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AlexReports:
....It feels good to finally enter the fourth floor (forth realm of life).

Indeed life they say, begins at 40, and mine is not exception.

I have cheated death three times in my life, to see another phase of my life today. There ought to have been more to say or write about, but it is a moment of sober reflection and thanksgiving.

_In my life, challenges have always been a stepping stone to my next level. It propels me forward, as I rally my struggles through the fires of adversity. I only thank God for the gift of life._
_His biblical promise of 'he that finds a wife and fulfilment, justifies the impact of good friends around._

My life story is not the proverbial 'born with golden spoon' tale but it is a case of cat with nine lives that dines fearlessly in the congregation of affluence, which stamped the name 'FINISHWORK.'

Celebrate and thank God for me today, as I have another chance in life to mark my 40th Birthday today, 31st August, 2023.

🎂 *{{Happy Birthday To Me}}* 🎂


https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/08/24/celebrating-sensational-pr-mogul-40-alexreports-roll-drums-recounts-giant-stride/

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKUy-CN7Qx8

FreeStuffsNG:
100 years old Matcheted to death by his 39 year old son? That's a child he had in his old age and probably must have spoilt him and raised him badly. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Ezemann:
Thanks for this insight. I had web development and robotics in mind.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Most Nigerian parents focus more on their children's education but ignore their children's moral behavior. E.g Greetings, respect, good manners etc. I'm really disappointed in some children these days.

Ezemann:
Friends I am in a state of confusion. I have a b.sc in political science and public Administration. Though I initially wanted to study law but I didn't pass literature in Waec. Which made me opted for political science.

Now I am considering enrolling for the waec again and probably go for law. But I am also considering going into tech.

If you were in my shoe, which will you go for.?

N/b I graduated with a 2.1 six years ago. Nothing to hold onto. I am also approaching 30 years o.

Please help a brother.

9jahotblog:
Check out the pictures of Former Governor Captain Idris Wada Paying solidarity visit to the Kogi state Pdp governorship candidate, Senator Dino Melaye In Abuja.

Raalsalghul:
I don't see anything wrong with sponsoring a lady you want to marry to school.

Please sponsor her, her parents and siblings and if you still have more money, sponsor her extended family.

Oponu oshi!

gforce5:
When I say that Nigerian men are the biggest SIMPS in Africa, people think that I am exaggerating and hating my own gender and countrymen. No matter how matter times we try to lecture guys to sort themselves out first before considering women, it all falls on deaf ears. Nigerian men have a savior like complex. This is what happens when you are brainwashed to believe that the only value you have as a man is your money.

Samantha124:
You can never rehabilitate someone who's not ready to be rehabilitated.

I know one lady that has taken her son to rehab many times, but because the son was never ready to change, he'd still go back to doing drugs after leaving rehab... Sometimes he'd emotionally blackmail his mother into getting him to be released from the rehab, promising that he'll never do drugs again, but he'd still go back.

He'd sell her stuff just to get his fix.. one day when he was high, he threatened to kill his mother and take his life, the woman fortunately managed to escape from the house in the middle of the night... She got him arrested, but dropped the charges few days later... People tried to convince her to let the law take its cause on him because not only was he stealing from her, he also threatened her life, but she'd become defensive and talk of how he's her only child.

It happened that the guy was owing his suppliers some money and he asked his mother for the money, but she refused... Few days later, the woman's house was burned down and her son was brutally beaten and hospitalized... Fortunately for the woman, she was a landlady and she moved into one of her rooms and what shocked everyone is that she still allowed her son to come and live in one of the rooms after he got discharged from the hospital even though he's the reason behind her house getting burned down.... The guy never bothered to get a job in his life because his mother has been pampering him all his life.

Three months after the woman's house was burned down, she got into a heated argument with her son and out of rage, the guy went ahead and burned down the property the woman was renting, but fortunately, no one was caught in the fire and apparently he was high went he did it... He then left and said he was going to be with his father, the same man who didn't help in raising him.. To everyone's surprise, she still didn't get him arrested.. The woman had to seek refuge in a police station, she'd sleep in a police cell because she had nowhere else to go.

While staying in the police station, her health started to deteriorate and her family came and fetched her, she was staying in her sister's place when she took her own life by overdosing on her prescription from the doctor.

If you met the guy, you'd think people are just making up stories about him because he looks innocent and humbled.

So I think the op should either get the son arrested or throw him out of the house before he kills him because you can't take an addict to a rehab and expect him to change when he himself is not ready to change.

Samantha124:
I don't know.

Vinnie2000:
In Nigeria,

FAVOUR Dey dey Jobless, after Years of Graduation. 😟
SUCCESS dey Fail Jamb and Post Ume 2,3X.🙁
BEAUTY dey Worwor. 😒
WISDOM dey use him School Fees do Birthday for Girlfriend. 😯😏

Samantha124:
Are those their real names or just football nicknames?

agabusta:
Look at you. Service since when.

Btw, I'm looking at the legal interpretation of the NYSC Act. The legal interpretation of the NYSC Act is that you must serve compulsorily, so far you graduate under 30 years of age.

If you like, run away and don't present yourself for service. When you come back at age 40 and then claim you need exemption because you are above the age for service. They will look at the age you graduated and simply tell you, you are not qualified for exemption, because as at the time you graduated you were still under 30 years. It is as simple as that.

If they allow that, it simply means people will not serve, they will just go and then come back when they are above 30 years to ask for exemption certificate.

If you are of age when Minister Kemi Adeosun had her issues, you will know that was how they discovered that her exemption certificate was fake!

NYSC will never issue you exemption certificate if they check and see that you graduated under 30years and never presented yourself for service.

kokoA:
She was first called up in 2001 So after 22 years she now realized that she needs to complete her NYSC heheh

peekspot:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/26/remi-tinubu-awards-scholarship-to-students-from-36-states-fct/

chisomkachy:
As NDLEA intercepts 1,343.8kg skunk, ketamine going to UK, Indonesia, others; seizes 514,420 pills of opioids in Gombe, Adamawa, Ogun raids



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid03dmzXsfzXnL36jvfJcn6bRtnXx6pCXBkMkkhBtqLdxsecFkf3jpzbfycWJdmWct5l&id=100069123281551&mibextid=Nif5oz

AImiron:
Steve Harvey holds a Ph.d in SIMPology, zero pity. He fvck around and find out bountifully. I hope other celebrity simps learns before they get burnt.. I’m suprised she’s ask for half, man could give her everything and return to square one to start all over again 😂🤣😂

N.lfpmod mod frontpage material don land my boss

AImiron:
Source

alphonsojaybaz:
ANAMBRA PASTOR, IGBOKE COMMITS SUIC•DE AFTER LOVER DUMPS HIM

Eyes Of Lagos gathered that  the man jumped down from a two storey building after he was jilted by his lover. The man was 30 years old at the time of his death. His girlfriend, whom he intended to marry disappointed him after seeing her through the university.

The source said according to the tradition of Leru Community of Umunneochi LGA in Abia State, the man would be buried in a forest for committing sacrilege.

The man was eventually buried, on Friday, August 25 in a bush, the source added.

source : https://eyesoflagos.com/2023/08/27/anambra-pastor-igboke-commits-suicde-after-lover-dumps-him/

cc: Mynd44 , Seun , Nlfpmod

Natbrowny:
Provide names of possible drugs

Osiki18:
Helminths are worm-like intestinal parasites that live inside the digestive system and feed off nutrients from their host, causing the infected person to become malnourished and susceptible to disease and chronic illness.
Adult worms live in a person’s intestine, where they produce thousands of eggs each day. The infection is spread when eggs are passed in human faeces and contaminate the soil – a problem that is common in poor communities with inadequate sanitation. The eggs can be ingested when contaminated soil is found on unwashed vegetables, water sources or unwashed hands.

At first, symptoms of intestinal worms may be mild or non-existent, but infections can lead to diarrhoea, abdominal pain, weakness, anaemia and nutritional problems. The disease can affect cognitive and physical development, and in severe cases can be fatal.

As well as the physical symptoms, intestinal worms can decrease people’s quality of life, affecting their employment, education, fertility and happiness.

Dewarming should not be every month and it should be noted that sugary food do not increase the number of worms in the stomach.

Bitter kola,bitter leaf,action bitters and the likes do not help in dewarming.

Drugs such as albendazole,mebendazole and ovex could be used.

Adults should dewarm about three times a year and for children, after every three months.

When last did you dewarm?
When last did you dewarm your children?
What warm drug did you take?


Nlfpmod
Mynd44

Sucolee:
Pussy cat,pussy cat

Samantha124:
She or he is always trying to flirt with women around here.

Either she or he is a man or a lesbian... There's no way the person behind the moniker is a straight woman.

chocboi78:
Damn. She used to be the hottest screen Diva back in d day

fergie001:
Berry, 57, also pays child support to ex-husband Gabriel Aubry, with whom she shares a daughter, Nahla.

She pays Nahla's tuition, health insurance as well as $16000 in child support to Aubry, until it was halved over a decade after in 2022.
She was also court-ordered to pay the remainder of the retroactive amount of $85,000.


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Penguin2:
Yesterday I saw a publication by Tinubu’s propaganda blog, Podium Reporters, asking why Peter Obi has kept quiet while “Obidients” attack Kumuyi for “praying for Nigeria”.

But that’s a mischievous suggestion. Because Kumuyi’s condemnation was from all Nigerians.

Till now, I’ve not seen a single tweet in support of Kumuyi.

So, it’s either all Nigerians are now Obidient or Podium Reporters are being mischievous as usual by dragging Obi into what is entirely none of his business.

Does Obi think for the Nigerian youths?

Besides, I thought they said majority of Nigerians voted Tinubu? Why didn’t that majority defend Kumuyi? Why is the voice of the ‘minority’ always louder than the supposed majority?

To Kumuyi….

Who has he been hearing from? Because it’s obvious it hasn’t been God all these years.

Or why does he keep issuing prophesies that never come to pass and people expect that we fold our arms and watch these guys lie to us all the time without consequences or their bluff being called?

These guys keep taking advantage of the gullibility of the majority of Africans who have faith without reason.

I remember when Adeboye once said he drove from Lagos to Ore on an empty tank, and people believed him. They didn’t ask questions about the possibility of such. They insisted it was a miracle that must never be probed nor questioned.

Wake up, Africa!

Wake up and see that these men are conmen who are feeding fat on your gullibility “In The Name of God.”

And they know that the day Nigeria gets her leadership right, and things start working, that’s the day they will go out of business.

Because 90% of things that people go to church to pray for, are things with temporal (physical) solution that requires no recourse to the metaphysical (prayers).

Name it:

Food

Job

Shelter

Visa

Capital for business

Success in exam

Cure for disease, etc.

These are things that a functional government will see to its adequate availability and thereby reducing the dependence of people on these churches and Daddy GOs.

It happened in Europe.

There was a time when the economy of Europe was in shambles and people depended highly on God, through prayers, for their daily survival. That period saw to the emergence of big churches and cathedrals where people went to pray.

But when European countries started getting their leadership right and their economy blossomed and government started doing its job of providing basic amenities and jobs that help people have a means of livelihood, the people realized that they’ve been seeking spiritual solution to physical problems.

The population in the churches started to dwindle until some churches became empty. And some of those churches started getting converted into warehouses for storage of goods manufactured in industries.

Now, these Nigerian, nay African, pastors know this story. And they know that if African countries start to get its leadership right, what happened in Europe will inevitably happen in Africa; and Nigeria is not excluded.

That’s why they keep supporting the wrong leaders and telling lies in the name of prophecy - prophesies that never come to pass.

Now, when we call the hypocrisies of these charlatans out, some people who are irredeemably gullible, hopelessly superstitious and still operating with animistic mentality, where every occurrence is attributed to the gods, will be telling us to “touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm.” That’s the escape line of these charlatans.

Wake up Africa and take thine salvation into thine hands!


https://twitter.com/naughti_awol/status/1694088301571866726?s=46&t=2AB_wrBea-oBYJf5ZCFV-A[/quote]Quite revealing

favor914:
But you houseboy commenting about her, knows what the position of a Minister entails?

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.