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porka:
i don't know what this thread is aimed at. i have followed it with keen interest and there are few questions i need to ask.

1) if gays or homosexuals are claiming to have gay genes would they have been born in the first place? genes are support to be passed from parent to offspring. it reminds me of two eunuchs in my community, they were (both are dead now) from the same parent. some of the village folks said they inherited it from their parents. pray, how could a parent have seered eunuchs if he were a eunuch himself.

2) [b]are pedophiles and people who practice incest and those who have sex with dogs and horses born with that "condition"? i mean, i know a guy who said he first had sex with him mother and he in turn had sex with his own daughter. he seems to have that gene passed down from generations according to him.

3) what is the actual population of homosexuals? i don't think they are more than a handful in any society, europe or no europe.

4) and since the poster comes from a christian perspective, what is the position of the bible in this. from 1 cor 6:9-10 can we say thieves were born thieves? are drunkards born drunkards? should we say fornicators are born to fornicate?

these are just a few questions that we need to find answers to.[/b]

Paedophiles are not born that way. In my previous employment I had to work with these deranged people, interview them etc. More often than not a paedophile is one due to his emotional and mental background and upbringing. A lot of them were abused as children, or witnessed it. Their  case I believe is cultural, society and an environmental factor.

I don't believe in my hearts of hearts people were 'born' gay. I don't believe God made them that way at all. However, I work with children, and I tell you some of the boy's behaviours are extremely feminine, playing with dolls, dressing up in dresses, high heels, jewellery,make up etc.  We are taught as teachers not to choose toys for the children, let them play with whatever they want.  

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Registered yesterday. . . Gmail account. . . Only 1 post. . . Not been active since then. . . This is a trap!

Go and tell them u didnt find me

ROFLMAO

fashionkid:
Well if i am the one i will advise her in keeping with the word of our lord to turn Her Other Cheek to ensure balance.As 4 being her romeo, i agree with you but the problem is i[b] dont want to be "the Romeo Must Die"[/b]

lol.

But let's be real. If any woman was intelligent enough. You know the guy outside slapped you is a heavy gorilla looking dude, bigger and heftier than your man, . . . . . what do you seriously expect him to do? You know full well that your man is gonna get crushed. For me ohhh, I don't want to feel or see that embarrassment thanks. I will slap the man myself then run away, as fast as possible.

Feelitx:
If promiscous women don't deserve to marry,Why do promiscous men deserve to marry then? Birds of the same feather must flock together.

Thank you sweety.

I work with identical male twins aged 32 years. They are both GAY.  

Me sef, I don't know how to explain this one.  One claims to be a devout christian, who prays,goes church every sunday and preaches the word (as I mentioned earlier),but his brother is a loose canon.

One thing they both said is that they have felt this way since they could remember, . . . . .  

No vex me oh. . . . I had to ask them as this topic made me even more curious.  

Sasha009:
lol at the way you put your question

in all sincerity, if the guy who slapped her is much more bigger and fiercer looking than you, you just gotta let it go or else, he'll beat you up to and you'd look like a fool

just console ur gf and take her away, buy her more stuffs and make her forget

lol, . , . retail therapy right?

If anyone will have them then they deserve to be married. Anything after that is their own wahala.

lol. . . . poster you are funny, even you too sef ended your post in insult. . . .

I'm sorry, but even when you go to nigerian family members and friends with advice to your problems. . . . . they too often do it, mainly through proverbs and special sayings etc.

'You see, who asked you to go dia, did I not tell you?'

'you are at fault, you are to blame, you see yourself?'

You get my point. But poster, If I have ever insulted you before advising, am sorry ehn, pele. ma binu, e joor.

FBS:
she gast to get it off, at least over time. Before the kids start coming.

Have you seen what one looks like after having it removed via laser?

I'm telling you. . . . the evidence of previously having 1 is pretty much still visible. Looks like some nasty scar. She would be better off keeping that tattoo.

Ok let's be real,coming from Secretz persective.  

You have every right to feel the way you feel (other than to bust a cap in her ass    ), you may have some insecurities that you need to work on, but the plain fact that you yourself distanced yourself from your female friends, should be enough for her to do the same thing. I do not mean you or your gf should lock any friends off, but distancing shows respect for your relationship especially as you are saying it's serious or atleast on that level.

If it were the other way around, am pretty sure she might be singing another tune.  
There is no need for the games, despite what advice maybe given to you      , because then. . . . you really are not serious, and if you were intentionally trying to make me jealous, you would be gone.simple.  

I do think you have insecurities you yourself need to deal with, and the only advice I can suggest is that you sit down, talk to her and ask her point blank, how she sees the relationship? Express your feelings about the 'closeness' of her relationship with her male friends. Also let her know that you distanced yourself from your female friends because you feel your relationship is important and at a serious level, and because you respect her and didn't want her to feel incomfortable.  

Question: If she does distance herself from them, would you have anything else to complain about? Like maybe eventually asking her to lock them off completely? Be honest with yourself.

If yes, then you got serious problems. Internal ones.      

190. . . . sweety. I know it's late but HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY. . . .  now . . . . . . . . . . .


IT IS OVER!!!! BIRTHDAY FINISH. DONE. YOU ARE OLD NOW.      

lol. . . . . .    


Midnight madness from secretz.  

FL Gators:
In Naija, go inside and get that long stick used to pound yam and run after him with it.

Trust me, you wnt ever see him again

lmao.


You won't even have to do that. Why don't we do want nigerians do best. . . . . . . look him from hair to toe nail twice, then eye ball him and give him the cursing of his life. Then walk on, . . . . . . .

C2H5OH:
body art. to each his own.

if you won't date 'em they would be equally fine with not dating yo ass too.

lmao. Abi ooooooooooo!

JustGood:
Add her boyfriend's dad to that list

lol.

Nobody can influence me to mark on my body what I don't want. Nobody can make/turn me all bendy either.  

platinumnk:
And to the ppl that dont like me because of my tatoo, I say good!


Dont need those type of ppl in my life anyway.

Don't mind any haters. You know yourself.  

cold:
Should engagements be celebrated methinks that would amt to puttin the cart b4 the horse.What if in the long run it does not metamorphose into the real thing,because lyk it or not som wont get there.Well what do i know,mayb i take this life too seriously

Well that's why an intimate dinner with close friends would be suffice. One girl at my work place did her engagement party recently in a MASSIVE way. Thought it was uttterly pointless, that money could have gone towards the actual wedding.

davidylan:
i have no idea. But i'm thinking it will involve a dinner out with our closest friends.

Yeah that would prolly be something I would do too.

Epiphany:
I feel this question should also be asked the other way round:

Ladies, would you marry or like your husband to be tatooed? Reason i am asking is that i know a lot of guys who have tatoos (myself included - although i am married. Put my wife's name on my upper arm across a big heart - and she loved it)

Hmmmmm, Like I said earlier, 1 or 2 small ones is not soo bad. But not when it's to an excess. I dont hate them, but I'm not the biggest fan either. I firmly do not believe in putting any names of boyfriends and girlfriends. Yes I could marry a man with minimum tattoos. It also depends on what it says.

LadyT:
I am not a fan of Tattoos and I dont think anyone should litter their body with lots of them.

People need to think about how their body will look in 30years time before getting a tattoo.

I aslo hate people who get I love so and so Tattoos. A girl I knew had a I love Paul across her left breast they broke up 4weeks later.

GBAM!

Sis you get plenty of sense!!  

Have you seen that tefal advert with the old woman and she has some OLD ASS WRINKLY tattoo on her arm? ? ? Something she got some 30 years ago.  

I too don't see why people should advertise their 'love's' name on their skin. No renk man is worth the pain or permanent mark on my skin.  

JustGood:
Gay pastor sha! Anyone can call himself pastor abi?

So, when gay pastor wants to preach and gets to the part where the bible condemns homosexuality, what will he say?

The world has turned upside down

Yes anybody can call themself one. But I'm not talking of the pastors who hire a hall and start preaching. I'm talking of the ones who have been officially ordained and are receiving salary from the local authority.  

JustGood:
the bolded is utter nonsense. You cant claim to be a christian and say practice unashamedly, the very thing that christainity is completely against. Such people are not to be found near any bible-believing church.

It's either you're a bible-believing christian or not! You cant say you are a christian and proclaim something contrary to enshrined christian doctrine.

Well, I agree with you 100%. I do not believe people are born  gay; environment,circumstances, upbringing and many other underlining factors influence. The point that many people especially in the western world see it as being 'okay' or nothing soo bad, helps to influence even more.

What really gets me, is the so called gay pastors and priests!  

Ok,I will not go on religious grounds, because I know what I believe the answer is.

However, I have gay friends, both male and female and they have often confided in me about their sexuality and how it came about, I have also asked why they are gay (assuming it was a matter of choice).

The responses I received were that since being little,  they have always felt different and that they never had an interest in the opposite sex, like there was no form of 'attraction' not in the slightest. They were interested in different toys, games etc etc and as they grew older, they became 'aware' that yes infact they were gay, they could only really confirm their 'gay-ness' often after doing the 'act'. One of my gay colleagues, actually said 'I am a devout christian, I read my bible, I go to church every sunday, I pay my tithes, I preach the word'.  

This confused me because I then told him that christianity and being gay, doesn't really  go hand in hand, God made Adam and Eve, man and woman, that relatively he is committing a sin. He said, 'I'm sorry, but this is just the way I have felt since I can remember'.  

If any of my brothers brought home a tattooed masquerade looking chic to wife, he berra think again.  

1 or 2 (small) I suppose is okay in certain places, but all over to the excess as if she is advertising it, haba,no way! Same applies to my potential husband. It's all about moderation anyways. 

funkybaby:
@ all the responses so far

so they will say. . . .

if it's their first name that has been tattooed, they will be pleased with the lady !!  

lol,very true.  

wonders shall never end.

Thanks guys for giving me tips of recommended spots. lol

davidylan:
Still it doesnt sound right . . . find another man. there must be plenty. For him to still go out of his way to do so much for her means his heart is still with her and not you. He wasnt even respectful enough to start your relationship on a the page of trust.

Dont come here crying later.

This is very true poster!

So if they hadn't lost the baby, they would have pretty much still been together?

Bim4u:
@ bluespice
Idon't understand ur question
What's my problem like how
they both still leave under the same roof
He still gets her stuff that she need as she said whenever she moans about any particular item either bag or shoes he gets it for her dats before i even knew they had anything,i just felt they must have lived together for so long that they've grown really close.

This is more than complication. . . . . .  why would you want to be with someone who is doing all this for another woman? really? They have history, but yet they still remain close. . . . .and their history no be small one ohhh, it involved pregnancy and everything?  

It's still early days. . . . . . Cut your losses, if you like that is.  

dmola:
hi guys i need yr help, mi girl friend and i have issues late, i notice she dating one of her course mate in sch, we talked abt it and she told me she goin to breakup with the guy but to mi suprise i checked her facebook sent mail this is wat i saw[b] I wish ve known u long b4 now even if it was jst lyk a friend becos been with u makes me feel safe and happy. If i loss u 2day i wont feel so bad becos of d smiles u put on my face[/b]

dmola:
culd you help me figure out the meanin the mail

Seriously are you being serious? You 'noticed' she is dating someone from her school? This is more than just an issue. It means, she is cheating on you. The mail simply means, she is still cheating on you.

Pittbaby:
did you get the girls side of things ?

Very good question.

lmao @ thread.


Park and UnCloth you know. lol