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Thanks. Alas, competing with companies like Google is no fun since your success depends entirely on them, not you. They have to drop the ball. |
Nobody practices abstinence before marriage. Those who claim to be abstinent, if you investigate, are often doing everything except penetration. There must be some exceptions though. |
Sibrah:His interpretation of what happened to him makes God look like an extremely incompetent protector. His story lacked relevant facts such as the medical conditions or accidents that were actually responsible for the death of his family members, so I can't provide a better explanation. |
djdoxxx:Heh. Of course. |
wirinet:I dont really understand how what you did in 2007 is different from what we are advocating here (coming out of the closet and speaking out). I have read stories of people who said the confrontational atheists were the catalysts for their conversion. |
hakeem4:www.nairaland.com/1284692/striking-down-rule-17 |
BuddhaPalm:Can you elaborate on this claim? I imagine that being able to indulge in the harmless pleasures that religion forbids would cheer people up. darkenedrebel:Atheism is the absence of belief in God. If you don't believe in any God, then you're an atheist. Some atheists would go a step further and assert that there's no God, but that's not required. What makes you an atheist is not an assertion of nonexistence, but the absence of belief. And FYI, there are oodles of data, happenings, and evidences that show that God indeed is not just a fictitious character, or a figmentNope. the Incorruptibles (bodies of saints which after many years were found intact and without any decay—a phenomenon which till date has no scientific cum logical symmetry to it),They were well embalmed, like the Pharaohs of Egypt? Freshly embalmed bodies were placed in the tombs of ancient saints? Any recent case? The Shroud Of Turin"The Shroud of Turin, a length of linen cloth bearing the image of a man, is believed by some Christians to be the burial shroud of Jesus of Nazareth. Three radiocarbon dating tests in 1988 dated a sample of the cloth to the Middle Ages" In other words, it's a hoax. cases of Stigmatists—like Padre Pio, Francis of Assisi et al (Stigmatists are people who suffered wounds of Christs, which inexplicably appeared most times on their palms or feet)Aren't wounds easily faked? I could take a nail and hammer it into your hands. Viola, instant stigmata! How would that prove anything? The miracle here is that for some reason, people have chosen to ignore the possibility that those wounds were faked for fame and publicity. Why don't you sit back and think what our purpose on earth is if indeed there is no God and we are all just temporary occupants of earth? Think about it, why are we here? To enjoy the vain music and food? To use science to make our 'godless/non-spiritual' lives easier? To be born, only to die later, and probably before we even clock 70—especially in this age where life expectancy is at the downswing side of the curve.These are trivial questions; they only seem weighty because of our childhood indoctrination. Most of us are here because our parents chose to have children. That's it. Now you have your life, it's yours, and you get to decide what you'll do with it. Some people devote themselves to intellectual pursuits like science, maths, and technological research. Others make it their mission in life to educate, entertain, or inspire people. Others devote their lives to raising kids and helping them to achieve their potential. Or being really rich and famous. Whatever you enjoy, whatever makes the world a better place, whatever will give you pride as you review your life on your deathbed, you can make it your purpose. Since you claim God doesn't exist then 'what is the purpose of humanity on earth'I see no reason to have a common purpose for all humanity. Why not let every human decide his/her own purpose? What's wrong with that? why do we have to be arrayed in high moral fibre or be altruistic, or be do-gooders, since after all, God and hell doesn't exist? Tell me, why must I do good?We don't have to be altruistic, but we should probably choose to be altruistic because making people happy also makes us happy. |
Some of us will regret not participating in this week's auction. After the MPR rate was jacked it was certain that the rates would spike. |
They met on Nairaland according to the story, but the fraud didn't happen on Nairaland. It's very important to keep that in mind. Let's be careful and smart when conducting business with people we met online. Don't pay huge amounts of money for services you have not received. |
mekkfreshboy:Einstein's response to the claim that he believes in God: It was, of course, a lie what you read about my religious convictions, a lie which is being systematically repeated. I do not believe in a personal God and I have never denied this but have expressed it clearly. If something is in me which can be called religious then it is the unbounded admiration for the structure of the world so far as our science can reveal it.https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_views_of_Albert_Einstein |
There are many pounding machines in the market, actually. For example, these ones. How will yours be different? |
Sorry about the loss of your parents. There's no good evidence for the existence of God. We must rely on ourselves and each other to succeed. There's no need to waste your time trying to cultivate a relationship with, or to totally submit to, a person whose existence is unverifiable. |
darkenedrebel:Absolutely not. What I say is, "because there is no evidence of it, I cannot hold the belief that it exists." Orbiting that same fallacious illogicality of yours, I dare say that a kid born in an impoverished home—which peradventure is also located in the village—is right in believing that he/she can never achieve success, simply because he/she has no evidence that the wherewithal and opportunities to be wealthy and successful abound in the urbanized towns and cities.There's a lot of evidence that kids born into impoverished homes can achieve success. There are numerous verifiable stories of this happening. |
IffaCatchYouEhn:I now believe that she is far richer, and that's ok. If Linda Ikeji could become a Nigerian Oprah that would be awesome for the country. |
I believe in Intelligent Design, that there exist a reality higher and greater than oneself. I have weighed the Atheist lack of believe in a Divine Creator and found certain flaws in it.It's difficult to justify intelligent design rationally. What intelligent designer creates billions of stars just so that he can create life on a single planet revolving around one of the stars? What intelligent designer creates a nerve that travels from a giraffe's brain to its chest and back to it's throat - a distance of several meters - instead of just connecting it directly? Which intelligent designer designs ugly, horrible diseases? It's difficult to justify intelligent design rationally if you know the basics of evolution and cosmology. It's absolutely hilarious, frankly. They cannot logically prove to me the non-existence of a Divine creator.You cannot logically prove to me the non-existence of a super-hero, yet you would consider me crazy if I told you that I met Superman last night. Atheists don't necessarily have a strong belief in the non-existence of God, just as you don't have a strong belief in the non-existence of super heroes. We just think it is illogical to believe in any God unless there is good evidence that the God in question actually exists, just as you wouldn't believe that super-heroes are real and I met one unless I presented you with some really strong evidence to support my claim. I oppose religious extremism but my QUESTION remains “Is Atheism the way forward? How exactly can lack of belief in a Divine creator add meaning to your life and make the society a better place.Atheism actually doesn't need to make the society a better place. I don't believe things because I think believing them will make the society better. I believe things because I have good reasons to believe that they are in fact, true. For example, I believe that the sky is blue. Because when I look at the sky, it's blue. When I take pictures of the sky, it's blue in those pictures. Whether it makes the world a better place or not is completely irrelevant to the fact that the sky is blue. I can see it, other people can see it, and it's clearly blue. End of story. Full stop. Where the value of atheism lies is that it allows you to employ critical thinking in every area of your life. If you're religious, there are some thoughts you cannot engage in because they contradict your religious beliefs. You are constantly shielding yourself from any knowledge that contradicts the holy dogma you subscribe to. You're required to accept some highly illogical ideas because they are written in holy books. Even if rationally you know those ideas are wrong, you have to engage in disingenuous mental gymnastics to justify them. When you become an atheist, that enormous mental burden is lifted from your shoulders. Everything in your life suddenly makes perfect sense. You're free! What I want people to embrace is not atheism per se, but reality. If most people in society are making decisions based on reality, they will make better decisions, and society will move forward collectively as a result of that. You won't have things like women dressing like ninjas under the hot desert sun; little girls fainting from the heat and still being forced to keep their ninja attires on. Children being called witches. |
This thread is about the suffering of religious people and the need for atheists to be more outspoken. Let's not derail it any further, please. |
I was asked to repond to nairababe's post. naijababe:I did. But I want to try to avoid focusing on any particular religion. Like seriously, you believe that if you free me from what you call my delusion I will live a better life like you?I can promise that a lot of things in your life will get better when you abandon the incorrect religious beliefs that you're holding on to. I can also promise you that some things will get worse, such as your relationship with religious people, especially those who have authority over you. This doesn't really matter if you're a person like me who values the truth. I have to be an atheist because there's no evidence for any God. And if I am not mistaken, you are suggesting that we should all embrace 'Hedonism', just seek pleasure over pain, in fact emphatically self-pleasure, right?Of course we should seek pleasure over pain! Why would you seek pain? Are you a masochist? Even masochists seek pleasure, through pain. From the evolutionary POV, the reason why we find certain things pleasurable is that those things, e.g. food, companionship, sex, are generally good for us (or more specifically, the survival of our genes). Painful and unpleasant things, such as fire, hunger, and fractured bones, are generally bad for us. What sets us above most animals is not masochism but the ability to delay some pleasure today in order to enjoy greater pleasure, or avoid great pain, later. Indiscriminate unprotected sex could be pleasant, but we are intelligent enough to foresee that it may lead to the prolonged pain of unwanted pregnancies and STDs, so we might ****** instead, which is less pleasurable but safer. Seeking pleasure does not always imply selfishness. Altruism is pleasant. Knowing that someone is having a good life because of you is very nice. For many, a better life is beyond money, comfort and pleasure. There is such a thing as contentment, I know it a concept that is by and large alien to the Nigerian society but it exists, you should give it try.I am a person of faith and I came to the knowledge of what I am by knowledge and choice, while many not be that spiritually matured to be that way, a bigger majority are. You need to come down from your high horse and acknowledge that many make these choices deliberately and consciously.Contentment is a form of pleasure too. You work hard to have a successful and interesting life, so when you're old you can look back with pride. Of course, this drivel will not be complete without a dig at JW or one sect or another, I can also say that many atheist also choose euthanasia/DNR just because they don't want to suffer and then deprive their loved ones of their love and perhaps drive them to a life of addiction and depression. Is doing it for hedonistic reasons more admirable?Most cases of euthanasia I've heard about involve people who are terminally ill with cancer. It's not comparable to the blood transfusion issue. You need to open your world view a bit, just using the tiny sample size in mini Ogun State and perhaps Nigeria will not cut it.My focus on Nigeria is a feature, not a bug. Religion is perhaps responsible for some of the finest forms of music, poetry, fine art and so on, I can argue that many of these self expressions have their in religion and the contribution of religion, the religious and influence of religion on the non-religion cannot be ignored. I mean common man, the kind of cult following perpetrated in Nigeria is not always a definition of the religious or religion.Some religions are responsible for a lot of great music and art, which atheists shamelessly enjoy, but in other religions they are severely restricted. Another crass generalisation, none of the Eastern religions believe in the afterlife as you describe above but in reincarnation, the concept is even completely non existent in Judaism; only Islam and Christianity subscribe to the afterlife thesis.I didn't say that all religions believe in the afterlife. I said many religious people believe in the afterlife, which is true both locally and globally. Most do. Now, moving along, I don't know where you got the idea that they believe they have to endure miserable lives in exchange for an imaginary paradise, even in Nigeria, that is a big fat giant lie, in fact the reason why pastors/alfas in Nigeria have a cult following is because the followers want to live 'BETTER LIVES' . Have you noticed that the mental oppressed are the uneducated? Given your well meaning position, what are you doing about that? I have often told people, if you want to know what life was like in medieval Europe, just go to Nigeria, where all power belonged to the clergy and the aristocrats, in current Nigeria substitute aristocrats for politicians. With the advent of Gutenberg's printing press, the Bible became readily available and education no longer remained an exclusive right of titled men or men in robes. That perhaps gave birth to one of the finest periods in history, The Renaissance, otherwise known as the age of Enlightenment, while religion was questioned, it also matured, giving rise more matured and alternative viewpoints some of which persists today. You should consider other 'isms' other than atheism, many religious people have and still choose theism.The wording of my original statement was wrong.It now says that religious people often choose to live miserable lives in exchange for paradise. This is true. Most religious people's lives are not so bad because they disobey their religions when it suits them. Wise, but dishonest. Another preposterous generalisation largely applicable to Nigeria, ...As above; it also applies to the US As for prayer, I am sure you know what the placebo effect is, look it up if you you don't know, doctors or science are yet to explain what is responsible for it, there is something belief does for the psyche.Medical doctors only resort to placebos when they can't find anything biologically wrong with you. Placebos work by making you feel more optimistic. It's irresponsible to prescribe a placebo when there's something that is actually physically wrong with the patient. If people are dying they should spend their time resting and putting their affairs in order. It's wrong to encourage dying people to put their trust in a placebo. Another Nigerian stereotype, I just tire.As above; it also applies to the US. I am against abortion because I am pro-life, in my opinion, it is irresponsible to have sex and get pregnant in this day and age when so many precautionary measures aboundAs I said, many religious people are opposed to those precautionary measures because they think it will encourage sex, which they think is bad. Some of the biggest religious organizations are opposed to condoms and all contraceptives for this reason. A lot of people have gotten in trouble with religious people because condoms were found in their possession, instead of being given pats in the back for being responsible. I'd like to ask how abortion can/will encourage any form of sexual accountability when a teenager knows there is always an option of getting an abortion?What the Bleep is sexual accountability? Isn't God going to judge her in your imaginary afterlife? Why not leave the judgment to God? When you force a woman to have a baby she doesn't want, you're punishing the baby as well. That's despicable. A baby is not a punishment for being a slut i.e. a woman who like sex. A baby is a person who deserves to be desired and loved by the people who brought him/her into the world. If you must punish a woman for having sex, by all means feel free to spank her 12 times on the bum after the early stage abortion. The same unfortunate sexual accountability logic is what some religious people are using as the basis for their illogical opposition to contraceptives. Just in case you are ignorant of the facts, abstinence does more than preventing unwanted pregnancies, funny that this paragraph ignores the many ills of premarital sex such as STDs, HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, and sexual depravity as result of not being emotionally ready to engage in sex I can't shout abeg.All these things are dramatically reduced by the consistent use of condoms and not having sex with careless people. Except sexual depravity. WTF is that? Abstinence doesn't work because of the "body no be wood" phenomenom. We're biologically programmed to crave sex. Those who rely on abstinence often end up having unsafe sex and suffering the consequences while those who practice safe sex have a good time. Religious people are againstThey don't want their daughters to learn about sex and condoms because they think knowledge will encourage their daughters to have sex. Funny that you chose to cleverly ignore women like Esther, Abigail, Deborah, Lydia, Phoebe or women in Islam such as Aisha, Khadijah, Miriam the wife of Firiaoun or Fatima al-Fihri, look her up, she established the first and oldest university in Morrocco. I will forgive that slight, as an atheist your sojourn into religion is to find only what is wrong never what is right so you may be forgiven for your ignorance of the women above but what about women like Indira Gandhi, Marie Curie, Angela Merkel or even me, naijababe?In which holy scriptures did you find Indira Gandhi, Marie Curie, Angela Merkel, Naija Babe, and Fatima al-Fihri? Their names are not listed in any holy scriptures I know. As for the women who appeared in the holy scriptures, why not tell us about their scriptural accomplishments? |
An0nimus:Ok, I will do that, but she doesn't seem to have refuted any of my points. |
Mynd44 will take care of it! |
HCpaul:I'm not an expert yet, but as we interact with religious people, the opportunities will arise. Then, instead of "respecting" their wrong beliefs, we should challenge them with facts. At some point they'll turn to the authority of the religion they follow, and then we'll get to tell them, "sorry, but I don't believe in that ish". Then they'll be like, "what? everybody believes that ish" Then we'll get to tell them, "well, I don't, and there's no good reason to believe it." Then they'll start giving you their reasons for believing it, and you'll get to explain why each reason is poor. Ranchhoddas:I was inclined to accept this assertion until I realized that the evidence for this comes from testimonies, just like the evidence for miracles, which we know are not happening. Criminals can be "saved", give testimonies about how their lives have been changed, and then continue in it. People can sin repeatedly and pray for forgiveness after each incident, so it's not a real deterrent. I'd like you to give me some examples of former criminals who have left crime completely for spiritual reasons, so we can find out if this hypothetical phenomenon is real. Acidosis:So you admit that the supreme being you're worshipping might not actually be the supreme being that actually exists. That's a good start! hahn:Whose help do you think they need? |
tempem:I am here because my parent decided to have kids. One thing led to another and eventually I came shooting out of my mother's "wherever". When they can't even tell you how to be happy?Psychologists have studied happiness extensively in a scientific way. If we implement their reality-based recommendations, we will be happy. Farmerforlife:Virtually all religions are based on incorrect beliefs. All incorrect beliefs are harmful because decision making obeys the garbage in, garbage out principle. The more incorrect beliefs you hold, the more likely you are to make bad decisions that will harm you and the people around you. Also, on the surface, it might seem nice to allow unbridled hedonism to take over the world, and live merely for our pleasures of, as you put it, but free license does have its drawbacks, which include harmful effects on society.This is correct; some behaviours should not be allowed because they are harmful to other people. The problem is that religion forbids many things that are completely harmless while allowing many things that are clearly harmful. Like the religion that forbids instrumental music but permits child marriage; forbids owning man's best friend but permits domestic violence. The one that forbids eyeing the opposite sex but fails to condemn slavery. As free thinking people, we can have moral systems based on the rational determination of what is actually harmful. |
theoneJabulani:Most people won't fully convert to atheism no matter what we do, but they'll become more tolerant, respectful of science, realistic, rational, etc. 01Mysticdon:Nobody likes abortion. Not even pro-choice activists and doctors who perform abortions. But they recognize that an early abortion is not as bad as bringing children into a world that doesn't want them; that a legal abortion by a good doctor is not as bad as an illegal abortion by fake doctor, which may also kill the mother. That's why most pro-choice activists also advocate for more sex education and contraceptives. ccffwx:I sincerely wish that the scriptures supported your position. Unfortunately, they were written by men and for men in male-dominated cultures. peacesamuel94:Shots fired! 0rex:I'm not asking atheists to become street preachers. They just need to speak up sometimes and say, "I disagree with that, and here's why." JSoE:Yes, we need to be careful about telling people who are in positions of authority over us, such as our parents, bosses, and lecturers. If they find out unexpectedly, it may be better to tell them that we are "having doubts". People often react melodramatically to the word "atheist". Although I have succeeded in freeing one of my friends from the scourge of religionAwesome! I had mixed feelings when someone said he "lost his faith" because of me. It certainly felt like a loss to him, but really, it's not. |
ireneony:Thanks. This was probably the primary birthday message I got this year. It's certainly the only one I've read. Thank so much. |
Religious People Are Suffering & They Need Our Help People often ask outspoken atheists why they like to argue with religious people. "If you don't believe in God", they ask, "why do you spend so much time attacking people's religious beliefs?" They often respond by saying, "religious people keep trying to impose their religious beliefs on us through evangelism and politics, so we have to defend ourselves." Atheists who don't feel threatened usually choose to remain silent. I used to be a pretty quiet atheist myself, until I noticed something about religious people that I hadn't noticed before. Religious people are suffering! Religion is not a harmless delusion. It's not a benign folly that merely wastes people's time. It's a malignant malady that systematically robs the majority of humanity of their freedom, pleasure, joy, comfort, knowledge, intelligence, health, money, lives, and much more. It would be selfish of us as atheists who are free from religion not to make every effort to free people from religion so that they can have much better lives. Many religious people are not allowed to have blood transfusions. This means thousands of religious men, women and children have died from treatable medical conditions, such as pregnancies with any kind of complications, non-fatal car accidents, treatable gunshot wounds, etc. simply because they are not allowed to accept blood transfusions. So many children have become orphans needlessly; so many men and women became widows and widowers; so many fathers and mothers lost their children. All because of a religious rule that make no sense at all. Many religious people are forbidden by their religions from enjoying most of the good things in life. Things like secular or instrumental music, fine art, poetry, sculpture, owning dogs, wearing make-up, friendship with the opposite sex, eating ram meat, eating sausages, pleasuring yourself or the opposite sex, watching fantasy movies or reading fantasy novels like harry potter, making friends outside the religion, dancing, tattoos, playing ludo because it relies on luck, barbie dolls, sexy clothes etc. Can you imagine what your life would be like if you had to forgo most of these wonderful things? Horribly boring. You'd probably kill yourself. I guess that's why many religious people are suicidal and violent. Most religious people believe in the afterlife. As a result, instead of focusing on the current life and making it as enjoyable as possible for themselves, their friends, and family members, they often endure miserable lives in the hope that they'll be rewarded after they die. An extreme case of this is the case of suicide bombers and religious fighters who embrace violent deaths for the sake of an imaginary paradise. Many religious people are pressured to give a sizable proportion of their income to the religious establishments they worship with. Poor people are taught that the best way to get rich is not to save their money and invest in education and entrepreneurship, but to "sow" it by giving it to their rich religious leaders who will use it to live flamboyantly, and build religious monuments to attract more cash cows. When this stupid idea of "sowing"doesn't make the poor people rich, they are told that it's because they don't have faith, have sin in their lives, etc. Many religious people are made to believe that the secret to good health and healing is prayer, having been brainwashed by dishonest sermons and misleading testimonies. When they have health problems, instead of going to good hospitals, they embark on prayer and fasting. When their friends slump due to heart attacks or strokes or seizures, they start praying on them instead of rushing them to good hospitals where they can get competent medical help. People have died of curable diseases like malaria because they didn't accept treatment until it was too late. Many religious people are tolerant and liberal by nature, but due to certain verses in their holy scriptures, they feel that they must be intolerant of various groups of people that God supposedly doesn't like, such as lesbians and transexuals. They are against abortion, which they think is murder, but also against sex education, which reduces abortion rates dramatically, because they think it may encourage premarital safe sex. As a result their daughters end up getting pregnant outside wedlock, having illegal abortions, and dying despite their opposition to abortion. Many religious people are women, and it sucks to be them because the scriptures of the major religions are clearly sexist. One scripture claims that women must be quiet and submit to men because man were created first and woman came from man, which is rather suspicious because in real life it's women who give birth to men. Another scripture proudly asserts that woman are deficient in intelligence and piety. There are almost no female prophets, apostles or disciples. The few famous women in major scriptures are famous not for personal exploits but for giving birth to important men, marrying them, or leading them astray (Eve, Jezebel). Religious women can't live up to their full potential. And don't even get me started on the horrible treatment of "demon-possessed" people (the mentally ill) and "child witches". Clearly, religious people are suffering. Our parents, siblings, and children. Our friends, crushes, and admirers. Our colleague, bosses, and employees. To save them, we who are atheists must come out of our closets and start speaking out; challenging them and educating them. |
anselm791:What if her refusal to prove herself is a sign that she does not want to be worshipped? In that case, she would be most pleased by atheists. |
Dejideji1:That's question 2. The link I gave you answers question 1. You should check the references if you need more details. What we know is that it's only life that begets life so far, they have only been successful @cloning which still requires a pre-existing life (a living cell)Having struck down your false premise, the simple answer is that they haven't figured it out yet. Why bother when living cells are so cheap? The second link didn't account for the origin of the sexes or how they evolved independently. It only addressed the need/advantage of sexual reproduction. Which doesn't answer the questionhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolution_of_sexual_reproduction#Origin_of_sexual_reproduction |
malvisguy212:People accept death because they believe in the afterlife, but that doesn't make it true. Many Jehovah's witnesses have died for their faith. Many ISIS and Al Qaeda and Boko Haram suicide bombers and fighters have chosen to die for their faith, too. That doesn't mean they're right. |
Praise be to Allaah.https://islamqa.info/en/73339 Please obey your mother. |
Can you imagine the pain this sentient creature experienced before it died of butchery? Due to its thick neck it couldn't have been killed quickly. |
onetrack:Comforting lies are generally harmful, and the belief in the afterlife is no exception. False beliefs lead to bad decisions, which are harmful. Mortality isn't a particularly harsh truth. Even young children can handle it: "one day you'll go to sleep and never wake up." What's the big deal? |
Deepsight, how many evolution textbooks have you read? Do you really think evolutionary biologists haven't asked themselves these questions? Dejideji1:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abiogenesis ![]() 2. Why is it that it’s life that begets life? Even in cloning, a living cell is required. Scientists claim to know all the building blocks of life but why have they not been able to create life in the lab if it happened by chance as they believe?Scientists don't claim to know ALL the building blocks of life. That's just wrong. Science never makes such delusional claims, but religions do. Do you really think science will never figure out how to create life, though? Many things we do routinely today (e.g. IVF) used to be impossible. 3. For the issue of the sexes, how did male and female species evolve independently?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolution_of_sexual_reproduction ![]() |
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