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Scooby1:
shi.t happens

hhhaahhaaahha! please tell them again "S#!t happens" for real

d bigrod:
[size=16pt]aunty ,pls tell us a story. [/size]

What story?

Lack of self contemptment, If you are not contempt within yourself and who you are you will not be able to see it in any other person, hence the desire to move from one person to the other, the wish to have more than you have and better. Basically when you are lacking in self contemptness Everything around you is never enough or good enough.

Its the title of this topic that's got me worried and I have to ask, at what point does NO mean something else? It has to mean NO at all times not sometimes

daduke2k:
well guy can be dynamic u know . and sure we all have our weaknesses, wots urs?

Mine, eeehhhmm! Ultra sensitive and impertient. These have got to be my biggest challenges in life, but I think I get better as I grow.

You can tell us about yours.

^^^truth be told, I dont hide it from him either. Everybody around him complains about the same thing. Strange enough though we always want to be around him. Its hard to remain angry at him for more than an hour. He's just one of those people "to know him is to love him" and you be hooked.

I guess we all have our weaknesses.

hhhhmmm! This is going to be looong hunt and let the games begin

I need him to grow up, he can be such a brat most of the time

NO! NO! NO! people NO!

I never thought I'd say this to anyone, but I think you should leave this relationship. It would seem this relationship is all about her and her need to prove to someone that she is a $*X BOMB.

At no point did she consider your feelings before she told you about her $*x escapades and how she should be careful not to hurt your feelings on delivering feedback about your performance. It is not in what she said but how she said it.

tigerpaws:
Why is the topic (I Constantly Think About Suicide)

My understamding of "M NOT ABOUT COMMITING SUICIDE" means she doesnt promote it, however at this point in her life it would seem the only thing she thinks about, hence the title of the topic

African_queen:
spenders are insecure and get very nervous when threatened in other to feel secure they spend and spend and spend,

@African_queen I beg to differ you know. Spenders are aware of all the things money can buy these days and its all easy come easy go e.g. today your anger costs a cheap dozen roses. Yes! my sister with a spender your anger is invalid it can always be baught away. Even the ugliest and dummest bonobo in town knows that as long as he's pockets are deep he can get the hottest chick around, and by then we all know your days are numbered he is already on the look out for the next hottest chick right in your neigborhood.

KAYD007:
@ SA lady!

heell its ya again! i can still remember your emission inside ma convertible damn girl i thought it was d sound of ma car having a flat tire! after i droped ya i had to place an order for a new sit to replace d one u sat on. your fart smells like "MAGIC SHAVING POWER!

Now you know the price of being cheezy it can be costly hey! If you serve me rotten blue cheeze what do you expect in return don't ever do that again. As the saying goes just keep it real my brother keep it real.

@poster guys do have standards and pride too you know. Not all men will sleep with a woman at every opportunity that presents itself. Or it could be he likes you enough to want to get to know you better and thinking the sex can wait.

Its ok you are just experiencing the patern of human life. Its just a test for peserverence dont ever give up without giving faith a fighting chance. I see a lot of positive things that have happened in your life but somehow you refuse to acknowledge them.

Lets start counting your blessings:

1. When you met your husband you were once very happy and couldnt ask for more some women dont live to experience a day like that. Again some women dont live to tell their story because of the bad marriages they are in.
2. You have a degree so anything for you right now is possible as you have opened the doors of freedom and choice.
3. You can sit in an interview and present yourself with confidence, and you know it, that's a good thing. That interview you lost out on was just one of many to come. One interview or more will give.
4. You've done volunteer work and you learned enough to beef up your cv. Forget the monster boss she is the thing of the past your cv looks better after her.
5. You are confident enough to know that you can actually start something on your own. Not too many people have got the gall to even lift a finger towards that.

OK the downside:
1. Not happy in your marriage. Think positive solution, you can go for counseling and later go with hubby as a couple. Does he even know your thoughts about the marriage
2. So you lost some money. That's business you win some you loose some. A lot of business people will tell you they've had to go through this before. The benefit is that no one will ever do this to you again. Congradulations you are now street smart.

Now see how much your blessings outweighs your misfortune.

Now again start making arrangements to meet with a counselor suicidal thoughts are not good at all.

Has anybody mentioned Twilight yet? I think it passes for one hell of a romantic movie

pine_ed:
@ SA Lady, A Beautiful Mind isn't a Romantic movie imo,  its very cool though
I also enjoyed Romeo & Juliet (starring DiCaprio),

what is it then if not a romantic movie? Oh! and please tell us why yosay so.

A beautiful mind
Forest Gump

African_queen:
The spender are not always old as u say. . . They re handsome and well groomed. . . A woman is in control of the spender cos he knows if he don't spend he'll loose her. . . A spender live in constant fear of being alone so he spends to be safe. . .

Well if he is young and willing to spend on me he had better know what he is getting himself into. I honestly hope he can keep up and we are not talking a pair of designer shoes, handbags and the likes, I'll smack him right across his face 'cos that'll be unsulting to Lady. This is the reason why I dont date them for money I can be very hard to please like that, so guys should not even begin to try me like that.

Just love me purely that's it.

Oh! my goodness, the artist sounds like the story of my life.

I dont know about the spender he is usually old quite frankly a fossil and will spend all the money on a woman if its what it will take to keep her and control her. These are eventually parent child relationships, no cant do

Give me an adveturer anytime, but we all know why I am not with him now 'cos he's a sneaky cheat.

Well I did the farting thing, and I didnt give a hoot about it. It was a date to an expo in his car. He was very irritating speaking english in some fake bourgeoisie accent and his bravado aura. By the way I know all about his background. It wasnt intentional but when I felt it coming I didnt put any effort in trying to control it or stop myself I just opened the pipe on him and cared less.

Other than that I am a well mannered chick  see the angel ring above my head

Missy B:
Many options . . . .

Cry
Drink alot or smoke if You like - *
Talk about it
Go out often
Spend time with friends

Add, go on dates a lot and amuse yourself with the other guys trying to impress you and laugh at the stupid things they say. It quickly reminds you that its ok to be alone. Oh! it does wonders for your brused ego too

Not sure why we so much like to complicate matters of the heart. Just wait for the one who loves you the right way and you know you can love them the right way in return

That's a relationship from the end with no beginning

sexdoctor:
@ Poster Pleaeeese,
just Grow up will u
cheers

For real bro do that

petebor02:
nope love isnt wicked__but learn to love with your[b] head [/b] and not your heart
[/quote love with your head? thats the wickedness""

Lear and learn very fast. Do not ever use your heart to love anyone except for your God. Your heart is your source of life please protect it with everythin gin you. Use only your head to love the mortal human. Do not respond to this message just go home, sleep on it and let it simmer in you.

Eish! It never stops here in NL neh!

Love is a wonderful thing. The trick is to let go, be in the moment each day and indulge yourself. I also found what works also is to get over yourself and accept the next person as they come all else falls into place. See whne you'v ehad lov elike that even when the end comes it doesnt leave leave bruises and tears, but smiles of good memories that you created and you were a part of everyday.

Trust me love is beautiful only when you've found its right meaning.

Just took it off. Honestly guys I dont know about you but everytime I put up my pic up my heart races because I dont know who else in on that's going to view and start making unecessary nasty comments. Okay m out for an offsite meeting catch you later guys have fun.