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michealdeco:
Link to watch this match abeg

All the app and website I was hoping on just stupidly crashed

MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

tohby2:
good morning house, has anyone been able to complete a transaction with this moniker so I know if I should put hope on her to deliver or not. Cos I called her yesterday multiple times but she didnt pick nd didn't even drop any message on whatsapp even after picking the products I wanted to get from her

Fussion1000:
I tink am believing rumour that viral few years ago that. Ajanaku had fling with Tope and he also boosted tope with satanist supernatural power.

The day I saw this woman using all these Brazilian hairr and wearing leggings in a video she shoot in abroad I marvelled, with her holy holy claim in all of her songs.

Though am not surprise, if you want to knw about pulpit, move closer to pulpit, I mean so called men and women of God in close distance.

People just using name of God to advance their various pockets.

bolacode:
and she crowned the wickedness by changing the name of the poor and confused child to that of a strange man! what can be more wicked?

Ugosample:
You are now seeing what we have seen years ago
And have been trying to tell ya

pocohantas:
Sure, Nigeria doesn’t allow for growth, but then, some of us have our reasons and they are valid (to us at least). Ironically I don’t even love Nigeria, I wish my reason had anything to do with patriotism

Long story o. I really can’t tell you all here. Very long story...

pocohantas:
So happy to see this. I also do not fancy migrating abroad and some people will be giving me pep talk like I have no plans for my future. It is so annoying!!!!!

At a point I had to start asking friends (who I knew had the means) why they don’t want to travel abroad. They gave their reasons, quite different from yours and mine too.

How are you coping?

Justyoj:
lie!!!

Papapa1234:
You just dey console yourself..your kids can’t be angry at you..this is their fathers land and they must stay to get it working just like you did five years ago..if they leave how will you uphold your beliefs on travels and immigration.

gunners160:
you are getting it wrong. u can have a family without marriage. Davido, whizkid, olamide etc are perfect examples. Talking of kids, you can also get that outside marriage, we are in the 21st century now not in an archaic one.

pocohantas:
You can see, it just wouldn’t go as you want.

Who is feeding and clothing the other in the attached pictures?

Fidelismaria:
Six years down the line, do you regret your decision?

dominique:
This is why this evil bride price culture is not going away anytime soon, the bride's greedy parents and relatives stand to benefit the most from it. They have so much brainwashed these girls that they think the only way they be seen to have value is being sold like a donkey. Know this and know peace, this is nothing dignifying about being haggled over and sold like a piece of item. It only objectifies you and makes the man and his family feel.lkke they have a right to treat you like a slave.

rs172:
If you get the UN job, now will you turn it down, are you still sceptical about about travelling abroad.

Karleb:


I read the OP while I didn't complete it, I was seriously shaking my head furiously.

The article was a good read but the content itself? SMH.

Just imagine how life would have been if you had taken that chance.

I'm not taking about the money here.

rs172:
How far na, where you dey

Luckydubby7:
This woman have children?
The way her breast completely flat ehn.

TruthHurts1:
Does anyone know where I can get this wireless charger and can it work on just any phone?

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tesppidd:
Serie A tough?

When one person is winning 10 straight titles?

Can you hear yourself at all?

Afam4eva:
How does this make sense to you when Barca is sitting at 13th position with Madrid in 4th? How is a Serie A that is dominated by Juentus year in year out more competitive? Though i'll admit that Serie A will be more competitive this season. The same Juventus that a badly shaped Barca destroyed in Turin?

Afam4eva:
This might be a dilemma for people who think the La Liga is not tough enough.

infogeneral:
Burning of police stations should not be allowed to happen again under any guise and it should carry capital punishment for the perpetrators if it does happen.
Identify the erring officers and call for justice. Jungle justice can only drag us backwards as a society.

ursullalinda:
This new method of burning police station is not wise @ all.......How many do we have?........why burn the few this insensitive leaders managed to build for us thereby increasing insecurity.......ignorance is a disease forget.

Meister:
Apart from the fact that the deals seem too good at times there's literally nothing to show that he's a scammer there