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Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

it amazes me how people take pastors seriously

ACSgrains1:
Good day all.
I just arrived Canada, Ontario precisely, quarantining in Toronto.
Do we have what’sapp group for Nigerians/Engineering students in Ontario?
How do I go about obtaining a SIM card, SIN and opening a bank account?
How /where can I look out for job opportunities?

Just google

Mobi47:
bro there is a cure for cancer...come and get treated and its free. Location abuja. U will testify on nairaland just pm me I will take u there.

do you have proof

This thread is cracking me up

can i use my canadian driver’s license for a short time in nigerian

pek:
Hello doctors in the house and everyone else reading. I urgently need help with this constant headache I am having. It can be so severe at times. It may last hours or days rendering me useless those periods. I have gone to the hospital and they did two tests ie blood and sugar level. Everything is normal. I have taken some drugs but no improvement. Please help.

oga Nigerian hospital no dey pass malaria n typhoid. Go and do a CT or Mri scan

Dagundo:
I need advice guys. I had sex with this girl 2 weeks ago. I didn't use protection but I'm good at pulling out so I wasn't bothered about cumming inside her.

We had penetrative sex 4 times over the space of 12 hours. The first time was very painful for her and I took my time. I finally broke through her hymen. Second time she was on top of me but it didn't last long cos she was a novice and didn't know much about riding dick.

Third time was better and the sex lasted longer. Fourth time was also long. But I didn't cum in any of those times.

Now she claims to be pregnant and she claims that I'm the only guy that has ever entered her. I'm very confused because I didn't ejaculate inside her.

She checked her calenders and realized that when we had sex was her ovulation period. Even at that, I don't cum inside her so I don't know what she's talking about.

She's 21 years old and she's a responsible, decent girl from a good home. She's been keeping herself for this long so I doubt she'll sleep with someone else within days of losing her virginity, but still I can't explain the pregnancy thing

av u confirmed the pregnancy?

kelvine95:
How can I change my naira to Cad?

use lemonade finance

Abimbolafavour:
Please i need advice on what to do... I Met a guy along the line we started talking , he's smart , l like the way he talks so matured .. We met like four times... Suprisely the last time i saw he .. We had a normal conversation since then he started acting strange he doesnt call again .. I sent him a message he didnt reply , called almost five times he didnt pick up neither did he return my calls. I was so hurt and pain i couldnt concerntrate at work my MD had to ask me whats wrong .. I lied to her something entered into my eyes . I still don't understand what could have gone wrong .. I don't deserve to be treated this way. Up till now no calls , i made up my mind not to call him so as not to look desperate and i really love this guy. Nairalander pls whats the next step to take.?

lol abi u dey see how e dey be for we guys

chierodumodu:
Hello everyone, please I'm really confused here. My girlfriend is a choir member and I find it really weird for her Choir master to always pay her a visit and mostly at night. He stays till like 11 pm before going. Now the thing is she's not the only girl in the choir but he visits just her. It's annoying and at the same time stupid.

Visiting her is one thing but staying up till 11 pm is stupidity on it's own haba. He does this like literally everyday. I trust her a lot but I don't think it is right to have him always coming over and staying late. Sometimes I'll call her and she'll tell me we should talk later because her Choir master is around... WTF!!!

Insults are most welcome but please is it right or wrong? I'm confused really.

Lalasticlala abeg help me I need answers please

Master dey help am

Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�

Get someone else to take some of dat love. You go easily leave am

Maryjane001:
Although I may not agree with your last sentence, it is totally your own opinion. But always remember the society will always turn against you once you hit a lady irrespective of the fact you might be right.
But that doesn't give ladies the right to misbehave. You would see such ladies even daring the men to hit her let she see instead of fleeing the place immediately or even calming down.

I would never hit a woman as long as she doesn’t hit me.

Cashsteady:
So I decided to woo(like play pranks on her) this my friend girlfriend... I chatted her up on WhatsApp and told her I liked her that I'm jealous of her boyfrien( my friend).. she was like really and asked why I didn't approach her to tell her, told her nothing that just wanted to keep it secret..


To my suprised she told me should would say yes if I asked her out at that moment even when she has a boyfriend, that she is just using her boyfriend . This girl is dating my Friend oo and if you see when she and her boyfriend are playing you will think she loves him pass anything.. Seriously never trust any Nigerian girl they are all the same

how old is she?

Biglittlelois:
Your mistake is, you shouldn't have told her your mum suggested it, you would have said that it was your idea, you should have brought up the topic in a way that will make her see reasons why it is logical to cut cost, instead of calling her on phone saying bla bla your mum bla bla, and i can imagine you saying it in a bossy way sef, it is her wedding as she said, as it is yours too, make her feel like she's in charge but you're the one controlling things on the side, very simple

Most times it is you men that majorly cause unnecessary animosity between your mother and wives, you guys don't know how to present a case smoothly without bringing up issues.

In charge how? na she dey bring money?

MadeINchenzen2:
In my opinion I think the 18 year tag that marks adulthood for teenagers is pretty too early. This concept was introduce by the westerners (first world) as a part of a culture they want to live by, and this way of living was imported to Africa by Africans, without Africans redefining it for themselves. It's all line and sinker.


i.e in the U.S a child of 18+ can keep relationships as well as take alcohol.

In my take, I believe a boy or girl in Africa is still pretty too naive and juvenile @ 18 going by our cultures and traditions as Africans. Though I can also say it is relative depending on different variable factors such as upbringing, environment, intelligence, exposure and more....



That's just my thought. What do u think?

Cc:


Rocktation

Farano

Mynd44

Lalasticlala

So na this one be your problem?

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Deathisfree:
Hello Nairalanders. It has been impossible for me to find a solution to my needs or problems since I have been posting and reading on Nairaland and I am sure you guys would find a solution to this for me.

I got a call from my aunty this evening,she told me her daughter has Epilepsy(warapa) and she has been dealing with it for years. I felt so bad because this woman is so special to me

Please please and please. If there’s any cue or solution to this(spiritually or not . I would love to hear from you guys.
Thanks

She should be on medication

Kabongo1:
It's a security question.

However in this world, the only thing we are sure of is who your mother is, we aren't sure that the man you call your father is your biological father....

What if them switch you for hospital? See we no sure of anything

Muna4real:
What do you think about this guys? How can a guy end a relationship ( he initiated the break up) but still sends money (without asking) and shows concern? It just looks like he's an elder brother, or still in a relationship without seeing each other. When asked why he still cares,he says" that how I am. I'm just naturally caring)

I don't understand. Is there a hidden motive? As I type, he's planning a Gift for my birthday. I no send am message oh!

like this, you can’t say no to sex with him. He is using ds one to hold u but doesn’t want commitment

kenzysmith:
Good evening sir, my friend went to spend a week at his brother's house so this morning when my friend's brother has gone to work, the relative who is about 15yrs who stays with them caught my friend when he was peeping at his brother wife through the key hole when she was having her shower.

My friend has been begging this guy since morning He called me to narrate every thing to me. The relative is demanding android phone infinix hot8 or he will tell his brother and wife by Monday next week.

Please the money he is having in his account is just 15k please what should he do? I brought the matter here so we can suggest for him what to do please he does not want the trust his brother had for him to die.

lol na you b the friend joor

Emmanuel114:
Good morning nairalanders...how was your night??I hope you are all good?I really need your advice about my present relationship...been dating this girl for more than a year now...she’s my fiancée...we stay together for now due to some issue she has in her house..when I met her in 2019...she wasn’t cool with her ex back then cus he really hurt her...they aren’t even talking throughout last year...suddenly they start talking again this year..and it’s getting too much..getting too deep..always chatting everyday...there was a day I challenged her about her talking to this guy on a regular basis...she said there’s nothing between them...there are most times she’d clear some chats between them...makes me feel really heartbroken...I do whatever this girl wants financially...I really don’t know what she wants..they even video call and make calls when I’m not there..even sending him her pictures..I feel bad and don’t know what to do..yesterday I called her to order and tell her we need to talk..so I asked her who did she cherish most between me and this guy she’s talking to?she silently said me...and was yelling at me that what brings about that...and I told her is either she block that guy and delete his number or we break up...cuz I’m getting less attention from her..she said I shouldn’t give her choice..that she can’t block the guy that he hasn’t done anything to her she clear most of their chats,there was a day she put faceID on her WhatsApp and I challenged her for that she said she actually wanna do birthday surprise for me,ain’t believing that...that really got me heartbroken with everything have done for this girl....have invested in her soo much I feel we are gonna marry but I’m getting something else and I just feel soo depressed...please I need your candid advice nairalanders..I’m sorry I’m not that good in composing something like this...manage my grammars.,no insult please..your advice would be appreciated..thanks in advance.

See exes are bad people. They would still knack

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

she won’t change after marriage. If you can’t cope, run and tell her your reason

Starships4u:
Send a mail to me and I'd recommend a drug to yhu Sir.
Or yhu can quote this message.

stop this thing

David2O:
Nairaland has refused to upload my pic o.

Here is it;

Pb(NO3)2 + 2HCl --> PbCl2 + 2HNO3

PbCl2 = 207+35.5+35.5 = 277g
volume = 200/1000 = 0.2dm³

Mass conc. = mole × volume
Mass conc. = 0.1 × 0.2 = 0.02mol/dm³

From the equation,
1 mole of Pb(NO3)2 reacted with 2 moles of HCl

Therefore: 0.02 mole of Pb(NO3)2 will react with 0.04 mole of HCl


Since the number of mole of HCl to react completely with Pb(NO3)2 is less than the required, HCl is the limiting agent to determine the reaction.


2 moles of HCl gave 277g of PbCl2
0.02 moles will give Xg

Let's solve... X= 0.02 × 277/2
X = 5.54/2
PbCl2 = 2.77g

I remember those days wey i sabi these things wella. Now IT don carry my head

Franzinni:
They might come for my head .... But I will say, spend time doing things that you love, create memories for your loved ones, fix and mend everything you must have overlooked in life, live life.

Please ignore me totally if I sound offensive to you but I am just saying what I am doing with my life becasue I realized one day that all I truly have is NOW.

Which rubbish talk be this. Most you comment

Good day guys, I’ve been trying to get the code for a week now all to no avail. I’ve sent the message severally. Is there an alternative?

AntichristXXX:
Make him go find Olosho abeg.

i dey tell you. make him no stress himself

swiz123:
The rate at which Nlanders ask stupid questions is alarming these days...

Is job hunting in Lagos not better than a 30k job in Imo State. What opportunities lies in Imo aside working in a hotel where you hail Yahoo boys hoping for tips..

Make we no dey disgrace ourselves here o.

opportunity done finish for lagos joor

khia:
It has nothing to do with gender, the court goes by who earns the most. If I have been an extremely good wife to you for years then you meet Ling Ling and decide you want to play house with her now, you won't kick me out the house pennyless because it will not be good for your health, with or without a prenup.

Would you sign a prenup?

ehhh you go away with your own money na. If the guy meets someone new, you go away with what you have.It better than I give her half

assamu1122:
Please post for me ASAP

My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.


What should I do please?

what do you need help for? leave her alone

Sniper101:
this OP sef
ppl dey reveal to dem partner say Dem dun cheat?

am currently in one sha
am in Rivers State, she's in Edo State.
we talk on phone once or twice EVERYDAY.
last time I was "with her" was January 2020
and according to her statement about 3weeks ago, January 2020 is still the last time she was with someone (me).
now, am I supposed to believe that?

well, dat's long distance relationship 4 most of us
...trust is usually on a low.

Just ph to edo and una never see for that long? una no ready.

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

its a trap bro