daretodiffer: That so because you are actually an idiot, a spineless weakling, a living stock...May I add....A PERVERT and an unintelligent human being.
Did she ask you to spend on her? Don't you think it is daft to entice someone you hope to have a meaningful relationship with, with money etc? Did she cover your eyes and brain from seeing that she wasn't going to end up with you? She made a right choice. You aren't what a woman who is worth her onions would want for any form of relationship, except sexual relationship. In a perfect world.
Did you say you would want to marry a white woman? You are only going end up with those who are either fat or desperate. No smart woman would end up with a man who has an ass for a brain!
Now shut up and grow up. Thanks!!!
Are you done? Is that all you have give? I need more. What other names do you wanna call me?
Nazeren: This is the silliest comment I've read since joining NL. I was about giving you a lesson on these things but I'll leave you to grow up on your own.
luminouz: I feel u!!!!! Loving a geh can make u wanna do stuffs for her which would make things better..not worse...but not naija gehs!!!! They think u weak then n start misbehaving!!!!! I have studied women in detail n I have discovered they wanna be kept on their toes!!! They want 100%? Give em 30%.... Let em supply d rest....don't be predictable n lovey dovey like d whites.....naija gehs need a man to MAN UP...I have seen a geh who told me I need to beat her before she can respect me coz her dad gives d mum DAT same factory reset food!!!!! Too much care n love n whateva makes us seem weak to them....I lost d ability to be a mumu loverboy a long time ago!!! My looks even made it worse.....have been called player..Casanova since I was born....so dem ladies expect me to be a Yoruba demon even if I try to treat them right!!! I just tire!!! Am thinking if I marry at all.....na abroad babe!!!!! I see this shit everyday n am tired....I have to insult a geh yesterday coz she said she needs to go club n drink when she comes over.....had to tell her I don't drink or smoke or club or everything! Wtf am I? D club manager? Can't remember d last time I sent any romantic message!!!!
Lol. When a bad boy is treating them badly and you hear them complain, you would think if a nice guy come around they would prefer him. NA LIE!
Mikel Obi knows this that's why he just stuck to a white woman. If I have my way, I would do same, very same.
jaxxy: Wot sm guy basically don't understand is d fact a gal rejected u 2day don't mean she won't/can't accept u 2moro(dis ws even a 1st date wat ws he expecting ) bt wen u act like a jerk u give her more reason to be glad she rejected ur sorry ass. Know how to handle rejection or turning it to acceptance is being a man. Play ur cards rite- 2pac
luminouz: U made sense......was almost giving up on naija guys when I saw some posts here!!!! I understand his reasoning for calling d geh hungry (most naija babes are always hooongry...wonder if its a curse) n abusing her.....keeping quiet about it would have been better....but who knows how hard it was for him to get DAT cash(3800 to some..but 1000000 to odas).....n d geh would have never refunded him d dough otherwise!!! If na me....I would thank her on social media n put some picx of me eating some food or having a blast with d money...naija guys would laugh it off n people would forget easily...but I think d backlash of comments got to him...n being emotional as he is....now apologised....if for calling her hungry n broke i get....but not coz d lady was harsh to himn he couldn't handle rejection..wtf?.....it makes him look weak...... #my2cents
I have suffered in their hands make I no lie, I have spent, especially the one I really like. But they often don't like my type, the one who treats them well.
One was even using me to play ping pong in december. When I outburst she quickly turn it as reason why does not want me lol. Nigerian girls? Fear them. Meanwhile she was playing me and when I made it obvious that I am aware of what she is doing to me, she used my reaction turn the table around and accuse me of being immature.
I said it before that they expect u to bottle up when they slap you. As in say "PIM".
Her phone was faulty for 3 months, I fixed it for her and other things but when I reacted to her game that she was playing me, she then remember she has boyfriend and started doing comparison that the dude is more matured than I am.
I used to think being able to make a lady feel comfortable was an attribute of maturity but she was comparing me to a guy who couldn't fix her phone for 3 months, a guy she couldn't go to meet when she was hungry and asked me for help.
Not that I am trying to mock the dude cos I have been down before but it is what it is. She expected me to be smiling while she takes me for a ride and a fool. That is what most of them do and when you react, they use your reaction against you like this 5kbae did, they are EXPERT at it.
I moved on and I am onto another one now and gradually withdrawing. This one says she has guy buy allowed me to get close. When I ask deep question, she goes defensive. So why allow me get close like you are giving me hope we could work something out?
I was talking about my birthday and she mentioned it's same month as her boyfriend. I asked her if she really wants to work something out between us she said working something out means she is now cheating. Fine. I reacted over that state a day later..
And we had a quarrel. You won't believe she told me some days later while trying to resolve issues that what I said hurt her because she on her own had been trying to make it work out between us.
My brother, compare what I just said now between not wanting to work something out and claiming she had been trying to work something out and tell me if girls are not a confused entity.
I stopped doing most of the things I used to do like sending her romantic sms, calling often or chatting her up regularly. Now I go 5 - 7 days without communication and in no distance time, it will be a month.
Mcquine: Very correct my thoughts exactly In the main thread I said the same thing that if the guy hadn't gone online call her hungry ass out she wouldn't have refunded the dude.
And now this goon is apologizing shame on some men of these generation.
Weak ass dude.
he looks tough but at heart he weak. Women don't like such men. They expect you to be tough when they hurt you. If you show signs of being hurt, even if they wanted to give u a chance, they will reverse. Only a few, very few don't behave like that.
His apologies even made things worse. He should have just act like he ain't feeling the pain, no matter what! Him bragging was a fork up and apologising Is a double fork up. I am not sure that dude has enough friends to give him balls.
I feel the dude is an emotional person (I am too but had work on myself) hence the way he handled this issue. Emotional people can't bottle up their feelings for too long, they can't and they can't often blow things out of proportion under such states, especially when they are angry.
I know this because I am one I mean no disrespect, most Nigerian girls don't deserve much good. They prefer flirting with u and playing along than you wooing them and defining things.
Does that make sense? They turn down guys with genuine intents, with drive, just because he is being too loving. They prefer the opposite.
YelloweWest: Buying dinner for someone once is not leading him on.
This was their first date. How would she have known whether or nor she is interested in the guy if they didn't go on a date? Or what do you suggest should have happened? Our naija guys should be able to know that once you make the first move you are responsible first the bill and also expect nothing in return except the lady shows intrest.
Brosn leave story. They have been communicating. If a girl does not want you, if you like spend Millions, toto u no go see.
I am currently with one that I know I really like and I have spent but now thinking of ending the whole thing or become so so scarce like fuel. I have done lots to let her know i am serious but there is a way you will do things for these girls and their fish brain will make you look like an idiot in their eyes, a spinless weakling AND a laughing stock.
jaxxy: I guess hes redeem his poor image by this bt i don't ahe shud be frnds with him or go out ever again with him. Lost his head over rejection and bringing it to twitter bragging about lil change. Hes childish for her basically
and women hate it when u can't control "rejection" but they end up inflicting you.
They hate it when you can't control your hurt. They espect you to smile when they slap u emotionally.
Benita27: Have been reading the whole story like all day. Inasmuch as the guy couldn't stand rejection, the girl was also at fault here. Why would she lead him on if she wasn't interested in having a relationship with the guy?. You define your relationship from the beginning, and spending on you would be his call to make to avoid being indebted to anyone.
you are the only sensible person that have commented so far. A lot of girls do what this girl did. She knew she didn't want him but instead decide to lead him one. When it backfired, she tried to save face.
The guy also is not at fault here going by how Nigeria's society resolves around things like this. Guys often think girls are leeches and broke, which majority are anyway, they like to flex their muscles by bragging as well due to gang culture but I pretty sure a whole lot of guys in the gang have learned something huge from this.
On a second thought, If the amount spent was around 50-100k, that girl will not return shi shi.
Why didn't she decline collecting anything from him? Or is it because he cried out that she now felt the need to "return" it? Imagine he didn't cry out, she would have been at a corner laughing and calling him "maga" forget 5kbae. Nonsense abeg.
I have had numerous girls lead me on and I spend too, not because i am silly but it's whom i am at heart. When I realise their antics, I move on because I take it as a challenge. I keep them as close contact because some time in the future, they will surely bite their fingers when they see how I am treating "the queen" cos I am crazy person at heart in a romantic way.
The fun was worth it though it was nice being entertained lol.
Anyways I don't agree it should be left to float. The CBN should continue to defend it till it drops significantly. Afterall no difference in infrastructure and capital development when they allowed naira to drop.
lol. Google can help you do that, it even hit nairaland front page last year and the news was all over
jeromzy: The flat heads will be angry about this new development..maybe the only Igbo that would have fly a plane is locked up in kuje prisons.quote me and die
most of you who engage I tribal war are bloody racist! Stop deceiving yourselves, whether yoruba or. Igbo you are nothing but stinking racist.
janellemonae: Funny. I hope dt guy learns SThn. U ask a girl out on a date to get to know her better not to assume she's now ur girlfriend. A total stranger dt doesn't know u. Is it prostitution? Is dt how dey used to do in his village?
If cinema is too much for him, he can take her for a stroll in agodi gardens & buy drinks. No be by force to carry girl go cinema.
actually, they have been communicating for a while. U can't blame the dude too though. Some girls are ungrateful. They like making a fool of guys. I have been through that route before. Some can't even identify when a guy genuinely likes them and so they mess up everything.
I am gradually withdrawing from a girl I like already and I had a whole lot of determination to make her the queen. Babe just goofed by saying something about another guy when I mentioned my birthday. I tried to take it cool and told her my mind but she turned it around to make me blame myself, meanwhile it's her fault.
Have spent money? YES! But I don't care about the money cos I genuinely like her but at the same time, I don't want her to like me through money.
OreMI22: All these manipulation CBN is doing is a waste of time. They should stop creating artificial exchange rate and just float the currency.
They are intentionally creating corruption for themselves by always selling dollars at a lower rate than the true market value. The samr people that bought the dollars will turn around and sell it to the people that need it at the true market rate.
how many times should they float a currency? Na so boat?
dragonking3: What concerns me with marrying a prostitute? Are you high on shiit and weed? Let her provide proof in court and stop video ranting. We are tired of hearing the same thing over and over again
dragonking3: You are a big idiot. Did you not see the video? Is Sahara reporters not the ones carrying her case and granting the interview? Am sure if it was the other way round and it was against the apostle then Sahara reporters becomes legit right? Dunce
u have no case bloody miasma. Suddenly, a prostitute is loved and cherished but you won't marry one, right.
dragonking3: She said so and to your numerous other idiots who liked your comment without making their findings here is the video and a screen shot from m Sahara reporters. Nigerians should stop being dumb and do their research
You can set up a site like sahara reporter in 30Minutes and put ANYTHING ON IT.
Why has she ran to Canada, why didn't she stay in Nigeria to fight it? Why didn't she go to court as the first point of call? Why has Keyamo gone silent? Why has Sahara reporter gone silent as well? You are not reading between the lines that they don't have a concrete evidence abi?
May false accusation be your portion even if it require the extreme measure meted at the aluu4
dragonking3: Exactly. Keyamo and Sahara reporters are now quiet. They no longer talk, Otobo Now ran to Canada knowing fully well that she might get end up as room mate with aunty Kemi in port Harcourt prison
lol stupid people. Nigerians are the worst set in Africa.
kingphilip: I don't know how people see things though but left for me I'll better fix myself in perfect health first before continuing any job at all including the work of being a president
Your death or survival for the masses won't change much Mr president.. Your loyalists may just remember you for few days and St worse a few months but they'd forget you
Why not go get treated and come back in whole health.. The office of the president is only for those alive
cr7lomo: Shut up abeg...girls also 4k guys heart all the time as well
I know but sometimes, don't be too selfcentered. Now a sister is brought into the picture and y'all go defensive lol. Humans are selfish but meanwhile, you felt it's good for the guy to have done what he did.
"conceal my ID. Please sis i need an advice, am dying inside of me, which is not good for the condition of my unborn baby.
I got married to my hubby, we were so inlove, after 3years we start having misunderstandings, things were becoming hard for him financially and he also cheated on me, so i took a bold step and slept with another man, but i and my hubby settled later i loved him again things were okay for us once again, but that guy i had sex with keep calling me, and when i thought of what we had i went back to him and did it one more time.
I saw myself being attracted to this man, that whatever my hubby does to please me, no longer please me, i saw myself going back to him.
The last time i went back to him i found out he is married too, his wife told me she knows me on social media and knows what i do with her hubby and she said she also knows my hubby too, she threatened to expose me to my husband and to the world, i've been shaking and feeling ill lately, i begged her and told her hubby to talk to his wife, that it was his fault because he never told me he was married but she did not listen she said she must, i just discovered am 3months pregnant, i don't even know who owns the child.
Am so confused and sick, i don't want to loose my marriage i also thought of aborting the baby so it won't make everything worst when my hubby finds out because this woman don't want to drop the issue. I deactivated my fb acc, i just activated it back to lay this complain, am scared of what she can do.
Please don't judge me, just advice me on what to do, i trust your advice you've adviced my sis before. Please you can advice me here and also post it to get more views. Please i don't want to loose my marriage. Thank you very much"
Driftingking: A lady has threatened to take a step to a risky length to get her best friend's lover punished, after he got her pregnant, dumped her, blocked her on social media and still went to the extent of faking his own kidnap just to extort money from her.
As shared by relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin whose page was used to call out the alleged man who according to the lady is an Avid follower of Joro. She wrote
You are always coming up with different lies of stories. I pity people who fall for your concocted stories in different shades. It is now email, tomorrow na twitter and the next and facebook and then instagram.
dragonking3: Honestly you guys are a joke. This girl has been making noise since without providing tangible evidence. She is making herself a clown. Btw why she run go Canada? Let her come and sue him na abi she her completed the defamation mission?
don't mind the idiot. if she was so sure of what she is saying, she would have been in Nigeria. Did you also notice that Keyamo has been silent for sometime now? Money done finish to pay that one and so, he has stopped talking.
this one looks real going by the number retweets and likes. If na lailaisblog now, she won't show you then like or retweets cos those would be cut off due to the fact that she uses new accounts to concoct different stories.
kingreign: Its with great pains, anger and sorrow I write this piece. Normally, I am most concerned with autos and car talk sections, but once a while, I stray into other sections to keep myself abreast of happenings. I've noticed a very disturbing trend in Nairalanders comments regarding sensitive issues bothering on crimes, political issues, religious issues and corruption. This trend, if not tackled early, will lead to more harm than good. Just going through the comments in this thread which is currently on the homepage (as at the time of writing this piece) https://www.nairaland.com/3706816/6-students-unilag-gang-rape shows the level of decadence in our youths. They ignored the topic of discussion which is a grievous crime and start other senseless wayward comments, tribalism, religious sentiments, and lewed abominable sexual comments. This trend needs to be checked before it gets out of hand. The administrators and moderators of nairaland needs to step up the fight against these vices, parents, guardians, educational and religious institutes needs to wake up from their slumber. Mature minded Nairalanders needs to speak up against these evil trends bedeviling our youths. Thanks.
CC: Ishilove, Gazzuzz, Dyt, eyop et al.
save yourself the hassles... NOTHING will be done. I repeat, nothing will be done! Nairaland is dead already, it's a moving corpes, they don't just realise it yet. A lot of people have stopped visiting and gone with the wind!
All these thing you dey talk na ur own. Wetin dey him mind him go do last last, not even the mods can do anything about it.