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Mummiesgirls4:
Okay if you say so

Mummiesgirls4:
I don't think so

Mummiesgirls4:
No it's not fraud because fraud is a crime but what I did its not a crime it has no prison sentence but I don't know the right name to call it

Mummiesgirls4:
Because when we first met when I told him about my daughter he said he had vowed to never marry a single mother but because he loves me and I only have one child that's better he will accept her so I know no matter how much he loves me if I tell him about my other 3 there's no way he will continue with the marriage.

Mummiesgirls4:
If reserve was the case I will not have no choice than to forgive and accept them because women take all the shit in marriage no divorce is allow so the society will tell me to forgive and accept them but for men it's a different story he will rather dumped me. So it is not the same thing

ahnie:
You had better listen to your husband.i understand your concerns for a male child.maybe when buhari is no longer president again and things goes back to normal he may reconsider


Pls listen to him.

Hathor5:


And psychologist and doctor and teacher and ...

femi4:
You dey fumble....I dey looku, I no talk

You just dey meskafo anyhow, I dey try make we no fight
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No do gra gra for me

Spherical77:
Yes, you are absolutely right. Majority of them had boyfriend but chose to pretend not until they got caught up right on the act or probably things went south

You know African parents with their style of parenting. Very few fraction of them got the ideology you put up there.

Sincerely if i was these young girls i wouldn't give in for pressure having boyfriend at this age of mine. Boys got nothing to offer than fun, fun and fun

Moreso, girls are always at the receiving end after the whole thing plays out

Those parents assumed provided you ain't lacking finances, love and care from home, attention and whataview. Then they had no business keeping boyfriend if they ain't after sexual intercourse which sometimes lead to pregnancy, STD, heartbreak et al

To cap it up, I'd gladly accept your ideology and hopefully use that on my kids when i get to that stage in life

However, I'd stand on chastity, celibacy for my kids. You have no business indulging in sex when you ain't married

Spherical77:
But that's the truth. Why keeping a boyfriend at that age? What do you expect when you've started what you ain't expected of. He'd definitely ask you for sex someday and possibly force himself on her

Do you expect the parents to encourage their daughters to start keeping boyfriend or what?

You don't start what you can't finish