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Lol. 3 point agenda indeed. Whoever applies this rule in their lives have got their priorities right for sure and greatness awaits them.

Monalisa185:
..amam asu Igbo ofuma...amaghi'm Ede ofuma...so ebidorom classi ebe ana akuzirim odide na ogugu...anam amutakwa oso...

mbakwa, anozim ugwu Hausa...so isiri na eko bu obodo ndi nti ike abi? ijizikwa style akpo'm onye nti ike eeehh kwa?? nsogbu adiro

keduzi udi oru ina aru iji emechi n'oge ime abali?
imakwa no obodo queen Eliza bu obodo ndi nti ike??

anam aga mahadum ugbua..gi kwanu, Ina aru oru n'agukwa akwukwo?

Igbo gi amaka, ona so ka sugar. Odikwa ka iga mu ede igbo sef.

Obodo Eliza bu obodo ndi nti ike nu, ma umuasi o, umu agbo-ogbia na ndi okolobia nti ike na nsogbu churu fa aru lol. Oyibo amaro ka asi asu umuasi asu. Fa ji ego mebisie umuasi a.

Anam aru oru na ulo ogwu, na pharmacy department na agukwa akwukwo, ebido m masters onwa ito karaka. O mua cholu oru anyasi, na udi oka bu mechie akwukwo ka nwe chebe oru, na ka orali gbaji ma ahu.

Ona di kwam ka ma enwetago nwanyi nka nulu na NL finally, otego na acho odim na obim here.

Yes and yes again. It's my money and I've to collect it. If I don't then I'm leaving a negative impression on the babe that I'm someone who do away with money carelessly and she might capitalise on that to start playing me.

iAmCharis:
I learnt well from Kabiyesi Kinglekan

Lol. We gotta give it to Oba Lekan though. Dude has got a wonderful skill when it comes to wooing and should be the inveigler of all time. His track record is unbeatable.

iAmCharis:
Ehya.
Try using The deaf and dumb approach

Scenerio
You see a girl you like, take a paper and a pen and write on it:
Sorry I'm coming this way. I'm deaf and dumb but I just thought I should compliment your beauty as it caught my attention.

With a powerful smile on your face, walk down to her and hand her the note. It's definitely going to slap wide grin on her face. That very minute, cut in and say something like..... You really didn't believe I'm deaf and dumb, did you?
You know what to do next.



Thank me later.

I hail prof. See why I always look up to you for grooming on babes matter.

You raped a lady and not even ashame to say it out. What a punk.

Specialbaby:
And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

What prevented the broke ladies who want a rich dude from making their own money? If a pauperize lady thinks she deserves a rich guy who can improve her wellbeing why should it be a problem should a guy want same?

MrsChima:
Happy New Year Thick Dick.

I've got a monstrous phallus and not only that, very efficient too.

TheSonOfMark, quite revealing. I knew your sleuthing skills was smashing and could bank on it. I've been connecting the dots and told wristbangle sometime earlier that the Eastherfabian strikes me like vickybee or the Gúrgle girl. But the latter never pride herself as a feminist whilst the former did. She's not only feminist but a misandrist and now my curiosity has been confirmed. Respect boss!

In Nigeria, a guy in the university is hoping and longing to graduate and start making money for himself. In contrast, all a girl hopes for is to find a hubby and get married as soon as she graduates. What kind of ridiculous mentality is that?

A lot of them don't care about self-development and striving hard to make ends meet and a career for themselves. Marriage is their end goal.

What then do we expect from a lady who might have never given a thought on how to be self-reliant and independent and who have financial needs to take care of? They have to fall back on the only available remedy which is men. Since men are ready to do anything to shag a pusśy they have ceased our cravings for sex as a means to an end.

Their foreign counterparts aren't taught about marriage at all. They don't consider marriage the way we do and don't make it a priority. A girl-child is taught on how to be self-reliant and never depend on anyone for livelihood, not even their parents.

At 15/16 she's already started her first part-time job while in college. She doesn't expect a man to give her even a pound when she can offset her personal bills. And marriage is never a necessity and if it eventually happens fine.

TheSonOfMark:
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The drama is back.

Accusations and counter-accusations.

SECRETS AND SCANDALS.
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The good old days is right here.

STFUareyouGod:
well, she's just a 17yr old girl who just passed out school. A girl awaiting the next Jamb exam who's only lucky to have a neighbor that's got wifi

She's no more than that

Boss, you sabi her alternate handle?

wristbangle:
I wish to know the real personality behind that moniker. The suspense is high now!

Hehe. Before now I've been thinking she's a certain Gúrgle who briskly disappeared and assume the Estharfabian epithet. But from what I've been reading here she's been tagged a minor, little boobs etc which matches vickybee the minor feminist so that has left me confused.

Biko, can any one brief me on who that Estharfabian character is. I just started noticing her and know she's an old member on a new 'skin'. Is she the minor of a feminist who was busted as male sometime past?

MrsChima:
In all honesty....I don't see South Africans throwing daggers at Nigerians until Nigerians started calling them AIDS infected country with loose pussy bishes etc.

However, there has been a vast obsession from NLs claiming to be Nigerians good or bad.

Oh I see. Well, if any one can claim Nigerian in the real world and secure our passports/driver's license then it should be easier to claim Nigerian online.

Happy new year, Mrs. Been a while.

Teempakguy:
I know right.
despite the majority of people in Nigeria that supposedly believe in God, more than sixty percent is below the poverty line and this guy seriously thinks it's a good point to include in his list. right next to believe in yourself.
I can't even laugh right now.

even if a God did exist, I think he has already proven several times that he is definitely not needed for success of any kind. instead, smart work and perseverance. and a frigging change of paradigm.

Lol. You know on reading the second paragraph I said to myself this guy must not only be a telepathist but a genius. I'd wanted to modify my comment to exactly what you said there immediately I wrote it but was too occupied.

Like you said, if indeed God exist why would anyone need to believe in him in order to make significant progress in life. Hasn't he availed us with the brainpower, shrewdness and strength we need to employ in whatever profession or skill we acquired? Why do we need to believe in him when we have all it takes to make progression? Doesn't make any iota of sense.

Religion and the believe in God cliche is nothing but an instrument deployed by dubious religious and political class to further pauperize and hold grip of their dominance over their sheeple followers.

The lacerny politicians will tell us to pray for jobs, good health, electricity and water, when in the real sense one don't need prayers to afford these stuff. You don't rob me off my constitutional rights and entitlements as a citizen and tell me to pray for jobs, healthcare, light etc. Like WTF.

The bandits in the pulpit will tell us to also pray for our miracle is on the way but their drive the best toys in the world and globe-trot in cozy jets why their gullible minions can't afford decent 3square meal a day.

So if we're to believe in God to make rapid progression in life, are we also to believe in our biological parents? Who have toil hard day and nights to train and provide us with necessary education which empowers and serve as a springboard to succeed.

To be honest, if I'm to choose I'd believe in my parents over an imaginary white bearded man as they are the God I can see and feel. Why was God portrayed as white? Why not Black, Asian etc but the hypocritical race who falsely assume they're superior?

Teempakguy:
believe in God . . .


okay.

Haha, believe in God indeed. I'd rather believe in my potentials than an imaginary white bearded man in the sky. Ridiculous.

Nothing wrong with assisting your wifey by carrying her handbags. Mumsy is old school and isn't in tune with present act of romance existing between couple. Such was considered awkward in her time so don't blame her.

This is a sponsored protest and these youths don't represent me nor any sane Anambarian. We're in support of Buhari's anti-corruption war and if 'nurse' Metuh is found guilty of corruption he must face the consequences. These jobless Nnewi youths should get lost.

ocheejemb:
You better face your studies instead of going to spend 100 pounds in the club feeling like a bad guy.

Can't clubbing and studying coincide?

marieolae:
To be honest, this is what A LOT of guys think here. I've seen it for myself, where some black girls just think they're too good to be true. So all these people that are bashing the op really need to look at it from a different perspective. They don't understand what's going on here. It's paining me die because the 'nicer' black girls are the ones suffering from this.

The OP sentiment is nothing new to the Black community in Britain. Almost everyone I know share same sentiment and even some white guys will tell you that Black ladies seem to be full of themselves and unapproachable. I'm aware there are some ones who are different but there are too vestigial and risk going into extinction if care is not taken.

I'm delighted to see you admit this rude behaviour by members of our race and just like you who call blue for what it is, so I am and that's because blue is blue. There are cases where black ladies are better than the whites but on being arrogant and pompous they are leading.

doveda:
Start spilling joor

Please

Are you same person

I've to say from my personal observation, black ladies are more pompous and arrogant than the whites. Not including the Caribbeans as they seem to be more polite and cultured. And by Blacks I'm talking about those of African descent, particularly West Africans, and with Nigerians and Ghanaians topping the chart. These set of ladies need to grow some manners.

The worst of them all are mixed-race ladies (and guys) of African heritage. I see these ones as confused Homo sapiens who are battling identity crisis and don't actually understand where they belong. They don't know whether to identify with the Black or White community and somewhat often think they're more white than the White.

I'm not generalising as they're all not like this but on a balance of scale white women are more mannered and polite when it comes to approaching them either to strike a friendly conversation or just to ask questions for someone who missed their way. Some black ladies are a pain in our ass in this country.

StrawberryCream:
Yh i think they must be international students .. Thats y

Definitely. And foreign students are not known to date blacks. They are targeting white natives who they can tie down with marriage/pregnancy so as to regularise their immigration status.

Another scenario is that they could be call girls and thought the OP and his friend weren't tuśhy enough. In Naija clubs here in London we have many of such girls who visits and they look at a guy based on his attire and dressing to assess if you can pay well before giving you a listening ear.

When you're well tushed and didn't come with a babe to the club they would even be the ones to throw themselves at you.

YourMain:
You met two girls ? You can hardly assume they're all like that.

A lot of English people especially those in London are really rude anyways.

It happened in Glasgow not London and we're not even sure they are Black English. Could be international students and since it's a Nigerian club kinda they could be Nigerians. Why bring it down to Londoners?

Is DaretoDiffer hoping to hear my thoughts on this?

You go wait taya sha o.

Best piece I've read this year. Can't relate but can only imagine what it feels like finding oneself in such a predicament. Every young man should read this inspirational piece. Respect to the author.

cococandy:
Oga Get your own place. That's the one solution.

There's really nothing you can do about it except ignore the dishes when he uses them.
He can't drag you into the kitchen to wash them.
If it gets to that point where both of you have to verbally or physically enter a scuffle over what chores you should do, you don't need a prophet to tell you to leave the next day.

And why is his religious life your problem? It's his life so leave him to it.

I was surprised to read that part and almost lose interest reading the complete post but somehow I did and had in mind to ask same question. I'm much interested as to how his belief is an issue.

And to further display his religious intolerance attitude and give his spurious claims a lift he said he listens to corrupt songs. Also interested in knowing what he considers corrupt songs.

kraftsta:
My broda no mind all dis bad belle witch pipo wey miss dia way to coven dis night come fall for nairaland...if d people around where he z throwing Up d money feel disrespected let dem not pick it Simple...me I don't see any form of arrogance in wat he did...its his money n he can pack it all up into a van n blow it up with a C4 n I still won't give a fvck...#liveurlife

It's no secret that the prevalent economic hardship and poor socio-economic standard in our country has had a hazardous effect on the psyche of the average Nigerian that we know longer place value on human sanctity provided money is shown our way but may I remind you that even a beggar deserve some regard. Rather than this display of arrogance and contemptuous attitude towards these supposedly fans he shouldn't have given them the money at all.

If he couldn't think of a better way to 'bless' them, of which there are many, than this then his respect for humanity and his fans is questionable. I don't expect you to reason from same angle with me but still had to address your claims.

"Those whose palm-kernels were cracked for them by a benevolent spirit should not forget to be humble." Chinua Achebe.

Davido may be self-made but it appears as though his family background and upbringing may have influenced him negatively. It's improper, malapropos, and utterly demeaning to throw money in that manner to human beings. For heavens sake these are humans like himself and deserve to be treated with respect even if you're helping them.

He might be unaware and assume this act of benevolence to these guys is appropriate and act of kindness but he's rather mocking them. Even a beggar deserve some dignity.

I really think Davido publicist has been sleeping of late and they need to call him to order. We're still trying to come to terms to his disgusting outburst about his baby mama and this?