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Good amendments but not impressed with the qualification for a mayor of Abuja. They should stop taking us backwards. Current realities demand at least a degree holder

Bahamas95:
Jesus!

Fvcking disgusting.

Do snakes give birth like mammals, I thought they lay eggs?

Some lay eggs while some give birth that way

Ah Ogun! O Lord please deliver her

Xcelinteriors:
I made a post yesterday concerning my missing brother and how I was told on phone that they will burn him

https://www.nairaland.com/6974692/vigilante-held-brother-enugu-threatened

Well to the glory of God he was found in police station this morning with wounds all over him. The police said that he walked into the station by himself and has not alter a word since then. I told my parent to take him to hospital and he's receiving treatment.
By the grace of almighty God, I believe he will regain his senses and talk

I want to use this medium to thank everyone that said a word of prayer to my brother, lot of nairalander even called to check on him. Nairaland is a great family. I pray Almighty God will bless you all

Thank God for you people and your brother

MadeINchenzen2:
https://www.nairaland.com/6978056/lady-murdered-boyfriend-dumped-body

The thread link above shows exactly why everyone must compel themselves to carry out some very important mental check of whom they are interested in dating or get married to.

A Mental health disorder is not outright madness... people who suffer from bad mental issues may appear like every other normal person you meet on a day to day basis, but they actually have mental health issues.

By definition mental health refers to cognitive, behavioral, and emotional well-being. It is all about how people think, feel, and behave. People sometimes use the term “mental health” to mean the absence of a mental disorder.

“Mental health is a state of well-being in which an individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively, and is able to make a contribution to his or her community.”

The most common types of mental illness are as follows:

anxiety disorders
mood disorders
schizophrenia disorders

I can categorically tell you that it is a big risk dating anyone who has got mental health disorder. They can be very dangerous. Check well before dating.

You can do further research on the subject.

How do you handle one with mood disorder

Baptism is very important for the forgiveness of sins. Acts 2:37-38; 22:16. After that God adds you to His Church. Acts 2:47. That is what it means to be born again. Born again is not to say any prayers after any so called man of God, it means being born of water and Spirit (John 3:1-5). That means baptism through immersion. Look for the Church of Christ nearest you for assistance on how to do it right

gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.

more like what has humbled you is your current state, you've not really changed nor repented. If you get an opportunity you may still do it to her again. You have to genuinely repent. You also owe that woman apology, pride aside,.if you've really seen you were wrong and have repented.

Not alright. Respect the naira

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Religion..
Typing..
Christains are so comfortable embarrassing and disgracing their God..
Men created religion then wrote a fictional book so as to bond some set of beings who can't think for themself..
Only blockheads still believe that there is an imaginary creature up there that will give you heaven if you do his works..

Ride on..if truly he committed the crime then what are they waiting for again ?that's why we have the law..

The fact that some unscrupulous people are misusing the name of God does not take away the truth that there is God, the Originator, Creator and sustainer of the universe and everything in it. The Earth is a well designed and complex system, full of complex and well designed creatures including you. It is only foolish to believe nobody is behind this beauty and complexity. Therefore denying the existence of God is more foolish and nothing is more blockheadedness than that.

Iyaebe:
I hate him,even all his gra gra no hit song

Hehehe Do you even know who is called 2Pac?

God1000:
Chinese engineers have built amazing infrastructure across China with their expertise, but what baffles me is the crummies they often construct for us in Nigeria, you won't see such in their homeland.

Who do we blame here? Maybe our leaders because it's the amount of money they award some of these projects and they will still embezzle part of it.

I hate this black and white design. It doesn't make anything beautiful, rather makes it ugly and dirty with time

Forget all these ones. let's consider fresh heads.
Vote professor Kingsley Moghalu/ Osinbanjo

KingSatan:
In the 21st century when other nations are investing heavily in Science, Tech, Artificial Intelligence, The Metaverse, Robotics etc.

My Africa is still actively engaged in Mutinies and Coup d'état.

Dark Continent Indeed.

Yes, I think it becomes necessary when the government in power is doing little or nothing to see that these things are brought to his country and unconcerned of the people's welfare. I feel Nigeria needs a reset at some point

So Middle Belt now na party chairmanship always . Why not stuff like presidency or even vice. Middle Belt is due

DispatcherLagos:
So just because of vehicles and helmet a whole president left abuja to Ogun. Meanwhile Niger former president once lead the team that fought boko haram

That was late Chad president

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

No try am if you no wan regret. Let that girl give birth. God go help you take care of that baby

chatinent:
How does one become born again?

By getting baptized for the forgiveness of your sins and the you receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. Acts 2:7-38; 22:16

DispatcherLagos:
No perfect family. If I open mouth talk my own now you will thank God for having a mother like yours. However to get her thoughts out of my mind I had to travel and stay very far away from her. No calls or sms, we're both good, this is the fourth year of no communication

Omo

It's alright. That's the way of every human. Be good

Can we have a clean clear and well structured streets and environment like this in Africa? When??

Wait does female importance and beauty lay in their unclothedness??

pointblank247:
Na waa for people ooo.
Why didn't you use your children school fee to give the guy and then tell the school that you gave to a worthier course.
When you are qualified to pay tithe,you will know

This analogy is wrong and does not fit into this context if you properly understand what tithing and giving to God. God does not take directly from us, He doesn't need that money. It used for the purpose of putting it where it is needed for the benefit of man to His glory.

Besides, tithing is NOT for Christians. Christians are to give liberally as God has blessed them, not compulsorily 1/10. Tithing is NOT for Christians. It was COMMANDED FOR THE JEWS

That's true. He will lead his members and go to hell if he does not repent.

yanabasee2:
Why would anyone feel envious about people traveling to their village...??


Used to have that type of zeal as a kid.... Until I went to the village and began to suffer.... go to farm and do better job..... Then return to walk miles away to fetch water from the stream.... My younger cousins who knew how to paddle the bicycle would have it easy... while I will put the bucket and climb hills....


You better be thanking your father ... There is no fun in the village...


Carnivals in the cities.... Cinemas in the cities and parks and gardens are there with rich kids.... But you want to go and be struggling local champions with village people... And their festival that they organize to kill their brothers that is living large in the city...

Depends on the kind of village you come from

yanabasee2:
Why would anyone feel envious about people traveling to their village...??


Used to have that type of zeal as a kid.... Until I went to the village and began to suffer.... go to farm and do better job..... Then return to walk miles away to fetch water from the stream.... My younger cousins who knew how to paddle the bicycle would have it easy... while I will put the bucket and climb hills....


You better be thanking your father ... There is no fun in the village...


Carnivals in the cities.... Cinemas in the cities and parks and gardens are there with rich kids.... But you want to go and be struggling local champions with village people... And their festival that they organize to kill their brothers that is living large in the city...

Depends on the kind of village you come from

iamwhat:
I am seriously confused and scared at the same time.

My cousin sister has been staying with us since age 5 and nobody knows she's not our sibling because we took her as one of us, she finished from the most expensive secondary school in our town and we gave her everything she needs.

She told my younger sister that her friends boyfriend is a yahoo guy and I noticed she has been misbehaving lately.

I received the shock of my life when my younger sister discovered her POS business money was not complete and she told me she suspected Toyin because of the clothes, Shoes and bags she buys nowadays. Lo and behold, she conducted search in her bag and she found 200k in her bag. She told the Money from there and after some days, My cousin started looking for the money but she didn't tell anyone but asked our maid if she found the money.

We confronted her yesterday and she confessed she took the money.
My brother is suggesting we take her to guard room but I think that's inhumane but I'm so confused at what to do right now...
I don't want us to maltreat her, I'm looking for the best way to treat this issue without causing any physical harm to her.

Since she has been with us since age 5, I feel sending her to her family won't make sense because she didn't grow up with them, I am suggesting a professional counsellor/therapist but my siblings are saying I'm behaving like Oyibo, they aren't buying the idea at all.

Please I need your advise on how best to handle this issue:

I think your suggestion is good. If you behaving like oyinbo will make her better an see save her life do it. Let her see a counselor

iamwhat:
I am seriously confused and scared at the same time.

My cousin sister has been staying with us since age 5 and nobody knows she's not our sibling because we took her as one of us, she finished from the most expensive secondary school in our town and we gave her everything she needs.

She told my younger sister that her friends boyfriend is a yahoo guy and I noticed she has been misbehaving lately.

I received the shock of my life when my younger sister discovered her POS business money was not complete and she told me she suspected Toyin because of the clothes, Shoes and bags she buys nowadays. Lo and behold, she conducted search in her bag and she found 200k in her bag. She told the Money from there and after some days, My cousin started looking for the money but she didn't tell anyone but asked our maid if she found the money.

We confronted her yesterday and she confessed she took the money.
My brother is suggesting we take her to guard room but I think that's inhumane but I'm so confused at what to do right now...
I don't want us to maltreat her, I'm looking for the best way to treat this issue without causing any physical harm to her.

Since she has been with us since age 5, I feel sending her to her family won't make sense because she didn't grow up with them, I am suggesting a professional counsellor/therapist but my siblings are saying I'm behaving like Oyibo, they aren't buying the idea at all.

Please I need your advise on how best to handle this issue:

I think your suggestion is good. Let her see a counselor

No difference with any other girl per say. Same taste and feeling with the village girl. Same facilities. Some village and supposed less privileged girls better sef

Maxymilliano:
Nigeria government should not fight the battle she cannot win. Those countries in question have nothing to gain from Nigeria and banning these airlines from coming to Nigeria no comot a strand of hair from these countries dem.

Na we dey benefit from dem, not the other way round.

It's a lie. The way you guys portray your country as something totally insignificant is alarming. You only get treated as you see yourself. The value you place on yourself is the value you get in return. The white can't really do without Africa, just that Africa has not waken up to her potentials. Those ones would be the ones begging

Iyaebe:
Nasarawa and weird stories, Benue state too.These are places you'll get all the weird abominable sex stories. Tufia.Marry a Nasarawa or Benue man at your own peril.

Your name sounds like Yoruba. If that be the case, how about if it were to be concluded that all Yoruba are skull miners and dirty pigs. Who knows how your between the legs looks like. That might be a harbour of Scales of dirtiness and ringworm

Candidlady:
And your day one Niggarr is starving to death somewhere!

smh!
date a responsible girls that wont be a liability una no go hear!

modified- op you are a broke as$ niggarr!

you spent 300k span of 4yrs! Meaning 75k in a year, meaning 6250/mnth!. The girl is a fowl for stil putin up with ur broke being!

how many times do you have sex with her in a day/week/mnth/yr? You this broke nagging gay'hot of a man

Not supporting premarital sex but even if they have sex is he the only one enjoying it

Shoodboi:
The only advice you need is to buy a cane and walk around with it so that every guy you ask for advice over this issue can use it to flog you.