Truvelisback:
There are more virtious men than women. Nowadays, it is very hard find virtious women for wives.

I've not seen a more false statement.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Let's be honest to ourselves. Can we still find virtious women in our time? According to Prov 31:10 downward. I have come to realize that it is damn hard to find one in our time, considering the unique qualities of a Virtious wife. As a matter of fact, men are now hopeless and helplessly tired of searching for Virtious wives because of its scarcity. Infact, many men now are just getting married for the sake of sex and child bearing.

Virtuous men should find virtuous women.



It is a virtuous man, who has obtained favor from God that can find a virtuous woman.

But you men have forgotten God, who helps a man to find the right kind of woman, and you're now tired?


You think God is not watching you?


Why would He give you a good woman so you can destroy her with your lack of fear of God? His own precious daughter?




Repent first, start living in accordance with God's commandments, then watch how He will favor you and turn your life around.

Felimax:


Calm down, you are not so smart!
I have been married with four kids and this month made it six years in marriage.

Kemi till now is still a very good friend.

So, because you have a wife with four kids makes you think you are smart?



They didn't tell you that stupid people also grow old?



You, in your egotistical little mind, you expect the entire Yoruba race to find and cook your type of food because you are who?


An entire culture dating back to prehistoric times should pander to your whims because you want food?


To top it all, I was trying to point out the foolishness in your post to you but in your great elderly stupidity, you can't even detect it.



The distaster in growing old without wisdom is that you will not only be the one affected but the innocent children who did nothing wrong to deserve the kind of foolish guidance they are inevitably going to be saddled with for most of their adult lives.


So, don't bite me in your anger, for the sake of those innocent little ones, get sense.


Summary:


Age is not what makes you wise, it's the application of what you have learnt over time that makes you wise.


How do we detect wisdom: the content of your words.



I'm done with you.

melonsgroup:
One of my rich uncle takes breakfast by 10 to 11am

Their breakfast is always two slice of bread and a miserable cup of tea

And the yeye children will ba asking you,

Uncle can you finish it?

100 percent true.


They expect everyone's bodies to metabolize just like theirs.


Extremely self absorbed individuals.

Felimax:


She was rich and quite an amazing woman! I knew Lagos but she showed me more. I fell in love but she told me she was a single mum and still holding and hoping her baby's daddy will do the necessary.

She was so unique with quite a unique voice that complimented her stubborn nature.

Understood, nevertheless, the fact that you're in love with one woman, does not give you the right to paint all other women with the same brush.


You're free to stay in your rose colored love-bubble until you chose to respect yourself though, not that I have any interest in dragging this conversation any further.

Felimax:


That is exactly my point.
I was trying to explain to Kemi but she refuse seeing reasons with me.

Why are you bothered about what Kemi says?

Is she your wife or you're in love with her?

Felimax:


You understood me out of context. I am not saying Yoruba woman don't know how to cook. Was only saying the kind of food I like and cook are usually not common within the Yoruba culture and in Lagos you can only find few Delta kitchen around and their foods usually expensive.

Like a portion of Banga or Owo soup could go for up to 3k then I don't know for now. Starch making and those beautiful delicacies from our region are what I was talking about. I never said Yoruba woman don't know how to cook.

I appreciate your explanation, but, may I remind you that people who grew up in other parts of the nation have different upbringing and experiences from those who were brought up in Delta state?



How can you expect them to cook food they may have never seen or eaten?


It's like expecting Delta women to cook Tuwo Shinkafa because a Hausa man is missing it, does that make sense to you?

Felimax:
Very common with people from the west most especially Lagos.

They prefer buying food to cooking at home. My colleague Kemi in the office then will say I cook and bring food to the office because I don't have money that I am managing the resources I have with me.

Every effort to convince her that in the house where I grew in Warri it was a taboo to buy food from food vendors fell into deaf ears.

She will conclude by saying you can take the boy out of the village but you cannot take the village out of the boy.

I simply conclude by saying no Yoruba woman can cook my kind and taste of food and still have the boldness to come and sell it. It will be too expensive.

So, because of one Yoruba woman, you decide to insult millions of Yoruba women all over the world, right?


And you want to convince me that you have sense?

dforever:
Husband cheating or wife cheating: Which is more painful.

So, with the number of cheating husbands and wives getting murdered daily in this country alone, you still don't know cheating is painful to both men and women alike?

KimFab:


How does she lack home training?

Women were created as men's plaything. Great! That includes all women in your life, too. No exception.

Rest. Learn to talk like an educated person. I sure say this one pain you. Abi, is your mother a man?

Thanks jare


It's exhausting, having to deal with these uncouth elements crawling all over Nairaland.


The worst part is that they are probably being fed by a woman.

Jovialjune1:



Alailopolo Asinwin, you are the one lacking home training

You said women are created for men to play with, therefore, your mother, a woman, is also a play thing, so why the pains?

Thanks Sis,


These small boys ehn, I hate giving them the training their parents refused to give them.

pocohantas:


Lol. The N50 own is still there. Superyogo and triangle is N200.

Confirm



I hope you're having a lovely day.

pocohantas:


And I have asked them before, you want an educated partner, you want someone that can cook and clean, you want virgin, you want 6ft tall…

Why demonise rich partners please? Is it only true love when we are trekking under hot sun and sucking on 50 Naira fanyogo?

It's #200 now Mama Poco


.... justice for fanyogo

franchasng:
You are a kid, at most an adult teen.


I am a father, an employer of labor, a mentor to many, a tutor in Church, so when I speak you listen.


Femi Otedola failed in his fatherly role to his daughters, I don't wish such for my kids.


I have elder brothers who are very successful, some close to or let me say are in the Billionaire status and when I look at their daughters and even sons and how well they are molding them, I smile with joy and pray that I also succeed in raising my own little kids in better ways.



But as for adult teens like you, DJ Cuppy is doing well. In the first place, Femi ought not to have allowed her to venture into Disc Jockey as a career. I know you don't force a child to follow a career path but there are smart ways to inspire your kids or channel your kids to making great career choices.


Being a popular TV personality or entertainment celebrity doesn't make your life better or more organized than those that you rarely see on TV. If my kids must be famous, I wish they become famous in positive and life impacting careers not as naked dancers or stripers or all those nonsense things you guys celebrate cos of poverty and desperation for quick money and fame.



Like I said, you are an adult teen and won't comprehend till you become a rich father

Hmmm, people like you are getting fewer in this country.



Showbiz lifestyle is a landmine that only few people can survive.


I won't insult the father and daughter, but I will keep my head down, raise my kids as best as I can, and point out those who they can't emulate.




We will see who is right at the end.

Kobojunkie:
This is a very sensible argument for legalization of gas marriage.

I'm not in support of gay marriage but it's time for these boys on Nairaland to start looking for love among themselves since they're not satisfied with females anyway.



Their redpill teachers are available.

Benwallt:
You lack home training.

Oh really, is that all you can come up with?


I was trained to respect all humans of all genders, but what am I to do about a silly little boy that his mother never taught him to respect her kind..




That kind of statement shows the crassness that can only be exhibited by a boy without home training, so I had to send word to his mother and father too.



I simply sent him home, Yoruba people will say "mo ráan lo sí ilé ni"




Now about my home training, it's good as far as I can tell.



Modified: Ohhhh, you're the one who made the statement, Ahhh, you want to talk about home training, buhahahahaha


What do you know about home training when your parents neglected to give you one?


You're the kind of boy that mothers teach their daughters to avoid, because you are a playboy looking for playthings.



And since no one trained you to be a respectable man, someone had to point out your foolishness.



But foolish people don't like to be called foolish.

Benwallt:
It's unimaginable. So, a nigga go just stop me for road say e wan toast. It will be bloody. Only girls can take that nonsense calmly. Women are created for men to play with.

So, your mother is a plaything eh?



I just say make I remind you say your mama na woman

Bayonet40:
Good morning nairalanders.
Please ignore any typo error.
I have a son of about 11 months now who still finds it difficult to stand holding objects, like chairs, table or bed, immediately I place him on those stuffs for him to stand, he starts shaking in fear and cries out loud, he gets too scared when placed on a standing position to hold those mentioned stuffs. But he can stand confidently when his back is placed on the wall (even for a long time), he can also stand firmly and even try to walk when holding my both hands, my wife took him to the hospital but the doctor told her to allow him, that he will adapt when he wants.
My question is.
At 11 months, why does he still get scared when placed to hold chairs, table etc?
I understand that some babies don't crawl at all before walking, he can stand firmly while holding someone's hands but refuses to do so while hold other stuffs due to fear by shaking and crying loudly as if he saw something scary.
Am concerned that's why am here. Please should I just ignore him and stop trying to force him to hold those things or I should continue not minding how he cries and shakes? He is very healthy, plays a lot. Why the delay to crawl, and stand holding chairs, bed, table

Don't stress the baby.


1. Can he look straight at you without shaking his head?

2. Can he sit down by himself without help?

3. Can he hold things and toys for a while by himself?

4. Can he recognize you and your partner?

5. Can he hold food down and swallow without problems most times?


If all your answers are yes, then your baby is fine, he will walk at his own time.


If this is your first born, it's understandable.



This is how you can help,

1. Don't carry him too much, let him sit on the floor and explore his surroundings by himself, just watch him and keep dangerous things away from him.

2. Get him a baby walker if you can afford it, if not, find a carpenter and ask him to make one for your child. Actually, you should have gotten one around 6 months.

3. Try to place his favorite toys out of his reach when he's playing, so he can be encouraged to get it, don't pick it up for him.


4. Encourage him to come and meet you while playing, don't approach to pick him up


Generally, just calm down, your baby is fine.

Solofresh2:
I think it as to do with my natural kind of person and not just prayers.I am not the only child my parents gave birth to but I am a very different person in the family.
What I just hate is people taking advantage of my kindness for something else

That's the same issue kind people face, opportunists everywhere!


It's tiring.



But while defending my heart from being trampled on by these heartless humans, I look like a fierce, intimidating, roaring wildfire. But it's better that way.

Dshocker:


If only you were an ardent reader of the bible you wouldn't have been confused as to where to locate it in the bible.

I just hope a witless and hobo person like you will admit to truth rather than displaying an act of a juvenile.

If a person calls you stupid, run a quick check on yourself, if they have a valid point, your next action is to get smarter, but this is simple to people who are intelligent.



But mad men hate being called mad,

Same for foolish people.


Now, you credited a statement to God, which was a false quote, you couldn't supply a reference, and you are offended when a supposed "emotional being" that you wish to subjugate her kind called your lucidity to question.



Your stupidity would have been amusing if not that I have no interest in educating you.



Go and face individuals who have less IQ than you, or those around your range.



You didn't succeed in piquing my interest.

Dshocker:


The duty of a woman is to support and compliment a man...... Women are supposed to be under a man, not on top of a man.

Simple questions you cannot answer.



See the dolt that wants to lead a woman.



Anyway, you will find your type.

sukkot:
true indeed my Sister and the prophesys in the bible is derived from astrological data by the prophets. daniel for example was the chief of all astrologers . and from looking at the stars they can decode what the future would be like and these last days have been really demonic. i try to stay at home most days now because half of these people act like they have lost their minds

I'm not going to argue about Daniel's source of information.


So, bye.

sukkot:
like i said brother, there are no absolutes. expand your mind. of course there have been evil before these times but the concentration of evil right now is very high and intense . and when this era is over you will see for example an era of almost absolute peace etc. these are eras determined by the astrological age.

I know for a fact that it's been prophesied in the Bible that lots of people will commit evil openly these days.


Only a few people will keep themselves pure.

Solofresh2:
I think you are wrong to some extent.This is because,I was born within this years range and I can tell you am different from those behaviors you mentioned there

Maybe your parents are prayerful.


Appreciate them if you've been preserved from the corruption of this world.

Zonefree:

I'm not talking about looks here,I'm talking about nutrients. There's no nutrient again in a 29-year-old Nigerian girl. You think Ned is mad to go for Regina

There's these freshness and tonic these young girls elude that freshen a dying man.

So, you're a dying man?

Dshocker:


What if the husband decides to marry two more wives?

In as much as i don't support polygamy, an African man has the right to marry as much wives as possible.

Whether you like it or not, the equality of a man is more higher, than that of a woman.... That was how God in heaven ordained it to be.

Which God in heaven?


If it's an angel, give me his name and rank


If it's in the Bible, which book, which verse?


Show me where God opened His mouth and directed men to have many wives

99tayee:
Good day all, please no mind my english.

There is something that has been bothering me for a while now. I have been on loggerheads with my wife of some certain things regarding our 3 months old baby development.

Recently she started to make him sit with her support e.g making him sit on her lap, using two hands to bring him up from bed and allowing him to sit for a while and also using pillows to support him to sit.

I'm very much concerned about this whole thing but will like to hear from you guy if it's okay or is bad.

The boy is beginning to like the idea of sitting

Too early

adontcare:
That's how my husband younger bro defiled my 2 yrs old daughter. My husband refused to send his brother away reason is that he is their only breadwinner and must take care of his 9 other siblings and parents. The sisters and brothers live with us. That's how I moved out from the house oo. Ah. I had two girls then. Later we reconciled and I had a male child now. All his siblings hate me because I asked my husband to send the boy away. Na curse I lay on all of them oo. Now my girl is 12 now and none of them are living with us again. Their lives is nothing to write home about. Evil people

Lots of families are like that, they don't see you as a human being that deserves dignity, they see you as potential slave.


You will be the one to teach them how to relate with you, to show some respect.


Well done for sticking up for your daughter. I hope she's doing okay.

Klass99:


I am glad you had the presence of mind to know that wasn't right, your hubby was wrong and you moved out with your girls until there was a resolution. If you don't mind my asking how old was your brother-in-law when this happened?

The bolded parts of your post are things I will never understand about most Nigerian men and Nigerian marriages. I have said it on a different thread, that a man's siblings (especially the lazy and entitled types) are the ones who do more harm than good to his financial health and overall well-being, not his wife and kids.

But some of you dey marry into wondaful families and households sha. My father is the first born child in a family of 8, what I saw growing up in his house, will not allow me marry men like him or your husband. Even if Angel Gabriel tells me that such a man is my ordained husband, I will jump and pass.

After reading your post I can't help thinking....... Singlehood is pure bliss fah.

I can't blame you for choosing single life.


Because african families just want to frustrate women in their marriages without contributing anything of note.


To have some peace of mind, you just have to put your foot down and insist on what is best for your kids.


Whether you do it now or later, you will still have to face such. So, get married when you want.

co787:


Yes I am so angry now I wish i had the power to take the law with my own hands I would have gone to nnewi to cut that useless boy penis then shot him and put the useless penis inside his mouth but i am trying to be calm because I want the law to do its work like I said earlier i will not save the marriage it is already over all I want is justice for my baby girl

Very good, I'm on your side.


Get the boy, and the grandma arrested, then let them taste the full wrath of the law.



You will overcome this, you can still remarry.


Don't let anyone quote Bible for you, something they will never take.



The fact that your wife and her family kept this secret from you means they can kill you and hide your body.

Persephone1:
This is the deepest shiit i've read on Nl. A two year old?

Dear op, you did well by arresting that woman you called a wife. It crazy how women are selective when it comes to accountability. So because the rapist is her brother, she covered it up and foolishly confided in one idiotic prophetess with a loud mouth. She chose her brother over her daughter ! Chose her prophetess over you! Who does that? I hope other women will learn from this.

Please arrest the 14 year old too even the mother join. Talo ni family radarada

I'm so pissed right now!

As in eh.



Who get mad family.



The woman is so stupid.

Richy4:

Honestly, what he did was bad... Extremely bad.. But he is 14, ...

Depending on the country, There's no judge in most advanced countries that will keep him in jail... When the case is brought before a judge, considering his age, the judge will grant for It to be treated informally by the child agency... through counseling...

There are agencies that handles such cases... U can also google it...I stand to be corrected though...

It's not that we were downplaying what happened.. No..it was horrifying but the law that recognised him as a minor is supreme and above whatever we think that should happen to him..

As for the wife, In as much as what she did was wrong, I don't see the reason why she should be in jail... She is also shaking and confused besides, Are you gonna say that you have never kept a secret away from your spouse before in your entire life instead confided to a friend?.. it's always really easy to throw stones you know?

Laye Laye, never never.


My children are more important than ANYONE on this planet.


More than my parents, husband, siblings, cousins, friends, pastor- ANYONE.


Only God is more important than my kids, not even my marriage!




I always make it known anywhere, you can insult me all you want, or even hurt me, I'll forgive you.




But, try my kids, and I will make you a scape goat.



When I'm done, then I and the Judge will have a discussion.