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^^^^ Am sure they would change their minds on seeing their grandaughter, they might not change their minds though on the mother.

Missy B, thank you i got it, so grateful, am off to the kitchen,

^^^^ Agaba all this exercise!!!! i envy you oooo, is this for weightloss, to keep fit or just for the love of it?

Good morning everyone,

Log for yesterday, 30 minutes kickboxing cardio with (i have forgotten her name), it helped my metabolism seriously, because i just wanted to keep eating last night, thank God for water,

uzoo:
@Mrs.Chima
no doubt,i agree with you.


but what do you say to people who place their happiness in the hands of that "special someone" to come & marry them,thinking that is what ends it all.

i think marriage is just the begining of all your problems especially when you dont have the right mind-set towards it.

It is the beginning of another life, they don't have an idea, that is why they think their problems would be over when they get married and in reality they see the opposite.

^^^^^ Thank you again Otooro, i am so getting the book, good to know it's on amazon.

I like that MFM idea too, i wasthinking i would visit them anytime i am in the country.

otooro:
well, i suggest u pray enquiry prayers to know exactly why u keep seeing him in d dream, if u guys have been intimate before, u'll need to pray some dissociation prayers cos s.ex brings about 'soul ties' and that's a very serious issue. . . . . . u need to ask yourself sincere questions

Yea!!!!!!!!!!!! i pray about it seriously, and am yet to get answers it has been on for 2 years now, i just let it slide now, at first i was worried, now i am less worried, but would be glad if i can get an answer some day, thanks Otooro for your words,

To be fair; ladies dump men that hit you, men dump ladies that hit you. !!!!!!!!

otooro:
well, that will depend on the context of the dream and what transpired between the both of you before and after he became your ex. . . .

Nothing bad transpired, we just went our separate ways, even before i left Naija, but immediately after my wedding, it had been him in my dreams, which is very wierd, i got in contact with him just to find out if i offended him in anyway, but he said he was fine with the whole thing, and he has since moved on, which was a great news to me, But i still see him in my dreams. i mean like 4 times a week.

my mum and dads' only.

Missy B, please if you have the maggi -e-book, could you forward it to my email please, i guess i was left out.

ronkebp@yahoo.com.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=824836.msg9828868#msg9828868 date=1324746230]dunking bread in private is ok. Doing it in public is not.

same thing applies to eating an orange. With curtains drawn, doors locked and nobody there, eat the whole thing including the juicy inside (not the peel though). When in public, or if other people are present, just suck the juice only and throw away the fiber.[/quote]Gba beee!!!!!!!!

dolly a:
ve anyone tried soaking cabin biscuit in tea? its sooooooo yummy wen i was in boarding sch we cal it "biscuit flakes"

I don't soak it in tea, but i make ''biscuit flakes'', cabin biscuit, with lots of milk and little sugar. yummmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!

I only like their 'pita'' bread, there is always too much curry in their food.

Always dream of my ex, don't know why?? but i always do.

Good morning guys,

no exercise for me on saturday too tired, and yesterday was just 10 minutes of abs workout, i had to pull my self up, was just too tired over the weekend.

@Sammeijo, congrats and welcome back, good that you are tackling the weight now.

ng4am, all most people are saying is get an older lady, that can really be of help, 10 year old girl is too small, or if you are afraid of a lady taking over your home, get a teenage boy, but am afraid if you have a baby and he cannot control himself, you can't leave her with him ooooo.

That is her cross, let her carry it.

Kobojunkie:
Not all men cheat!! In some cases, it is the women that are the cheaters. That you read more of cases where men do it, does not then mean it is some God given right for men to do it or that it is inevitable in some way or form.

Some men do not want to believe that women cheat also. I was arguing with a neighbours husband, who was beating his chest that 90% women do not cheat. I just looked at him and laughed.

^^^^^ to fairly answer your question, 30% of men are faithful to their wives and are good husband, and some women happen to be married to this sets of men.

Richvkunt:
I think I have a right to be a chauvinistic dinosaur pig on a forum for which I pay nothing.
It is my conjugal right,so I will take it!

You do, but it is always good to still be fair, because the way you paint this women, is really not what they are,

Have you ever asked yourself,what if the husband of the advicer does not misbehave., what if, he is a good man that respects and cares for his family Or are you trying to tell me that there are no good men at all in Nigeria?? that there are no responsible men at all in Nigeria? No God fearing men at all in Nigeria??

Richvkunt:
ronkebp,
Happy new fuel/petrol price,
I hope you are not getting hot under the collar over my innocent remarks?
I was just talking in general.Women brag a lot but at home meekly take what Mr Husband dishes out to her no matter how vile.
The ironic thing is that after taking such from her hubby will turn around and ask her friend in the same position to leave her husband,which to me smacks of hypocrisy.
Just voicing my views and observations and am sorry if I struck a raw nerve.
But then NO woman can predict how she will react to any situation until she IS IN IT!

i no fit vex again, the fuel price don make me laugh tire.

GenBuhari, i am so sorry to hear about your loss, it is so sad, God will console your mum and everyone in your family. May your sister's soul rest in peace. Take heart.

Richvkunt:
@ kobojunkie Thank you for your post.
However my beef is with ladies who come on this forum to brag that if they catch their man cheating on them they will leave his sorry a.rse.
Misleading impressionable young women.I am not saying cheating is right,but the fact is lots of married men engage in it,and their wives know about these things and meekly accept it as a way of life.These same women with these marital problems will come on to a public forum and advise others to leave their husbands if they catch them cheating or advise them to have an affair,because your husband had one as a kind of pay back option.
Some of these women know their husbands are cheating on them and turn a blind eye to it,only to come onto NL and start talking BS.
My point is that in 99% of cases where a husband has been discovered to be a serial cheat,Mrs Wifey is gonna forgive him and life will go on as usual.
It could be for financial,economic or social resons but she will forgive him!

This your post here reeks of chauvinism.

Richvkunt, i hope you are not referring my reply to Dayokanu as a bragado, i don't brag, and i do not have the liver and time to brag,if you knew personally or part of my friends you will know i do not brag, my hubbyb knows what i can take and will not take. Just so we are clear, ''cheating'' is something i will never ''meekly accept'' in any form, any woman that accepts her husbands infidelity is not a woman, and should not be a mother that would train any child, what legacy do you want to lay down for your children??. And please stop this '' feminine nazi'' thingy, just because women have decided (some though) to mold their marraiges in a way that would suite and benefit everyone, does not make them an outcast from the Nigerian-men perspective (if it does, i do not care really). And also change your orientation about ''all men are wired to cheat''; that talk there, is just pooo!!!!. And i maintain it is better to remain single than to be married to a ''a sperm donor" and not a husband.

TOH dear, i only replied to her post of the pounded yam thingy, i did not read her other posts.

There are men who assist their wives that knows the worth of who they married. From the conversation between 3ndy above ooooo, there was no reason to start a fight over that, a woman must learn how to multi-task it is natural, you cannot force a man to assist you, especially when he is not willing, let it pass and let peace reign for a while.

Moreso i cannot imagine someone staying in an abusive, relationship not marraige ooooo, so she chose that path.

@ Poster, waka!!!!!!!!!! sharp! sharp!! no delay.

@ 3ndy, what transpired between you and your man is trivial, only in the sense that, how many minutes will it take you to make the pounded yam, we women have to pick our fights wisely, because he refused to help you make pounded yam or put water on the fire?, you were all worked up till he got angry and went upstair, you might think what you said was not that bad to make him angry, your tone might have.

So upon all the subsidy removal, na women be your own problem.

Dayo!! Dayo!!! Dayo!!!!!! ( how many times did i call you)


1. Lets assume i really do not have any savings,  ( because my kain person, for don gada money tey tey, from his account, that kain case, i be joint owner of his account. ). OK, no shakings, i do not have any money to sustain me for a week, right?

He is still going to suffer it, there is no need telling friends, this type of thing, it would only ridicule you and the marraige, i am taking laws into my hands megaly, I know how i will get money from him without him knowing his pocket is being drained, moreso, it would not be because he cheated once i am packing out of the house, for where? , he never hala. I will deal with him and the money, when i say it, i really do mean it.  Only if you don't know your ''way'' that one would settle to live in the forest.

[quote author=Miss_Ife link=topic=797163.msg9909731#msg9909731 date=1325876368]Oh, I try that too, but my hubby is too much, he answers "that will make you strong!" He really is lucky to have a wife so patient and humble (hey, he's not there to deny it!)


As for the yoruba, I am really sorry but I don't understand it [/quote]LMAO>>>>> YOUR HUBBY IS VERY FUNNY, abeg, don't mind my yoruba ooo, ur user name deceived me into believing you either speak or understand yoruba, ( i meant, i no dey carry last) and that is if you understand pidgin, . Good to be patient and humble.

^^^^^^ Chei!!!!! see suffer-head, (Shaking head). And that was why i personalised it, i said if it were me, i will be oga ontop that person money oooo. With the person and his money, i will gbas!!! both of them, i work or do not work. it is just my person, i do not take bullying lightly in any form, especially if i am at the receiving end.

I really get your drift, for some, it is better to bring home your own bacon and be your own boss. True, but anybody that can accept infidelity because the hubby is the sole provider, would accept it anyhow and in which ever way. So need not complain, accept it and sit still in that marraige with lips sealed.