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Fhemmmy:
Silly excuse.
I think it has been designed that way from the beginning that the man will go out there and come back home to provide for the family and the woman to take care of the home, however, all that has changed, cos we now have more woman going out there to go and work and with that, the men need to change too, at least help in the house and not make the woman to be a slave.
It irritates me to see a man sit down watching the TV and screaming that he is hungry, while the woman is running up and down, changing the diaper of the kids and making sure the food aint burning on the damn stove.
The man cld at least do something.

Nice one

don't you think that it is the responsibility of the mother to check on boy but she did not do it instead of acknowledging that she is sorry rather she used intimidation on the poster and try not to feel guilty

The mum would have said "oh that was my fault I will try and check on you next time before we leave the house"

wait for Gods appointed time a boy will come.
for the fact the hubby is fine with two girls case close

Nwunye anyi nwunye anyi ka abali bia ka anyi mara onye o bu nwunye ya
Our wife our wife when midnight comes we will know whose wife she really is

Ify como ta apetu?

Mothers never admitt that they are wrong only few of them

ayomidej:
I will say mind your own business and let your friend catch her himself.

well said, when they make up the reporter becomes their greatest enemy

ifyalways:
Dont involve no third party,your family or hers.
Its up to U,Oga,no one can make any decision for you cos u wud be the one to live with the effects,positive or negative.So did she get to terminate the preggie with those drugs she took?Do you think you can live with the knowledge that your wifes first child is not urs?do you love her enough to want to forgive her?How true is her story,do u believe it was a one night stand mistake?
Well,love forgives but yet love aint stupid.If you think u can forgive her but cant father the child,she can have the child and give it up for adoption.I am only worried that your wife cudnt tell u the truth till u found out urself. . . .says alot.
Pray u make the best decision for yourself.

give it up for adoption is hard.

If you think you cannot handle the hurst pls let each one go there separate ways

If you think that child will constantly reminds you of her act each day and she could be mistreated by you b/c of that

on the other hand forgive her

ugo chara acha adighi echu echu
A mature eagle feather will ever remain pure
One well trained will stand the test of time

I can donate money to help in their upkeep but will never adopt that does not mean it is a wrong idea to adopt a child but I might not be able to give him/her much attension

Tell your uncle b/c he will eventually find out and let him know how remorseful you are
Yes he will be furious with you initially but later he will calm down hiding it will excalate issue later

I hope coming back to Nollywood will not break her marriage as to know when to draw the line and the part to play
being pastors wife

Aku fecha o dara awo
Agara cha must come back _{I know I did not get the interpretation but don't crucify me}

I know it is just pot of soup but maybe the soup was reserved for other purpose maybe mapped out to be eaten another day. The bother -in-law would have asked first to know if the woman is comfortable with it not everyone is sha but ignore him before little thing like this excalate to something else

Nwata kwopu aka osoro ndi okenye rie nri

If a child washes her hands very well he will eat with the elders

If a child behaves very well she will have conversation/discussion with the elders

Gods ways are not human beings ways he doesn't judge/act like us

E tie dike n'ala, anu uzu ya

Knock a valiant man on the ground and the shouts will be tremendous
The downfall of a famous man attracts public attension

Ndi be anyi ke emesia nu weekend oma
Ify

A young girl asked her parent pls mum and dad
b/w both of you who has more money?
The parents answered the daughter we have our money equal
the child said capital "NO" I think mum has more money than you dad
the dad asked her daughter how did you find out?
the daughter said b/c mum shops alot and comes home with 
shopping bags all the time

Arkison:
Hi u all,

I want to start a family soon. What I mean, I am getting married soon. But both me and my wife (God willing) aren't ready for parenthood yet (we are still young). We hope to go to hospital soon to seek medical opinion about the best way to stop pregnancy because I am not ready to use a rubber and I learnt that the pills have serious side effect. That if a young woman take them, they can even lose their fertility and my never give birth. I just want to hear from the family people, I know most now a days use family planning. And I do not have somebody very close that I can confidentially ask. My mum and her mum are already happy (expecting grand kids) so we do not want the information to leak. Please any head way?

If you don't do the highlighted part your arm of flesh will fail you or be ready to father a child
Pull out is not 100% guarantee

Kele onye nti chiri elu anughi ala anu
Salute the deaf if the heavens don't hear the earth will hear
Try and do the right thing there are those who will understand

Fhemmmy:
It depends on how loaded you are.
if you are very rich as in rich, Nigeria is the only place to live and enjoy your money.

you nailed it. I keep saying it apart from US I will never live outside 9ja but can visit other countries

Igodieo:
Just been Married for 7 months wife files for divorce.

Reasons.
She is not getting what she wants at the right time.
I have never refused her anything but provide it when i have the means.

Latest request is a FREELANDER.
last request was a blackberry storm, which she has just got.

[b]she says she does not love me anymore.[/b]what should I do people.

The highlighted statement is striking me I have a red flag on that I can tolerate her demand but adding that statement  Your intelligent might be played

wish her the best if only she will remain humble

Only few men has survived from this journey of marrying many women

nice thread

It looks very clean and natural when one wears it on I think that is why it is very expensive

Mr blazer:
Passion of christ

freeview:
Titanic

Me too

you don't spend as if there is no tomorrow that is why rich men/women go bankrupt

Nwata kpa nku ka ibe ya asi n'okpara ya n'ajo ohia
When a child makes money/wealth on time above his/her age group people will say he/she frauded to make that money

iykedare:
did u not see her reply above.

In a public forum like this do not take issues personally just post or read and move on. Then if you want to dialogue do it in a respectful manner