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It's not compulsory you might end up working in Nigeria..that's the reason for the NYSC certificate isn't it ... U might decide not to come back to Nigeria once the US breeze blows around you..the choice is yours though...

I am not trying to be the devil's advocate but I didn't even see any of your fault in all this epistle..does it mean u were innocent in what ever that was going on between you two? .Any ways take heart.. I can't join your pastors to pray for her to change or come back to u..U were not meant to be together..

U married someone meant for another.church aside,l am guessing that you are kinda excited that she is gone deep down within u.. I am an advocate for what ever makes one happy as long as it is not hurting any one.. U are not happy with her, So do what people that are not happy in a relationship does... Though I won't say the word.. I don't want to put things on your head

Some people are simply the black sheep of the family... It is a heavy cross to bear when one has such..

What is he doing @ the moment to keep himself busy? Has he finished SSCE. He can learn a trade .. to keep himself busy..

You don't need prayers.. Go and see a GP... there are lots of things to prayer about in Nigeria.. Yours doesn't even fall on the secondary category.. U are blessed if that was all the problem u got..

Please tell your Aunt not to go back to that relationship or she might come out of it in a coffin.. He can't change overnight...has he seen a therapist?. What therapy has he gone to...Any anger management classes? Please don't tell me he has become born again because it still will not work...

Another mistake your Aunt might be making will be trying to use a baby to cement a relationship.. It doesn't work that way.. Baby is baby, she has one already it doesn't matter if it was from the previous relationship..The man has his own from previous marriage too.. She should be wise..

But some how, I agree with the other woman.. Why would someone in her right senses stage a fight because of a cheating man..

She should go home and talk it out with the man...She has no business with the woman except in a situation the mistress was harassing the man..

OP u should be given the Award of the most stalking guy ever... Calling her every 2 mins are you kidding me?

She said it was a family meeting, what if it was actually a family meeting and u were busy disturbing her while her parent was few centimeters away from her?..

You accused her of cheating and she was offering and explanation and you feel it was too much explanation.. if she refused to offer any, u will still say she got nothing to say... what do you really want..?

Please kindly Pay her Bride price and lay claim on her man... not trying to be the devil's advocate but enough of your stalking tendencies.. it will not help you in life.. u will only develop high BP..if u have a reason not to trust your spouse, find a way to break things up so that you can have your sanity back .

ojotobiloba1:
Concerned parents and teachers protested on my behalf and dre decision was reversed as at yesterday... Thank u for ur reply.

I'm glad for you... Just stay there as a away of buying time while looking for other/ better prospects. You can't stay there... Your employer has proven to be the devils cousin..be wise

What kinda of hellish school was that.. I guess the fact that there are unemployment in the land made some of the employer to act stupidly.. I wish you can start looking for another place.. it's just a freaking nursery and primary school..

Just storm the kitchen man... and make sure u cook something.. that the aroma alone, Esau would be willing to sell his birth right the second time.. make sure after eating no left overs just to register your displeasure too..After eating the nice dish alone, you guys can reconcile

E go land e go land na him butterfly dey take enter bush... who ever wrote dis should wait until it becomes abuse.. I wish I would be therethe very day when she embarrassed you upfront of your friends with a slap... when you politely asked for her to get you and your friends some drinks in the fridge. U go know say no be play she dey play..

Nice

Majority that I have seen are really good OP...Cultured and are into white old men.. for some obvious reasons I do not really wanna go into..the point I'm trying to make is you were lucky, not because of where she came from but because you were lucky to have met your soul mate..

If u can just agree to stop receiving bag of rice, cap and T-shirts with logo every campaign period.. and tell your neighbors Family etc about how one bag of rice can never last for 4 years, Every thing will be fine

A friend in need is a friend indeed.. I didn't say so oo it was a quote before I was born... Who even told you that you have out grown him.. your boldness in terms of saying that bull sh!t can really move mountains

I wish I could be bold and say I have out grown my friends... what a load of crap

Some people are controlling, u can't take that away from them.. that's just how they are wired.. he may or may not even know he was doing what you were complaining here.. all this could be avoided if you all get your own entrance keys.. the landlord should see to it or you make your own copy..

U can politely tell him to mind his business some times.. not being rude but in a gentleman way... I would have taught you but it will cost u..

The man loves you but don't respect you and your feelings..

Put the wedding onhold till you figure out what to do next.. I am sorry this happened most men are not all like this

Your wife is just the annoying type... a married woman in a man's house @ 10pm is just a no no irrespective of how close and harmless the relationship is with the neighbor

divinehand2003:
A good Wife-material will clean the whole thing and even ask for his dirty clothes to wash also.

Haba Bro! !!

In my opinion, You don't need to feel guilty about it. It is harmless ...it is a healthy relationship... in Bro code, it is called wing man..if indeed u can be comfortable enough to discuss every thing under the planet.. .I feel sorry for the man because he will be misunderstood..both of u will be tagged cheats very soon.. .it's not easy to find a wing man at this day and age that got no backstabbing tendencies..

Please stay away if your mind is pricking you into doing something Gomorrah .. But if you feel your conscience is as clear as 7UP, just continue. It is healthy..

This thread is simply above..But

I like when someone is happy about what he or she is doing as long as it wasn't hurting any one but in this situation ,I don't know it is up to u in my opinion .....

I don't wanna sound like a hypocrite since I hated hypocrites.. I guess a lot of them will be arriving soon..

It's Stereotype dear . Your sister married to..hmmm.. let me just reserve my comment.. who am I to judge

Please stop looking for issue where there's none... And who prescribed the medication you were dishing out to the child ... U just want to kill her with your own hands if u keep on giving medicine with out prescription.. I know some people are naturally petite.. If u are extremely concern then take her to the hospital..

So you have replaced her already... with a new one.. No wonder she built with out informing u.

The daughters of the land are now becoming really wise.. I am impressed.. How can she come out of 6 years marriage with suitcase..

All the best man..

But why were they demanding an apology when they made the continent a shit hole..Assuming it was ok why would people cross the dangerous sea to Europe for a better life..

If it were to be somewhere in Nigeria, the government would have organized an operation something... operation python dance, operation ostrich clapping or what ever . Mtcheww..

In all my life, I wish I have seen some one that loved their job.. But we do it because of the income...

A lot of people will lie with a smile that they loved their job.. but what about that feeling of not willing or enthusiasm to get out of bed especially on a Monday morning...

Most times when you do that thing u loved the most, it doesn't yield much money or pay..

I would have loved to work in a radio station..using fake British accent mixed with Idoma to talk to those who cares to listen on whatever nonsense the topic of the day was and play music all day .. But no, I am stuck with the most boring job in the world just looking at figures in computer all day..Everyday

ShakurM:
Chai! people can be foolish sha. Never in my life would i follow the crowd. Imagine the comments on page1

They got comprehension issues... or just maybe they didn't read but wants to get page 1 massive likes

Have they removed Literature in English in Secondary school curriculum...just asking because this is alarming. .?

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OP In all the write up, u did not even care to mention their ranking in the world..
At least that information is necessary for people to know where they are standing in the world..Or maybe..just maybe you deliberately omitted it so that they won't find out that you are celebrating nonsense