@Venuss, hahahahaha u got me there oh. I was waiting 2 see positive na, I come see fish. Oya send some of d fish come dis side....lol

@wannabeamum, u really use torchlight dey find dis ur job oh....no worry, u go get one soon

Ok na! E don happen...lmao

But on a serious note, wats happening on dis thread. There seems 2 be 2 much fighting these past months. Always one issue or anoda. Please y'all, take a chill pill....ttc is enough stress abeg.

Most of us joined this thread cos of the luv and unity here. It shouldn't change abeg.

@those who are/were offended by what anyone said, please just 4get bout it and move on. We r one family here.

Those wey go do hpt, how far?

Hello my sisters, been a while I posted. Nothing really to update but I come in to read everyday.

Congrats to all the belleful mamas...the Lord will keep u and d lo's..

@Echala, congrats sis. Wish u a happy n healthy 9mnths.

@Pink, d devil is a liar. Dis u already kn. Despite all d neg reports d Dr's always give u, God has always shown himself as d Almighty in ur life. Dis one has come 2 stay my sis, no shaking!

@all newbies, may ur stay here be short and sweet.

Omonikiba, wetin happen na? Oya na beg we dey beg, show!

@all, dis month has already started on a good note, I pray we record more BFP's dan we ave eva gotten b4.

I have been a silent follower of this thread but I just have 2 comment 2day.

Huge congrats bros Inwangobio. May the name of the Lord be praised for these wonderful gifts Dat He has blessed ur family with. They will always be a source of joy to you and dw. God bless and keep dem.
Am so happy 4 you and ur wife.

I tap into dis blessing oh!

@want2bepreggie, in addition 2 wat my sisters have said, instead of going 2 meet a man, u can try IUI/IVF with donor s.perm or ICSI. D money u ave spent tryin 2 adopt would ave been more dan enough 4 any of these ART.

Another thing is try and relax, I know it is not easy. But don't allow desperation make u take steps u'll regret 4 a long time.
It's well with u.

@all, I pray the month of Oct gives us more BFP's dan we received in August and Sept combined.

Hello house please who has 2nd semester exams time table pls help me out. I won't be able to go 2 d study centre till Wednesday. Mba 804, 816, 818, 840 and 848.

Please someone dat has d timetable pls tell me the date and time for these exams.
Thanks

Thank God 4 opening the gates of bfp to us again. D month is ending beta dan it started.

Congrats Omalicha and Practikal...wish u a healthy and stress free 9 months.

I was really hoping dis month of my birth will be my own time 2 rejoice but af showed it's ugly head some days back.
It's well sha, dis year will not pass me by.

@Goldenbaby, Amen to the prayers.
May the Lord meet the desires of ur heart, bless u with plenty plenty money and 2 sets of triplets.

@Adedoyinsola, am not tryin to say ur dr is wrong but bd everday 4 15days isn't good for the s.perm. if u must do it it daily den try doing it like in the morning on cd8 and in the nite on cd9, like dat.
The s.perm needs time to reproduce so bd everday reduces the quality. U can do sometimes daily n at time after 2days.

Not just as a kid sef, I wore it like dat 2day...lol

Congrats Favored gal and Nice. Wish u a h&h 9months. U'll deliver like the Hebrew women.

Lord let dis rain touch us all, Amen!!!

@Pink, it's good u decided to go 4 anoda scan. If possible, still go 2 another place 4 a different scan. See how devil wanted 2 use dat oda foolish Dr. Sorry u lost d preg jare but I still rejoice with u cos I kn ur testimony is already here.

Tbaby and Olivia, congrats ooo. Wish u a stressfree 9months.
It's raining bfp. God we thank thee oh!

MamaT, good 2 hear from u...its well with u dear.

Omonikiba, abeg come and share d testimony, no leave us in suspense joor.

Udoka, hope u and the lo are doing good.

@Safe, Hahahaha u are a serious clown.

Hi

@Tokerom, congrats. Wish u a stressfree 9 months.

@Pink, it is well with u my sister. U are in my prayers. ((((hugs))))

@all, The windows of heaven is really opened to us dis month. 4 BFPs down, 16+ more 2 go!

Congrats Joysolo. Wish u a healthy 9 months.

This is truly our month. Lord we say thank you for the mighty works u are doing in our midst.

Wow! It's just 7days into the mnth and we already ave 2BFPs. It's really our month of sudden visitation.

Congrats Iyabetajos. U'll carry 2 term and bring forth healthy babies, IJN.


More BFPs!!! Sprinkling lots of baby dust and sticky vibes

Redeemersave, congrats girl. N u were just makin plans on d ivf thread 2 go 2 SA. D Lord is indeed faithful. Wishing u a stressfree 9mnths

My people how una dey? I was with some ladies today, and while we were talking, one asked how long I ave been married. When I told her almost 3years, she asked why I didn't ave a baby yet, if its dat am not yet ready. My friend dat was with me said yes, dat dh n I want 2 enjoy each oda first. D lady said how can, which kain enjoyment. Dat how can people be married 4 more dan 2 years without children, wat is d point of d marriage na? Dat d only point of marriage is 2 ave children. I asked her wat if she gets married (she is still single) n d babies don't come, wat will she do? She said no, it cant happen.
Nothing wey person no go hear 4 dis ttc journey.

Abeg, my beautiful sisters dat ave received d wonderful gift from God, how una dey, n the lo. The Lord is ur strength.

Those of us still looking up to God, dis 2nd half will surely deliver our blessings

@Mummy Chizitaram, congrats on ur bfp. The Lord will keep u and ur lo.
N 2 think dat dis same name was on my mind ystday. I was tryin 2 decide if d pet name will be Chizzy or Zita.

@MamaT, trust ur doing good, please just flash us small abeg.
@Omo n Nice., congrats babes. We will be congratulating you on ur bfps soon.
@all, have a blessed and fruitful week

@Amynimas, course u are. Dats y we re here, 2 help each other out.

Mnwhl, 2day has just been one of those down days for me. Am really tired of counting years and months. And seeing people dat just got married ystday with their bump (not dat I don't want dem 2 take in).
God please wipe these tears frm my eyes

@Ominikiba, ur quite right. Please for those dat can afford it, consider IUI or IVF. Especually IUI for those dat the male count is good and it isnt as expensive as IVF.
D problem with us, myself included is dat most times, especially wen we are less dan 5 yrs in marriage we feel its 2 early 2 start ART. Its not.

May God direct us on the right steps 2 take 2 get our blessings.
Baby dust all

@Rute, of course we dont mind. We re all going thru dsame thing irrespective of where we come frm. Feel free 2 post here.

@MamaT, its well with you. Cant even imagine wat ur going thru. Cry if u need 2 but take it easy okay.((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

AMEN! AMEN!! AMEN!!!

@Pink, thanks 4 always taking ur time 2 make d list. God bless u plenty.

@wannabeamum, we re cycle buddies. I pray this is d cycle we ave been waiting 4.

@all, as we wait on the Lord, i pray He opens d windows of heavens and shower us with twins and triplets

@wannabeamum, i think u shld go 4 d thanksgiving service. As they look at ur stomach, use it as a prayer point, tell God 2 put sth there so dat the nxt time u all come 2geda again there will be something 4 dem 2 see.
Besides, u can't stop living ur life cos of what oda people will think. U shld be used 2 d looks by now(not dat its easy sha)

@loldar2000, thanks 4 d prayer points..God bless you plenty.
@Chi16, nice one thanks 4 sharing.
@all d newbies, welcome n may ur stay here be short.

@all feeling down or depressed, just hold on and remember dat as long as God is still God, this too shall pass and u will bear ur children in due time.

Its well with us..

@Venus, i can totally relate with what your going thru. I was depressed just a few weeks back, so much so dat i stopped praying. But i had 2 encourage myself in d Lord dat my case isn't d worst and dat as long as d Lord is still on the throne, i'll call carry my babies soon.
So, my dear just take it easy ok. Keep trusting the Lord to perfect all that concerns u.

@marriedbtlonely, its well with you. The Lord will def meet u at ur poInt of need but pls change the name abeg and start speaking positive words into ur life. Call forth the things dat are not as though they were

@All the newbies, welcome. Ur stay here will be short.

@Lizzyslaw, hope say u don delete d guy frm ur contact cos na so e dey start. Nxt thing devil go come plant nonsense tots 4 ur mind.

Thanks Pink and Udoka. I guess d word fibroid just scared me.

@Chidima, happy anniversary. The Lord will give u n dh many more happy n wonderful years 2geda and nxt year, u'll be celebrating with ur babies.

@Cjnone, u r so on point. dat attitude is what i ave tried to adopt recently, though its not always easy.

Ttc is not the end of the world. One thing i know 4 show is dat though it tarries, it must surely come 2 pass.

Tbaby, our sisters have said it all. and dis isnt a case of we dont understand cos we re all in dis 2geda so we really do undastd wat ur going thru. just encourage urself in the Lord(thesame advice my mum just gave me now. will get to dat one in a bit). my dear, its well with u, remember its darkest b4 d dawn.(((hugs)))

@all, I went 4 TVS and d report showed dat they saw fibroid. 1.4 x 1,4 cms sized anterior wall intramural fibroid. abeg my sabi sabi sisters make una help me explain dat one. frm d report, its just one but is d size big or small?

My mum says 2 be happy it was found now as dis is the first time am getting any negative report since ttc. I have been crying, but i know it isnt d solution to d problem