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Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 7:56pm On Jan 17, 2016
bjcole:
I don't have to see before I believe, I breathe, I can see the sun, moon and the star's, I can see species of animals, I can see the mighty oceans, seas, Lagoons, waterfalls and too many things for me to know these things can't be coincidence. There is no human studies to explain how come about those things, my common sense makes me to know that someone or higher power somewhere behind these things. Thank God for religion, it leads the way to God and Christianity in my own case. I repeat a fool says there is no God.
In essence you're saying God created the earth? That hasn't been proven beyond what religious doctrines teaches. And which are unfounded.

There are a few theories as to how the earth came into existence. The key one is called "The Big Bang." It supposes that the entire mass of the universe is constantly expanding and contracting. At some point in the continuum of time, all the matter in the universe took up a very very small amount of space.

The pressure caused by this compression caused the universe to explode in a super heated blast (the big bang) sending it all over the universe. (It's a known fact that the universe is indeed still expanding - as proven by the doppler effect when viewing celestial bodies in telescopes)

Also, over time all these particles began to cool and clump together forming stars, moon etc and planets and such.

The gasses and temperature on our planet were just right so that certain forms of bacteria were able to come into being. The rest is a process known as evolution.

The likelyhood of this happening combined with the likelyhood that you can actually read this electronic message thousands of miles away from me is so highly improbable that anyone would have to understand it to be a complete miracle.

Nebular hypothesis is a more acceptable explanation to the formation of the earth and how it came into existence.
Romance › Re: Can You Chase A Lady For 2 Years? by ronald4lif(m): 6:36pm On Jan 17, 2016
No be only 2years, I go chase her forever till I grow old. undecided
Romance › Re: Why Do Most Young Ladies Have More Money In Their Bank Acct Than The Young Men? by ronald4lif(m): 6:27pm On Jan 17, 2016
Ladies have more money in their bank accounts than men? Where did you get that from? undecided
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 5:52pm On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
;DD

I hope you tell her this before marriage
sad
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 5:42pm On Jan 17, 2016
bjcole:
I am not discussing religion with, I m discussing God and his principles, except if you dont believe in God and if so, our discussion here is meaningless. It is only a fool that believe there is no God.
You believe in someone who you have never seen and think you're smart then consider a person who's rational enough not to believe in a white bearded fellow who no one has ever seen foolish? You're really smart. NOT!
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 5:28pm On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
Wayo!

Don't worry you won't knowsmiley
I'm hypocritical and selfish, yea I know. But humans are all selfish.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 4:33pm On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
What if it wasn't done out of spitesad

Electric spark and allsmiley
If all pointers indicate it wasn't done out of spite and retribution then of course there would be room for reconciliation. I'm not that rigid and understand some action can be done without control.

But then again, it will linger in my heart for a long time, so long very much of a time for the thoughts to disappear which might affect our relationship that it may be better we split.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 3:45pm On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
Thanks cherryrice

And to you Ronald, undecidedsad
Please I can't forgive a cheating spouse but I expect to be forgiven. If she doesn't want to forgive even after making entries to pacify my mistakes then she have a choice to initiate divorce. It's within her right to do so and no one is forcing her. Kapish?
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 3:42pm On Jan 17, 2016
Mindfulness:
Keep your religion to yourself please when you are talking to me because I don't share your religious views.
Epic. grin
Romance › Re: 12 Fascinating Facts About Women. by ronald4lif(m): 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Lol... All these deceptive lot!! tongue
lipsrsealed
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m):
cherryice:
answer daretodiffer's quote sad
Well, the reason why I might not forgive a cheating spouse is coz I'd think she cheated coz she want to get at me and serve me a doze of my own medication. Not coz she had no control of herself and it happened unintentionally. I'd always think it was intent to hurt me too. Though this is not true as she too might have been betrayed by her human instincts and traits.

But then what's the point of conserving a relationship/marriage where both party can have multiple coítal relations with others. There's no point really if two 'mad' people come together as a couple if everyone cheat at the other. Marriage doesn't make sense if that's the case.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 2:58pm On Jan 17, 2016
HaneefahRN:
So u want to do unto others what u can't accept?
lipsrsealed
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 2:53pm On Jan 17, 2016
cherryice:
so u don join dem undecided
Cherry coco bebe, they have corrupted me. embarassed
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 2:52pm On Jan 17, 2016
Mindfulness:
I wouldn't call it queer behavior.

Maybe you should stay true to yourself and re-consider whether a monogamous relationship is your preference instead of beating up on yourself to fit into societal conventions, which do not do yourself and they way you are any justice.

We have been brainwashed into believing that we can only love and desire one person and we should be doing so for the rest of our lives when in fact our natural inclination is a different one.
Nicely said. Human's want to cheat nature and would employ every scheme at her disposal to do so, even if it means tilting with proven evidence. We are animals and no matter the degree of evolvement that human's has transgress we can't negate the fact that we're animals and inclined to behave as one.

If one can love/lust on a person who isn't their partner then they have the capacity to show this affection to more than a person. It's hard to embrace and accept this fact but nonetheless facts are sacrosanct and can't be manipulated.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 2:09am On Jan 17, 2016
Truckpusher:
grin grin grin
Egbon, you go fear question o. grin
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 2:07am On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
smiley
You see, I don't usually like to involve in threads that has to do with cheating, whether male or female coz it's one issue that I personally don't know how to address.

I've think, think hard and battle with my conscience about this cheating of a thing especially in regards to men but to know avail.

I'm vincible to cheating and I don't know what it will take to correct this queer behaviour. I can't say I'm inclined to cheat coz of my gender, no, that would amount to making silly excuses, but rather coz of my distinct character as a person. And I admit is an aberrant attitude and take responsibility.

I mean we all have weakness, everyone does, and an inability to control my urges is one of mine. But that doesn't mean I'm a dog who ravage every meat at his disposal. Biko, don't ask why I can't forgive wifey if she does same. Ende.
Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by ronald4lif(m): 1:52am On Jan 17, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]A man must cheat. I've come to realise and slowly accept that fact. sad

Take it or leave it. grin[/color]
grin
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 1:37am On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
Eeeeeeeeeehhbhhh

But you want to be forgivenshocked
I said I was just passing by. Please allow me pass peacefully. sad
Romance › Re: I Cant Sleep by ronald4lif(m): 1:35am On Jan 17, 2016
Sadly, you aren't a lady. If you were one you would easily find volunteers who would gladly obliged you. One of the agony of a man.
Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by ronald4lif(m): 1:11am On Jan 17, 2016
SAMBARRY:
he'll even disgust you with more folly
Lol. Yea right. I've been through such polemic exercise with him and know he'd just expose his ignorance and male chauvinism at every antithesis he churns out. His alpha male attitude is very alarming.
Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by ronald4lif(m): 12:52am On Jan 17, 2016
daretodiffer:
Easy sad
Lol. Allow Mr. Toks to dismiss my claim so I can point out the folly and utter aberrance in his write up. Don't let me spill out yet. sad
Romance › Re: Why Is Nairaland Romance Section Infested With Males by ronald4lif(m): 12:47am On Jan 17, 2016
Topestbilly:
Suspecting u got something behind dis irrelevant points u making...
Listen n listen good, if is about my crush on Di'ja huh, brother d fight just start cool me why @dollyjoy dey toast I no gree grin cos of Di'ja...
Lol. I got nothing to hide or expose about my identity. It appears you're not much active here else you'd know where I'm driving at. We've on different occasion bust fake accounts with fake pictures here so it does normally takes time before one can assume an identity is reasonably genuine. A lot of impostors here, bruv.

Oh so you've got a babe chyking you and you're doing shakara. Forget Di'ja and remember a bird in hand is worth more than a thousand in the bush, so if you like dey there make pant dey wear you. grin
Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by ronald4lif(m): 12:35am On Jan 17, 2016
Mr. Toks, did you had the pipe on when writing this piece? I mean like you were under the influence of that stuff?
Romance › Re: Why Is Nairaland Romance Section Infested With Males by ronald4lif(m): 12:27am On Jan 17, 2016
Topestbilly:
That's what she appeared to be so hv got to address her d way she appears.
And of what importance is ur point?

Did I ask Op out?

Seems u hav issues with showing Lil trust in ppl? I don't.

not everything u see on social media u take serious.

Now I don't know how to address u since I can go by ur gender prefix?
Handsome, gorgeous or shem*le, just pick one that suites u.
I don't need you to address me as it's irrelevant and this has nothing to do with trust or distrust. It's more about being shrewd and not rushing in drawing conclusion at the expense of sound judgment.

It takes more than one picture of an account which was created moments ago to be certain of their gender and the identity of the character behind the account. If you think trusting people means jettisoning gumption then you certainly have an indigent understanding of what trust means.
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 12:04am On Jan 17, 2016
I don't think I can forgive a cheating wife. Mbanu.

But I'm hoping to be forgiven if erred. Too many ravishing and alluring women out there to be moored by one.

Onwe kwa ka odi na nwoke ka ne eri nani ofe egusi till onwuo. Ari ka ta egusi erienu ofe ogbono, o nwe di nu ka ana eme. Didn't say anything sha, just passing.
Romance › Re: Why Is Nairaland Romance Section Infested With Males by ronald4lif(m): 11:51pm On Jan 16, 2016
Topestbilly:
Gorgeous don't take things serious here, just read news and funny comments, u may also find some interesting stuffs around.

That's all.
So it takes just creating a profile and add the "f" gender prefix on it with a female picture that could have been lifted from a social media account to conclude one is truly a female to you?
Family › Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by ronald4lif(m): 11:37pm On Jan 16, 2016
tosyne2much:
So a man's job now depletes his chances of getting married ?
This sounds funny. grin
Romance › Re: My LAUTECH Diary! (facts) by ronald4lif(m): 11:35pm On Jan 16, 2016
iAmCharis:
Hi ronald4lif, just dropping by to say good evening. grin
Which kind good evening be that? Shove that good evening inside your pocket, sir. undecided

The ministry must be moved to a permanent site IJN. grin
Romance › Re: Annoying Facts About Nowadays Ladies. by ronald4lif(m): 11:28pm On Jan 16, 2016
Bored and frustrated about their inability to attract their dream girl and take up responsibility as the "man" in the relationship? Let me just create a thread lamenting my frustration.

The above appears to be a trend lately and it's becoming boring and nauseting. No one forced any one to have a girlfriend. If they don't conform to your ideals of a woman forget them. Problem solved.
Romance › Re: My Morale Is Always Failing Me by ronald4lif(m): 11:18pm On Jan 16, 2016
Romance › Re: My LAUTECH Diary! (facts) by ronald4lif(m): 10:31pm On Jan 16, 2016
Monalisa185:
hmmmmmm..odikwa nma....ewekwala iwe namu n'aza gi ugbua....abia n'oru, umu ala Igbo adighi adull at all....imakwa n'abia na London, otutu obodo digasi n'ime ya, ihe dika Hull, York ma ndi otu ya, so kedu nke gi no nime ya??...otu n'ime umunnem mekwara masters ya na Hull university... so eweturum ntakiri idea maka obodo ahu...

mbakwa, anyi nozi eko...but nnam adigo late....nnem ka nwuru on the 6th of this month... so anyi no n'iruju...

hahaha.. odikwa egwu..idikwa sure na inubeghi nwanyi onye ocha sf??: P
Ewo. Eziokwu? Chai, nne ndo nu o. Ife ahu i kwaram ubua ewutego m.

Enwerem ike e dele gi message ka anyi kalia ofuma? Na okwu akari go. Udi di ifa ka nwanyi Awka furu si na ife erika.
Romance › Re: Guys, Do You Take Care Of Your Wife/girlfriend (photo) by ronald4lif(m): 10:15pm On Jan 16, 2016
sickstars:
I dont even kno all d material u called

cry no blame me o

Wait u mean ankara bah?
No, not ankara, I mean hollandis.

I know almost nothing about female garment and wrappers but I do know about hollandis materials and that they are of superior quality.

Made in Holland so your wifey material is of international class. wink

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