₦airaland Forum

but must that be? because you didn't promise one dollar to one naira you should watch your country crumble economically?? I don't understand these people. What is patriotism again? is it defending things that shouldn't be defended??

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

Obviously seems she doesn't love you. just using you to catch cruise. Move bro

And na still Dem head this committee. naija for Dem. if you Kno you kno

Xenry:
Most of our nigerian girls are liabilities (only few are assets), any girl who takes and do not give is a liability

So my question is, if you run out of cash today or tomorrow, can your girlfriend assist you with at least 5k? Supposing you need it for urgent reason(s).

If she can't assist you with that, then she probably is a liability.

For me, I love dating Assets, and not Liabilities. Mine couldn't do that because she doesn't have it, so she's a liability.

That's why I ghosted and dropped her, now I'm looking for an asset.

Now, over to you, can your girlfriend assist you with at least that amount of money if you run out of cash today or tommorow?

Because if she can't, then she probably is a liability.

True love and respect is already an asset. That's an asset most big marriages can't find. ask Kanye West.

Angelfrost:
Was that God's command??! Did He expressly state that??!... The same God who raised female judges over Israel??!... Or it was merely Apostle Paul's own submission based on the issues among the early church??!

You should learn to study your Bible properly and intelligently.

Apostle Paul spoke out of the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. He didn't say what he wanted. 2Tim. 3:16

ArticleBeast:
Will they go to hell if they become general overseer? If not then it is a useless doctrine. Btw Paul was more of a sexist in his teachings

God's command is they cannot be pastors or general overseers. Anybody who flunks God's commands goes to hell. period

Women cannot be pastors let alone being general overseer. The Bible condems that!!

PrimadonnaO:
Disgusting! Do those prisoners even bathe properly? Dirty p3nis.

Can't you see how neat that guy looks like and the place they are?? You think it's naija prison?

thebosstrevor1:
Christians arent tolerant at all.

They want to impose their ways on all.

Government schools are for all, any religion can practice what they want.

Now if it was a catholic school where the hijab was forced, then i would have said it was wrong but this is a government school where both muslims and Christians are tax payers.

The government is making the hijab optional for muslims not Christians.

Hope you read and understand well before commenting?? These were mission schools, built by the Christians. The said school now in question is a Baptist school. Does that ring a bell to you now?? We just don't need these unnecessary bigotry. All we need now is unity and peace

delpee:
We had no female students wearing hijab in Federal Colleges even in the North all through the 70s to the 90s to the best of my knowledge. ALL female students of both public and mission schools wore berets or hats. When did hijab suddenly become mandatory in Islam? It's not one of the 5 pillars of Islam nor is it in the Holy Koran which states modest dressing ....same as in the Holy Bible.

A uniform is a leveller and promotes unity.

I just pray that they don't succeed in dividing our youth and/or initiating them in to extremism. BH and ISWAP are still with us as a major issue. Let's beware of creating more battle fronts.

I was only surprised to see my own Federal Government College now in hijab. it wasn't there when I was still there.

How about 2Pac who brought revolution in the music industry. Did he win a Grammy? but dude's message is evergreen!

Karleb:
It's in the mail. When you enter your details to start the test, they'll send the link to the test to your mail.

Thank you

Ngasky:
You have to revalidate your registration by changing password and then updating and uploading your documents
After that there is a button at the top of your profile details "test" click it and follow the procedure

Thank you

Karleb:
The registration for those writing test now is closed. They are the batch C.

Rumour has it that registration could commence for batch D anytime soon.

Were you given a mail to inform you of the test or what. cus some haven't seen. what's their fate

naijapips04:
Same way they arrived at the internet that is enabling you ask this mumu questions.... science.

Na lie

Shey she came to stay with you from Friday to Sunday morning. Did you not chop?? If she say na pay you pay her for the services she rendered wetin u go talk. Sin dey expensive. House woman wey no be your wife, na de consequence be dat na.

Problem is our prisons don't rehabilitate with what I have seen. No improvement and development of inmates, rather, they are kept in dehumanizing conditions that could rather play wrongly on their psyche. Sleep on bare floor, cramped in a small room, no trade or orientation for them. I mean, how do you expect these people to be better when they come out??

it matters a lot for your mental health and tranquility of your children

You don't know the name and you don already cut am

[quote author= post=99804315]Whatever will move our nation forward and bring lasting peace us all we are after @[/b].

God bless our darling Daddy President Muhammadu Buhari and his amiable Vice president Prof Yemi Osinbajo as they move our nation forward.

[b]God bless Nigeria. [/quote]I can't see your king there. where is the Tor-Tiv?

More like madness runs in the blood... just look at her nose piercing

That's how they keep crying and the people keep ACTING! It beats my imagination how an ethnicity will get into another and be causing mayhem which the host clearly knows who is responsible, yet can't control! Talk about the Middle Belt I will understand because the middle Belt states are bordered by these evil agents states so they use the gorilla approach, enter do and run back. But for the Yoruba case it's totally different. These people are staying right within their midst and still giving them hell! All they do is media tears...I don't get. Southeast is practical...

Nigerian youths shey you can see. see the old men. you may think they have your interest at heart, na lie. their concern now is how to regain power and secure their bag, not even about the well being of the country. They still want to give power to where it is now that insecurity, banditry and kidnapping are escalating on a daily basis. Vote wisely. no more recycling. get your PVC

dollytino4real:
is only wen the boy parent have cash to purse the matter if not it is a dead case

Comments like this are what encourage these people to keep maltreating the less privileged. Stop this nonsense

techrola:
I wonder how people come online to insult elrufai , ignorantly, this set of people has never been to kaduna before, elrufai is one among few leaders Nigeria needs..

We don't want!

EkelediliBuhari:
Marriage is not all life is about

Focus on building yourself first... have a personal vision and drive... if you find another person along the way you move on
If he happens to be ready then you marry

But don’t marry him because he’s available and you’re “running out of time”.... who gave you time table??

Focus on your personal life and all will fall in place

There's is more to life than just building. people have different things that make them happy. if marriage is one of them, so be it. Why tell people to keep building when they truly desire a friend and companion? Keep building without happiness, for what??

Charmingrascal:
How can a man see fine ladies with soft asses and nice boobs that are everywhere and decide to be fucking his fellow man with strong yansh.
Very disgusting thing to do

Gays are really mad people, I say it unapologetically.

Very disgusting indeed. An abomination both to God and sane humans

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Don't go and kill a human being for selfish reasons. Have that baby. you all will survive

MejiLoyon:
Late 90s I wrote NDA exams. My uncle was higher up and he wanted me to enter the military by force. He tried all his best to no avail. I'm very tall and he wanted the giant in the army. When I didn't go in I cried for weeks. Same thing second year. I just shenked the thing totally.

But when I look at things now I can happily say thunder go fire that my uncle. Although it's too late,Boko Haram fired him. Thank God I failed. It's the best thing he has done for me. No he lie I for don die. That one na two sure. Number one I stubborn die. Number two I like being the hero. Number three that my height wey make me be like iroko tree na him Boko men go use as shooting practice.
Until all the politicians stop using them as pawns, joining the army is suicidal....for E sure say you go die.
To those still in it, you're the bravest men alive. You see death you still enter. You all are the MVP

You would have been a big man in the army by now and probably not going to work but commanding somewhere. Better go thank you Uncle he was looking for your good

Kingsley Moghalu should be a nice candidate for next election. We need people like this into power

ArticleBeast:
It has nothing to do with juju. My mother and sister have been wearing since forever. Infact I bought about 10 for my gf to wear. It is just like any other jewelry

Baba you try o...de even Kno wetin your mother get for waist

These are the things we should have been doing since as Nigerians. Thank God the youth are now waking up