₦airaland Forum

ogawisdom:
BC of this small issue, your bro needs to grow up.

He can't force the lady to quit her church, he can only stop her from taking his children to same Church.

That was not the oral agreement sir.. It was agreed that they will change church so that no one was cheated as they got married... So based on that, the lady going back to her church is a bridge of contract.. and could be seen as deception in order to gain or achieve an aim or target...

Nothing like forcing her... she agreed to it before they got married...

Though I suspect that was not only the reason why the man was unhappy.....

Vizzy4u:
As a United fan, liverpool hope u remember ur 3-3 with watford. No wonder Salah de always surrender....

United fan you said? Are u guys still on premier league?

The club to die for..... Liverpool

The same long hair.....makes them look the same ...short or natural hair prohibited

So you haven't sent the money yet since you opened this thread. .. please hurry up and send it already if u really want to give.... just pick any suggestion given to you up there...
It is your money, U worked for it... u don't have to be afraid of family members finding out... even if they do u don't have to answer to any one and pls no procrastination on your part..

By the way thanks for remembering and finding it in your heart to give..

Dear, Do you know how much it is to pay house rent, Electricity bill water rate...etc..?

Count it as if u were taking care of your niece or nephew... There's no gender in looking after your own blood....Since u were not paying any bill and she was feeding u...

As for her selfishness...U are practically referring to all human.. Human puts themselves first...I am making out time to explain it to u because u are young and that was like a rude shock to u...

Just take your time, and do the best that you can..and the ones that you can't, let her know.. always try to alternate from her house to your own father's house too once in a while just to cool off some time

This might sound crazy but since u have done every thing u can, by disconnecting electricity and other stuffs...if there are leprosy colony in Lagos, U might consider inviting 5 or 6 of them to camp in front of his house daily..the more repulsive ones the better...and faster he might leave...Imagine waking up in the morning only to see that...Show him how crazy u can be...

Besides it might be cheaper.. I heard how those group of people help out landlords whose tenants refused to pay in Kaduna state those days...

When they finished their job u sanitise your home

This advert just made my day today... Very funny...imagine getting a suitor on nairaland

DissTroy:
Bro, don't advice her to tolerate a women-beater or she'd end up dead in no time.

A guy who cheats would change if he's compelled to. A guy who's into vices might just give them up but a woman-molester would rarely ever change. Unless something drastic happens, men who initiate physical assault on women always keep at it.

I understand.... Some times people get provoked to act the way they do when it comes to domestic violence....
That is if the man got no will power to control his anger...

No one knows if the OP is bringing the best out of the guy... We can't just give up on someone because of his past... if there are indication or sign that the guy is a violent person, Op should take a walk.... If not.. my only concern is what he does for a living...

All these just for sex..?....As in sex.... ...that means if she got no kid for him she will be in her grave cooling off by now...

Love.... that's the only thing that can make someone that sees a spade...instead of calling it what it is..decides to call it a farm tool.... You saw all those tinny tiny things and u still sticks to it for three months. .. That my friend can make relationship work...

But If he abuses his two EX(s).. what do u think makes u special?.. is there a reason why you think he won't do it again?

As for drinking and smoking, You can't change him... Take it or leave it... Trying to change him is what I tagged selfish..(my opinion though ) Because u saw him doing it before u came along.... So tolerate it or move on.. except if he wants to change on his own accord...

In my opinion, I did not see much baggage except the fact that he was not having an honest source of livelihood and he (was) abusive..the key word...WAS... Lots of people got more baggage than that... if u can tolerate him and he treats you like a queen, stay....if not move on... don't depend on what people are gonna tell u..because u know him better than all of us

pleasureosondu:
She is gay? Op, is something doing ya Medulla Oblongata?

A woman that is romantically involved with another woman could be refer to as Gay.. but most times they were known as lesbian(s)...Just as a male or a female could be referred to as Actor(s)...Except you wants to differentiate...

dfrost:
Serious? Pythons inside Otammiri?

I need to confirm this story.

It's not true... the river was basically deep...The soil was white...if u were looking at it from afar, you might be thinking it was a shallow river..because u can see the clear white soil but if u go in, it could be a rude shock.....the villagers or the indigenous youths of that town always remove soil or mine the white soil as their source of income...

It got nothing to do with the python..

If I were you, I will give my grand mother that money and issue a warning that if it was not given to the recipient, .....That she won't like what u will do.... let her dare you... If the money was your, no one should decide whom u give it to.. or what you gonna do with it..

Follow up by make numerous calls to her to make sure she has delivered the said amount... Your own grandma should not be acting the way she was doing in as much as things are OK for her...

As for those grandkids, any time she passed on, wait for any of them that will shed crocodile tears... U just ask on what grounds were they shedding tears...was it the love they had for her or...

When he clocks 29 and they don't need him anymore over there in England.. he will remember Nigeria...

Your younger brother was curious.... At his age, that's when proper guidance comes into to play but it's unfortunate that his friends and peer group has won the battle by guiding him towards porn instead of his parents or U as the big brother......

If I may ask, how many times have you called him to tell him what he's gonna pass through at puberty? things like wet dreams, Sex etc...normal locker room talks that might help him open up to you in future.....You should know that If he opens up to you through that angle, that's when you would satisfy his curiosity and answer any burning question he got within him.. and he would not have resulted to porns.. if u did not do your part, you don't have to scream now....You people cannot leave every thing in the hands of teachers at home......

Even some parents are very embarrassed to talk about sex to their kids... they tell them to pray as if prayer would answer the question on how they were finding hairs on their pubic region, armpit and the other places...

you should know that kids of nowadays are more curious than the kids of 80s, and 90s...especially when Internet is easily accessible this days..

So that's just it...So no one was held accountable?....AND why do people use phones in Nigeria?... So they don't know the power of social media yet...How to demand justice for the downtrodden...

I remembered SAKOBI by Susan Patrick.. She was really good

Maybe I don't know the meaning of debasing any more...I will still go to Google and confirm...

I did not see any thing wrong with the police officer's advice to the young ladies...

When will the tarnishing of Nigerian image by some elements stop pls. I don't even know if we still got an image to protect

If this story is true the lady in question can kill and bury and no one will know about it...

Body language... check
Facial expressions...check
And they were living in the same room For how many months in which the project was going on Haba!!

Anyways, His ego was bruised...she should just give him some time..he will come around...

But If reverse was the case, I believe the lady would have been angry too.

They were married. .... correct?
Was there any restraining order prohibiting the woman from entering the house?

They were not divorced yet correct? therefore she is entitled to have access/ gain entry to the home...

Though I don't understand what u OP meant by the Guy "moved on".....It was only 70days,...they haven't talked about the issue they were having..because according to U, he chose not to go to the house yet.... they haven't even separated....Therefore he's still stuck in that relationship...That is not my definition of moving on in my own opinion..

I don't really get this....If they have found the body of the general and his car, what were they looking for in the pond? Was this pond operation carried out before or after the body of the general was found?

World class university.... Like seriously? ...just wondering when the OP checked his uni world ranking last

No wonder some of them behaves badly when they were with civilians...This is not good...that also explains why they were always sad when they see a civilian that can afford the camouflage uniform....

The military are very important in every country and this guys should not be neglected like this. ....

See aethnic names

See ethnic names

Who and where is the appropriate authority?

It's just like reporting a police officer that might be acting according to his boss's command over bribery..or #100
Likewise the immigration official might have been told to collect...

And where is the man? I believe she can't have relationship by herself? Besides I thought this is 2018..

All this ex ministers...always intelligent when out of office...One just wondered what they were thinking while in office...