the post? truly, stupid people don't know they are stupid, just like dead people don't know they are dead either... caveadullam, well done...

nlfpmod, Seun, Dominique, this is front page worthy... this growing menace has to be curbed or else, everyone will be put at risk by the evils it perpetrates...

Caaz:
Cut...not barb denreledave bush man.

What do you expect when parents have turned teenagers to bread winners?
You see parents shouting woah woah woah like ambulance when these teenagers bring home their I'll gotten loots.

exactly, this is another great point... most parents put unnecessary pressure on their children, most especially the male child... some foolish parents will even compare their child with another's... "can't you see your mate" and blah blah bullshit... foolish dad and mom, is your own mate not Dangote and Bill Gates?? am I the cause of your misfortune? why putting the unnecessary pressure on me? is my own mates not dead as well? these are the thoughts the child occupy himself/herself with until he/she eventually succumbs to pressure... if he can't take it anymore, he commits suicide...

they smile when a child bring something to them irrespective of what he or she does to get the dough, they demean the child who brings nothing and makes his effort worth seems fruitless... some foolish parents led their children on the path of doom... I don't know if it's poverty mentality or any other thing... some parents are just pathetic... other times, it's simply just greed... nothing more... lack of contentment and irresponsibility.. no readiness to work, laziness and procrastination...

quite unfortunate, I've heard and experience many similar cases as well.. there is no shortcut to success... the thing is that many want to walk a 10 years journey in under a month, tell me how that kind of person won't engage in evil deeds to achieve his or her goals... men dey do fraud, ritualist and kidnapping... we renamed fraud to yahoo, renamed olosho and prostitution to hookup and escorts, indirectly and directly encouraging it the more, tell me how people won't willingly do it.. very soon, people will be more vocal on the type of evil deeds they carry out and we will praise them for it..

social media is another evil on its own... the lies and acting people see on the net encourages them the more to partake in these evil actions... no quality thoughts, no innovative actions... just the way to kill, defraud, and scam one another.. this is why as a person, you need to be knowledgeable enough to quickly identify when you're dealing with these type of people.... the thing is that, if I realise your love for money is through the roof and you're also addicted to gambling and also do fraud, I will automatically sideline you and put you on my blacklist... nothing can ever make me have any business to do with you... and when you talk to these so called foolish Yahoo boys and oloshos, you'll hear something like it's all for survival or the government is bad blah blah blah, is it same system that other people also does legitimate businesses? it's only a foolish and lazy person that blames other people for their own failures..

there's one also popular here on nairaland which many people know, and he doesn't even hide what he does, slawomir or whatever the shit he call himself, he does fraud and still have effrontery to always showcase himself... some people even hail him, I guess they are his fellow foolish and diabolic friends... these is the debauchery we have to deal with these days... if you have ear, you better hear, because these people have no conscience or whatsoever, most of them don't even believe in God, so they do these evils without batting an eye... they believe they will eat their cake and have it... as time heals everything, time also reveal everything... with time, their doom will come...

quite unfortunate, I've heard and experience many similar cases as well.. there is no shortcut to success... the thing is that many want to walk a 10 years journey in under a month, tell me how that kind of person won't engage in evil deeds to achieve his or her goals... men dey do fraud, ritualist and kidnapping... we renamed fraud to yahoo, renamed olosho and prostitution to hookup and escorts, indirectly and directly encouraging it the more, tell me how people won't willingly do it.. very soon, people will be more vocal on the type of evil deeds they carry out and we will praise them for it..

social media is another evil on its own... the lies and acting people see on the net encourages them the more to partake in these evil actions... no quality thoughts, no innovative actions... just the way to kill, defraud, and scam one another.. this is why as a person, you need to be knowledgeable enough to quickly identify when you're dealing with these type of people.... the thing is that, if I realise your love for money is through the roof and you're also addicted to gambling and also do fraud, I will automatically sideline you and put you on my blacklist... nothing can ever make me have any business to do with you... and when you talk to these so called foolish Yahoo boys and oloshos, you'll hear something like it's all for survival or the government is bad blah blah blah, is it same system that other people also does legitimate businesses? it's only a foolish and lazy person that blames other people for their own failures..

there's one also popular here on nairaland which many people know, and he doesn't even hide what he does, slawomir or whatever the shit he call himself, he does fraud and still have effrontery to always showcase himself... some people even hail him, I guess they are his fellow foolish and diabolic friends... these is the debauchery we have to deal with these days... if you have ear, you better hear, because these people have no conscience or whatsoever, most of them don't even believe in God, so they do these evils without batting an eye... they believe they will eat their cake and have it... as time heals everything, time also reveal everything... with time, their doom will come...

wonder233:
Fanatic, go and sit down. If Almighty Allah desires everyone to be of one religion, He would have made it so. If He also desires that people of different religions should not mix, He would also have made it so.
You fanatics are so passionate about your religion and not about your creator. You serve your religion and not your creator. If you were not born in the part of the country you were born in, you won't be in the religion you profess currently, and like others, you are only passionately reinforcing what you came to meet.
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can you explain further because I don't understand what you wrote...

op, for your peace of mind, find someone who shares in your beliefs and purpose.. but if you don't mind, you can move on, but don't come crying for help when the feelings fade...

talented321:
The problem with the relegion folks is the moment you tell them you don't believe in their religions they immediately tag u a devil, bad man or criminal. My man the rate at which our people are brainwashed they now think without their religion your marriage, business or life will not prosper and it is will bad. This people don't know that success don't have anything to do with religion rather it is hard work and connection..
I think there are women who are ready to marry if you don't force your atheism on them 100%, but as for me i don't like any woman who behave as if all her life and success depend on the church.

@ bolded, sure you're right... religion is just a factor, just like politics... people can be brainwashed by anything, this is why you see some members would be asked to do the unthinkable by their leaders and you would see them do it... this is dogmatism and manipulation... it's not religion that permits this, religion even want you to think for yourself but the issue is, most religion followers don't and they don't even make researches, they expect their leaders to do the thinking for them, and that my friend is what we call dogmatism... sure religion is not what makes someone prospers, in fact, it's in the holy books that prosperity doesn't have to do with that... Religion is not only meant for that... If there was no religion, most people will have no fear of consequences... they will delve into evil works without batting an eyelid... everywhere will scatter...

God can have complete hatred for a person and still blesses him, it doesn't change anything with Him... even Satan does things for people... this is why I laugh at people who claim blessings or riches online when they don't know the source... the only thing God doesn't give to the ordinary folk is faith... and this faith has nothing to do with dogmatism, God doesn't want you to be foolish and not think for yourself... being religious is different from dogmatism, dogmatism is believing your pastor is much greater than your husband or anything your pastor or imam says is the truth and final... dogmatism is what makes some members use their life savings for their pastor while still living in penury.. dogmatism is when you believe your pastor or imam is the next thing to God... dogmatism is saying that God wants you to oppress those who don't share in your beliefs, dogmatism is what led to extremism, and this in turn led to terrorism...

the op is likely an atheist, the best thing for him is to find an atheist as well or someone who doesn't take religion seriously to avoid issues in the future especially when kids are involved.... being religious and not wanting to marry someone from other religion is not dogmatism... it's a very good reason... if I'm a Bhuddist, I would marry a Bhuddist as well and I won't be offended when my partner eat meats...

idady2njsd:
i am muslim and my wife is a christian, we re leaving in peace and hormony she goes to her while i go to my mosques the only issued we always have is about the children, but we never fought over the issued, we always talks about the matter, very soon we will come to conclusion. i love my wife she love me as well

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I will speak to you from an Islamic point of view... generally speaking, there are many genuine reasons why Islam frowns on such marriages... unless she converted to your religion, then Islam frowns at marrying an unbeliever in the Deen... and it's quite a good reason as well...

supposedly you died before her, all your kids will revert back to her religion, and in the sight of your Lord, this is a grave misconduct , all this i love you, she loves you won't save you... when you're choosing a partner, you're not only choosing for yourself, but for your kids and their future...

even if God spare your life, your kids might end up confused and might later revert back to her own religion, and this might break your heart..children mostly generally incline themselves to what their women follows, this is why you should be very careful who you choose to be your wife.. you might not be the one who takes the Deen seriously, but if you fear for your own future and theirs, you would fear for the outcome... that's if you're truly God fearing or you fear His wrath.. but if you're one of those claiming woke muslims, then I have nothing to say to you... and since your wife is not inclined towards your religion, do you know the outcome and consequences when it comes to willing or sharing property when you're no longer on this earth?

you're one of the men who thinks emotionally, you're not the first person to fall in love and won't be the last.... some of the ones greater than your love ended in divorce, so have you thought of this possibility and the effects it will have on your kids?? or na still I love you, she love me too?? now you seems blinded by love, all this will seem like nonsense to you, but e go soon clear for your eyes...

from your story, it seems you guys still have issues on which religion your kids should themselves adapt to, this is just the beginning of the problem, that love go soon clear for your eyes when you're asked to account for that decision you took years back... maybe not in this life, but in the next...

even if you're a idol worshipper, find another idol worshipper to marry or someone who's ready to convert to what you believe in... when it comes to marriage, leave emotions out of it and think logically before you dive in... love is not what sustain marriages... the risks is much greater than the illusions of enjoyment in it... find someone who aligns with your interests and beliefs for your own peace of mind and for the future of your kids...

apart from religion, marry someone who aligns with your interests and dreams... even if it's the person occupation... if you know your wife is an actress, then you should know all the things involved in being an actress, don't come out crying when she starts kissing random people on screen and eventually cheat on you and make you father another man's kids... religion is not the only thing that should be taken seriously, there are many other things as well, marriage is not a joke... it's better to be single than dive into marriage while leaving your brain behind... love won't save you when problem arrives... love is just the emotion to attract people to each other, not the emotion needed for a successful relationship, and the thing is that most people can't differentiate between love and lust, and that will be the cause of their downfall...

I8id:
Honestly I enjoyed my Note 9, solid screen after many fall no single crack and I do my everyday task swiftly. I had to swap it when the battery started draining. Xiaomi Note series from 7 to Note 10pro is well-built

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Redmi note 9 still going strong 3 years going... I rate Xiaomi hardware 100% and their software 65%... Still, quite a solid phone. Does my tasks seamlessly...

Jeon:
So funny 😂 😂


So parents should leave the boy child in a wrong way right?


You will be among the persons, in fact you did b3 their leader in crucifying her for keeping the pregnancy and stepping in the single motherhood. She don't want to be a single mother, so allow her to be.

I think you people actually type with your asses.. they should have dumped you into the bin as well.. you guys see everything as cruise, literally everything! if she doesn't want to end up as a single mother or whatever the case may be, does that warrant killing a barely year old child?? is that the justification..?

everything has consequences in life, you can't just make a decision and say you want to get away with the consequences attached to it; whether good or bad... you know the consequences, yet you still went ahead, so who are you to blame...??

and to that first guy that made a comment saying because some guys don't encourage single motherhood? why should they? do you know the damages caused by most single mothers who didn't have a strong masculine figure to guide them and the child... check the atrocities attached to the dangers of single motherhood to the family involved and society at large, you would totally discourage the ideas of having more single mothers... just check the stats and see how mentally damaged children raised by single mothers are... most of them become a menace in the society... the only single mothers I pity are those that married legally and lost their husband due to a situation beyond their control, like accident, war or probably domestic violence, other than that, I don't pity any single mother because everyone is solely responsible for the choices he or she makes in life... only a fool will blame the other for his or her shortcomings...

irrespective of how the child end up in the bin, until we go back to the past, shun premarital sex, immorality, issues like this will still linger on... when something like this happen, blame the party involved because they both made they choice and they are to face the penalty... when she was having unprotected sex all about, opening net like onana, what did she think would happen? until marriage becomes sacred to sex, non-virgins are been castigated, people found having premarital sex are been punished, then this will never end... until then, everyone should own up to their own misfortune because they brought it upon themselves...

do me a favour, stop taking women you're not married to on dates, channel that energy and money to something more beneficial than woman you're not responsible for and watch your life grow.. the men fvcking these women you're trying to impress are not taking them on dates...

blaquemyc:
If this had happened in Nigeria, some white ass worshippers would have told us how this will never happen in the west, how law abiding and honest the white man is, how they would have all waited patiently at home until the glitch is fixed before going to the bank. But una see am ba, na Oyibo people dey queue for free money laiso. Nobody no like awoof.

exactly, that's how brainwashed the blacks are.

fourboys:
Una don start this nonsense again... Everybody for nairaland dey UK now

and what's there? going to the UK is not an achievement! eliminate this mindset... all that matters is your business there and what you plan to do there... most times, most people just go there to make it look like they've finally made it, it's just an upgrade to the slavery system... work and work and work while giving all back to the system...

and to the topic, black women there can't be more radiant because they realise they have to work for their own money, equal rights they say... here, women don't need to do anything, just wear wig and dress like a grade one olosho, Nigerian simps will take it from there...

Larrykaysail:
Dick cap, how sure are you lol

if you don't know how to comment with respect, leave me out of your mentions..

Elon, go show that American puppet how it's done...

if all the simps are removed from this world, the world will be a better place, the women will sit right and everything will be in order... simps are what caused the downfall of civilization, increase in damaged and irresponsible women...

simps should be sentenced to death, they are dangerous to themselves, their friends, their family and the nation as a whole...

that boy is on a path of no return, very soon he will stop doing what he does and become addicted to more drugs... maybe he will start inhaling balloon next.. seems his cousin influenced him... seriously I don't even get what people see in smoking, I don't see the enjoyment in it.. you turn your body into an exhaust pipe because you want to feel among... please help me define foolishness once again...

his mom should try to get close to him, she shouldn't wait until she catch him red-handed before taking action, by that time it might be too late..

ikorodu area is quite dangerous... he might be a scammer or someone that plans to do harm... count your losses and move on.. you've learnt your lesson...

it will be a shame if Nigeria loses, they had all opportunity to win!

esemes256:
I don't fancy Nigeria winning a penalty shootout
If they want to win this game, they have to do it NOW.

exactly, seems these guys don't understand the implications of going into penalties... penalties takes a different toll on players and they might start missing... penalties is a pure game of luck... they should do it now ..

maestro299:
Nigeria should be careful. I have no fear when they're the underdogs in a game. The problem comes when they're expected to take the initiative and win. That's when the Super Falcons begin to misbehave...

NIGERIA IS NOT THE UNDERDOG UNLESS THAT'S WHAT THEY CHOOSE TO BELIEVE...

with England now handicapped, the Nigerian women should come out all guns blazing... they have themselves to blame if they lose the game at this point, they have no excuse to lose... the pressure is now on the England's side...

fergieboy:
Female nairalanders are not even commenting lol

So much for women supporting women

what do they know about football? if it's BBNaija, K-drama and twerking and rest debauchery shows, they will take the leading position... if not that men took an interest in women's football, who gives a fvck about women's football?? you wan compare the views of men's football to women's football?? when it comes to tasking topics and subjects like sports, analysis, politics, please leave women out of it..

Pojomojo:
The game plan is working

even Guardiola with master plan sef still dey stand up dey motivate players... which kind game plan go make you sit down as a coach? this is football, things can change in the blink of an eye... if England should first Nigeria to score, you go see say England ball go change...

Suspect33:
Women can't keep emotions out of anything they do, even commentating. If you leave these commentators, they'd enter the pitch to play for England. There's no neutrality in their comments so far

this is why women shouldn't be allowed in taking logical decisions that will decide the fate or direction of important affairs... their emotions will always win over them...

happney65:
Whatever happens at the end of the day. Our girls have displayed good footballing.

this is a loser's talk... good footballing alone isn't what's needed to triumph, they need the winner's mindset... nor be their mates dey win the cup..?? they should always have the mentality to win and not see the Whites as anything superior to them... they should be mentally and physically ready to thrash anyone they face irrespective of the "imagined" difficulty...

this one wey Nigeria just dey hit woodwork dey miss chances, they should get their shit right because even Madrid hit woodwork 5 times against Barcelona and they ended up losing 3-nil... they should utilise the chance they have now before it's too late...