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Family › Re: Nigerian Couple Celebrate 60th Wedding Anniversary (photos) by Richy4(m):
I like that second picture that looked like an Old traditional wedding .... That man's Laugh on that pic was undiluted mingled with love smiley My Respect to you both..It's not easy....

Family › Re: Communication With One'ex by Richy4(m): 5:12pm On Oct 14, 2021
Mandyjosh:
Yea..i mean one' formal husband or wife...or even boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry someone else
If kids were involved, how will one throw away an Ex's contacts?... Who will pay for some of the child's Up keeps?... Buhari huh
Politics › Re: Buhari’s N20b Budget For President’s Medical Unit Exceeds 14 Teaching Hospitals by Richy4(m): 3:17pm On Oct 14, 2021
I remembered he came to rule Nigeria with one pair of shoe… who still remembered that tactics.. Now, he’s approving billions on white Elephant project… Can any politician pull that style on anyone now? I guess people mumu don do
Family › Re: Man Carries His Physically Challenge Wife From The Entrance To The Altar by Richy4(m): 2:04pm On Oct 14, 2021
I don't understand the explanation.... Was the twin sister against Marriage generally that she (the Bride) wants the husband to carry her to the altar so that the twin sister will start thinking otherwise huh...
Family › Re: Communication With One'ex by Richy4(m):

When U say Ex, is a Man who got a child with a woman that he was not married to included?

As in baby daddies.. they are also EXs right?
U have to define what u really mean... Add some clause if possible smiley

Family › Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Richy4(m): 4:31pm On Oct 13, 2021
lipsrsealed

Food › Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Visitors Dont Finish The Food Served To Them? by Richy4(m): 2:27pm On Oct 13, 2021

I guess that some visitors remain just a little food so that it won't look like they came to your house with empty stomach...

Also they were trying to avoid kids/ the little ones telling each other on how that uncle came and finished the entire food served and would have requested for more assuming he/she was asked to take another helping..

Family › Re: I'm A Failure. Am I Really A Failure. by Richy4(m): 5:54am On Oct 13, 2021
holarmylekan:
I had decided to take a break for a while but just minutes ago, another sister of my called telling me how I failed to gain admission, how my mates are better than me, telling me to do something good with my life as if I hadn't been trying all this years. Every night I always up for at least 2 hours checking the reading and checking the internet for opportunities just to do something good despite working like a maid for another sister from 7am till 11pm. I'm just fed up.
Do not let what she said be a deciding factor for you. This should be the time to be happy that they have written you off... u now have the opportunity to sit your A$$ down and decide genuinely what you want to do with your life.. whatever u have chosen, try and be the best in that..

U are young, u are going to see so many disappointment in life, u will see many who will not want your progress, U will also see people who will want you to succeed in this world though they are few in number but they are there....Always have the positive outlook in life and be enthusiastic about life if u can..

You are better off now that the family do not have high expectation of you.... This time, decide what you are good at...Life does not end only in medicine as a career, there are one million choices that you can make, though I understand that medicine might be your first choice on your scale of preferences but there are still number 2 choice or even 3, those are choices..... I just want you to remember one thing... it's not how well you started... it's how well you were able to finish...

Also, there are people whom you do not need their negative energy in your life @ this stage... those ones that says so many upsetting thing, block them for now or decide not to answer their calls( it's your phone and your choice to answer whoever)... when things gets better unblock them so they can come and celebrate with you.... Just letting you know that you are not a failure...Good-luck buddy..
Crime › Re: How Chidinma Ojukwu Catwalked Into Courtroom Today (VIDEO) by Richy4(m): 2:53pm On Oct 12, 2021
Apart from the fact that she did not appear in chains, I did not see the catwalk... I watched 3 times just to make sure sad
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Richy4(m): 9:52am On Oct 12, 2021

Next time when you want to talk to him, take a deep breath. It helps.. I do that whenever I am trying to talk to an unruly kid in order not to lose it..

You should realise by now that shouting does not mean that you are right or wrong... Though that's a trademark of most Nigerians..if U see a black confrontational male on the street, there are high probability that he is either from US or a Nigerian..

Family › Re: Help, My Child Is Already A GENIUS @ 3! by Richy4(m): 7:31am On Oct 12, 2021
I have to plead with you on her behalf just incase u were nursing the idea of meddling into her career in future instead of guiding her please do not...

I want you to start from now to distinguish between Guiding and Intruding/meddling, A lot of parents does not know the difference...And they don't know their boundaries...if she wants to be an engineer against your opinion of her being a doctor for example, Please do not throw parental tantrum .. May God provide for u the resources that u will use to make our genius dream come true....
Family › Re: What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2021
Could you explain why U do not like the gift?... Is it the kind of Gift that raises eyebrows considering the fact that you did not want to take it home...Please don't tell me she bought you a car cheesy
Family › Re: Abeg Come And Help Solve This Matter O by Richy4(m):
Her Mother should go back home and come back on Thursday for her son's graduation....With proper invitation.. this time she might stay in the house because she was invited...They should stick with the rigid Rule... or they can add some clause...what a weird family . grin

Travel › Re: Mistaken Of Identification by Richy4(m): 3:59am On Oct 08, 2021
There's something I'm just thinking.... Wondering how someone with a visiting visa will rape someone...Chase the person inside the wood.. how does he even know his bearing and locations?...Because everyone visiting another country most times will always look timid, smile to others even when u do not want to and all whatnot....Some times you carry some paper map given to you at the city malls to know strategic points so you won't get missing... Hmmmm!!! Just wondering
Sports › Re: The Saudi-Led Takeover Of Newcastle Has Been Completed by Richy4(m): 5:49pm On Oct 07, 2021
Nice...So with this money pumped into Newcastle, The club will be making front page very soon each time they were playing here on Nairaland like Manchester City abi cool?
Politics › Re: Lawmakers Doze Off As Buhari Presents 2022 Budget To NASS (video) by Richy4(m): 4:20pm On Oct 07, 2021
Why won't they? when no one is holding them accountable for anything... as long as they receive fat salaries and allowances..
Crime › Re: Caught On Camera: Killing Of A Man Captured Live On Camera In Ikorodu by Richy4(m): 4:12pm On Oct 07, 2021
Is this really real.....If it is, then some Nigerians are beginning to be daring... and it's scary.. shocked

Family › Re: Should I Cut-off My Parents? by Richy4(m):
Honestly Your dad made a wrong investment moves... A financial planner would have helped out just with a little fee..It would not have been so bad... he donated some money/ instrument to the church but I believe they will not give him some moments of grace for the harvest money he was owing them...

In my opinion, If I advised you to cut them off, That means I am capable of doing same to my parent which I do not have that kind of heart.. I will suggest Dialogue between you and your parents...As a matter of fact, Call a family meeting...Bring the issue at hand on the table and let everyone Brain storm to find a solution without temper...
Start from what u faced in your previous place of work... just put the cards on the table without bringing your business decision of stocking your shop or whatever into the equation... Tell them the overdraft you have made in your place of work has been a burden to you till date...Let everyone suggest a way out on who will take what responsibility... With that, they might give you some breathing space...
Family › Re: I Think My Wife Has "Split Personality" ? by Richy4(m): 11:58am On Oct 06, 2021
ahnie:
Things are really happening.i am glad you noticed all these,some men don't even have time to notice any changes in their wives.
cheesy

Family › Re: Lazyreporta: A Nairaland Member Gets Married by Richy4(m): 10:43am On Oct 06, 2021
Obaxxx:
Many catfish don dey croaa-breed these days..Some don dey disguise to be catfish but meanwhile if you look jejely,na shark in catfish form you go see grin
You are correct just be careful man... the fact that Mr A succeeded in Online dating does not mean you can ....It's just what u see is what you get...Offline is still the better option in my opinion.. cheesy..
Family › Re: Lazyreporta: A Nairaland Member Gets Married by Richy4(m): 10:33am On Oct 06, 2021
Lazyreporta:
cheesy sorry about that
Oh!!! That was long long time ago when I was looking for a missing rib in the wrong place..I have stopped searching for a long time smiley...
Family › Re: Lazyreporta: A Nairaland Member Gets Married by Richy4(m): 10:16am On Oct 06, 2021
Lazyreporta:
bad man
In 2009, I tried a website called plenty of fish because it was free ..... I discovered that the two I contacted wanted to use me as an experiment...To be on their bucket list that they have dated a black guy...You can just imagine my embarrassment embarassed
Family › Re: Lazyreporta: A Nairaland Member Gets Married by Richy4(m): 10:06am On Oct 06, 2021
Obaxxx:
Na lie bri grin. How many sub guyman go burn first for online before him luck go mistakenly shine? cheesy
Do not try it if you don't have the patience... catfish everywhere.. some times u will catch octopus grin...All u need is load of patience...
Family › Re: Lazyreporta: A Nairaland Member Gets Married by Richy4(m): 10:00am On Oct 06, 2021
CONGRATULATIONS BUDDY... may God bless your union

Family › Re: Help! My Husband Acts Immatured And My Marriage Is About To Come To An End by Richy4(m): 4:52am On Oct 06, 2021
How will you register your displeasure if you keep mute...Show him the evidence that you got.. Tell him to remember that that money was not yours...That the rent will be due soon... say it without anger in your voice..... and let it go

On the said rent due date, if nothing happened and you cannot find your mom's money, you can hit the roof with enough anger if you can... It's sometimes allowed in a relationship so that the other partner will re -adjust
Family › Re: Starting To Feel Insecure by Richy4(m): 4:31am On Oct 06, 2021
That should not be a problem for u... Some tall people sometimes feel they wish they will not be singled out as being tall... short people feel hmmm!! How I wish I was as tall as Mr ABC... That's just life....

Adams Oshomole should be your mentor or watch word... if I remembered correctly, he is not too tall, He's not extremely handsome, yet he married one of the prettiest lady in the world.. So rethink, calm down..

I might be wrong but I thought that not too tall people got the biggest ego in the world smiley...
Health › Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Richy4(m): 2:40pm On Oct 05, 2021
why can't you open up to your lecturers instead of devising a means to eliminate your own Father... I believe you got smart phones.. take couple of pictures and show them with tears in your eyes...

What are you trying to prove to your lecturers?... Why are you bottling things up? ... Are you trying to prove to them by acting tough in their presence that all is well with you when clearly all isn't...No matter how sadist they are, even the devil got soft spots...Assuming your school has students advisors, This situation is enough to granted you a study leave because you can't concentrate.... Please tell your lecturers the situation of things....

You are clearly passing through a traumatic situation at the moment but u have to try your best to leave your dad out of it until his maker calls him...Can you be able to leave with it that you killed your own father for the rest of your life? besides, you have no right whatsoever to take a life u did not make..... he did not kill you when u were a toddler..No matter what you call it, Mercy killing, or kind killing, killing is killing....Thou shall not Kill angry
Fashion › Re: Groomsman Walks Out Of Wedding As Baptist Church Tells Him To Remove His Earring by Richy4(m): 1:38pm On Oct 05, 2021
Michealwiz23:
In USA most of the Nigeria churches over there will never tell you to remove ur earring
It’s part of lifestyle... even some pastors are having tattoos on there body in Canada I mean black pastors
should they cut that part away ?
In Nigeria some churches accept earrings for woman while some doesn’t accept it
I think it’s just our black mentality
Just try and travel abroad u will see things
Trust me
I believe the setting was not In US even if it was,... There are Night clubs in advanced countries that doesn't allow patrons putting on jeans or any type of "shorts knicker" in their establishment ...They want people to dress on smart casual or formal... and people obey their rules... so why couldn't he stick to the rule for few hours for his friend's sake... or is there a possibility that he just wants to trend
Family › Re: I Need Help, My Life's Getting Messed Up. by Richy4(m): 1:19pm On Oct 05, 2021
This is just funny... A 19 year old is saying that he's almost a graduate and has nothing to show for it.... yet he got skills in IT? cheesy

Seriously... you are too young to act or carry the whole world on your head... do not let the pressure of family and extended family make you develop HBP..

@ 19 you are already thinking responsibly which is commendable but you need to grow up based on your age... u are still a kid to be thinking about all these.... Nigeria is messed up today because people wants to be rich in a fast way, some was because of family pressure...yahoo yahoo, assassination and kidnapping is rampant today because of all these pressure..

Please my dear young man slow down a bit... You are on the right track at the moment... there are 30plus who are yet to figure out where the world is taking them... we can't blame them because everyone got different destiny... but slow your role a little so that you won't die earl
y...
Crime › Re: Plantain Thief Caught In Rivers State, Flogged & Paraded (Pictures) by Richy4(m): 12:52pm On Oct 05, 2021
I'm not saying that stealing is good But He was just hungry guys haba!!!... there are lots of people that needed to be paraded in your parliament...They are stealing from you.. your Taxes etc.. yet they were being celebrated...
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Interview Questions: Dumb Replies Only by Richy4(m): 12:57pm On Oct 04, 2021
Commentor:
Why are you here?

To preach the gospel to you.

Why should we hire you?

For the same reason they hired you.

Tell us about yourself.

Why? Is this what you called me for?

What is your expected salary?

Sir, any amount is OK . A beggar has no choice.

How soon would you start work?

After you sack that stupid receptionist. She was very rude.
Does she know who I am?
smiley

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