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jully29:
Am happy this is coming from a man.
Thanks for that.
They think they are the most perfect ones.

Thanks

frankflix:
Character is not a MERE it is the MAIN CHARACTERISTIC

Fine, I strongly agree with you bro..
Then he should have disclosed the exact character deficiency she is having so we all can have a clearer perspective.

udele1:
What if APC collapses their structure under PDP or the other way round, can both PARTY votes in Ijiala overturn APGA'S Victory?

That would be medicine after death..
Soludo would be victorious either way.

Stephen2324:
Man cancels marriage, as fiancee insist on 450k wedding gown instead of the one of 150k.

What's your take here

Stupid and senseless gender..always channeling their energy on the wedding ceremony and disregarding the marriage proper.

Digital101:
This guy scam me of 10k after promising to give me a msport and bet9ja tricks. He also said he want to sell his YouTube and Telegram channel that he is traveling out to Canada.

After making payment, he delayed in sending me the tricks and told me to contact his brother that he is in ghana and form ghana he will move to Canada.

I contacted the brother and after six hours, he send me a video that didn't work. I play the game and I lost money, I told him he said he will refund my Money back.

He asked for my account number and since last week he has yet to refund my Money.

I message him on telegram today and he blocked me and also blocked my WhatsApp number. I could not get his picture but this is his phone number 08068703461.

This is his bank account number
OKON DAVID SUNDAY
0450963479
GT BANK

Avoid him at all costs he is a scammer.

You fell for his scam cos you were greedy..
How can someone tell you he had access to betting tricks and you believed?

You deserve to be flogged infact..

Digmygold:
Don't mind him. He is a chop and go minister. Once he gets the cookie, he then starts to complain about character just to escape and go on to his next victim. Curse wey just start. As if he has a perfect character. Nonsense.

Exactly

richeeyo:
Bro thanks for pointing that out
This guys just post lies on nairaland
The girl in question never cheated or lost interest
Am very sure his just trying to play innocent
Majority of kids here saying nonsense,
Do you know what it means when a girl puts her hope on you, only for you to say you are tired. You need death

They think every reader is as stupid as they think it..im not saying marrying a girl you put through school ( even if that's true) is a must but throwing everything away for behavioural reasons?C'mon! It not like she was caught pants down with some other guy... I believe there is always room for change besides he isn't perfect either..i'm pretty sure she doesn't like a few things he exhibits as well but perhaps cos he is her benefactor, she can't talk or express herself .

Babara1994:
Masturbation and sex aren't the same, silly!
1. During masturbation, your body draws endorphins and other good hormones from your body.

2. When you masturbate, you're most of the time engaging your brain by watching porn or chatting; either way, your brain is affected and your eyes start to weaken. That's why people complain of migraine and floaters buildup in the eyes after prolonged masturbation.

If you want to educate someone , you go ahead...theres absolute no reason to call me names.

Learn that.

deliverance1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCsDm8sEYAU

Its just like saying sex has got implications.

Leebellow96:
A bike thief met his Waterloo today ����. BOYS disfigure the werey face .. IBADAN

You can't find anything short of jungle justice in a zoo.

Sad..

Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtgJcvfIT2c


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I bought a new chin from @iamdrbea .
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Make up has really saved lots of girls from depression.. I only pity guys who fall for it.

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

I don't believe ur story bro..
First of, I need to understand what you meant by 'training her in school' cos to me, it means supporting her financially from start to finish be it secondary or tertiary..
Now, If you truly ' trained her in school' like you claim, why would you push her away so easily for a mere setback in character, as if you are perfect? Don't you think there are characters you exhibit that she doesnt like too?

Guys sef..

Seyong10:
The Vice chancellor of a State University in Ondo state, UNIVERSITY OF MEDICAL SCIENCES, UNIMED ONDO has declared that students, irrespective of their levels should dropout if they cannot afford to meet up with over 300% increments in tuition fee..
In his words :
"The institution is committed to offering quality education and this position would not be compromised.
The parents have an option. Their children don’t need to study here. Other medical schools are available.
We run this school almost free of tuition fees. This school is a specialised school and we cannot continue with the previous fees.”

Also faulting the hike, some of the parents who spoke with Vanguard said: “There will be mass withdrawal. It is not realistic.

“Mass withdrawal is looming in the school. We were paying N350,000 and it was difficult. We know Medicine is not cheap, but this is on the high side. Other state schools are running medicine but their fees are not as high as N2 million.”

The students have show their displeasures by reaching out to the authority which of cause yielded no good result and several media houses.. They clamour for the public empathy and intervention

When a 300 level student of nursing department was contacted, he said;
I have to do alot of menial jobs for the past 3 years to get to this level just to realize I will have to drop out of the school Soon, I am really depressed"
This is a silent notice to parents who cannot afford the new fee structure to withdraw their wards.

Abeg , the fee na for Bsc, Msc, Phd and A Job afterward right?

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys let me just go straight to the point because I'm nervous as hell...

So I had an encounter this girl uchechi(name changed for anonymity reasons) where we had a little argument as normal strangers on the road while I was going home from work. so after finding out I was not at fault thanks to her (friend) who vouched for me, she apologized and said she was sorry.. so I accepted the apology and continued heading for home..

Fast forward to 2 days later. While I was returning from work through the Same route, uchechi stop me and said she wanted to see me.. she started off by narrating our previous encounter which we both smiled about..she then proceeded to telling me that it's actually her friend (the one who vouched for me) who really wanted to see me. And I was like ok.. so she made space for me and her friend to sit while we discussed...as a sharp guy man, I already knew where this all was heading to. so I began acting like I was in a hurry and really busy just to avoid looking....... After a little chat, we exchange contact and bed each other fair well...

Fast forward to today....we have been chatting for a while getting to know each other (or at least, she's getting to know me)..so after I was bored of all her questions, I came plain and told her to just go straight to the point of why she asked for my number...

To my greatest suprise, this babe told me she likes me and would love for both of us to have a relationship.. up till now I've been smiling like someone who won millions in bet9ja... Honestly I don't know what to Tell this girl...I really need advice.. but mind you I'm currently single, and I think I like her too..

If no be say you wan chop clean mouth, I would say 'when a woman loves, she loves for real'..

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, how beautiful am I?

Please comment...refer to profile photo if you need to. [/color]

You are beautiful ok..

officialmario:
Good Morning Fellow Nairalanders
This story I want to share here is a true life story about my family
It happened that my father retired at the Nigerian Brewery PLC in Ibadan in the year 2005.
After his retirement we expected him to set up a small scale business, but knowing that he has another plan in mind.
I had just finished my secondary school when he retired,we are just four and I am the third born,. On the 10th of October my father travelled to United kingdom (UK), without telling anyone about it, it was when he got to the UK that one of his friend came to pass the news to us, it came as a shock to the whole family, the most painful part of it is that he went with his concubine who had giving birth to four children and divorce her husband, and they did court wedding in Lagos,
To cut the whole story short, life is not that easy for us as we had to look for means to survive, my mother is just a petty trader who earns little, I had to pick up a phone call business and I was earning 3k per month.
Life really went too rough for us but thank God we are able to survive..
My father came back last year from London, and it was with surprise because nobody was informed about his coming.
When he got to Nigeria, he had to stay in her younger sisters house in ondo state, so he fixed a day for get together, it was at the get together that he apologized and gave my mum 10k just to forget about what has happened in the past, he has not been sending any support to her right since he travelled


I have an advice and a question to ask on nairaland
Firstly, the advice goes to the ladies, Please and please, don't ever rely on any man to survive, always try as much as possible to work hard and never be a burden to any man, even if your husband ask you not to work, try and find a better business to do because you never can tell what tomorrow will bring..
The second is just a question, if you happens to be in my mother's shoe,Do you expect her to forgive such a man and then accept the 10k gift he offered without any other benefits?

The money shouldn't suffice at this point..
The most important thing is if he is truly sincere.

Pukkalolo:
Over the years, quite a number of women have asked me questions along the lines of---

"Does my man truly loves me or he's only playing games"

Or

"How can I know if a man only wants sex"

Or

"How can I know if a man has a long term plans for me or he's only deceiving me"

Or

"How can I know... bla bla bla bla bla....'

Whatever. They are all similar questions.

If you're a lady looking for answer to these kinda questions, keep reading.

My answers to this question are based on my personal experiences over the past years. Enjoy!!!


There are many men who pretends to really love a woman but in reality he just wants to get in between her legs. Many men do that a lot: they promise ladies marriage as a tactics to get sex from them. It's an old trick.

Why does the tactics works?

Many single women attached security and certainty to marriage--probably because the clock is ticking and their parents keep drawing their attention to the fact that they are getting older, or maybe all the women they know are getting married and flaunting it on social media for them to see.
.

How can you identify a man who has no long term future plans for you but pretending he does?

Let's get started.


1. HE SAYS HE IS NOT LIKE OTHER GUYS:

He says things like, "I am not like other guys…" But it's part of the trick.
If a guy tells you he's not like other guys, then he’s probably like other guys.
If he’s truly not like the other guys, he doesn't have to say it. It will show in his actions. Keep that in mind.



2. SIMPLY ASK HIM

One of the best ways to expose his true intentions for you is to simply ask him. Just ask him, nothing else.

I don't want you to ask him the normal basic question: "do you really love me."

Ask him something like this:
"what long-term plans do you have for me and how do you intend to start going about it"

OR

"Do you just want to use me to satisfy your sexual urges or do you actually have a long-term interest in being with me?"

When you bluntly throw that questions to a man unexpectedly, It often hit him by surprise. Your focus should not only be on the reply he gives you, it should also be on his immediate initial reaction to the question the moment you throw it at him.
Men who are often taken aback and at a loss for words when you ask them that question are probably the ones who has no long-terms plans for you. They are only want to sleep with you.



3. HE LOSE INTEREST WHEN YOU DON'T ALLOW ANY FORM OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH HIM.

Most times (but not all the time), a man who truly want a future with you won't get "really" mad when you refuse any form of sexual activity; those kinds of men are often patient. Men who get mad and pissed off when you reject their sexual advances are who has no long term plans for you. They only want to Bleep you.

But ladies keep this in mind: the simple act of withholding sex doesn't magically bring you the right man who will be good for you in the long run.

Many women use their sexuality as a tool to manipulate and get what they want from men. A lot of ladies withhold sex to get men to commit... This is a wrong mindset. Of course, I don't recommend opening your legs for every dick and Harry you meet, but I also don't recommend using sex as a tool to make a man commit to you. Remember, you're worth more than just sex. A man shouldn't commit to you simply because you give sex or withhold sex, he should commit to you because you add real value to his life. I mean, he should commit to you because you bring other things to table apart from sex.

Please ladies, do not engage in any sexual activity with a man simply because he pressures or shame you into doing it. If a man lose interest in you because you told him to wait, then you should be glad. That's a sign that he is not worth your affection and companionship.


4. TELL HIM TO UPLOAD THE PICTURES OF BOTH OF YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA
If you are in a relationship with a player or womanizer who has other women in his life, he will never want to upload the photos of you and him together, and worse, he will never want to put a caption that shows you and him are in a relationship.


5. INVITE HIM TO MEET YOUR FAMILY
A man who isn't just looking for sex will be excited to meet your family because it gives him an opportunity to get to know you more. If he doesn't like the idea of meeting your family, then that's a sign that he has no long term future plans for you.

I hope this was helpful...

#Stay blessed


You can learn more here:

http://chrissolution.com.ng

Bloody hell!.. all your reasons but number 1and 2 are crap...must a guy upload ur photo to prove he truly cares about you? Be advised that a guy will do all the above , chop you and still jakpa.

Chai, ladies and their delusion

doksblog:
But what is meth?
meth has become a serious issue in Nigeria and the Southeast with thousands of Igbo youths addicted to the drug.

meth is the Igbo slang name for a very dangerous hard drug called Methamphetamine or Crystal Meth.
Read;How Nigerians love taking cough syrup
It looks like ice block and can be blue in colour sometimes. meth is known by experts to be one of the hardest drug addictions to treat.

It is very addictive and affects the central nervous system of whoever takes it.
It creates a feeling of massive happiness that is very addictive and makes the taker want to fly.
When the effect wears off, the taker tries to have that feeling again thereby taking it again.

How Can You Know Someone Who Is Addicted

According to WebMD, these are the signs of someone with serious meth addiction?
1.Tattered dressing and shabby looks
2.Always picking at hair or skin
3.Loss of appetite and weight loss
4.Moving Eyes about every time
5.Strange sleeping patterns — staying up for days or even weeks at a time
6.Always Talking, Nonstop
7.Borrowing money often, selling possessions, or stealing
8.Angry outbursts or mood swings
9.Psychotic behaviour, such as paranoia and hallucinations

What Does meth Do To Your Body?

1.High Temperature and possible death
2.Unable To Sleep and Violent
3.The user ages fast and looks sick with lots of pimples.

Therapy and Cure

There is no drug that can cure meth addiction. This is what makes it so dangerous.
The only treatment is Behavioural therapy which we are not sure is available in Nigeria now.....Continue

https://doksblog.com/this-is-not-iceblock-its-mkpuru-mmiri-the-substance-destroying-youths/

Bloody methamphetamine

euphratess:
thanks bro

Pls take good care of urself.

juniorstar:
It makes no sense.. a girl you havent met b4 just some random chat..probably a single mum she starts billing you with am hungry send me money..like who does that!!

It's just funny.

euphratess:
Guys it’s been two days now, and it’s getting worst each time am urinating. Also , the colors of my urine has turned yellow and last drops are most painful to release and somewhat reddish, . Even when am not urinating, am always feeling this burning sensation inside my organ, now some white discharge don't follow ohh... . Abegg people wetin be this

Lalasticlala
Seun

Warning:Pictures are not my true condition

Hmm..so you have been messing around raw with all of dem filthy Nigerian girls ai.. The problem with we guys is that we don't know a neat girl when we see one. Neatness starts from the inside but Just as a lot of us are swept away by beauty , same way we get carried away by expensive dresses , hair styles or even deodorants worn by these same girls who are actually vectors of various diseases.

Very few girls in this country know a thing or two about personal hygiene.
8 out of 10 Nigerian girls are dirty.

Well, Let this be a lesson to you bro.
With the right medication,I pray God heals you.
you will be fine.

Bigredmachine:
some days back i made a comment on why am angry with that gender, some were saying what did they do wrong to me... i will give a reason here, it may not be the women faults though, but if you are my female friend, then something now leads to another and you are making it all look like you are doing me a favour being my friend, i swear i will treat such lady like trash... it is when guys make them look like Gold they start asking for this and that because they think the guy cant do without them...

Very true..
That's why I hate guys who simp around for girls even at their own peril.

Solofresh2:
Yes men Fall in love but women don't.Women are only attracted to a man for a deep reason best known to them and when that reason is out of that man's life, they tend to lose interest in that man and start looking elsewhere.

Women only love their offspring or kids and that is the only unconditional love they have.

So do we then say love is just overrated?

Bigredmachine:
OP You are wrong on this... If I should speak for myself though, I am mindful of ladies with their excessive billings and can u do me a favour tactics, hence I place them in a position where they can't call me a friend neither can they call me an enemy...

Nah mumu dey fall for their antics

I agree with you bro..
Girls are so unforgiving these days..
It's so bad now that you meet a girl even on social media today, she is billing you the next day.

Somebody you haven't set eyes on.

TheDevilIsALai:
Look at pic below. Isn't it just quacking crazy. The usual non-governmental organization is partnered with the UN. Do keep in mind that Klaus Shcwab is a direct descendant of Rothschild (his mother is Marianne Rothschild) and the leader of WEF. This actual cunt has his book "Covid-19: The Great Reset" listed on Amazon. This is all he talks about. Then he organizes a pandemic simulation Event 201 just months before covid and a few months ago he organized Cyber Polygon.

Ratchildren are clearly the ones calling the shots. If you look at Forbes top 10 richest people, you will not find a single Ratchild on the list, but if you would divide all the assets and wealth equally between every living Ratchild, they would all be on the Top 10. That is how wealthy and influential they are

I'm actually someone who loves and is very fascinated by conspiracy theories like this..but I fear this one is moving from theory to becoming a fact.

TheDevilIsALai:
Look at pic below. Isn't it just quacking crazy. The usual hungovermental organization is partnered with the UN. Do keep in mind that Klaus Shcwab is a direct descendant of Rothschild (his mother is Marianne Rothschild) and the leader of WEF. This actual cunt has his book "Covid-19: The Great Reset" listed on Amazon. This is all he talks about. Then he organizes a pandemic simulation Event 201 just months before covid and a few months ago he organized Cyber Polygon.

Ratchildren are clearly the ones calling the shots. If you look at Forbes top 10 richest people, you will not find a single Ratchild on the list, but if you would divide all the assets and wealth equally between every living Ratchild, they would all be on the Top 10. That is how wealthy and influential they are

The Rothchild family actually controls the world.

TheDevilIsALai:
Georgian Guidestones

They want a population under 500 million with the vast majority as slaves in their Zionist hellscape.

Go and watch what that bastard Klaus Schwab of the WEF is proposing as your future.

Wow, that's quite expository..i ll find out more about this Georgian guidestones.
Thanks bro.

Zooposki:
The Georgia Guidestones says they want only half a billion people left.

Hmm..this clearly points to the fact that Covid 19 must have been a biological weapon deliberately created to exterminate a whole lot of people...God help us

Ashley86400:
Steven Seagal nko?

Seagal the bone breaker

TheDevilIsALai:
There will be a "terrorist attack" involving the controlled and coordinated global release of a manmade smallpox-like virus.
It was supposed to happen this winter, and it may still happen this winter, but things haven't quite gone as planned.

The virus will be released in countries with the highest rate of vaccination for COVID-19. Why, you ask? Because the "vaccine" was the primer for this upcoming virus. The kill rate among the vaccinated will be 90%+, while only killing 30% of the unvaccinated. (mostly children and elderly)

THIS is why they need as FEW UNVACCINATED people as possible. If there are too many unvaccinated people surviving, the fact that the corona jab was behind the crippled immune response of the dead will be undeniable. They simply can't begin the final phase if there are too many unvaccinated people remaining in the first and second world countries. Third world countries with extremely low vaccination rates and no mass deaths caused by an outbreak will be explained away as "improper climate for the virus" and "local containment efforts succeeded" etc. etc. This is a direct attack on civilization, but it must be handled carefully, otherwise they won't be able to remain in power in the New World after the chaos.

World population is a little over 7.3billion..if the so-called virus kills 6 billion, then wetin go remain ?

AnthCunny:
Why do job applicants tell their recruiters that they are able to work under pressure? Is it suppose to be a criterion as a job applicant or it's out of sheer desperation?

That's one common mistake applicants make on their resume, it's so wrong.

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

*************************************

Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

******************
What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

Listen, there's absolutely no sense in ur story..
You are just a selfish woman.

What's wrong with ur nanny sleeping with ur father inlaw?
So ur nanny or father in law don't deserve to be happy right..
She doesn't deserve a man too right?

You should be thankful to God it wasn't ur husband she left with.

My problem is why u are so mad about it.

Look, My advice to you is to channel all this ur energy into ur own marriage and let the new found lovers be. This is ur reality, face it.