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tope5000:
David 2 like better thing. Lol. @topic : God knows what i want n need in a man n he will surely give me him.lol

Amen!

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=280139.msg3988583#msg3988583 date=1244333243]Thanx for seeing me point.

I haven't. . . . . . . . .I am too fast to let that happen.
Once i see the likeness glowing on her face, i move for the KILL so i don't get to hear what the deal is. [/quote]So, you telling me, If a chic meets you and says, 'look, I just wanna bang! come we go?' is that not real anough?

Or will you then brand her a SLUT? ? ?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=280139.msg3988573#msg3988573 date=1244332832]£29.99 per copy!!!

The way women pose when meeting a dude for the 1st time. . . . .
Y'all know what the scores is but then you wanna play HARD TO GET to prove God-knows-what but then that mask wears off after a while.
Ma point is. . . . . . Why play HARD when you know you would be tumbling in the hay after another coupla weeks.

It's the same thang. . . . . .same mentality, same jealous traits etc.[/quote]Ok, I see your point, not about the old woman thing though. . . . .


Well I suppose it's the women you meet, but are you honestly telling me you have not come across one chic who is real enough to tell you what the deal is and sticks to it?

davidylan:
the list has changed a few times.

yep mine does and has too. . . .

The only thing that sticks is the hygiene and intelligence.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=280139.msg3988558#msg3988558 date=1244332310]It's not about you. . . . .It's about women in general.
The whole hypocrisy when a woman is meeting a man for the first time and how the story changes after psyches n stuffs.

Y'all are the same abeg.
A girl of 15 and a woman of 90 are the same.[/quote]Ok, what 'hypocrisy' is typically shown when a woman meets a man for the first time and the story changing?

Enlighten me please.

And no I am not the same as a 90 year old woman thank you, in many ways.  

stillwater:
I have nothing to say than he'd better not be irresponsible.

lol. I like that. 'better not be'.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=280139.msg3988536#msg3988536 date=1244331699]Bloody hypocrite. . . . .Answer will prolly be NO or a definite YES??[/quote]lmao!!   wetin! why you do me like this?  

I am drunk on sleep.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=280139.msg3988541#msg3988541 date=1244331868]I dunno her but i know women are the same everywhere.[/quote]not me, am different.

Nah sorry, I don't like a guy like that. It's disgusting.

Please, do not pretend with me, if you wanna 'bang' be straight up. Answer will prolly be No, but you can always try.

190:
@na3day
dem don 4get their Job run go masturbate
4 backyard of the court

and funny enuf na me go still _foc.k dis plat even b4 dis ozone my very gud friend

^{did i jst say Bleep}

oops
let me go 2 bed b4 i comit havoc here

Thats right, your feeling sleepy now, . . . . (injection is working)

190:
@igwe
omo i de karu

@ch2
be warned
myself and igwe arent gay like u and ifeleke

@secretz
u knw i hav loff 4 u
i enjoyed our sex yesterday
can i com 4 more!

Stop mistaking me with your 'friend' .

190:
@secretz
i kant blive u wud say sumtin like dat
after the 3 hot sex rounds we had bearly 2hrs ago!

@plat
do i know u 4rm sumwher
have we met b4
do i knw u 4rm adam
remind me pls
cos its lyke ure mistaken me 4 d wrong person!

You see? He is even deluding himself into believing we 'actually' got physical.

Please 191 take your meds right now. Your day release is over.

platinumnk:
oya gist me. . I am IFELEKE's secretary while hes taking the day off.



who do u want to summon??

I want to summon 190!!!


He is trying to woman wrap me ohhh. . . . . it has really depressed my life. I no fit sleep, I no fit eat. I think he has stopped taking his medication.

I have a dispute, . . . . . .

C2H5OH:
igwe and 190 this your blossoming romance is unsightly o

roflmao

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=280875.msg3988188#msg3988188 date=1244323347]this thread na jamb oooo.  

oya, make i take ur no no list analyze am  
Un-hygienic :- e go hard u ooo, wetin bi Un-hygienic? i hope say u no put lifting up of the toilet sit sha  
i hate to burst ur bubble but "Yes, No, I dunno" are very valid response in a man's world  
u get the 411 on this one  

does this include men's natural ego?  

what if he is rich like fat joe?   [/quote]Pele, you have tried. Hope you didn't hurt yourself sweety doing that ehn?

I dont care if hes fat and rich like fat joe.  I'm a smallish kinda chic, don't want to be crushed, simple.  

Hygiene?? Sweet do you even have to ask? Would you be happy receive a hug from a girl who did not bath that day? or kiss a woman who's breath is harsh?  

'Yes, no, i dunno', valid responses ehn? Is that the kind of 'dah dah' brainless woman fit enough to pass her genes to your children?  

And of course I get the 411, I got to please him right?  

Oya, give me your list.

C2H5OH:
pahaha secretz, you want a nympho

lmao!! No I don't!!

Clean, Sexual Intelligent dude would be suffice.

Sorry, should have put mine. . . .

MUST HAVE/BE:

1. Hygienic (this includes having a well looked after body).
2. Intelligent
3. Mentally/Emotionally stable.
4. Sexual (This is not permission to sleep with others)
5. Socially Stable


NO NO:

1. Un-hygienic (not in the slightest-some people think it's okay to bath every other day)!
2. Lack of intelligence (some people think 'Yes, No, I dunno' is a valid response to a good conversation).
3. Not addicted to porn (I wanna be your porn star in the bed room).
4. Proud (I hate it with a passion! When it comes to matters of the heart, pride goes in the bin!)
5. EXTREMELY Overweight (I mean obese-no disrespect).

This is my list, so no vex me oh!
Each to their own.

190:
well my #1 option is that she must posses the name secretzz!!

sorry, can't help you with that one. woman wrapper.

Hi, hope you're having a good day?   

Another thread got me thinking. . . . . 

What 5 things/traits MUST a man/woman possess before you can get involved with him/her?

Also what 5 things are a big NO NO . . . . . ?

When thinking of your list, I am talking of NON NEGOTIABLE THINGS/TRAITS!!!   

C2H5OH:
That's why they distinguish the goodie from the baddie.

There are plenty dudes out there with enough respect for themselves and for you, to recognize that you deserve to be treated like a gem and are ready to do right by you.   Then there are those boys whose fatal habits would drive almost anyone insane. They could give two royal focks about how they treat you.  Their words are one way, their actions are another.  They cheat on you, whoop yo ass, disgrace you in public, you name it and in the same light expect you to believe that they love you/wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

Sometimes I don't blame them for turning out the way they did.  Some women are cruel.

lol . good answer bro

True, I hear that, but really? How many men and women are really as you described above?

And who also defines what is truly 'good'?  (the individual I think).  

The question is a bit ambiguous. . . , . . . .

Nothing to offer? NO WAY!

Nothing to currently offer financially, then yes.

I'm afraid though, his age, circumstance, and background will definitely be my ultimate deciding factor in deciding whether that 'yes' would be a solid yes!

I don't need him to buy me things or anything like that, but would be nice to know that he can take care of himself. Don't really want him asking me for money or things either, especially things of no relevance in aiding him to get to a better place financially.

C2H5OH:
There are plenty of good guys out there. Women just don't appreciate them when they come around. When they're done rubbing his nose in dirt and treating him like an effeminate piece of shit, they leave. That alone is enough to make him go bad.
And then there are those women who do have good guys in their lives, but since they're not ready for what the good guy has to offer, they take him for granted and do things to push him away. Then there are those women who make the excuse that a "good guy" is not "bad enouh" . They are confused souls. It's either you want a goodie or a baddie. make up your mind.

Would prefer a goodie.


Don't really think there is such a thing to be honest. Everyone has the trait to be either one. Sometimes it could be the woman/man you meet that brings out certain 'good' and/or 'bad' elements out of you.

However, there are some people who BLATANTLY take the piss and treat people like utter SHIT. Both men and women.

Sorry, wife? Did you say? Not even girlfriend. lol

You better make time for her and your family. Trust or no trust, you're just asking for it.

ThinkRait:
Ezinne seems to be a 'Say it as it is' kind of person. I really admire that.
But every guy may not be comfortable wit that.

@Ezinne

Take life one step at a time. Don't go looking for love. Give out love and true love will find you.
Goodluck.

I totally agree with the bolded statement.

It's funny how the things you want/desire in life come more often than not, when you either stop looking/searching for it, or least expect it.

I'm sorry but everyone is entitled to 'standards' when it comes to settling with someone or being in a relationship. Granted some people's standards are a bit high and petty, but if they know that's what they want/expect in a person they intend to be with long term, then that's their cup of tea. I never 'openly' compare exs and currents, because it's not always the case that what one did for/to me the other is going to do the same.

No one can say you're the wrong woman, or their the wrong man etc, they are simply not the person one desires to be with.
I have standards and I like it that way (and it seems you do too), because it's me that will have to deal/live with my choice of partner/husband or whatever.

Just chill out poster, take each day as it comes, and try not to 'expect' anything from people you meet, because when they let you down, you would feel silly. People dissapoint all the time.

@ 49cents. . . .


Are you intending to re-post the same EXACT thing 49 times?

What personal views EXACTLY , do people require? That of GAYS/LESBIANS themselves? ? ?

rhymz:
Part of the reason why morally degrading habit ve evolved into a way of life is[b] becos the church has been quiet abt it 4 so long & left d problem in d hands of politicians and lobby groups thus givin way to a new group of wel educated,highly placed social misfits in the form of [/b] homosexuals,transexuals,bisexuals,bestiality,brazen acts of incest etc.In d past even in d West,ppl with such behavior used to be seriously sanctioned but becos the church decided to play dumb and d "liberal"game,the result is wat u see today,in-Ur-face practice of homosexualism & statements such as those 4rm michelin89. One of the root causes of dis proliferation is d general apathy towardz God and d open embrace towardz silly and stupid remarks,xplananz & research whose aim is to make homosexualism and it's likez acceptable.Very soon dere'll be lobby groups for incestuous families on d basis dat it's done based on tradition.I fear at d future of this world,men copulatin wit men,humans copulatin wit animals & we say is not dier fault

I have to somewhat disagree. . . . . many churches have not 'intentionally' kept quiet in order to try and be 'liberal'. God's rules are God's rules. Many churches have been verbally shut down by many 'rights' groups etc. So they can't say what they believe is the truth without some politician and or activists trying to 'rubbish' their 'biblical and/or religious' claims and views.

On the other hand, we are now in a world where we have gay priests/pastors.

Sagamite:
Exactly my problem with most of them which I have highlighted in previous debates on homosexuality.

They just regurgitate the rubbish arguments they are fed by gay propagandists/terrorists in the West. There is no original thought in most of the rubbish they vomit here.

Although I have said my own opinion view. I gave views from my personal experience when asking my own gay colleagues and gay associates relating to this question.

The only people who can truly answer this question whether people were born gay, are those who are gay themselves and Baba God.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=279591.msg3983927#msg3983927 date=1244236764]I think they have all admitted at one point in time, dear  
But I feel their pain sometimes though. Let's admit it, it must be hard for an homophobic like Davidylan to live in the US. lol. Imagine what Borat did to Eminem haha I think David would have commited suicide by now if. . .

I was bored in the summer and went to go check out what they were up to over there  
but their physical program is intense  [/quote]LMAO.   (You mean Bruno not Borat).  


Ok , so what about young boys at 6,7, 8 years of age, who show signs of this 'extra femininity'? That many of us would 'label' as 'gay-ish' behaviour?  At that age are they already influenced by society, environment etc to be this way or is it possible it has been in them all this while?  

No vex me oh. Just flipping the coin sha.  

davidylan:
That's because He can see the begining from the end, He already knows those who will be lost BECAUSE THEY CHOSE TO.

Exactly.

God gave us 'freewill' to do and choose as we please.

bawomolo:
quick to generalize aren't you?

I think a lot of us are guilty of this to be honest.

Someone mentioned earlier about going to single sex schools having an affect, and boys playing with 'girly' toys simply have a lot of females in their home etc etc.

1. I grew up with 6 brothers and too many uncles. . . . .granted I was 'tomboyish' during my primary school and early teens, but I am now just an IRON lady  

2. I also went to a single sex school, NEVER EVER have me or my friends and anyone we knew had lesbian 'tendencies'. My brothers also went to single sex schools, barr 1, neither of them have ever had gay 'tendencies'.

3. There are 2 particular young boys I work with who enjoy playing with 'girly' toys, dressing up in girls clothes etc etc.  One of them has 3 brothers, the other has 2 brothers and a sister (not a house full of females).  

4. My gay colleague and his twin brother who is also gay, went to mixed sex schools, they also have 2 sisters (who are straight). One of the brothers liked 'masculine/boys' toys etc, the other wasn't really interested in toys etc, but yet they have felt this way supposedly 'since they could remember'.  

Therefore, I dunno . . . . .  just, therefore.  

JeSoul:
@Secretz,
na wa for all this kin people wey you dey work with

abii oooo!!! I have worked with children who get emotional and behaviour difficulties (those who have been excluded etc)

I have worked in a prison    

I have worked  with disabled children.

I'm telling you, all these experiences have given me serious insight on a lot of society/religious issues. It's not always as it seems.