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pine_ed:
until after our 1st date, told me to give her 5K to make her hair, Holy Poo!

Cheap gold digger. cant even afford to do her own hair, she could have just cut it off, left it all natural and I am sure you would have loved her more like that hey!

BlakkBoi:
Naturally, virtually every grown up girl is someone's ex. If you are matured enough and has found what you want for a life partner in her then there is no need wasting time but you need to talk to your friend about it and see if he approves. It may be wrong for you to jump in if her former relationship newly crashed or your friend still loves her.
All in all. It will be the biggest mistake of your life to marry someone like my ex. . because u will die in 12yrs.

Gbaaaam!

chiconfire:
thats quite funny, she should be warned against being smart,
but i guess she goes to others houses when she is fit to hv intimacy, quite scary

hhmmmm! really makes you wonder where the girl goes when the red ferrari has taken off and what goes on there? @Poster have you asked yourself that question though? hhahhaaaa! guy lets face it you are realy just good for her ego, I am sure you stroke it well hence she keeps coming back for more, for real think about it.

georgeiyke009:


I like dt. wht u did not tell us is how much u appreciate urs. or is not worth "appreciating"?

I hate to boast, not my style

SA Goddess:
bk/babe91 - "Aint nobody ever died from "marijuana overdose"!!"

That's the truth,

Girls can I then hand over my BF to you, its ok you can pass him on. Nigger drives me right out of my mind sometimes. He eats, sleeps, sings the S#!,

It epends on what your definition of love is. Nothing should stop you though, they say love is as love does, however be careful of infactuation

Okay naira's another one, @Poster she's not your GF so what's your problem? Guys and Girls lets not have intimacy when the other is in her period. Just one of the rules of life. Have you ever asked yourself why you have to wait for an animal to loose all its blood before you can eat it. Have you asked yourself why blood is always burned or burried and should not be left exposed in the open, you can use your common sense but the answer is "RESPECT" and dont ever cross this line.

I know somethings we take for granted when we are still young and growing, but try and educate yourself life is not just fun and games.

Nothing wrong with that. I'd like to believe a lot of marriages dont survive people suddenly stop having fun and start behaving like grandma's and grandpa's. Intimacy alone is not going to keep the marriage together all the time, it gets tired sometimes so go out and dance the night away.

Dont let it pass you by. Take a chance we all got to take risks at some point. Its a sign that you are alive. Go ahead tell him the rest is up to him whatever he wants to do with it you know. If it strokes his ego so be it, he'll grow up someday and realize that you were just setting yourself free. Have you realized that when we speak to people with sincerity it offloads a lot of burden and crap off our our shoulders. Try it its magic.

@Poster m a girl alright, but everytime I see some round az I look twice and even pay complement. I just think its cute and please am no lesbian just good at spotting beautiful stuff.

jodina:
Things were going fine until he told me that he is HIV POSITIVE and we v had intimacy unprotected many times.

Please dont lie to us 'cos this is scary

Lacrissa:
2 years?? That's a very long time to wait. I don't think I can even wait for a year except of course if he is the one God has for me. And the mommy thing, are you said you got pregnant and have a child for him?

That's how I feel too. The essence of a break but like you all have said. I would start moving on with my life though he would still keep in touch.

Noooo! Not pregnant, Its him I am mothing since he is such a big baby. I tried dating in between the two years there's been none like him. Its his sense of honesty I appreciate. I always know what the mumu is up to before he even starts it and what he is going to say before he even opens his mouth. Its in his eyes. I am always on to him always 2 steps ahead of him and he is fun like that.

Oooohh! no guys I never laughed like this in a long time again naira's got me in stitches. But am fast learning that there's truely smart and assertive people in here, keep 'em rolling.

obilizy:
if dey say women get fish brain, e be like say
they dey curse them, hw u go dey wit a
man for two yrs and not knowing he is married
my friend go and sit down, u were busy enjoying
d snake rather than connecting, ntooo!!!! gud 4 u!
for 2yrssssss!!!!, u are just a FISH!

Was it really neccessary to insult her? Do you feel better now?

indie22:
2 grown men sharing a bed/ couch?,

anyway if he wasnt happy wiv you sharing his couch, why should he be sharing your bed?

True that, 'cos he is an empty pride bonobo

28Schweet:
then

you didn't specify how long the break was for, i mean 1 month, 3 months, 10 years, 5 years, just to add my unwarranted advice, if you take a break because of 'issues' chances are those issues are still going to be there when you get back together because you never worked on them,

also, if you are not married to the guy, why would you want to wait for him if he isn't waiting for you, what happens if he goes out there, gets aids and then decides you were truly the woman for him and in your arms he'd like to die,

i was once where you are, after three months I realised, he's taking care of him, i better take care of me, and now man wants me back because he realises that I can still live and breathe and be loved without him,

@ Poster listen to the above advise, dont do what I am doing bad really bad

Kgdavid:
everything was going fine till one night i slept thinking of her as the most beautiful woman in the world and the next morning she looked so damn ugly

I am almost temepted to ask what were you drinking the night before. Anyway that reminds there's nothing frustrating like a woman that goes to bed with make up on and the next morning she wakes up looking like a racoon

Sory I dont have the answer you want to hear. But he is back after two years and its the same old crap even after the longest of talks (mind plural) we had. I've even graduated to mommy the one thing I've been avoiding. Silly me I love him

cantell:
@Poster,
You've being with him for 2yrs and you didn't know he was married?
Someone should help me sound this mumu girl a dirty slap.

@cantell, easy now



For all you know, he might actually be in love with the OP.
He needed to lie to get to her and i don't think i can blame the man for that.
If he had told her the truth from the very beginning, the OP woulda run farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr away from him.

If you walk in a man's shoes for 1 month, U go lie pass Lucifer himself. . . . . .It's very difficult being a man.
[quote][/quote]And the man still doesnt know that honesty is the best policy. Lies and Love dont go together not in my books

Dimka 76:
When he bought a couch u slept on it? Are u homophobic? Is your friend gay? And just how big is the bed? Well try snoring very loud at night, maybe that will discourage him.

I agree I say snore. Goodness payback is never fun hey!

Low self esteem and despaarte need for power

You can ignore her and she'll soon get tired. You seem interested why take the time to post it on Nairaland and be seeking advice spending your time on this.

Does your girlfreind go around telling people she is dating forest gump? hahhaaa! just kidding, find out why it happened from her ofcourse lest you get your ribs broken by some shrek over a relationship that may not last and then coach her in her interpersonal skills.

Bump? I dont know about that, bomb? who is to come out first and say its over, or will you just delay hoping things will turn out for the best

How about talking to her about your concern?

Sorry for this my dear. Just forget him and never fall for his smooth talk from now on. You talk about falling in love, try to get up and run from this sick love. Spend time with friends and go out often you will soon realize how easy it is to rid yourself of a wart.

To all the respondence saying NO! Lets think about this a bit. When two people are in love why should anyone or anything stand in a way of that? Why should an ex/friend be the be all and end all of the love between two people. Actually the ex/friend should be in support of this since he best knows the good qualities in each of the pair, well unless if he is bitter.

Wouldnt you rather see your ex happy with someone than miserable with you? Better still if its someone you know, 'cos you know she is in good and safe hands? People aught to learn to wish the very best of love for others however near or far. We are all in pursuit of happiness you should be pleased to know that the one you use to love is loved somewhere else and that they have at least found what we all in search of.

Girls just dont dont do it with brothers, cousins and so on now that's a different bal game altogether and low,

ahhhh! didnt know that, thanks, missed his performance in Pretoria about a month ago, watch me get off my desk to get the ticket.

I am a love and laughter addict I need rehab for real