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RomanceRe: Girl Who Saved Her Toasters Number As Mugu 1 Gets The Shock Of Her Life by Reminderz: 10:06am On Jul 03, 2023
the girl is even kind to him... if I was the girl, I would have saved his number as Simpazee...

haha, the girl should have even saved his number as "love of my life" in order to rip him off wella... foolish men must get sense by force...
RomanceRe: Good Piece Of Random Advice by Reminderz: 8:26am On Jul 03, 2023
Number 2 is of utmost importance, most especially for men...
no one is coming to save men.. they have only themselves...
RomanceRe: As A Man What Value Does A Woman Add To Your Life Apart From Puna by Reminderz:
virtuous women will add values to your life... damaged women will add more problems to your life...

for example, virtuous women will make you realise how important you are as a man, they will lower your burdens, bring peace, reduce financial stress, make your kids well trained and much stronger, make you plan your finances well as a man, make you look more respectable and powerful, lessens your worries, make you spiritually and physically strong, and if other people have left you, they will act as a rock you can fall back on...

damaged women will bring the opposite to your life...
RomanceRe: Should I Stop Making This Married Woman Happy? by Reminderz: 8:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
thesilentman:
Tales?on a faceless forum?The last time i checked she's at number 17 on my married women conquest list.If you ain!t getting enough pussi,dont think everyone else doesnt.Advise if u want to cos am pretty hooked on this woman's puna.
you don't need advice man, you need help.. cool
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Runcie Mike Dies Hours After Preaching At A Burial by Reminderz: 8:54pm On Jul 02, 2023
it's better to live a good life and find out there's no God and life after death, than to live a bad life and realise that there's life after death, heaven and hell...

Death is the certainty every man must experience...
RomanceRe: Should I Stop Making This Married Woman Happy? by Reminderz: 8:48pm On Jul 02, 2023
probably another tales by moonlight...

anyways, you're not just fornicating, but with a married woman.. lmfao! I wish you the best... cool
RomanceRe: Seem I Have Contacted STI This Morning, I’m Scared by Reminderz: 4:46pm On Jul 02, 2023
TinubuShet:
As for me I don learn , na that useless slawomir dey give me liver say u must be infected before u become real nigga, I'm a fool
you be mumu, which advice person wey dey scam wan give you before? the two of una be mumu...
RomanceRe: Let Be Sincere, How Long Should The First Round Of Sex Last? by Reminderz: 3:44pm On Jul 02, 2023
Puss360:
Lols... Okay... Obviously, you don't support women working and earning a living...
By the way , I don't support men having more than one wife....
Clearly we aren't on the same page....
@ bolded, I can't find where I said that...

@ your second line, you don't support men having more than one wife legally but you support them having side chics or baby mamas abi? dey play...

well, men will still do what men are naturally inclined to do... a woman's opinion won't change this fact... cool
RomanceRe: Let Be Sincere, How Long Should The First Round Of Sex Last? by Reminderz: 3:00pm On Jul 02, 2023
Puss360:
Okay.. that true.... But my own concern is dat how will I know dat my man is a virginhuh
Coz it won't be fair let my man sample the whole world, while I remain a virgin 🙈
sexual exclusivity is not for men, in other words, virginity is not for men... men can cater to or marry more than one woman... so he might be a virgin to his first, but never his second or third wife... this is why a man has no hymen...

Note, I don't support men sleeping around, but I 1000% support men having more than one wife or woman they can cater to and as well train the kids...

you shouldn't be worried if your man is a virgin or not, you should be worried if he's responsible and a leader... someone who can serve as a role model to your kids...
RomanceRe: Let Be Sincere, How Long Should The First Round Of Sex Last? by Reminderz: 2:34pm On Jul 02, 2023
Puss360:
I dey like dis Kain thread.... 🙊🙊🙊...

We virgins dunno how long oo... 1mins sef too long for us... Lol
in as much that you might be joking or kidding, it's actually one of the advantages or benefit of marrying a virgin... I mean a true virgin in body and mind..

since she has no sexual experience, as long as she's attracted to you genuinely, she will be satisfied with her man... she doesn't know if sex should be one hour or 1 minutes... her pairbonding capability is also on the high side...
RomanceRe: Please, How Can She Cope? by Reminderz: 2:24pm On Jul 02, 2023
Tell your man to marry a second wife...

women should be happier with the idea of their husband having a second wife than risking their husbands having side chics, which is even more dangerous due to exposure to diseases and investment on their husbands part to their side chics more than them... it will reduce their stress and burdens and they will even have more time for themselves and businesses, but no, instead of them to see the positive side of it, they will rather go against it... smh

social media and the west have brainwashed women into taking the wrong path while painting it as the good one for them... they will rather be a baby mama than be a first wife... they will rather be a feminist with no man than be submissive.. we would see who would later end up bearing the brunt..
RomanceRe: Let Be Sincere, How Long Should The First Round Of Sex Last? by Reminderz:
without drugs, dangerous substance and herbs, all other things equal, sex especially the first round should not go for more than 5-7 minutes, I mean the actual penetration excluding the time used for romance or føreplay... and the rest rounds can come later...

but porn and media have destroyed our views and perspective on sex... this is why we want to imitate those we see acting for their own money... and because of that, a woman for example who has ridden multitudes of dicks from different men who took various substances to fvck her, will never be satisfied by a man who goes in natural... it has simply destroyed her psyche and this will make her unable to bond with her partner... cheating is inevitable in this case...

men who died in active cervix and took various substance to satisfy a hoe will be regretting it in their graves by now, or if they are lucky to be alive, will develop stroke or kidney problems later on... never go extreme lengths to act like an undertaker on the bed... there's no award for it...
RomanceRe: What Could This Be? (graphics Pic) by Reminderz: 11:12am On Jul 02, 2023
your village people don finally reason your matter...
RomanceRe: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Reminderz(op): 10:37am On Jul 02, 2023
Lisa001:
Met this lady on the road side by 10:30pm at night with a baby strapped on her back...she called me and said she came to look for a job and couldnt locate the person who.promised her the job....and she has no where to sleep...i was going through depression then cos my baby just died and her daughter is exact age as mine...i took.her in and days grew into month....along the line i came back from work one day to see a guy sleeping on my couch and she introduced as her elder bro...i knew she was lying but i played cool just cos her daughter brings baxk memories of my late child....i even had to dash her all my baby clothes and shoes and im always dropping money for her before i leave to work.
All she does is to stay at home and sleep...i was sleeping that day..when the guy asked her if i know?she immeadiately shushed the guy to keep quiet...she was always vomiting i sha know say she don get belle.....long story short came back one day to see my whole apartment empty the one wey pain me pass na my international passport wey i don dey process Japa


Human are wicked...
lesson learnt... never ever house a stranger.... do what you can do to help and let it end there....
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Prefer Being Baby Mamas Than Getting Married ? by Reminderz: 9:11am On Jul 02, 2023
no you don't quite get it... women will rather share a high value man, than go for a struggling guy... they don't prefer to be baby mamas to the struggling guy, only to the guy who has things going for him...

they would rather be a 10th wife to a rich or Powerful man than be a first wife to a struggling guy if they have the choice.. this is why women don't love men...
RomanceRe: We Have Beautiful Daughters. Pls Come & Marry Them - Mom Begs Men (Video) by Reminderz: 9:06am On Jul 02, 2023
iHateFraudsters:
True that.

We're no longer persuasive.

If a girl says no, we leave am immediately for the next person.

Unlike before.
forget all these 9ja women talk... women are the same, whether home or abroad... what differs amongst them is the level of entitlement mentality, sexual purity and how hypergamous or materialistic each one of them are...
RomanceRe: We Have Beautiful Daughters. Pls Come & Marry Them - Mom Begs Men (Video) by Reminderz: 9:02am On Jul 02, 2023
Isaiah 4v1 comes to mind...

men are now waking up and not settling for less... very soon women will cry blood to get men.... this is why they don't mind to date cripple or anyone, they don't mind if he even cheats on them, as long as he has what they want..

in fact, most now don't even want anything, just someone to call their man.. a real man who knows his worth understands that he's the prize and women are just an addition to his luxuries...
RomanceRe: Distancing In Marriage Do You Support It? by Reminderz:
Samantha124:
I don't do long distance relationships and I will definitely not do a long distance marriage... Because loneliness can lead to temptations, calling each other every day means nothing.

And I wouldn't want my husband to end up fathering children that are not his.
alright, wetin I wan talk sef? okay...

distancing in marriage is of two things.. one is, necessary distancing and the other is voluntary... necessary distancing is a type of distance that happens as the relationship moves on between both partners, like maybe for official assignment or for works, religion purposes, or in some cases, searches for greener pastures, maybe for a couple of weeks or months.. this type doesn't mean the relationship started off as a long distance relationship...

the other one is voluntary... this is the type of relationship that started off as a long distance relationship... this is the one that isn't encouraged... in the former one, sooner or later, even though the couples were living together or in the same state, things might happen along the way that will cause the distance between them... just like life is not a bed of roses, so are relationship... you can't expect it to be going smoothly all the time... at this point what matters here is your commitment and how dedicated you are into making the relationship work... if both couples married each other for selfish reasons, things will go wrong, whether distance or not... distance is not the only thing that makes couples cheat... in fact, they can cheat on each other while staying together... it's the commitment that makes relationship last, and not necessarily distance... one of the true test of loyalty is distance...

from the latter, one of the voluntary distance might be that, for example, a man who lives far away from his wife for number of years without visiting.. this is the type of distance that isn't encouraged.. some men can go up to 3 years + without setting eyes on their wives, this is highly discouraged, this is the voluntary distance... anything wey their eyes see at this stage, na their problem because they brought it upon themselves.... even though the man is trying hard to fund for his family, this shouldn't stop him from visiting once in a while when he gets the chance from work.. you can't tell me you would be busy for a whole 365 days not to mention of years.. it's highly unacceptable, women too have their own cravings... this is why if a man is not where he wants to be in life or still financially struggling, it's advisable to stay away from marriage because marriage will make it more harder for him and issues like this will later cause problems for him...

from other perspective, if the man is in faraway country like in the West, the laws, and restrictions there and how women have been proved times without numbers to behave when they finally get to such countries might deter the men from inviting them over...

Believe me, it's not the wishes of most men to abandon their wives, but the circumstances behind them might influence the decision on why they chose not to invite them over... financial difficulties might also be one of the problems...

@ bolded, the way you said it is like you are even determined to cheat at any given opportunity or any cause of distance between your husband or future husband... you might be the type that will even cheat even without distance separating both of you... change this your mindset or it might affect you in the long run if you eventually get married and you realise that marriage is not about what you watch in movies or what you've being brainwashed about...

If you think marriage is all sweet and spicy, you are better off single... marriage is more of commitment than love... if you're no more interested in the marriage, instead of cheating on him, divorce him and go find a man who would be 100% available for you or go make your own man... this is why you can never satisfy a woman... even if you go to war to fight off enemies, they will blame you that you don't give them enough attention not knowing that you're putting your lives on the line for the family... they mostly care about themselves... it's not every woman's complaint a man should listen too.. women will always whine... sometimes, ignore her...

@ bolded is also why I advice every man to scrutinize a woman's past especially if she's not a virgin, in fact, they shouldn't ignore carrying out a DNA test if they can afford it... a woman determined to cheat will cheat irrespective of distance or not...
RomanceRe: Need A Strong Prayer Warrior To Pray For Me by Reminderz: 6:38pm On Jul 01, 2023
O boy, as you be man so, no one cares about you boy... you better get up your ass now and find something to do.. no one gives a fvck!

if you still stay in your comfort zone, you nor go achieve anything for this life, you better find a way to snatch your life back.. enter the street, hustle, do labour work, gather small money, go learn handwork, start something... no one gives a fvck about a man! do something and get off your comfort zone!
RomanceRe: If My Husband Decides To A Cheat, As A Pharmacist I Will Kill Him(pictures) by Reminderz:
MrColdsweat:
That is why you need to marry multiple wives so that your other wives can protect you.
the problem is not in the amount of wife that you marry, but the type of wife you marry... never underestimate the effect of one bad egg in the midst of good ones...

one bad wife can still ruin even if you have other wives available... do not underestimate the length a woman can go to get back on the man that hurt her or feels he hurt her...
RomanceRe: If My Husband Decides To A Cheat, As A Pharmacist I Will Kill Him(pictures) by Reminderz: 2:54pm On Jul 01, 2023
this is why we warn many men right here day in day out... I actually came across this post as well, one man posted the name of the drug.. I pity men who see women as the weaker vessels... bro that gender is dangerously cunning, they will kill you without a trace...

if you go and just marry or have a relationship with any woman without knowing her deeply, if you let your dick give you directions, if you let yourself be manipulated by her beauty, supposed assets or how innocent she looks, you'll pay dearly for it...

take the redpill and save your life, no one is coming to save you... women are powerful, underrate them at your own risk and detriment.. a woman's revenge is more brutal than a man's and she can wait for as long as possible to carry it out... I repeat, no one is coming to save you...
RomanceRe: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Reminderz(op): 12:53pm On Jul 01, 2023
Quadribabaalagb:
Omoh, make I no talk.
talk about it, that's what the thread is all about... let others learn from your experience...
RomanceRe: Does The Dick Size That Deflowers A Virgin Affect The Length Of Her Womb? by Reminderz: 12:29pm On Jul 01, 2023
BigDickProblems:
I understand that part. She is not deep down there. You should be lucky with your average size. Also, lucky for you cos She will run for her life if she meets someone bigger.

Girls who are not so deep will tell you they prefer average size. But your average size cannot satisfy those that are deep.
any size can satisfy any woman as long as it's not a micropenis... don't let what you see in porn brainwash you... only damaged or sexually experienced women and non-virgins will be seeking to get satisfied with various dick sizes... dick size has little to do with sexual satisfaction...
CrimeRe: Spaceship Technologies Scammed Me by Reminderz: 8:05am On Jul 01, 2023
grafixlord:
I ordered the laptop on may 16
May 16 and we are in July... it has gone !!
CrimeRe: Spaceship Technologies Scammed Me by Reminderz: 8:05am On Jul 01, 2023
grafixlord:
no it was from the page ... The person that claim she / he got theirs from them but all of them work together this people are all scammers and it's not a one person scamming it's a group
it still doesn't change the fact that you fvcked up, wetin do payment on delivery?? nawa for una... seems you're greedy or lazy or just gullible...

you lost money on betting, you still lost to scammers... guy check yourself...
CrimeRe: Spaceship Technologies Scammed Me by Reminderz: 8:00am On Jul 01, 2023
grafixlord:
More proof
how many hours did they tell you that it would take and how many hours has elapsed by now?
CrimeRe: Spaceship Technologies Scammed Me by Reminderz: 7:59am On Jul 01, 2023
you mean they actually signed for you in the customer's receipt and you didn't receive your product? WTF? what happened to payment on delivery?? I get now, they might have signed for you even though you later take legal action, they know how to remove themselves... you fooled yourself..

this people look for possible ways to scam week in week out... I don't even do online transaction, if I'm not seeing what I'm paying for, I ain't paying... na laziness to go where dey sell things dey do una, and una nor fit still do payment on delivery again... nawa for you...

I just hope you're saying the truth sha...
RomanceShare The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Reminderz(op): 6:51am On Jul 01, 2023
Share your experiences...

Here's mine: I'm always happy for him, even when he opened his own store and rented his own space, in fact, I was one of the first person to get there when he celebrated his winnings... I gave him the needed support and encouragement... I realised that anytime I got my own breakthroughs, he never celebrated me or does as if he noticed them...

I later found out he was even jealous of my own winnings despite how true I was to him... I cut off the relationship before I got stabbed in the back... I didn't really know where the envy or jealousy was coming from...
RomanceRe: I Need Help, I May Never Get Married. by Reminderz: 9:10pm On Jun 30, 2023
it may have to do with your mindset or how you've programmed yourself... you may have gotten used to solitude for you to feel this way... it may also be the way you were brought up, maybe you didn't experience love or have never experienced love, or you've never loved someone or you got your heart broken in a ruthless manner...

in other perspective, you might see no need for a relationship because you feel there's nothing to gain from it.. or it might also be because you are getting sex freely or some other benefits which you think might be the only thing you stand to gain if you're in a serious relationship with them..

at this point, you might end up going the way of patronising prostitutes or escorts, or better still, continue breaking hearts of women which includes the innocent and naive ones... I would advice to desist from relationship or sex for now to truly analyse yourself to see what's wrong with you...

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