₦airaland Forum

flokii:
You made up your mind to keep it so keep it..

When the thing dey sweet you.. you seek for advice?.. when the long thing fall and you use your hand put am back inside... You disturb us?

If you check well now, she might not even know who owns the pregnancy, just picked one out of the many guys she's been sleeping with to pin pregnancy on.

How you know say it was long
You wicked o !

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

At 3 weeks gone you could have aborted. He said he was not interested.
He has been consistent in his stance. So have you in keeping the child.
You decided to keep the child - You live with consequence. If the child becomes Lebron James the sequel. You will reap the benefits then.
I am sorry.

1. You are assuming that she makes considerable less than a man ?
2. That the man makes more.
Both Take 10% out your salary to do whatever you want
Take 70 % goes to joint account for house management
Take 20% to Joint Savings account

Someone tipped someone off.
You think Tinubu doesnt have police escort to move money around ?
I am sure that money is fake new currency.
Tinubu is miles ahead and planned every detail. If Naira no dey, Dollars will be used . Transfers won't work delay too much.

Damilare65:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now, and it has been great, she ticks most of my boxes and she can cook, the best cook actually,

There is just a major problem, we are both 26 this year, things are going great and honestly i have dated a lot of girls but this one understands me

i was talking to my younger sister yesterday, and we were talking about couples, and she told me that a man should always date someone younger,.

so please my fellow nairalanders, is there anything wrong with it

Adam and Eve were same year. As long as she is submissive and you love her. Game on !!!!

Ahmed0336:
100%✓

I don't know why some people behaves this way.
Yesterday my wife bought some groceries and made transfer only to realize the money later reversed.
Now she is on her way back to the shop to pay the man his money.

There's no harm in being good, let the bad ones change their ways.

OP, don't worry, that's some of the sh*t life sometimes throws at us

Blame Buhari and Emewhatever his name is. Putting untold burden on a fragile network. And you cant even withdraw cash . To do so you have to pay a heavy surcharge. Like what self inflicting gun shot wound is that. Just feel like crying . What terrible experience to continue living in. Yet we moove !!!

sharpden:
That was years ago? Really? But you still judge our Igbo brothers of not being trusted enough to handle power due to the event of 1966 abi?

If you want to come to equity, come with clean hands and don't whip up sentiments when it favours you.

You guys betrayed the South in 2015 by colluding with outsiders to snap power from the South thinking you all will benefit, but forgetting that who you're betraying for won't trust you.

Anyways, Karma is on standby shaa

I have a long standing Ibo g/f . So I ain't into the tribalist crap. Others I have spoken to are so entrenched in their WAZOBIA mentality ( no matter what we say about BAT, they come out and say, It is Yoruba's turn as a rebuttal ). It's the same within and outside the shores so I am in minority.

I would have voted for Obi if i was available but my fears are that
1. He thinks Nja can be changed with a flip of the switch.
2. He has no Senator in Abuja representing LP
3. He has no Governors belonging to any party.
4. We all talk from one side of the mouth. If so LP would have at least had a considerable number of votes during the governorship election in Osun and Ekiti.
5. A lot of the youths are double dipping . Talk and shout the loudest but do not even have PVC cards.

Until the east stop the Biafra talk somehow - there will always be that mistrust.

asanausana91:
only a foolish man will buy rice at 50k and still go back to vote for APC.
Today naira is 800 to one dollar
The cooking gas is not affordable
Fuel is 500 per liter
If APC Tinubu win this election then I will know that the country is made up of fools.

Bro - I have known that since he won and became APC presidential candidate. We have short memories and the cycle continues unfortunately.

So the BAT video comes across more presidential. He is calm and relaxed
Atiku's okay but with the terrible voice over at the end.
We are waiting for PO.

Here's my prediction
1. BAT wins
2, Atiku
3. PO.

sharpden:
This man is reading what he is saying from a board in the background. If you doubt, look at his eyes - there are not fixed on the camera but on the board he is reading from.

Common, this little address is recitable off-hand.

See who they want to be president, someone who doesn't believe in One Nigeria wants to rule it.

Dude that was 26 Years ago. And shortly after MKO's death . People are allowed to change positions.
I hope someone wont go dig up things you have said in the past to use against you.

The trick is the environment.
Ply her with alcohol and then let your fingers gentle penetrate the forbidden area. Then you penetrate . Some of you are in a hurry to pump in and out.

Situation room ke ! My office I use 3 screens. Why not network monitors so that everyone can see.

Everlyn:
Sai Obi!!

Shugaban kasa Nijeriya!!


May God raise a kind hearted person to assist you dear, and may divine help locate you IJN

That babe is beautiful ! Yummy

JackDaAlienz:
Guys, I'm starting to regret dating this girl, she is about to spoil major bag
I'm talking thousands of dollars

I have been dating this girl for 1 year now, she was invited for seminar and big people attended, big people from Europe, asia at intercontinental hotel in Lagos. During the meeting, one of the cooperate guy started crushing on her and was trying to woo her.
She said she doesn't like Chinese guys( the guy is Asian) I told her to play along and get money gifts from the man then split the money 40/60.
She started insulting me saying do I think she is cheap girl or olosho??

Did I say anything wrong?
I told her to sleep with the man with condom and ask him for 10k dollars because the man really loaded, he funds research and grants of about $170k and he like my girl
she is jobless and economy hard yet I still give her and spend my hard earned money on her. So how is it wrong that she can't reason together let's make big money from the rich cooperate guy.
Was I wrong?

Dude you're a terrible person.
Why are you pimping out a girl you wont even marry.
Its an offense

Prostitution in Nigeria is illegal in all Northern States that practice Islamic penal code. In Southern Nigeria, the activities of pimps or madams, underage prostitution and the operation or ownership of brothels are penalized under sections 223, 224, and 225 of the Nigerian Criminal Code.

Why not ?
What matters most is her heart and mind.
Unemployed means she was working and was either laid off or quit her job.
There's more to marriageability than employment status.

I personally find it too pricey. I guess just like his vehicles, Its not for everyone.
The concurrent

I am curious to know how many accounts can I have on it. I mean the hardware is installed in my house for about N260,000 but how about when I am on the move ? Most of us have 3 devices, ( Computer, Tablet , mobile phones ) the wife has as many devices, the TV is networked, IPTV , smart devices + the kids all have one each .

This is also only available in Mozambique and Nigeria.

Knowing Elon, once he sees the data on the number of people who are buying this. He may come out with another lower priced version.

letstalksense:
I have this lady I'm looking forward to get married to. We met like 3 months now. We are both from Christian background and we both love God.
I'm not asking her for sex and anything of such. I'm Just looking for a good woman I can settle down with.
We get into deep talk and she told me how she has sex with just 2 guys all her life. And that was after her ex broke her heart.
But promised she has repeat from that. And don't have any sexual engagement with those 2 guys anymore.
Then I told her I still love her despite her action.

BUT I told her she has to delete the contacts of those 2 guys she had sex with and the ex. So she won't have anything doing with them again. But she refused and told me, I didn't trust her. That she is just in friendship with them and have nothing doing with any of them.

Now, my fear is, will she be cheating or have anything doing with those guys if I eventually got married to her?
This is already already bring misunderstanding between the both of us.

I hate cheating and don't cheat either. So I don't like any situation that may bring these exs into our relationship.

But she is not letting them go. Claiming they have been helping her one way and the other, encouraging her in business (she is hard working though). She told me, she got nothing sexual with any of them anymore and will never do. That she has repeated from such. They are just friends now. That I should have to trust her.

Please I don't know if I should trust her truly or I should quit the relationship?

Please what can you advise me? Please mature advise. Thanks

So you want her to cut off friends she has known all her life because you have trust Issues ?
How would you feel if the tables were turned ?
Nonetheless, let me tell you a short story.

I dated this white girl for about a year and then we broke up amicably. About 3 years later, I find all the love letters that she had sent me in an old box and I called all the numbers - they were out of order. A year after that , I had bump into her at the store. We hugged & stuff and I saw that she had a little kid now. So after chatting for about 30mins, I say - Can I have your number to call you ? She says no, that her husband is a jealous dude. I said really ! She said yep that she married a Nigerian. I was left scratching my head.

Why I am bringing this up is that most matured men would like to meet your friends who have helped you along the way. ( I had an ex who married a soldier). When I was in town and before she married, we were introduced. "That's the old dude I was to marry and he's the new man I going to marry "

In summary - Let her earn your trust. They are her friends. Who is she going to invite to the wedding ? Deal with your trust Issues.

juman:
Datti is clueless.
Those governors based their argument on supreme court judgement.

Agreed Exactly, he is clueless.

LP you are on the wrong side of this joor.
If the President can ignore the Supreme Court Order. Especially when those governors went to court. Then they can do/say whatever they want.

texazzpete:
Kindly DM me so I’m looped in. I can pitch in something if the story checks out.

Thanks to you and @gaby for following up

Loop me in as well pls.
I guess we could start with a WhatsApp group once you have verified the story and details.

salesbloo:
You see why APC Governors are right




I can deposit 500K in 5 different bank accounts making 2.5m meaning old notes is still a legal tender .....since the deadline specified is April 10 . Alternatively if you have individual and corporate accounts ....500k in each account

On the other hand if the above scenario is not plausible because of BVN, instead of depositing it, since there are no new naira notes, I will just spend it .Why should I return them since there is no new naira notes and no deadline. Let continue to recirculate them, CBN want to scam us again. To get old or new notes you pay as high as 20%


Redesign Policy is completely defeated

Am I right or wrong?

Just add this to the long list of self inflicting injuries or friendly fire.
You’ll never hear of this mess in developed countries.
CBN must be stupid to think owners of banks do not have relationships with politicians or influencers who have access to new notes.
when you have APC governors suing an APC FGN then you know you never had the support of those whom you should have at the beginning.
People are dying ; using money to get access to their own money ; each state is issuing their own laws . Why not save face and let both currencies exist said by side till April .
Save whatever legacy of yours is left or history will not be kind to you

gaby:
Sickening.

Just reading your submission and I kept feeling my inner man being spoken to. Your kid sister's dream needs and deserves to be kept alive.

Whatever life has thrown at her was never her bargain and shouldn't be used as an excuse to kill her lofty dreams.

To this effect, I am volunteering to take charge of that kid's educational needs so long as you are able to provide every necessary and confirm able details down to the physicals.

God bless...

I could also help - perhaps we can chat to discuss how you would like to proceed.
Will the mother agree to such an arrangement since she is still living under the same roof ?
How much are we looking at to finance her education ?

sarrki:
KADUNA UPDATE: Let us stand up strongly for democracy, peace and national unity

State Broadcast by Malam Nasir El-Rufai, Governor of Kaduna State, 16th February 2023.



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I am moving to Kaduna
This is an action governor.
It makes no sense why both notes cannot coexist as to the time new notes have been printed.!

Breeze111:
So on today gist fam, even me this one funny me... Please what do ya all think
My name is emmanuella “I got pregnant through hookup and I am one month gone. I chatted the guy I did hookup with that I’m pregnant but he denied it and deleted his WhatsApp. I’m 100% sure the child is for him.

I took some p!lls but I’m not sure the p!lls worked yet. I’m thinking of keeping the pregnancy and running away to avoid people laughing at me. Is it advisable to go to the guy’s house and confront him?”

Hello No !
Common - He paid you right ? You had an agreement - I pay you and we fvck ! You are not gf/side chick status.
You should have used CD.
You are a professional so deal with it yourself.
I would suggest you have the child and give it up for adoption. He is not going to love you nor the child.

JohnieWalker12:
On a lighter note. Do you think Nigeria should also send back monies recovered from Yahoo boys back to their country of Origin !!!

why not !

Yura67666:
Where can I find a person to write my term papers?

Use ChatGPT send me your topic and Ill ask the AI to write it for u

Wordsfrombimpe:
Answer guys

At a certain age, I would have but as you age so comes wisdom.
I don't know the woman from Adam but I bet you that's not how she dresses throughout the week.
She's out with friends for a night out.

Bodmum:
what's the processor?

Did any one read processor size ?