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Wilson300:
Stop pushing this your narrative abeg I know what I'm talking about

Did I say she feels it all the time?

She did tell me at times when I'm all in that my dick touches her womb

If you know what you're talking about, why did you create a thread to ask about what you are still ignorant about? because I don't just understand you... if you don't understand biology you better go back to your book and find out... the location of the uterus (mostly called womb) is not the same as the location of the vagina..

she's either telling you that just to bolster your ego or she is ignorant of what's really wrong with her... you're carrying wetin woman dey tell you for mind abi? dey play... she's just telling you that to make you feel good about yourself.. womb ko, cerebellum nii..

if she's feeling pains, then it's either she's overworked the area or because due to the sex.. she might be enjoying it but feeling the pains as well... it all happens in her abdomen this is why she feels pain around her stomach...

Wilson300:
No she enjoys it

if she enjoys it, she won't feel pains in her stomach instead, or maybe you guys are just digging and digging without rest, why won't she feel pains... ??

Wilson300:
But she always have pains in her stomach

it doesn't still mean that your dick is touching her womb, maybe the sex is hurting her instead... she's feeling pains instead of pleasure...

ffs, do you even know where the womb is located?

it's just an exaggeration, there's nothing like dick is touching womb... it's just a thing most people especially women when they enjoy sex and where the dick is touching the sensitive areas of their private part...

anyways, stay away from fornication...

Michaelspresh:
lolzzz
The two men that broke me weren't bad either..Yes,they weren't bad
I Know I said they damaged me but I can never tag them as bad guys
Infact,if I have a chance to get back to the last one,I'll do it
It just didn't work out for us,so cut this crap

lmfao, you're still decieving yourself at this age and time... you're still living in your delusions... even if you ask shit if it smells nice, shit will tell you it has the most pleasant smell...

lmfao, I love women like you who thrives in self-deception and doesn't take accountability for their actions... life will surely teach them...

Ejebleje:
E shock you as she talk true?

unfortunately, that's how most women are... they are damaged beyond repair, and when time is no longer on their side, they start looking for the nice young men... if fortunately for them, they later got married to the nice man, they still end up cheating on him with the bad guys...

a man who knows his worth understands that a damaged woman should never be considered for a serious relationship...

Michaelspresh:
This is wrong

It's not every girl that needs a bad guy,
I personally, I'm praying God should give me a man who isn't damaged by Nigerian ladies cos I'm damaged already

thank God you even confessed... in fact, you just confirmed what the post is all about... women don't care about being with a good guy until they are damaged by the bad ones... this is when they love the nice good guys... unfortunately, a real man who knows his worth don't go for damaged women.. only simps and weak men go for leftovers...

at least once in your lifetime, you'll experience this.. you just have to learn your lessons and move on... Life is already harsh, the people in it make it much worse...

This is one of the reasons why we have many mentally unstable Americans... like some people will say trigger happy Americans... they can just wake up and start shooting themselves for no absolutely reason... most are just mentally deranged...

why won't they be when they prefer pets to kids, monogamy/polygamy to homosexuality, consuming junks to healthy food, listening to news meant to brainwash them and the likes smh..

Penelope ko, antelope nii... rubbish

exactly you've said it all, nothing to be added, and nothing to be removed...

that's what the game is all about, you either play or get played... just like when they were bashing Regina, most would jump into it if presented with the same opportunity...

the thing is that, most women don't love struggling or broke guys, and we know all what it takes to be successful, it's not a day's work.. so how do you now expect them to be loyal to one person when they now finally break through and become powerful? Never! this is why even religion permits marrying more than one but we want to go against nature.. it's not possible... women want successful men, successful men want lot of women.. it's what it is...

you can't eat your cake and have it, if you want a made guy, then you have to deal with the fact that other women also want him... even if he doesn't get married to them, he will cheat or have multiple side chics... if you want a broke guy, then you have to struggle with him and have him to yourself...

if a woman is beautiful and of high quality, a man has to deal with the fact that other men will find her attractive... if she's ugly, then he has to deal with her face and doesn't have to worry himself with other people finding her sexy...

most women are smart but not intelligent... this is one of the signs that confirms that.... most women are gullible and easily deceived.. this is why the more sexual partners she's had, the more mentally damaged she is.. now if this one dumps them, what's next? they will be looking for the next simp to prey on.. lmfao

that guy is a legend!

just the perfect reply I expected...

if your wife doesn't listen to you, then she doesn't respect you... if your wife goes against your orders, then she doesn't regard you...

then what should you do especially when kids are involved? the solution is simple, if you don't want to divorce her due to the fact that kids are already involved, then get a second wife... if she doesn't change the way she acts after several attempts and warnings from you to get her back on track, if she doesn't do her responsibilities as your wife, then cease your responsibilities on her also and pay her less attention...

get a second wife and shift your focus.. your life is already filled with struggles as a man, do not let a woman whom you're feeding, clothing and sheltering give you HBP...

besides, you said she lost her parents at a young age, so maybe she has become "masculine" by trying to survive the situation she was in, so she doesn't see you as man enough to take orders from, it's either she sees you as weak or someone inferior to her to be respected... this is one of the issues a woman who wasn't raised in a stable environment or raised by a single parent mostly face.. you might not be able to change it... if you act weak and not masculine enough for her, she won't see you as someone worthy to be followed or respected...

as a man, in as much as choosing a beautiful partner is good, do not mistake that for her innocence or character... her character and personality should never be overlooked... she might be a beautiful devil..

for a woman, his leadership qualities and vision shouldn't be overlooked either...

lol, you of all people, when we were discussing relationship issues, you said it's nothing to be worried about... in fact, you were quick to throw insults, you have a problem now, and you said it's a friend.. lol... and guess where you came running back to? the same nairaland where you once rejected solid advice...

her parents are divorced, sooner or later the wife might not see anything wrong with being divorced or separated when shits hit the fan.. your in-laws don't like the husband, that's not a good sign, people might suggest you to mind your business, but trust me, you can't actually be minding your business since you're married to their daughter.. if things doesn't go the way you imagined, when shit hits the fan, all the blame would be put on to you... always check the family background of the woman you would want to marry, if they are disunited and don't care about you or don't want you to marry their daughter, it's better you back off... the man can either continue minding his business but he should know of the consequences of that choice... or he can also choose to mend the ties between them by paying the woman's parent a visit...

like I use to say, life will surely teach everyone...

she went from being a 2 to be 7... if she's still a virgin or someone with low body count and good character, then she's become a 8 or 9.. good work...

I don't date fat women, I won't allow my kids to be fat... stay healthy, and eat healthy... obesity is a disease...

Correction: low quality women and damaged women are everywhere... high quality women are not...

unless you're not looking for something serious, then it's fine... when you're looking for something serious, you'll realise "women" are not everywhere....

under which circumstances? it's actually crazy when it's not a life or death situation...

assuming it was like "your boss asks you to let him have sex with your wife to employ you in a job or role with numerous benefits attached", then that would be different... if that's the case, then I would leave the job, cause someone that could demand that could do something much worse later... it could escalate beyond what you imagined it to be and the benefits promised might actually be an illusion...

when it comes to stupidity and foolishness, always expect a particular gender to take the leading position...

no innovation, no creativity, just sheer stupidity... it's like a hidden talent for them...

if women aren't controlled and restricted, they go wild just like children who didn't get parental attention... most end up becoming miserable...

all these are just for showoffs and to impress people who don't care on the internet, and to me it's actually an act of stupidity...

if you know what happens behind the scenes of the people's videos and pictures you're actually "awwning" to, you will never be in a relationship... focus on your own life and stop looking up to anyone on the internet...

Thazard:
Meaning what?

Please guys why do Nigerians underage skilled men alot?

it simply because they are ignorant... skilled men earn in the community I live alot and they live well also.. in fact, they earn well more than most people wearing shirts and working as a slave for someone in "offices'... these people are their own bosses and have control of their time more and can decide to rest whenever they want, not some slave workers who CAN'T REST until their bosses or companies gives them permissions to.. smh..in fact those giving the so called office workers ride in commercial buses earn more than them... they don't have to wait until 30 days to buy what they want for themselves and live fine...

in fact, skilled works are the future when AI finally takes over all the virtual works where you'll be required to sit in offices..

works like welding and fabrication, mechanical engineer, plumbing, furniture, fashion, and similar jobs will be the new hot cakes... works that will be difficult for AI or machines to perform alone will be the new gold...

ettelinhno:
please women do not give me attention . what do i do??

if women do not give you attention, then as someone already told you, give yourself attention...

improve yourself where necessary, women don't deal with those who have nothing to offer, either directly or indirectly...

if you're ugly or not physically attractive and not well built or rich, women will avoid you.. if you're handsome and not confident or you're acting like a pussy, women will take you for a ride..

---- Read books, improve your financial situation, go to the gym or exercise, learn game and build your confidence, eat healthy, dress smartly, build your self esteem, shift your focus, carry yourself high, respect yourself, and see yourself as the prize.. then you'll see changes in your life and you would later be the one running away from them... by then you would have learnt to attract and not chase... and you won't get sad or depressed over not getting attention from a woman... reconfigure your mindset..

Thazard:
Damn kind of bleeped up right now.

Nevertheless, I would share my story.


Here's the story.

Last year I was trekking back from work wearing my work clothes which were worn out and very dirty as i am a welder, humming some tunes to myself until I lifted my heads up and I saw this pretty girl standing by the roadside obviously waiting for a bike.

I said 'how far ' and walked past not expecting a reply from her due to my knowledge of how girls belittle Artisans. But shockingly she replied 'good morning sir'. I didn't stopped, I continued my walk.

.....

Please romance expert please tell me where did i get it wrong and what should I do?

I didn't want to quote the long post... so these are your mistakes, I'm sure you can do better next time.. no one learns game at a go..

1) you're not bold enough... the fact that you said hi to the girl and she answered when you first met even though you're on "work clothes", shouldn't stop you from initiating the conversation further... it's not as if you want to hug her on the road or something... in fact, you communicating with her on your work clothes and when you didn't look so good is going to make her feel your masculine aura and confidence more.... you have to be bold to go for what you want... men go to war and fight off enemies, handling women should be the easiest thing for you...

2) she gave you the signs severally and you slacked, believe me, women know that you're already interested in them.. she will give you enough time to approach her and if you don't within that time frame, she will write you off as a sissy or someone's who's not bold or confident enough...

3) your third mistake was you asking your guy for her contact.. c'mon dude! why do you that? you just confirmed the thoughts the girl had of you, that you ain't man enough to ask her yourself.. there's nothing women hate more than that... this is where you really ruined the chemistry more..

4) you asked for her name and she told you, and she hasn't even recognised you yet or know who she's chatting with, and you've already decided to give her a more "romantic" name... bro? wtf? you really fvcked up...! already putting her on a pedestal or what?

5) the way you chat seems needy and desperate... and you seems really pushy... in between the lines, the boldness you enacted when chatting should have been used in communicating with her physically when you guys met... you acted weak...

6) learn how to communicate with the opposite sex, that's what you lack in and remove shyness when dealing with women... what I normally do when I get a ladies contact is chat briefly online the first time and request to communicate physically the next time... I usually keep the chat very short till we meet physically... I always put my money where my mouth is.. I talk the talk and walk the walk... in fact, I'm more confident when I'm relating with women physically than virtually...

7) continue learning game man and keep improving yourself where necessary... if she doesn't respond very well to your vibes anymore, ignore her and move on bro.. there are plenty of fishes in the river... have abundance mindset.. and don't forget, a woman is not the center of your universe...

yes, more than enough... na fornication even kill the man.. smh.. how many times have we mentioned that dem nor dey give award on top pussy?? rip - rest in pieces...

more men have died through fornication/adultery than marrying one or more than one wife legally...

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

lol thought you're a "genius" but you've always proved me wrong by displaying the attributes of the opposite...

the thing is that many men will gladly do this @bolded... but where most women are broke, lazy and doesn't want to work especially in most African countries, where most depend on their pussy and artificial assets for survival, tell me how they are going to be able to do that? by doing hookup abi? and besides are you not the same frustrated feminist? don't you want gender equality?

back to the post, the thing is that most men don't require their women to give them anything, in fact, some don't require them to do even the most basic things like taking care of the home, what most men require from their women is their submissiveness, being supportive, youthfulness, loyalty, industrious and not damaged.. most men don't care about a woman's wealth.. just give him peace, that's all... but most women nowadays can't even do even the most basic things at home and they are damaged beyond repair, yet they want the man to give them the full benefits of a husband... is that not witchcraft? well only simps will tolerate them anyways... fortunately for them, we have them in large numbers...

op, you've truly woken up... that's just the harsh reality... sometimes when I see about people talking about their dream job or working for some company, I shake my head that these people don't even know what are really asking for... all what you are asking for is to continuing being a slave for other people... you don't want to break free from this cycle of modern slavery and get your freedom... it's all slavery, the method used is the only thing that differs...

you shouldn't even have a dream job, you should strive to be your own boss, think outside the box, have multiple sources of income, not working for a man or government who makes you slave away your previous time and energy for them and when you now get old, you realise the things you feel you saved were taken away by bills and you have close to nothing left while still living on rent... you get old and depressed.... most people don't know how they are being controlled remotely... because where they work, they are given the illusions of big salary or some benefits, they don't realise that the bigger the salary, the bigger the mental cage they've locked themselves... this is not a physical prison, but it has the same effect... only few would be able to break out of this cage till death comes for them... most get old depending on pensions which is never guaranteed until they finally die of sickness or depression... it's the loop the system has designed for the average man...

your freedom is the most important thing to you, unfortunately it will not be given for you freely, it's what you have to fight for.. you have to stop doing what the average Joe does, stop consuming what the average Joe does, refused to be brainwashed, and refuse to be average.. you have to fight like you're really fighting for your survival.. think outside the box and be exceptional else you'll continue being an average or below average person.. you have to say no that you can't continue waking up your company sets for you, only go to break when your company says so, and only rests when your company says so.. for how long do you want to be doing all this? is this what you wanna do to get rich? lol you're on a long thing because you'll never be rich or wealthy.. watch free city to understand the concept the system has designed for you...

I laugh when I see broke people say that "money can't buy happiness", lol what can poverty buy? after being in a good health, what can't money do? have you seen a rich man gave all his money away? lol fvck NO! it's the same man that will tell you money can't buy happiness, lmao...

the second thing is that, this reality is even more harsh for men... men have to struggle their whole lives... no one gives a fvck about them or how they feel, they just have to keep adapting and adapting... some eventually end up depressed, some commits suicide, and some end up broke and invisible to the society... it's a harsh world for men.. despite all the challenges life has already thrown at them, they are still expected to protect and provide against all means... it's a sad world for men... coupled with all these struggles, the fastest way a man can die is to end up with a bad woman.. his death is certain...

when it comes to social relationships, most women are smart and not intelligent, while most men are intelligent and not smart...

women are brutally manipulative, cunning and powerful... underrate them at your own risk... a man without the redpill is a dead man walking... it only takes a predatory female to finish him off... dear awoken men, you have responsibilities to carry out on your sons and brothers to avoid them treading the same path of fallen men...

if the story is true which I believe it is due to a even more crazy scenarios I've experienced and seen, then I would say a man who let emotions override his logical ability will pay dearly for its consequences when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex...

the woman said the baby was born prematurely and he believed her... smh... and can anyone tell me? what is that route that she doesn't want to go through again? murder? bro when we warned many men here on the red flags to look out for, some foolish men and women commented that it's nothing to be worried about... well I hope they end up the same way as those fallen men... one lesson in life is to never try to save anyone who doesn't want to be saved.. life will surely deliver a very painful lesson to them, that's if they are lucky to be alive...

dear men, after speaking on some red flags to watch out for some couple of weeks ago and why it shouldn't be taken slightly... this is another set of red flags to look out for which I got from one of my divorced male friend who found out his wife was cheating on him...

1) always note down the last time you slept with your wife...

2) dna test is a must and most especially if you didn't meet her a virgin... try as much to find out and most especially on your first child...

3) her survival comes first and her child second... you're never considered or treated with less importance..

4) a woman will go any desperate lengths to get her secrets covered...

5) women will cheat on you and you may never find out till you die..

6) women will give you the craziest sex style and cook your favourite food, send you the best love letters and still be cheating on you...

7) a man who relies on a woman and believes everything a woman says is a man destined to fail...

8 ) your purpose and mission should come before any woman...

9) women are not going anywhere...

10) you can either love or understand woman, you can't do both... if I'm to choose, I will choose the latter because I've understood that women don't love men...

finally, save yourself man.. no one is coming to save you...

DaviesCool:
Send me your account no it's seems you depressed. Nigeria can be hard I know that.

you don't need to impress a stranger on the internet... send it to the less privileged in your homes or use it to improve yourself... no one gives 2 fvcks about you here...

banjicom:
I don’t know where you guys get this your vanity and poverty mentality. You don’t even know if the guy already have a house, land or business he his doing. You better forget about all this investment nonsense and do and buy things that will make you happy, nothing is ever guaranteed in this life.

lmfao, I will never tie my happiness to materials things especially not liabilities... guy just chill and drink water... if your own happiness depends on that, then good luck! lmao, happiness...

Ikaeniyan0:
This your comment is not necessary, the OP didn't buy the phone for you.

and your reply isn't necessary, I didn't ask for your opinion

liabilities will never be my dreams... dream about things that appreciate over time not things that depreciates... dream phones ko, dream car nii... dream phones lmao!

Well okay, fine, look at it this way, there are different perspective to this...

He might or might not actually mean well with the advices he gave you, maybe due to jealousy, him not having a partner like yours or other reasons... but how do you know if he means well? what type of issues were you having with your wife? is it about continuous disrespect? cheating suspicion or allegations? being careless? lack of understanding? lack of intimacy? if something like this is the issues you discussed with him, then he might be right for giving you the divorce option if all other options to set things right failed... if otherwise, then he might not really mean good for you.. this is why it's said that it's not every advice given that's meant to be followed, some are just meant to be heard not heeded... even your most dearest friend can mean evil for you... you've learnt your first lesson...

secondly, you said your friend died of high BP due to the issues he was facing in his marriage and he couldn't take the advice he dishes out to you over same issues... that's to tell you that most poor or less privileged ones who blames the rich will do much worse when they attain power... he couldn't do what he said he would do when he got into that position... maybe all his investments he's made, or how he has boasted to many others to have married his love of his life kept him back and couldn't voice out... he was hiding his pains behind masks until he finally gave up.. this is just the case of what many men faced and still facing... it's so sad and depressing...

this is why we keep hammering it to men that they should check the necessary things that needs to be checked before considering marriage, you have so much to lose and your life isn't out of the equation... save yourself because no one is coming to save you.. no one cares about men or the issues they are facing... no one will even believe you... if you dare speak out or whine, you risk being called weak and a sissy.. if you dare become vulnerable, you risk being thrown to the wolves... this scenario doesn't happen with women... never invest in a woman who isn't worth your time, resources, energy and attention... never settle for less, never ignore red flags... don't rush, know your woman deeply, set various tests for her... be ruthless.. do not be deceived by how beautiful she is or how "packaged" she is.. it's all illusions... the real devils are the most charming...

but simps, *sighs, will always learn the hard way...