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joe4real12:
Haa! Why you wicked like this

Just pray none of the women in your life experience rape. Just pray. Its worse than just inserting the d1ck into the puzzay. It kills women upstairs.

joe4real12:
This is crime against humanity.

#sayNOtojunglejustice

Rapists deserve more than this. After this punishment, they should be tied to a moving van and dragged along a tarmacked road for 10 straight hours.

The psychological effect of rape on women after the sad event is just too horrible.

An ex of mine was raped at 14, she still has nightmares about it till date.

Call him a small boy if you must

Call him childish

Call him weed voice

Truth remains that this dude is currently the hottest Nigerian celebrity (not musician)


Meanwhile, does anyone have bread Agege, I have ewaganyi. Lets collabo

The most expensive defender ever.

lovelygurl:
He is not better than her in any way. You think she has not heard of how he goes around scratching every hole like a garbage man. It's either she's scared of being dumped afterwards or doesn't want to have sex before marriage, after the stillbirth issue.

He only went on a revenge mission,though I am not in support of that. He went shopping for her relative after she turned him down.

lovelygurl:
Grandpa,
This is not how someone who wants to be worthy of respect talks

How else would I talk?

If this dude was your brother, would you allow him marry a woman who thought he is not worthy of her body and refused him access to the cookies on several occasions, only for her to go fvck numerous d1cks somewhere, came back and still forming saint, still refusing the guy access to her body after she has had a miscarriage?

lovelygurl:
Oh boy go back and read!

Op got her RELATIVE pregnant and aborted the pregnancy!

Who is this one calling o boy

Am I your mate?

Nerdg:
You're capturing the part you like. However, I wish you can understand the theme rather than a paragraph. Let me help, we had many break-ups only because I tried to have sex with her. Meanwhile she's already sexually active. That's the problem not the stillbirth

Then fvck her and dump her. If she doesnt allow you go into her pant, still dump her. She doesnt deserve you. She was getting serviced by some dirty guys and refused you sex, she now wants you as a husband after you have gotten a good job, still refusing you sex. Marry her at your own peril.

Leave the man alone. Cant a man just enjoy his owner phone again?

You failed to add these:

8. That your partner, no matter how much they are in love with you can cheat on you with anybody: Your mum/dad, your brother/sister, your gateman/maid, your best friend, neighbour or someone you don't even know.

9. That as a man you need money to maintain a happy good relationship. That money is a necessary fuel in the engine of your relationship/affair/marriage. That without money you can not be completely happy in a relationship or marriage

10. That as a woman you will not gain enough respect from your boyfriend/husband if you don't make your own money, not necessarily to support him, but just make your own god damn money

yebokos:
To your prayers i say a big Amen...Thanks God bless you...to the other one iwo gangan ni oponu,mumu ati were.. LoL

Lol, weyrey

yebokos:
yiimu...so before Betting becomes popular for naija people no they gamble ? Bet on snookers,table tennis,dice,whot...seems u forget street will always be street,u can take someone away from street but can't take street out of him... Some people bet for fun ( those that have GOOD JOB) and Some bet to survive,greed is the only thing that kills in all human does,why do you think people post millions to Ponzi ( individual oo )..finally stop calling people that bet lazy cos have seen bankers, engineer even medical doctor, bricklayer betting or are they lazy too...why do u think Mr AKinalabi left u guys for seminer buz? Focus on your hustle and leave others with their own...Finally to all association punters or bettor please ONLY bet with what u can afford to lose. Thanks

Look at all of them quoting me. Most of them are going through serious depression caused by betting o. Enjoy your betting o, make I go face my own business.

Dont worry you will become a millionaire from betting, marry, raise kids, and enjoy your life with proceeds from betting. Lol. Awon ode.

My younger brother who stays with me was addicted to betting (sport betting, ajansare owonjono etc). He would bet with my money 'cos he doesnt work, just an aspiring footballer. He stole 12k, 20k and 40k from me to bet, just to mention the highest amounts. His whole life was crumbling, he became a menace, everyone in the family hated him, he didnt even like his own life but couldnt help it. I would send him to my Dad's place, the family will beg me to take him back. This is a boy I am planning to send to Europe to play football. I have spent up to a million on his football career already. A very skillful footballer. If I share his videos to watch you woould want to put your money on him. He is so good I can bet he can win the Ballon D'or someday, but betting was ruining his life.

So I stopped complaining and went online to get every material accessible, I became a psychologist for his sake. I counselled him with love deveryday and gradually he dropped his addiction. He is so completely free now that he feels like burning down every betting shop he sees. I have tested him on countless occasions and he passed. He cant even steal 50 naira from me again.

Most of you guys on this thread can relate with my brother's ugly experience cos you are going through same but wont admint

In the end, everyone has his own cross to carry. Let me carry mine.

akinalabi:
My brother. Go for the bookie that gives you what you want.

Be it Nairabet, Bet9ja, Merrybet, Surebet, 1960bet and so on.

It's your money. Make your own decisions.

Isn't it rather saddening that a lot of our youths have become lazy, addicts, thieves and have their lives ruined because of you guys? We have even read cases of how many of them committed suicide after losing heavily to you guys, after using their school fees, accomodation fee, feeding allowance, stole their parents and other peaople's money to place betting on your website.

Oga Akin Alabi, I miss those days you held seminars accross Nigeria, especially at Ojeagbasi's success digest seminars. Those days we looked forward to your publications in the magazines every week, teaching young people how to make money legitimately through the internet: Google adsense, affiliate marketing etc. RIP to those days.

May the lord judge us all.

PS: Seun, I thought you once banned topics and discussions promoting betting of any kind on this forum. Still wondering why this thread has 91k+ views and not looking like it is going to be deleted anytime soon.

Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.

I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.

Of all the girls I ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when I date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. In fact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, I was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasn't all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime

The trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. Then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. I mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didn't know.

Brothers and sisters! When I opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! I copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.

For the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.

She begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just don't know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, I'm thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. Thanks so much. one love!

Hear me bro, open your ears wide and listen. Listen to me because I have been in your shoes exactly. I can relate with everything thing you wrote up there. I was spending on her, the love was over the moon, I discovered she cheated after hacking her whatsapp, I broke up with her, she moved on quickly but I couldnt. I went back to her and she agreed to take me back after I mumuly begged her. 7 or 8 months later, she cheated with double dose of venom after I hacked her whatsapp again. She didnt even fvck the first guy, but this time, she bleeped a guy, fell compltely in love with another and was flirting excessively with another. I literaly ran mad. I mean, I almost lost my sanity. Now she is gone and gone forever.

Learn from my story because ours sound the same. RUN RUN RUN. She will come back and strike your heart with Sango's thunder.

This story and pictures doesn't add up.

Now they have handed him over to the police.

Meanwhile, this is my reaction when I see a Baddo member being lynched..

Me, when my sister said a footballer is toasting her

Nothing else to see again in this world

IamKashyBaby:


If i were to choose, i wud prefer very modest but solemn wedding ceremony...

Maximum 10 ppol will be invited. NO MORE THAN 10.

Civil wedding wud do. No need of a church wedding since i do not have a religion..

Wedding gown? Maybe.

Wedding Reception: Juz in hotel..So it will be juz counted..RSVP only.

I want to pm you, and below are reasons why you MUST reply

1) I won teach you how to sabi confirm pidgin

2) Just like you, I also don't give a hoot about religion

So, should I go ahead and send a pm?

..

I want to donate my eyes, there is nothing else to see in this world

There are reasons your ex is your ex. Even if bad sexual chemistry isn't one of the reasons, having sex with your ex partner is still a bad idea.

Even just the phrase, "sex with the ex" will get a spectrum of responses from people. Most people will acknowledge that sex with an ex is a hazardous activity.

Why do people do it? A number of seemingly convincing reasons: It's familiar; the sex is always good; make-up sex can be hot; the inability to let go and move on, and the most dangerous of all: the hope that sex might lead to a reconciliation.

Often, when exes hop back into bed together, they each have a different reason for being there. One might be scratching a sexual itch with a tried and reliable partner, then the other is thinking dangerously along the lines of reuniting. Yes, sex with the ex is a very, very bad idea.

So the first thing you have to ask yourself is why do you want to recycle lovers rather than move on? What would you gain from going back into the bedroom with an ex? If you have an emotional reason, stop right there and don't even consider the idea.

Whether you have recently broken up, or you've been apart for some time, if you're seeking to reconnect to a former partner emotionally, and using sex as the way to do it, you're asking for confusion and trouble.

If your answer is because of the physical pleasure that you get from sex with this particular ex, again, why invite confusion and complications into your life? If you want a casual partner for casual no-strings sex, your ex is not the answer. It doesn't take long for old patterns – and new – expectations to creep back once you become intimate. No matter how you slice it, sex is intimate and don't kid yourself that sex with an ex is a simple act.

Often, one or both of you will regret the sex. The feelings afterwards that ignite your memories of one another – either good or bad – can make for the desire to turn the clock back. Or worse, only one of you wants to turn the clock back to before you got between the sheets together, while the other wants to turn the clock back all the way to before you broke up.

Either way, spare yourself the head smacking and heart ache and stay strong, where you are right now. Remember why you both broke up.

You've moved on successfully this far. So keep looking forward to new sexual and romantic possibilities and keep the old ones where they belong: in your past.

It's difficult when you see your ex regularly, but you can stay strong by arranging to see those mutual friends in different circumstances rather than where you know you'll run into each other. And if that's not possible, absolutely engage your support team: if they know you really do not want to get back with your ex, in any way, they will help you (to what extent they can, but really in the end the choice is yours).

And of course it's common sense, to not be around your ex when alcohol is involved. Drinking may make your ex seem more alluring and attractive, and it will definitely cloud your judgment. A clear head is a smarter one when it comes to anything to do with sex and love, and tenfold that for exes!

In this modern era of greater acceptance of casual sex, it may seem there's little harm in sex with the ex. But few people are mature enough to separate current sex from past patterns, and even fewer get into bed for the same reasons, and stay there for the same reasons.

Do yourself a favour: leave the past alone and go out there and get your future.

Source: http://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/sex-relationships/sex/is-it-ok-to-have-sex-with-an-ex/news-story/bc6ea021d3b649048aa9005255b10d5b

Sacluxpaint:
If only your PENls will concur with your promise.

Even pastors are finding it difficult, its you mere mortal. Taa!

You can end up cheating but don't go into marriage with that mentality. If you cheat, let it be because the situation is beyond your control, not you wittingly doing it and robbing it on your wife's face. Thats shitty. On what foundation are you building your marriage?

This OP is a mad man. Follow his advice and ruin your marriage. Once I find the right woman I will stay true to her and once we get married I will never cheat.

Let me repeat again, follow this demented man's advice and have your marriage hit Olumo rock.

Mumu person.

Jesus

I have one acre of land in Osun state lying fallow. Please, you people should gather yourselves together and come and faint there

SkinnyDude:
is ighalo dead?

Google is your friend. Obagoal earns higher.

Obagoal

Baba don fresh now.

The 30th highest paid footballer in the world, number 1 in Nigeria. Chinese money is sweet

oyetpel:
Is what am doing morally right?

At least New France President had been eyeing his teacher since he was 15 and the teacher was 30 something then.



My only concern is that i feel i should produce a child for my mom to be a grandma, but since my 2 sisters will marry in the next 1 to 4 years time respectively i think i should wait, cos am a man.

Wait, are you really serious about falling in love with an eleven year old girl. Are you serious??

Detrickypat:
So what do you do with a girl that cheated with same guy twice, thinking she has found what was missing in her relationship...but after a while, became remorseful and confessed to her guy crying and pleading for a second chance....saying that she was ready to do anything to ease the hurt she caused and bring back the trust...

You gave her the second chance as you yourself was no saint and moved forward with the relationship.... Ever since, she has been a good girl and straightforward with herself and true to you too...

On some rare occassions, it does happen that the cheating partner has changed for real, but can you still trust her with all your heart after cheating on you twice with a guy? The memories might never go away, and that itself will remain a dagger stuck in your heart. Therefore, if you cannot trust her again, even tho she seems to have changed, please by all means let her go, and if otherwise, stay

Go and forge a letter na






And be ready to join Nnamdi Kanu in jail when he gets arrested again

Foxie:
Ahhh! Aunty, resume duty till morning? Please na.. Lol

I can see some of the reason my would be hubby is saying we should pass the night In a hotel, so we don't just get home and start trying to fix things... But my fear is, the morning after, when our room will be cleaned up, who knows what mess we'd create... And some other worries... Thanks for your contribution

Like, you are a virgin and might stain the hotel's bedsheets with your blood? Blood might not even gush out, 60 percent of virgins dont have blood flow. And dont worry about that really, stain all you want, the hotel wont mind, they can just throw away the nedsheets, or you guys can just fukck on your own bedsheets you brought from home.

2ndly,listen to your husband. He is the husband. Whatever he says should stand.

What do I know, I am not married