₦airaland Forum

BKayy:
Which Nation are you?

Edo

Esseite:
But he advises the president on special areas he was assigned to spearhead... "e.g Economy.

But u & I know buhari is not someone u can advice! When CBN banned crypto & osibanjo adviced against it, was the ban reversed? The VP ideas can only be taken if the president is receptive, if he is an adamant one like our president, there is nothing the VP can do!

BKayy:
Its an Igbo thing. As far as the bride price is not returned, she is still his wife whether he likes it or not. On that ground, the woman cannot legally remarry

It is not an Igbo thing!
Same apply in my place & I am not Igbo!
The bride price must be returned.

Esseite:
If the Vice president was that good, the country should not be in this state.

There is nothing the vice president of any nation can do! He is answerable to the president & not as powerful as u think!

Homeboiy:
If osibanjo is good

He should have helped his boss

Osibanjo is more bad than buhari

But Buhari is not someone u can easily bend, he is very hard to convince! So there is no way Osibanjo decisions & ideas can influence Bubari!

Kobicove:
All this media exposure is not good for this girl

Honestly!
As a man I don't think he should even be the one doing this.

This pic below reminds me of the movie Hunter Killer. Very interesting movie!

odinson1:
I'll be A Capital FOOL if I ever Get married.

Lol
Don't be so quick to conclude o, u may change your mind by the time u approach 40+ seeing all your mates getting married

Connected1:
Like I said Bro

You are creating unnecessary issues for yourself.

Na people dream wife you dae carry play so.

Some Men won't hesitate in stealing her from you.

For me I don't care if a woman is fine or not oh, so long she respects me and can train my children well, I no get issues.

Every other thing na small challenge.

Like I said again, learn to appreciate her and love her, women need love oh to be honest.

She's doing her best. Na you just dae think say she dae fake am, whereas na only you dae fake am.

Cc Savloon
Please listen to this person!
Forget about your ex and focus on your wife!
From u said about her so far, she seem like a good wife! With time u will learn to love her, if your ex was dead by now, won't u marry another lady?

Savloon:
She said people do see for first time and get married too, that yes she knows we didn't date but since we've come this way let's make it work or let's speak to out parents and know what next to do

I will be honest with u, u are indecisive!
One of the worst thing that can happen to a man is indecisiveness! Such a man can never have a fulfilled life! Why are u still going back to check your ex pictures?? Don't u realise your ex is now in your past? At certain age, u should be able to make some decisions & stand by it! U are just talking like a child all through your post, waving up & down, no firm stance on any decision! You really need to forget about your ex & focus on your wife! Your ex is the one messing up your head. If u love her this much why did u marry your wife?? U are very indecisive!

Hmm
This is serious!

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how we starts

I kissed her
That's how we Start

That is not what i mean
I mean, where did u meet her? Was it on road, a shop etc or your friend recommended her?

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know all those things
I started dating at the age of 30 with sugar mommy who took my virginity
I don't know what to do

Don't be too hard on yourself, u were naive & she took advantage of it. This can happen to any male virgin without relationship experience. But this your current wife, where did u meet her? Were u the one that approach her or someone did it for u?

mastermaestro:
Maybe I and siblings are blessed with wonderful parents. My parents aren't rich but very content, and don't even bother any of us for anything. The only reason they call is to know how you are doing. Simple. Send whatever you have, and do whatever you can. No pressures or bullying.

Op, please don't cut them off. Start acting broke. Eventually they won't pile too much pressure on you anymore. What annoys me is you falling into debts all the time because of them. This must stop! Debt destroys one's financial prospects.

Have a monthly budget for them. Don't go beyond it. Be firm. I also think you need a strong, decisive woman to strengthen you mentally so you are able to withstand their constant emotional blackmail.

Stay strong brother.

@bold hmm

armstrongadeola:
Thanks .

All these slay queens we married don't joke with money and funniest thing is that my wife is so stingy with her money but wetin man go do.

I will not even get my salary into that account again.Why I am using my son account is that most time,I don't even know how I spend the money and I believe she will do better than me in expenses but since she is indirectly telling me she is broke after getting #35,000 in just five days ,I shouldn't try that again

But is your wife working?

@ Dclog
What u are saying doesn't even make sense!
How do u manage your business without knowing how to use your phone? Don't u have parents & siblings? How do they communicate with u? No one will tolerate this kind of attitude! Your husband really tried for tolerating u this long!

debbydams:
God will grant you a good wife

Cc Streamz
I think this is your wife!
The ball is now in your court, u know what to do!

Fictional!

elonmuskbaby:
Way to go

All those dirty government officials funding the lifestyle of lazy and materialistic slayqueens need to come to an end

It's men that encourage the increase in lazy and overly entitled women who think vaginas are a substitute to hardwork.africa needs to get rid of political prostitutes and their customers so we can have decent men in power not twisted, disgusting men making political and economic decisions under the influence of a commercial vagina because later now it's the same men that'll be complaining that there are no more decent ladies anywhere

Hmm

ahnie:
A. rumpled evening newspaper.

Lol

ufotty2001:
Am a shy person.. I don't have a girlfriend.. am not longer young .. how can I start a family.?

How old are u?

Nice!

@ chinasaekpere
You don't need to cut off your parents, they haven't done anything according to your post to warrant such. Most families of retired civil servants are just like yours, a lot of responsibilities are shifted to the elderly children to take care of the younger ones, it is left for u to say NO & handle the ones within your capacity. You should learn to say NO, you don't borrow money to solve anything, unless it has to do with life eg health.

The part I find odd in your post was when u had to pay 150k per term for school fees of your younger one on a 80k salary? Why?

Efewestern:
Chief, this was just to much, how can you pay 150k from your lean salary? Your problem started from here. You could have insisted they get a cheaper school for your sibling.

Learn to stand your ground.

I tire o!
How can someone earning 80k be paying 150k school fees per term? That does not make sense at all!

AutoChick4U:
Block everybody until you are OK and can think straight abeg

He should learn to say NO & not block everybody. No man is an island!

Change your thread title to corolla. U wrote 2010 camry

Lovely!

frozen70:
Take her to your parent in laws drop her there collect their account number written on the paper and send whatever you think can sustain that child for the time being

Don't ever give them cash by hand

Witches and Ogbanjes always wants their daughters to inherit their mystic bad powers

Even u?

Ok12345:
I fomoed into shib with $100,I got 135.

I m out mk greed no collect am

Lol

Nice!

Acidosis:
The fact that many gainfully employed and well to do providing-men don't have the respect of their wives and children is enough to invalidate your assumption.


Also, how come some men lose their jobs and still earn respect from their wives, children??

What do u want??
A jobless man that stays at home all day & worship his wife, or a gainfully employed man that respect his wife? Are u saying a man should remain jobless just to respect his wife because u feel if he is gainfully employed, he will have a say? This is extremely shocking! What u are describing is a house boy u can control at will & not a husband!

Acidosis:
By showing respect to the wife and kids. Be there for them when they need you; by not being a drunkard that comes home late every night with smelly shirts; have principles (e.g. kids shouldn't see you cheating on their mother or maltreating their mother), other virtues, etc.

This is funny!
Lol I thought as much u are a lady
This is what u call values & will earn a man respect while he is jobless & unable to provide for his family? Chai! Women...