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Am I the only one observing that many of the stupid cases of relationship issues in this forum are from males,mostly weak males

When did males start thinking like a weak ass,ur girlfriend is clearly cheating on u n misbehaving regularly but u are tolerating it,why?What kind of idiotic love is that?

Pls leave anything relationship now because from my observation, u and many other guys here aren't mature n ready for it. Instead do something more important n that will be more productive with ur time and energy.At the right time,u will understand what a relationship is n what it is meant for because I'm tired of seeing annoying posts here from immature fellas

Mafia001:
Yes it does and I can show you how

How?

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Your sister is enjoying the treatment of a cold-hearted masochist.
It's sometimes funny how women who always emphasize on guys treating them like some sort of queen from another planet usually end up in the hands of those who'd at one point in time treat them like some sort of cheaply purchased animal.

Could this be part of their genetic make-up?

I don't know.

I think my brother,u should work more on heeding Paul's advice to "mind your own business" (1Thess 4:11).Though she's in a abusive marriage n still didn't tell u she needed help,why are u trying to search for something that's not lost?

NwaAmaikpe:



In all sense of fairness, Biodun has excelled in his chosen profession. I can't say the same about Skales whose career has refused to "Shake Body" since 2015.

A musician who can't maintain a key for 50 seconds calls another a scam.
I woulda taken this seriously if it were from someone a bit more successful in their chosen career.

Skales, it's better to be called a scam of a pastor by someone whose only knowledge of you is through social media accusations than to be called a scum of a man by your own girlfriend and her friends.

Nwa is back

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internationalman:
That his wife stature is the kind of shape I crave for in a woman..

Maybe I'm the only Nigeria who isn't crazed about big booty.. But I like not too big breasts..

Rich people don't like many children even though they have enough money to care for them. But the same cannot be said of poor people..

Happy family...

Kanu used to be the most decorated Nigeria footballer.

Now it is Mikel..in my opinion he should be a Chelsea legend as well.

keep dreaming bro

pcguru1:
I'm trying to find sense in this comment. It means he can't trust her anymore if she can do it 5 years not 5 weeks or month

Na dem

softwerk:


In the voice of Julia Roberts;

Don't marry her! Marry me let me make you happy

who's dis old farm tool


pls can someone remind me d name of the old farm tool I'm talking about here

ellalina:
My male bestie confided this in me too. He is also a Nairalander.
I run a sharwama and agent bank outlet forbover 3 years and it’s been a good business experience for me expect fltrust issues with my sales Girl. I have sacked over 6 girls in space of 2 years for attitude and fraud related cases.
One of the days when I have to stay at the shop because my sales girl did not come to work,a young lady walked in with her CV. She said she saw my vacancy outside, I collected her CV and went through it. She is a 22 years old ND holder who studies communication.
I asked her why she would not return to get her HND. She replied that she wants to continue at the National open university where she can work and learn.
I have her 1 week trial and that is the beginning of good things in my business.
She is so consistent, All customers I mean all of them always leave a good remark about her and why they keep coming back. When ever I return from my office to the shop, I notice how people keep giving her tips and she declares it everyday but I don’t collect it from her. Sometimes she makes up to 5K daily in tips.
Fast forward 1 year, I have taken another shop and expanded my business.i cannot remember the last time we recorded shortage in the shop. My business has become so profitable that Am thinking of quiting my job to expand the business as my salary is like 20% of what the shop now makes for me.
To reward her, I picked interest in her education, I bought her the direct entry form at the open university and she has started.
These days I noticed she has suddenly changed towards me. She dosnt ask how my day was, she avoids me and don’t look into my face when we talk. I was really worried because I have grown fond of her. I have admired her as a lady but I maintained a professional relationship. There are times I want to ask her to follow me to events and outings but I keep controlling my urge. She called that her mum was sick so she would not be available. I decided to surprise her by paying her a visit, she could not belive her eyes when she saw me at her door step with a bag of provisions in my hand. I greeted the mum. The woman prayed for me a lot before I took my leave. On getting home, I could not understand myself anymore. My experience at her home further boost her interest in my heart.i could not sleep that night so I picked my phone to chat with a random friend online. I saw Lucy was online too. Sonicalled her at about 12:30 am. I asked her why she is not asleep. She said she has an emotional support that has been bothering her for days. I tried to convince her to tell me but she declined, I figured it’s about a guy although I never saw her with a guy or call one at work.
I told her I was worried too and she is the cause. I told her how she has been of immense blessing to my life and how I wish she would play a bigger role in my life. She went silent. She later hung up and turned her phone off.
She called in the morning to apologize for cutting the call. By evening, I was back at the shop. I opted to drive her home but she refused. This was very unlike her so I insisted. As we approached her neighborhood,I parked under a roadside tree. As asked her to open up to me what the issue with her was.
To my greatest shock, Lucy confesses that I was the cause of her issues. I went quiet for a while trying to figure out what she meant. I asked again how am I the cause, at this moment her eyes were laden with tears Lucy told me she could not stop thinking about me and can’t control herself around me. She said she is confused because the feeling she is having for me get her scared.
While I sat and steer at her, I knew I felt exactly thesame way for her. This time I was the quiet one. I just drove her home and back.
I am 29 and she is now 23 going to 24. I have a job and a good business. Why can’t I marry her.
She has helped me grow my business. She is adorable and well trained. I want to aske her to marry me any moment. I am strongly convinced that we can grow together and build a good business network.

What do you guys thing. Is this a wise move

Baba,what are u waiting for?
He that finds a good wife have definitely found God's blessings
Baba just remember to invite me to d wedding if everything click oh
wishing u HML in advance

who's that stupid mod that moved there to fp
how does it concern us

0malicious:
my advice is this
1. just bear it in mind that you are young, 21 is a young age to talk of marriage.
2. Talk of marriage is not a sign of seriousness, men can talk talk n talk n introduce you to their ancestors but if they're gonna mess u up, they will.
3. Focus on building urself now. this is d most important part of my advice. I swear it can't be over emphasized. as a woman you need to have something going for yourself, have some self worth. forget the love fairy tale bullshit, it doesn't last, what your seeing is jus d welcoming parade. what makes you a real woman is not a mans appreciation but your ability to stand on your own. don't make rships d centre of your life when you ought to focus on harnessing your God given talents.
4. don't take any rship seriously for now unless your ready to get married. stop d activity with d second guy, think about it n realise d guy is selfish in his demands. if you eventually leave ur bf he might lose interest, some men re chasers it would shock you to know what they'd do to get what they want. and no this guy is not too sweet to be like that, open your eyes.
5. sex is just an activity, stop putting too much thought on it. it comes with a lot of baggage that only marriage can handle trust me.
sorry for d long post God bless you.

Op she has said it all
You're just 21,is marriage ur problem, don't u have some goals you'd like to achieve or what?

That his daughter on yellow is bae by d way Olga is now looking old
All dis white chic sef,e b like say me go soon start to dey reason white babes oh,at least for d sake of my children

How this woman go take carry belle?

Hoe-Low-Show

Bodily incompatibility

If u are here to read encouraging comments, pls let's gather here

lordragner:
You think you are depressed and you know what it means to go through difficult times. Trust me you dont but you will find out soon when you drop out without a degree certificate. I have seen what is about to happen to you happen to my friend. He is a singer and performer and was making money from shows. he got admission to read a course he didn't like and was unmotivated. His father told him to try and finish even if with a pass certificate. My guy abandoned his school in his final year to sing song. today his younger brother has also dropped out and his defense is "i am not the first person to do it in this family". Today my friend is chasing undergraduate admission doesn't mind the course because he has become a yard stick of ridicule , something that he got without stress 8 years ago. His fiancees family rejected him....they couldn't allow their daughter who has a MSC and studied abroad marry a university dropout, shes now married to a Doctor.. My guy no longer gets invites for shows and concerts though he still makes money as he has gone into music production. But he has missed out on so many opportunities even an Exxon Mobil job (his father is well connected) because he doesn't have a certificate. He is now seen as someone who is not reliable and doesnt finish what he starts just because of one stupid action. Thats a story his kids will eventually hear. that their father couldnt finish school (When he is not bill gates or zuck). One lesson i learnt is "Always do something whenever your mates are doing it" even if you dont know how to do it. You have the "Wisdom of the crowd that knows you" to help you. He is my physical representation of Job in the bible, cos I have never seen someone endure so many misfortunes till the point his family has left him alone (they still blame him for his younger brother dropping out and he blames himself for it too) . I am sure if he could do things differently he ll try his best to finish with a certificate. My guy now knows depression he understands it, you dont...at least not yet.

Op better jeje listen to dis guy's advice,he has said it all

see ehn I bet with u if u decide to drop law ehn n pursue freelance, u will regret it for life because what you will get would not be what u were expecting

pls don't allow headquarters (ur village people) to ruin u oh you've gone too far to drop at dis moment, just continue for d sake of getting a certificate n it will be an added advantage to u later on,i swear u will see it.

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And a wiseman once said:
To whom brain is given sense is expected

Madam,it's quite commendable DAT u want to give ur kids the best life despite the ups n downs you've experienced. But my 5cents is dis:
Pls don't be in a hurry or act in desperation especially when it comes to traveling stuffs like dis because it's very easy for one to make the wrong decisions n even fall into d hands of scammers parading themselves as traveling agents.Pls,give it time.I understand DAT you're still healing but giving it time n not rushing will help u see things in a different, clearer,broader n more realistic picture. If u still feel leaving Nigeria with ur kids is d best,then know that it's gonna b very difficult for u n d kids to survive there because for one reason they're still very young,so I'd advise u first go alone n spend sometime there,at least it would be very easy for u to get them over,cater for them properly while they are with u there n u would have understood governmental policies but I know leaving ur kids behind won't be a very easy decision for u 2 make.But, if u can't leave them behind then work hard to give them d best life in Nigeria, d kind of life u would have loved to give them if they were abroad n if u are still keen on their recovery from the recently experienced ups n downs then u can change environment n move somewhere else(but still in naija),naija too big na, n u guys will still be able to heal well though it may take some time n dis would even afford u d necessary resources to move u guys out of d country later on n it would be easier for u then.But pls don't act in desperation n don't even have thoughts of passing through Sahara desert or Libya.
Take care madam,may God help u

As I dey see naira Marley so ehn,e b like say e go start to dey sing gospel music now

just saying what I observe oh

translux:
Its not about the federal job that matters, what matter is do you have God beside you.
Few years back, I was called for an interview in lekki, I had only N550 with me at that time and I was living at Iju-Ishaga and I was alone in that house, there was nobody to discuss with, nobody to borrow from, On the day of the interview I encouraged myself to go for the interview, so I managed the N550 with me but when I got to CMS I had only N300 with me, I board another bus going to lekki Ajah but I was seriously in deep thought of how to come back home but immediately the bus was about leaving CMS I shouted that the drive should wait that I was not going again, people were so amazed including myself, so I decided to head back home, I board a bus going back to oshodi but in that bus a gentle voice spoked to me that why do I have a little faith in God, that I should embark on that journey to lekki and see what God will do, I decided to board bus to lekki again, long story short, when I got to the interview I met dozens of applicant in a very popular and wealthy company in lekki but I encouraged myself again, the interview gets to my turn and God manifest his power in me because I did very well, but at that time I had only N50 with me and I was going to Iju ishaga so I decided to be treck I was on lekki epe chevero drive when I checked my phone I shocked to see credit alert of N5,000 on my phone, I was the only one employed in that company, I have built a very good mansion and do some other stuff

pls what's the title of ur story

women and their entitlement mentality be like 5&6

Asquare84:
It will cost almost 3.5 million to construct the gas tank , very soon govt will ban the sale of gas in cylinder and in filling station

why??

SaintAlbert53:
thanks man,thank God for your life that you had egg soup with Eba to eat during your time in school...I wish i have same too here,you would never see such kind a post from me..A closed mouth is a closed destiny!

Baba u broke,but where u take see money sub

They said that education is the "key" to success.But they are unaware that govt has long since change the "padlock "