ceometromedia: Check out photo of the former Minister of Finance and her neurosurgeon husband, Ikemba Iweala, when they were young lovers. Right is a photo of the former Minister when she was 19 year old.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?
That boy that took you on a visit to his "slaughter house" is a complete JERK and LACKED DISCIPLINE! You could have been drugged and raped, or in a worse-case-scenario gang raped in that boy's so-called house! I'm not a prude as a man, but making out with a babe and having sex can wait till there is a mutual feeling. NOTE: Learn to meet people in the open from here on. I'm kinda pissed off that you did not use this protocol. P.S. Mimiey, whats your email? Drop it here... I want to get your opinion and some specifics via email. Cheers.
The way I am laughing now ehn?! People in this office will think I am mad!
In regards to the ethno-bigotry being displayed by Nigerians. Imagine if we where white men?! The whole black race will still be slaves. How can we fight US-Europeans and the Nigerian govt when we hate each other so much.
Even amongst the Igbo's who fight for Biafra they still hate themselves and practice caste system and social segregation in this modern time.
Well, anytime I see Igbo and Afonja... I dey run.. Nigerian is hard already without NL adding extra stress.
Mimiey: As a lady, all my female friends are hustlers. I see females hustling big time. All my friends are independent and have been dating there boyfriends for sometime and believe that the hustle will pay for both of them someday.
Women around me love with their all and hustle big time. Women around me sweat it out. Staring businesses, learning skills, others going for 2nd degrees and matters.
Personally, I am the one who even give to my friends that are guy. I believe in humanism.
In one of the neighborhood I lived recently, I see girls coming to do wife duties; advicing the guys, cooking and cleaning and they are the ones that even give them money and what do these guys do; mock them behind.
I am surrounded by females that ground. Even social media is a proof, so many ladies out there selling shoes, bags, wigs, alot into make-up and catering.
More than 50% of these businesses online are directly linked to females.
Now, it baffles me, where do u guys get the crazy girls you all wail about? Then your background and values are shaky as well.
Just like there are senseless guys, there are stupid girls as well who just want your money, there are girls who trade sex and there are senseless boys with no direction in life as well.
So many guys hustling hard! Despite all the bashings, everyday guys still keep proposing to ladies. Isn't it funny?
Why do u keep meeting bad girls? Your own head block?
Open your eyes, there are so many girls really hustling hard for themselves!
I don't even see any reason why a cool, collected, sophisticated guy will come online and start writing stinking words.
Respect your space.
No man pays my bills! I run my stuff and made my first million at 20 There are so many ladies like that out there.
Be human and classy!
@Mimiey... Calm down! The dictionary word "HUSTLER" on the streets is a negative term that connotes: 1) A prostitute. 2) A person who aggressively tries to trick people into giving them money. You have a seemingly neat and sexy kinda writing/typing style, but the word hustler does NOT DESCRIBE you or the ladies you are defending in your post! MOTIVATED is the appropriate word to use in your post. Cheers... Time out!
vickydankal: Just like getting new clothes, gadgets, or new song: you will keep playing it until you eventually hate the song. Same is sex
For we ladies, sex is more like a football match than just a physical contact: in football you have the referees, last man, Var, security guards, coach, club manager and audience. And all the listed have their ideology what a football march should be, the problem starts when you think your coach is not doing a good job and you start going to last man, security guards etc for improvement. You will also need only end up getting hurt and accumulating regrets for the future.
If a man marries a virgin , he becomes the club manager and the footballers knows this and so they maintain their sanity and restrict their movements for outside play. The tendency for a woman who got married as a virgin to cheat is lower than a “been-there-done-that” kind of girl. But a girl who is not married is like a club without manager, they can play anywhere, anytime and anyhow
... That's some crazy stuff up there. In any event, a few of us already know the hardcore, inner secrets of women that y'all are hiding.
CHoccolaTE: Since its publication on the 28th of April 2018, this “news story” has been sweeping through the vast digital plains of Facebook and Twitter:
If those stats are accurate, the awkwardly titled article has been shared more than 115,000 times The title proclaims itself as a straight-up fact. And the article it leads to bases this bold claim on genuine scientific studies, which it provides links to. In the spirit of all works of fiction, the (unspecified) author brings the story to a dramatic climax:
“Sperm is alive. It is living cells. When it is injected into you it swims and swims until it crashes headlong into a wall, and then it attaches and burrows into your flesh. If it’s in your mouth it swims and climbs into your nasal passages, inner ear, and behind your eyes. Then it digs in. It enters your blood stream and collects in your brain and spine.”
Male DNA crossing the blood-brain barrier When art meets fake news: male DNA crossing the blood-brain barrier Posts of this theme have been circulating since mid-2017, spurred by the discovery (and spurious interpretation) of a study conducted way back in 2012. The first dubious exposition, published by YourNewsWire, inspired a wave of click-batey articles from fact-checking-averse bloggers and pseudo-news sites. These have been thoroughly discredited by publications like Snopes and Forbes. However, the internet is the kind of place where news about brain-burrowing sperm spreads faster and further than reports based on the boring old truth.
Latest in the proliferation of male-DNA-fearing articles, the April 28 story, published on a site called Bimber, makes some pretty out-there claims and plays fast-and-loose with the findings of each of the studies cited. Scroll to the bottom of the article, though, and you’ll find this:
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The fake news article isn’t even pretending to be real news. In fact, it is a word-for-word copy of the original YourNewsWire story (published on the 23rd of June 2017 by Baxter Dmitry). The Bimber article is quite open about the fact that it is merely an advertisement for a website theme. Hosted by Themeforest, Bimber is targeted at people wishing to create a viral content website. It markets itself as the “#1 selling viral theme” and is full of similarly click-batey articles designed to show potential buyers how well the package works. Seems it’s doing a good job. Before I’d even finished this article, the counter on the Bimber story had shot up by another 10,000 shares.
In Summary, the 'article' stating that women retain DNA from sperm is nothing but fake news and it was clearly stated in a disclaimer in the website but men have consistently passed it off as truth because of their sick need to run women down.
WORD! Fake news online is already generating a vast armada of male and female semi-literates and illiterates. Since the 1990s, I usually ensure tight cyber security and fact-check online info before accepting any viral social media story... "No paddy for jungle!"
@Eryyy92, OK! FIRST OFF, do NOT ever attempt to commit suicide from depression due to academic challenges or low grades like some have done in the past because of shame, when they could have simply changed their courses of study to reflect their passions and not based on parental and/societal expectations. I assume you are in a uni or poly? Am I right? So here are some more PRICELESS strategies from my over four decades of existence in time and space. 1. Use YouTube to get more info about any academic course work you don't understand by typing into the search box and free videos from American/U.K. university lecturers will pop up. 2. Read up on EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE or use YouTube so that you can gain more perspective on life skills and lift the blanket of depression. All the best!
Eryyy92: please nairalanders I'm battling depression right now. I can't open up to persons because I barely talk to people and I don't have much friends. Please I'll be glad if you can contribute by listing the steps in fighting depression. I'm a type of person who believes in speaking to your inner demons. So personal remedies will be appreciated.
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Eryyy92: Bro please I'll be glad if you can explain this image.
Sure! "The DOER achieves more than the THINKER." I used the image because the OP is not just a THINKER, but a DOER with his solution, regardless of any challenge on the way. I hope this helps.
TheRealAdonye: That's true. Our Igbo isn't mainstream but we hear other dialects. And the Igbo we speak was formed because of the trade in Palm oil with the people of Ndoki and Azumini. We learnt the language because of trade.
The main language in Opobo is supposed to be Ibani which is akin to what is spoken by the Kalabari but Alas, almost everyone speaks our dialect of Igbo now. However, a conscious effort is being made to bring back Ibani as a language understood and spoken by Opobians.
The advanced history books I've read on Nigerian history since the early 1980s clearly state that Ijaw/Ibani (Bonny) traditions forbid a slave, ex-slave, or a freeborn from being made a king or Amanyanabo. So how did Jaja, a former slave (from Umuduruoha clan of Amaigbo in Imo State) who got naturalized into the Ijaw/Bonny ethnicity, become an Amanyanabo or king in Opobo (which was a part of Ikot Abasi in Ibibioland) on running in away in canoes with some male supporters from Bonny in 1870? "This is a historical scam that is being dished out online and in schools." Jaja was referred to as a BRUTAL middleman chief and NOT a king in the British archival records. Jaja's Ibo father was also a known slave trader! Jaja was very brutal (he murdered and beheaded people) and prevented the interior ethnicities along the river trade routes from trading peacefully with the British, who then deported the arrogant and ungrateful guy. He gave out 50 male mercenaries to the British to use during the Anglo-Ashanti War. This man called Jaja was not a true African nationalist like we were made to believe in bogus, covert propaganda right from the Nigerian primary school Social Studies curriculum.
ZIMDRILL: Every nation has cultures and traditions that look weird or taboo to other nations especially when your shown a clip without a narration of whats going on
let me explain the video
its a common tradition in malawi, zambia, zimbabwe, to zimbabwe it was introduce via migrants from malawi.
its dance done by married women among themselves when they teach new weds girls, or when they teach teenage girl unfortnately i saw like two very young kids am sure they wouldnt know what the dance for unless they have been exposed to sexual things not through practise but family
back to video, those dances are associsted with what is called chinamwali
google chinamwali you will have a clear understanding
the only bad thing is that its being done in front of kids
WORD! It's absolute nonsense for some people to make spurious online and offline comments about what they know nothing of! I read over 20 years back how a lot of Malawians and Zambians migrated to the former Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) to work for white Zimbabweans as farm workers. All the best. #chinamwali
obiorathesubtle: Okay.. I'll only type this once.. So pay attention..
1. Bress! You know the kinda bress that if you see it, the saliva in your mouth will change taste? That type that forms ontop the bra? Aszin.. The cleavage is too good to be true? Brown, succulent, kinda sweaty..Yes.. That type..
2. Yansh! I'm talking about the TALKING DRUM! Yess! Guys go understand.. You're in a bus minding your business, suddenly your eyes catch one kind very noisy yansh(I'm not talking about mess).. Aszin the kind of yansh that makes the whole world silent.. The BRUGUTUU BRUGUTUU BRAGADAA motion.. Chai.. Punchlines yansh .. Everything is just shaking uncontrollably like she didn't wear pant.. And you're just there dumbfounded like.. "What have I....."
3. Then there's the hips.. Get Wide hips and I'll give you the documents to my grandfather's land..
On the 2nd of December I walked down the aisle with my personal 'bully", bestie, lover, fellow movie maniac and team mate . He's not only my bestie, he is my ride or never
A year ago I said I would never marry because I had a phobia for marriage and I didn't want to put any kid through what I had gone through as a child. I lost my dad when I was only six so I partly grew up with family members and whenever I thought of what they called " marriage' I feel a shudder run through me. I had seen so much ugliness that I vowed not to put the shackles called marriage around my legs... but that was until I met this crazy, fun loving guy with a tongue that could blow your mind off.. literally. Jeez nothing fazes him and he's always in my corner, yea he's my number one fan I can't believe it started from here...Nairaland
My pastor so much love how we met that he shares the story during love or relationship seminar in the church and even on the wedding day!
" Do you know that if you are hard working and you are good at what you do, you will be singled out of a million? " My pastor said, his gaze flickering around the faces of everyone seated. Of course the question was rhetoric so he went on." Do you know that you can find love even on the internet? Do you know Nairaland? Brother Crazygod was reading sister Bibi's stories on NL and he fell in love with her... "
Well this is my love journey...
I took note of everyone on my thread in the literature section so I can give them a mention when I start a new story. I took note of him on the second thread I created, a story about a call girl. Somehow I knew that he was the one liking all my posts even when I type 'lol'. He was on every thread I made and he always gave constructive criticisms about my stories. It was like I had an automatic 'like' button
I replied him that I had a parachute to catch him if he did fall.
It was all joke and fun to me.
I couldn't post on the thread for weeks because the transformer in my area got bad. When I finally got back online I got several mentions from the readers on that thread. They were all worried about the story! They wanted to know why the story was stopped. Some even called me names without asking if I had a valid reason for not posting. I decided within me that I won't complete the story but not until I scrolled further and I saw what Crazygod (m) and Dominic (f) posted. Crazygod kept asking about the ' writer' and he wanted to know if she was okay. He said he was alarmed because I didn't post anything on Facebook either (unknown to me he sent me a friend request on there and I accepted without knowing who he was.) He also left me several messages on Facebook and I was touched by what he said, "Bibi just let us know if you are alright,"
Dominic was also worried about me and she kept asking if anyone heard from me. I had a personal rule not to meet anyone online or give out my number but I broke them for these two people. I went through all his posts, read his comments and he seemed so mature to me. I gave him my number when he asked for it, he was so calm and polite when he called me. I also broke my personal rule that I won't meet any from online and I went to see a movie with him He was really persistent and patient. He didn't talk much when we met, he was so quite and I began to wonder if he was pretending This guy could really talk over the phone so don't blame me for wondering
We agreed that the first meeting wasn't a date and we also agreed that we won't see each other again.
Here's the difficult part; to say yes to a relationship or nay?
After communicating over the phone for months, he started asking for another date and this scared me. He was acting all serious with the whole 'toasting thing'. He said I had the qualities he needed in a partner and so on. This guy is so persistent that saying "no" "no' became a chore. I also noticed that he was a goal getter and he is focused. My kinda guy!
He was sweet, still is and he has a madt sense of humour. Yea I was doing my own tripping too but afraid was catching me. I could wake up one day and find a really nasty thread about me if I wasn't careful.
Although he is a great listener and he's got a heart of gold I was scared because he might have been pretending and acting all nice just to get cookies
But I had inner peace whenever I thought of him. My heart told me he was for real but this same heart has misled me before. I asked a few of my friends here what they think about dating a fellow Nairalander and I am afraid to say that the reviews were bad!!!!
I decided to grant the second date and it was awesome. Then the third, fourth and the rest becomes history....
This journey hasn't been easy but it has been worth it. I remember asking him if his family was aware that I wasn't a Nigerian and he said they were totally cool with it. I didn't believe him because my ex's family were not cool with me being a Togolese and whenever I visited the mom would say "Togo is too far.." anyway I got the message loud and clear. Then add a clingy ex into the mix and my phobia for marriage you will find that it hasn't been easy. But oh it's worth it!
My new mother loves everything about Togo, the language, people and she even insisted that a Togolese song should be played during the traditional wedding. I got three new siblings, a fantastic aunt, three cute nephews and a beautiful niece who was one of my flower girls How could I forget my new sister who is married to his brother, she is world best organiser and event planner She was my event planner and I got the wedding of my dreams
PS. Our entrance song was Gweta by Toofan from Togo. Great song!
Davido, Adeleke’s nephew, wrote in the comments section of the post “Mama” with love emojis for emphasis.
The family’s patriarch Senator Raji Adeleke is also late.
I remember when she passed on in 2009. She hails from Akwete in Abia State and was a nurse. In 1967, the entire family relocated from Enugu to Ibadan. All their children could not speak Yoruba on arrival from Enugu.
chamboy: na una Igbos dey do like person wey get bomb for head.
Before you see one igbo guy marry one Yoruba girl at least you would have counted 5-10 Yoruba boys married to igbo girls.
To crown it all, some of the guys look down on igbo girls that marry Yoruba boys
You are very correct. Any Ibo woman (or man) that is married to a Yoruba, Benue ethnicities, and other ethnic groups outside Iboland east of the Niger river, is considered an OSU (A SOCIAL OUTCAST) or ORU (Slave) in 2020! Every Ibo who is about to get married is viewed as a potential Osu until investigations are done into the family history. Osus are discriminated against in the villages (by the so-called diala or freeborn), and they are NOT allowed to take chieftaincy titles or get married to non-Osu Ibos. This is the worse form of INTRAETHNIC TRIBALISM! NOTE THAT: Based on the Change of Name sections of newspapers, 9 in 10 Yoruba men actually prefer to get married to Yoruba women, and it is NOT true that Yoruba men are dumping Yoruba ladies, and are rushing to marry Ibo ladies! Over 9 in 10 Ibo men also get married to Ibo girls for cultural compatibility. Just in early April 2020 an audio recording of a live phone-in program that I listened to on the Osu caste system had many Ibo men and women who live in LAGOS & OGUN vehemently justifying the practice which was first banned 53 years ago. A Yoruba or Esan lady who gets married to an Ibo Osu automatically become Osus along with their children.
Yinabim: Hormonal imbalance can cause lactation When the prolactin hormone is high “Hyperprolactinemia” , milk can start coming out of her breast . Although drugs like bromocriptine or Dostinex will fix it , but I’ll advice you let her see a gynecologist please
Hi @Yinabim. Are you a medical doctor/pediatrician? I love the way you dropped those drug prescriptions here with ease so that people can learn... but not self-medicate. A female univ student friend of mine studying architecture back in the day once had milk fluid oozing out of her nipples in public and staining her upper wear, but she had no idea!... Then like thunderbolts, some guys said she had done abortion due to being pregy for her campus "bore friend," and some "experts" assumed breast cancer! Well she had her unplanned baby girl 8 months later for her BF thankfully. Alright then, signing off... Cheers!
I met this guy on ig. He flew me out to Spain. This man was funny. He did a lot for me while I was there. Most times I would ask to help and he would refuse.(please before the silly comments start. I’m very independent and God has blessed me small. I want a man to be part of my life but I don’t need one. This was my attempt at dating again (first date since I posted my last sob story years ago) but every time I open my heart I get burnt. Why?
What is all this? I think I need night vigil �. This man was so consistent when I was there, he was kind, never wanted to leave me or get off the phone the entire time. Catered to my every need. He made several attempts to kiss although I declined at first I eventually gave in after some days. He made an attempt for sex and I turned him down the whole time I was there. We did nothing sexual, he slept on the couch my entire stay. He wasn’t so happy about this but still respected my decision. - I’m tired of doing things my way and now I decided to do things Gods way.
We laughed the entire time, it was a great time. I left on a good note. This man told me he loved me, made so many promises. I actually started liking him back.
Now I’m back in California and I feel like it was once chance. If I tell you this man has gone cold. I don’t know what I did wrong. Is it my ambition/independence that scared him away? Is it the fact I turned him down? How does a man who seemed so into me go so cold? Is it the case of Yoruba demon?
It’s mood swing after mood swing and it’s like I’m forcing him to engage in conversations. He is no longer as sweet as he was before. He barely communicates.
You guys I need prayer for real. I have toasters but none so far seem like the right man for me. I’m tired of attracting bad guys or good time men.
The worst I have encountered are Yoruba. I tire for una. I wash my hand�.
Those who are married. What am I doing wrong? Do I need to down play my education/achievements? Do men give up easy when they can’t have you? Why do you men give out what they can’t maintain?
I can deduce that you are TROLLING with this post! Let me school you here... There are over 50 million people of Yoruba descent who are indigenous to 4 West African countries (Nigeria, Benin, Togo, Sierra Leone) and they also are naturalised citizens of Ghana, Cote d' Ivoire, U.S.A. Canada, U.K, France, etc. The slang/metaphoric term "Yoruba Demon" is NOT evil or negative but simply refers to an upwardly mobile person in a cosmopolitan area like Lagos, it means SWAG, POWER DRESSING, INTELLIGENCE, etc. You haven't had romantic affairs with all Yoruba men so it is highly defamatory for you @heavenlycherub to falsely claim that most Yoruba men are "heartless/wicked," and this amounts to hate speech on NL. The dynamic owner of this Nairaland forum is a Yoruba, and out of the 4 hard working Nigerian dollar billionaires on the Forbes list, 2 are Yorubas and 2 are Hausas. A lot of Yoruba men are successfully dating, or are married to women in many countries. Maybe you have to start dating men from among the Inuits (Eskimos) and Native-Americans from the Cherokee and/or Apache Nations. You have to re-edit/delete the MISLEADING TITLE of your post and an apology is needed or else rapid-fire moves will be taken against your post. Nuff said!
Diligentnigga: Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush
I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together
I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.
Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family
Now the issue is 1 She's very stubborn 2 she insults my parents at every small argument 3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me. 4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home 5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child. 6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me
All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.
Babara1994: Interesting comments here. Everyone is considering the monetary aspect, no one is considering the health aspect.
How can a newbie just invest 44k in something she knows little about? That's high blood pressure.
You guys can go ahead and start with all your savings; as for me, 5$ is a good start. Thank you
... I like your laughter and sense of humour. Where did you first learn live trading? Okay, read about the "Alligator indie" and apply it on the 1-4 hour charts with the default parameters. This will get you up to speed while learning some more, and wait till over 1 year to gain near-perfection before coaching others. Cheers.
Hunchogee: Hello guys, what is the creature called?? Ibeno and its islands are notobly know for housing strange creatures and the God's Island (utana Abasi) is an huge tourism site for the matter.. Guys what the name of these aquatic animals below?
Lunch is served..
Steve Erwin from Australia got killed in 2006 by a sting ray's tail jab right into his bare chest! I watched the global live coverage of his funeral back then. #True Blue.
manuelreports: I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.
Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.
I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.
Please fam Your suggestions please
NO! The British A-list actor Idris Elba was 46 when he married his current wife who was then a 28-year-old model... There's one more: International business/real estate mogul now Ooni of Ife (Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi) was 44 when he married his current Olori or Queen who was then 25 as of 2018! He had his first male child just last week at 46. "Things get done when they should be done." All the best!
Thanks for clearing the air. I was really upset at first after reading it. This is the reason I never make women my girlfriends. They stay in the friend zone and work on themselves as I observe their behaviors.
See the chat below. That is how you treat women. Don't take nonsense. When they put you on suspense, warn them. When they cheat, dump them. When they insult you or your parents, dump them. When they demand money, warn them and dump them. The white/Asian women I have been with don't demand even a cent, so Nigerian women should take their time with the way they demand. They should only demand when they meet nice guys or stupid richmen, not people like us wey know whatsup.
And the greatest of all, let them stay in the friend zone forever until you have money or ready to finally settle down.
I have lots of women in my friendzone and I'm happily single with no single relationship issues. You people that commit to relationships are the ones who always put yourself in trouble.
Women love a mysterious guy they chase to trap, but he never yields. The day he yields, the chase stops and they lose the spark and start cheating and getting angry at everything.
Men need to understand women physically and psychologically if they want a lasting relationship or marriage. Failure to do this, you'll cry at last or become depressed from the way they'll torment you.
I like women and I'll never want anyone to harm them, but I'll always tell everyone the truth as usual and the truth is: women are mini-Devils and they love to torment men. For a man to stand, you must first of all be a real man and learn how these mini-Devils operate. Just the same way a pastor takes his time to learn how the real Devil operates by reading the Bible regularly.
Can you tell me one pastor who has NEVER read the Bible since he was born, but has been on pulpit preaching the word of God from year to year as he quotes Bible verses? None.
This is to say, for you to understand mini-Devils, you need to read Alpha Male Relationship Bibles. If you can't read, you can't pass. A lot of men ignore the basics/fundamental and head straight to the details and this is why they usually fail in money making, financial management, and relationship management.
As I always say, there are 3 essential skills all men MUST learn or suffer and they are
1. How to handle women skill 2. How to make money skill 3. How to manage money skill
Let me drop my pen before I end up writing a long reply because I have a lot to say, but don't want to say it yet.
Look at the chat I had yesterday below and you'll see the authority and leadership in it as she begs to know where she stands which I'll never tell her.
... See that little "ballistic middle finger" below?... Embrace it!
metroblogger: TV personality Stephanie Coker Aderinokun‘s White Wedding to Olumide Aderinokun is happening today in the Greek island of Mykonos and we are super excited for her.
Yesterday, Stephanie and her friends had a bridal brunch and just a few minutes ago we got the first look at her wedding dress for the ceremony today.
Oh!... Mykonos island is one of the intensely picturesque destination wedding hotspots. The picture credit goes to the delectable 'Fade Ogunro. #THEGREEKGODS
Oyenike01: Almost 2years now , it lasted for 5years, dude said he needed space, I refused and it looked like I wasn't understanding, I don't believe in space... turned out there was a new girl, I cried almost everyday, still cried this year sef, it shook me, my life has never been the same, I was too used to him, each time I saw his picture with the girl, my life would stand still, it took the grace of God not to pull the stunt the lady in acrimony pulled, I sacrificed a lot for that relationship, it broke me.I am better now... funny part is I'm still a firm believer in love... I still never get sense.
Very profound @Oyenike. A young woman and the man she's seeing should define their relationship ASAP. 6 months minimum, to 1 year 6 months max is enough for a guy to propose, i.e., if he owns a business, investments, or has a day job! A LONGER proposal time frame leads to BOREDOM for most men... especially if "very frequent sex" without commitment is involved. A lot of those campus relationships also tend to fail on or before graduation. Guys tend to go for younger females just so they can plan and make money. Ladies should create income streams for themselves, and date older men too (5 to 20 years older) and events will pan out right. Cheers.
Omooba77: Beauty and Brain: Slaying with incredible Academic Performance.
Motunrayo Ajia in the Department of Petroleum Engineering, College of Engineering, graduates today as the all time best graduating student at Covenant University with a CGPA of 5.0.
She broke the glass ceiling and set outstanding academic record in the University.
She is indeed the real “SLAY QUEEN” and G.O.A.T.
Congratulations Vicky! I’m very proud of you. I’m not surprised but would have been surprised if not so.
Keep soaring!!
Just reading this. I love when females excel in any career path! She ('Tunrayo) has to have a laser-targeted focus on a career in the S.T.E.M field. Cheers to all!
Shebi u no get green button 4ur fone 2holla me back bah? no wori na
Babe, 2day no easy 4ur girl o my throat still dey dry uptil now cuz of dat smoke wey I inhale
The second paragraph cracked me up real hard! Nigerian female campus gang initiations involve brutal gang rapes, buggery (sometimes), beatings and smoking weed/shisha. Hope you didn't have to go through all that back then? If not, then you're wise.
Politics / Re: 19-Year-Old Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala And Her Husband (Throwback Photos) by RuggedSniper: 1:31am On Nov 26, 2020 
The dictionary word 
.. Everything is just shaking uncontrollably like she didn't wear pant.. And you're just there dumbfounded like.. "What have I....." 
no wori na
