₦airaland Forum

Tzar:
She is dating the guy, so she probably loves him. The reason I suspect she refused the proposal is because of the status of the guy. I imagine she is not comfortable with telling people her fiancé is a barber. This is clearly a wrong reason not to get married to someone.
As long as he has a legitimate job and he has a bright future, she can work with him to become the man of status she desires with time.
She apparently wants a ready made guy she can show off to the public who likely don’t wosh her well anyway!

Tzar:
Most unmarried women in their 40s today had one or more men begging to marry them when they were in their 20s.
I hope your sister won’t join this gang of bitter& sad women living in regret.

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

budaatum:
You know you are being jealous here.

omale88:
I said most and I gave specifics regarding the target set I was referring too.if you don't still understand then that's your problem and don't mention me again.

DONT MISUNDERSTAND ME
But I believe that if you as a woman want to be valued in a relationship, have your own finance...

You don't expect that a man will carry most/all the responsibilities of a woman and not get mad when his wife cheats...

Imagine if the woman was as rich or richer than the man, do you think he will have the guts to lay his hands on her because she cheated??

I don't think so...

See if a man who is jobless and dependent on a woman for almost everything, catches his wife cheating... He will do NOTHING, you know why?? Because she is her source and until he can stand alone he will bear anything.... He might even be part of a 3some with another man sef...

So my dear...

All this cheating related abuse will drastically reduce when women start making their own money and become as rich or richer than their men

Satan01:
sand full ur brain

oversized pus**y

Satan01:
like when every guy u meet are just inserting their stick inside u for fun Abi

I think say u get brain b4 ,, na now I know say ur brain dey inside ur pu**y

Satan01:
no am not ,,,, just want to know if I did d right thing

Bellotelli:
If shes not a teenager how would she be a virgin

omale88:
you can read but you don't understand the write up,I didn't say the all end up as lesbians I say they start as and along the way they change,some of them however don't.

omale88:
Most girls are closetted lesb!ans,dirty thing is most of them start with their female siblings(often common in an all girls family) whom they share same beds with ,some eventually stop over time as they begin to learn some tricks about the D ,it's sad tho most of them would agree to get married to conceal this dirty secret from their family members, lesbians hardly change tho.

mardis:
I am telling the person seeking for advice to take your advice na. And also decided to add mine.

Cardealer2021:
See babe nothing like karma here he toast her and she agreed, they both had sex and the op even paid her also(bought her a phone)
I'm not understanding where the op did wrong

azammi:
Be truthful you accepted him because of USA

Nat404:
Hahahahahahaha.

You're so funny.

Did you just conclude like that?

You made me laugh.

Blunttruth:
Doing it yourself is masturbation. Getting someone to do it isn't. Masturbation is a solo act.

Nat404:
What do you mean?

Nat404:
My own kind of relationship might be toxic and unhealthy? Hahaha. Seems you've got a sense of humour.

Well, when it comes to women, I always take myself as the price. And any lady who wants me would have to prove why she wants me. Sex is not important to me.

Nat404:
Oh nice! Clap for yourself. You might have gotten a nice guy but good girls don't always fall deeply in love with nice guys. Women would always prefer bad guys like us to good guys.

Bad boys in the sense that, someone who keeps their emotions unstable. Guys who make them go gaga. And guys, who keep these chicks waiting for so long.

For sure, I can't be desperate when it comes to women. Do you know why? Because every pretty lady has flaws. And that is why I like to delay everything. Until you begin to scream for not calling you, then I would realise you crave for my attention and I would decide if I'm gonna give it to you or not.