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slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Rubbish

This children should be more creative instead of always wasting thier time doing this remake and recreation shit

what are you creative about with your time other than scamming people? is that where your own creativity lies??... just imagine who's spiting thrash!

lmafo...

a case of kettle calling pot black... the earlier people know that the UN and the US and NATO in general are the real devils that needs to be fought the better... they have perpetrated more evils that anyone in history... they are the virus that needs to be killed from spreading further.. they are the fire that needs to be put out...

US and UN and whatever bullshit they call themselves have done much worse... do we start naming the African, Arab or Asian countries they've destroyed? 911??

Do we even want to talk about how they use the media to brainwash naive people or how they are always the countries who always appear as the "angels"... lmao gods bless America indeed.. bunch of clowns and deranged mofos! US are the real devils...

Meerahbel:
Rule 1 NEVER woo a guy no matter how cute or the feelings you have for him
Rule 2 Give him subtle signs
Rule 3 DO not forget 1 & 2

I support this... if giving him clear signs doesn't make him approach you, then leave him and move on...

but it doesn't change the fact that most women can't handle rejection and they tend to overestimate their sense of worth... most are self-deluded... ask a girl who's 3 to rate herself, she will rate herself 10... this delusion sometimes makes them desperate or take the wrong decision and they won't bother improving themselves where necessary...

a girl who's 3 expects a guy who's 10 to accept her and if he doesn't, she automatically says he's immature and not strong enough to handle a "real woman" lmfaoo... this same girl has some guys she has rejected without remorse... my dear, you don't have the monopoly to friendzone or reject... men too can do all these... it's just common with women because it's mostly men who does the chasing and approaching... men who know their worth and value play the game very smoothly... men, if she's not up to your standards, dump nonsense... don't settle for less...

as expected... when it comes to stupidity and foolishness, a particular gender always take the leading position...

nokspos:
There's no good alternative available for marriage. If you did not marry, you will eventually live a miserable life, you will get old and lonely, all those young girls preventing you from settling down will get old and start their own family and the upcoming generation will be too young for you, they will call you uncle before you open your mouth to say hi.

A time is coming you will need someone to trust your life with, you will need someone to cook for you when you are tired or sick, you will need a child of your own, a small version of yourself and you will need someone to help the child with his or her assignment and olosho does not provide any of these service. Inshort when they cook, its better you pray very hard before eating it. also, if a male chef cooks for you for too long , you turn gay , and if a female chef cooks for you for too long .... you know!

Sex is no longer free , you would wish to personalize it, at this point , if the same olosho comes everyday, she starts seeing herself as a wife and if you keep changing hands, you start risking and exposing yourself to diseases. At age 40 above , sex is no longer a priority since your telesterion level has dropped, yet you still need it once in a while and you won't be able to match up with the strength of the younger generation. At this point, all you just want is a good food, good sleep, good movies and maybe inbetween attend some PTA meeting and talk with old folks because even music is no longer the same since asake and wizkid are now older and no longer sing about buddy call. All these feelings starts at 40s not 60s but the problem is you can't start preparing at 40 , you have to prepare from 20s or 30s

you're a wise man, this is why when a certain moniker created a thread of babymamas, I remember telling the person that he has only stated the advantages of it without stating the disadvantages...

you can't keep balling or chilling your whole life.. when you get to a certain level in life, most of your friends would have left you, either through death, conflicts or facing their own life problems or businesses... you'll be left alone most especially if you don't have someone to stay with... this is why sometimes, men like Ned marry more than one wife in case some certain wife left them at their weak age... even if you're rich, you can't trust an outsider to handle your business like your progenies... you've worked your whole life to amass wealth and start businesses, would you let all that go to ruin when you have no descendants to leave it for or continue the business you've started? even with that, an complete stranger or an outsider can't take care of you the way your family would...

in everything in life, as you consider the advantages, do consider the disadvantages as well... always plan till the end... the most important thing in life for a man is being financially stable or rich, having a good health and a wonderful family... there's nothing as awesome as that...!

@ op, exactly, all what you said is the truth.. the thing is that you don't need to be married to know all these... if you have been in a couple of lasting relationships where you guys live as couples or you have parents who were together for a long time, you'll know some of these... my experiences, other people's experiences and rolling with wise sages have taught me alot.. this is why when we discuss about relationship matters here, wise people will automatically relate with what's being said while the naive ones with no life experience whatsoever are the ones quick to counter others... as the wise ones usually say, "the wise learn from other people's experiences, the foolish ones wait to experience it themselves”... life is the greatest teacher, everyone will eventually learn...

You see that your number 12 ehn, back then, when I see my P-Man get angry for no reason sometimes, I automatically understand his frustration.. sometimes you'll just wonder what you did wrong... this is why they say, you won't know what your father is passing through until you become one yourself... I see through his frustration and I understand... It's just a way of venting all his pains out... if the children doesn't turn out the way they imagined or turned out bad, that's another level of frustration as well... if you have/had responsible parents or guardians who looked after you, you don't know the free gift life has handed you.. so many things we take for granted...

Marriage is mostly about responsibilities and less pleasures, if you marry wrong, then it will be full of problems with no pleasure... this is why we advise men here to be very careful before jumping into it, but seems simps will always act like simps, some people cannot be saved, even if you drum it into their ears from now to eternity... as I've said, life will surely teach everyone...

as a man, always remember, all other things being equal, marriage is mostly about responsibilities for you and less pleasures while it's the opposite for the woman... before you get married, make sure you have multiple sources of income, know your wife deeply, plan the number of kids you plan to have and fully cater for, don't bring innocent kids to suffer and make sure you're always watching your back...

Marriage is hell with the wrong person, and quite an adventure with the right person... lastly, marriage is less about love and more of commitment... if you're not ready to fight, defend and commit to your partner, if you think marriage is all those k-drama and romantic bullshits you've brainwashed yourself with, you're better off single!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
The prayer is not gonna be answered

First of all that imaginary being up there in the sky does not exist...humans are naturally dull and black man is worse...if you ask human what is keeping them alive they will quickly answer the grace of God
So what about the Forty thousands people that died in Turkey earthquake few months ago..does it mean there is no one among that Forty thousands people with the same grace of God

The white men really dealt with our forefathers to instill that God idea into thier mind and they were so foolish to accept and pass it on thier children


Christianity, religion and God is an embarrassing human practice of convincing the mind to ignore common sense, logic, reason and evidence while blindly believing in ancient fairy tales. It encourages its followers to value faith over facts and reality. It makes its followers proud instead of being ashamed of thier ignorance

Let me watch some young Sheldon series..that is the only little boy that gives me joy

this is why you scam people abi? you and your peers right? because you believe you'll get away with it... don't worry, everyday for the thief.. continue... the day is coming when you'll want to vomit all the money you've amassed on fraud and spent carelessly making innocent people suffer... but by then, it will be too late because you had your time to repent and seek forgiveness but no you didn't... ignore this also as you've always does to similar warnings...

atheists are one of the worst beings on earth capable of perpetrating evil without conscience... don't worry, it's you, your deeds and your grave when you finally die... I hope you keep bombing in the grave as well...

Don't worry man, life will teach you...

1) Work remotely. (There are many sites and apps for this). Make research online. Google and AI tools is there for you

2) Write good contents and publish

3) Sell a product online, brand and market it

4) Learn a high income skill and monetize it

5) Publicise yourself and make the services you offer known

6) Become a content creator or YouTuber

it's because broke people love to impress other broke people this is why they stay broke... when you're truly rich, you don't need to impress others by posing with a bottle of drink...

does the drink increase IQ? No. Does it make you look rich? Yes. Does it make you rich? No! Does taking the drink means you're rich? NO!

Razgas:
lol be bold and confident...for a woman? Lol

okay be timid and weak then...

they are mostly for fun, not for a serious relationship...

fvckable not marriageable...

Razgas:
exactly

bro you're too straightforward, I know her mentality probably stink as well because she seems to be all those type of brainwashed mofos.., but that's not how you relate with women... learn game, learn to know how women think so you can know how to roll with them... someone you haven't seen and you've already started telling her your intention, haabaa... shey you never see woman before? you'll sound inferior to her sef...

bro, move on, learn game, forget about her, learn how women are wired, learn about the female nature then go for a new fish... be bold and confident...

Runnerzz:
Bro both the supposed good ones sef join for this matter. Woman no fit carry wetin man dey carry make them no spite u or provoke u knowingly or unknowingly. U must chop insult. 1 month too far sef. 2 weeks u done dey smell and look like sh1t to her. It's never advised to put urself in that situation. And if as a man u find urself there cos sometimes sh1t happens, just try to be scarce by all means necessary because that see finish nothing pain reach am

The insult the man will receive will even be much worse especially if she married him solely for his resources and not per genuine desire... if she's a good woman who has genuine desire for him, she might try to endure with him for a while to get back on his feet, but the man should not sleep on it and try as much to get back on his feet to repay back his "loans"... sooner or later she will also "snap" and starts disrespecting him... women can't handle their own problems let alone a man's...

and when the man later get back on his feet, he shouldn't tolerate the attitude of “I was there when you had nothing from her”, especially if he has returned all the favour back...

Namdeenero:
I was there for you when you had nothing 😂😂

that's one of their favourite song also... they feed him for a day they will feel they now own you... this is why as a man, if a wife does something for you or buys something in the house that's not for herself, make sure you give her the money for it... always see everything she does for you as a loan and with something attached... she rarely does it for free.. their selfish nature will later come to play...

now that you understand that women don't love men, that they are only in for what they can get out of it and not to satisfy you, you will start making conscious decisions...

the fastest way to die when dealing with women is to be a simp and a weak man...

"my husband money is for us, my own money is for myself alone" that's their favourite song...

you're wise... I thought you would prove to her that you're "romantic" and a "real man"...

dump that asshøle... person wey you never marry wey she wan find out how much you dey earn? as per wetin? even my own parents sef never ask me that kind question before...

you've talked about the mere advantages of it, now talk about the disadvantages..

and true, in countries in the West like the US for example, marrying under the shackles of the law is totally unadvisable... the best in this case is to have a girlfriend living the position of a wife, just like the method Cristiano employed... this will put the power button into your hands as the man... she will try as much to be in her best character...

As much as a man is important in a child's life, the woman is also equally important... the marriage institution is corrupted and made unfavourable for men, until the conditions favours men who mostly does a lot to keep the marriage working and stable, people will avoid getting married or having a stable relationship...

EmptyGarden:
You’re a very confident mumu man! Women go really like your type. You were sharing room with an unrepentant olosho, then God delivered you… and you’re still trying to go back to Egypt?! Ha!

it's just another episode of simps and their wails... I enjoy reading the stories of foolish men...

unless he asks for forgiveness and seek amendment for his ways, such children doesn't usually go far or end well in life, especially if the parents sacrificed everything for the child... it's such a shame to deny your parents in front of those who don't give 2 fvcks about you...

why is this in politics section?

lol when a woman no longer finds a man, she says she doesn't need a man or marriage/relationship isn't for everyone.. this mostly comes after taking all the good men that came into her life for granted or hoeing her life away thinking that she's enjoying being free and liberated.... she thinks life begins and ends with her beauty and assets lol, this is why she doesn't see the need to improve herself if need be...

lol like someone up there says, lot of people are not marriageable or have the proper attitude and personality needed for a good relationship/marriage... madame you might be the problem yourself... fix yourself...

UyaiIncomparabl:
You are dense and maybe a boy in his bloom of youth. What are your own red flags? Have you sat down to make an analysis of what your red flags and flaws are? Are you perfect yourself? People who are quick to point out other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people.

the internet really gave you guys the opportunity to talk anyhow... I don't blame you, but I would leave you a warning... recheck my moniker, let it be the last time you'll quote me telling me such nonsense...

1Sharon:
That's what I'm trying to say. So why do men always talk about women doing this to them. When they friend zone themselves?

It's for this same reason women are naive and think that men can be friends with us because they say "let's be friends" but men don't believe they can be just friends with women

a woman and a man can't be just friends... sooner or later, feelings and emotions will get in the way... the man saying a woman friendzoned him is actually the one who volunteered to be put in that position, so in cases like this, they should blame themselves and not the women...

1Sharon:
The topic is about why WOMEN put MEN in the friendzone. You already made it about gender.

Like i said before, It doesn't always happen like that.

Men intentionally place themselves there for ulterior motives.

sure, they intentionally place themselves there thinking one day she will eventually consider me... "let me be nice to her, let me be kind, I don't want her to see that it's only sex I'm after"... and that's the begining of their failure...

1Sharon:
Lol. You can miss me with the victim mentality of men when it comes to friendzoning.

There are some men that get rejected by women and ask if they can instead be friends in a desperate attempt to maintain some connection.

What about men that pretend to be a woman's friend knowing they truly wanted something deeper? What's that all about?

Men place themselves in the friendzone , so please.

I agree with all what you said especially your last line... men who don't have values or know their worth place themselves in the friendzone... men who knows their worth can't be found in such position... alpha fvcks, beta bucks... weak men lose, powerful men win!.

Kobicove:
Since you do not see her in your future the earlier you tell her the better so that you don't end up wasting her time

OP I second this advice, just let her go and do not waste her time if you feel she's not good enough for you... but remember, no woman is perfect.. just make your decision wisely...
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she wants to own you to herself, so that if you invites a new girl to your abode, the would want to leave due to a girls belonging... she will be possessive and extremely jealous.... just be careful with her sha, someone like that can be violent if you break up with them... I once dated someone like her also... you have to set boundaries, na you start that shirt from the start...

never let a woman feel too comfortable into thinking that she owns you... you're the man.. she's just a girl in love... her pairbonding capability is probably still on the high side...

if you can lie on something as simple as your birthday date, only God knows what else you are covering up for him... women will see a sensible man and will take him for a ride, later when they gets married to the man who doesn't care about them, they open their foul mouths into saying "all men, sorry, all women are scum" and later become frustrated evening newspaper feminists....

it is quite unfortunate...

if you can lie on something as simple as your birthday date, only God knows what else you are covering up for him... women will see a sensible man and will take him for a ride, later when they later gets married to the man who doesn't care about them, they open their foul mouths into saying "all men, sorry, all women are scum" and later become frustrated evening newspaper feminists....

it is quite unfortunate...

when you know your worth and value as a man, and see yourself as the prize, that's when you'll start seeing that men who chase women are nothing but pu$ssies...

when you know your worth, you realise that you only need to attract, not chase... you become the rejector and not the rejected... configure your mindset.. build your value... focus on yourself.

worldclass68:
U dey disturb ursef dey chase liabilities and wahala....

As per u question...I don't knw, cuz I never chase one before..nah them dey come, on top that, nah still wahala...nah u go be father mother uncle brother lawyer doctor teacher pastor Engineer counselor and ATM at the same time...


They no worth ham...

brother man, sometimes when I think of all these, I ask myself... all these because of what? pu$ssy?? naah, not me...

instead, I let pus$sy ass men do the chasing, while I do the digging... women are not worth chasing...