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@ Poster

Take your time, go on a few dates and get to know ppl. Don't appear desperate for a relationship or you may end up with the wrong type of chic. After all, you're a guy and you have done well for yourself (it seems), you have a lot of time and a lot going for you. Observe and analyse for the mean time.

chaircover:
. . . . . did anyone notice that 90% of the thread was all about this other girl and he had no praise whatsoever for his girlfriend?

Even if he doesn't go with this office babe, he is surely on his way out of the relationship.

Sistawoman is right though about the flirty thing. My best friends at work are always guys; one even calls me iyawo mi but come on we dont take anything seriously; we are both happily married and its just office banter. Over time many have become firm family friends.

I noticed sha. . . . . he thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Why he is taking her seriously and actually contemplating leaving his gf, I don't know.  

Seems like we know who the chronic womaniser is. . . . .


*trotting along*

My deepest sympathy for your LOSS. Pele. Have a nice evening. Don't cry. Dry your eyes.        


*Trotting along.*

C2H5OH:
And it will surely fail after she tries oreofemi's "idea" . What a wise rat.

lol. Don't mind that one.

y me:
@poster
dearie if you wanna dump him know it is for good
dont make the mistake of allowing him dump u so you could start all over again
if you two cant make the relationship work now
there is no way you can make it work when you start all over again
i think you both need to sit down and talk
so you guys can sort whatever problems you have once and for all

Gbam.  

C2H5OH:
Don't you think he would feel guilty for breaking your heart?  And if you have a heart you should feel even worse for tricking him into breaking up with you.

Strong couples find ways to work through the lows when the going gets tough.

abi o!

@ Poster, what happens if he dumps you and your plan for him to come and 'beg' you back fails?  

People don't know their God given roles.

I'm still a virgin . . . . ,

Sorry my fellow ladies. . . . .

But in regards to quality and unique-ness, the award goes to men. You be surprised, men are a hell of a lot more particular on the quality of their clothing and other items that they purchase. My brothers impress me with the contents of their wardrobe.

Some women seriously go over board, there is nothing wrong with mixing and matching, but I have seen some chics who have almost blinded me with their nonsense attire. However, I do think women (I mean proper women who have elegant & quality clothing) look more stylish and sexy, what you got to remember is that females have a lot more options. We can wear shorts,trousers, skirts, dresses, vests etc. Men are limited but mainly on point.

MRbrownJAY:
you mean TEMPORARY INSANITY, right?!

ROFLMAO

y me:
yes o, cause most of the babes take it seriously
kill ko kill ni

Hi 5!!! (Borat style)

It has now become obvious to me why men flatter women. . . . .

Itohan123:
any excuse is good to whack someone out. feels good man

Issues. . . . .

sistawoman:
But you have not heard her side of the story.

You cant tell me that there have been times in your r/s that you have not transferred your own insecurties to what your partner is saying, thereby changing the whole meaning of what they are trying to say.

I know I have.

For all we know this girl did not mean to compare him to anyone else but to say: So-and So did such and such and now they are making XYZ. She is not comparing but she is telling him that if he does such and such he too can make XYZ. But because he is afraid that someone with more money will snatch her, he is insecure about his own wallet what he hears is: So and so is making XYZ why arnt you.

Yes I hear you. Very true.  

I hear what you're saying sistawoman, because me too I've encouraged etc with exs and even friends in general, but comparing to other people and making him feel as if he's not as good as them, then I think that is where you need to draw the line. Don't really want my guy comparing me to some woman in his office about her success, money etc etc. Some people are just tactless. There are ways of encouraging people without making them feel 'a certain way'.  

Hotstepper:
she is after what she will gain from you. Dhe is suppose to be encouraging you and not comparing you, afterall, she doesnt know what tomorrow is. For crying out loud, she works so she should even help out. I dont buy the ideology of men doing the spending when the woman is capable of helping. As someone said already, if she cannot build a home with you, then let her go and find a ready made man,

We are on the same page jare.


She wants an already made man. What nit wits like her don't seem to realise is that many rich and successul men/people were once in 'low' paid jobs etc before reaching their final position. Please, let her be, money causes many problems in marriages, but it's worse when one is too red eye and thinks it's a number 1 priority. Those rich people she's comparing you to can become poor overnight.

Reduce your communication with her, it pisses a lot of women off when men do that.

onehouse:
Well,I can't really place a finger on why he was crying and calling your name repeatedly. However,i won't ask you to give in to the suggestion offered by your parents or allow the "love thing" to cloud your sense of reasoning.There is always something to look out for in every relationship, in a nut shell words: Love and Trust. Do seat yourself down and figure out the guy's motive.For the fact that a Nigerian did something bad in the past doesn't mean all Nigerians are the same.Motive matters most and that is what you should look out for. Some guys get involve with a white lady all in the name of having stay in a country and with the intention to divorce the lady in question after getting their stay permit.This is evil because it never leaves the lady in question the same way she was before she got involve with the person in question.Please note that this is not peculiar to Nigerians but it cut across all races and countries.Find out his true motive before indulging yourself in the affair.There is always more to life that what meets the eyes,
God help you in your findings!

Are you taking this thread seriously?

lmao @ thread. . . .

Mirrow you know. . . aint heard that one in ages. lol

@ 190

YOU are not serious!

It is you that needs locking up. Psych ward No. 6.

No1 Troublemaker.

tope5000:
crazysexycool

Crazy Seksi Kini?

MasterUgwe:
u people understand english sha?i asked a question, i did not answer , so the 3words dont apply aba

Just answer the question then. Or Should I help you?  

y me:
now this is more than 5 words
i gat ya back

Thank you.  

davidylan:
Cautious, sensitive, faithful

The question was not how women become after being with you.  

Mai Suya:
@poster see ya mouth like b*tch. you just learn the word, abi? yeye

lmao.

MasterUgwe:
no be you start topic? you won put ur nose for our business , me am putting my nose in urs now .

Mschewwww. Sharrap dia.  

y me:
that is more than 3 words

lol abi!!!  

MasterUgwe:
orishi rishi iro's in here , poster what about ur partner? how would u describe him?

Why are you picking on me? ehn? Answer the question yourself. Do not worry about my love life.

^^^

lmao. You this woman!

FL Gators:
Me Myself & I

lol. Gimme Hi5!

Romantically[b]Complex[/b].
Romantically[b]Calculating[/b].
Romantically[b]OverAnalytica[/b]l.

What 3 words would you use to describe yourself and/or your partner romantically. . . . . ?

3 words ONLY! Nothing more. Nothing less.