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Candidlady:
And your day one Niggarr is starving to death somewhere!

smh!
date a responsible girls that wont be a liability una no go hear!

modified- op you are a broke as$ niggarr!

you spent 300k span of 4yrs! Meaning 75k in a year, meaning 6250/mnth!. The girl is a fowl for stil putin up with ur broke being!

how many times do you have sex with her in a day/week/mnth/yr? You this broke nagging gay'hot of a man

lo why do you see sex like na only d guy dey enjoy am? See I have had sex multiple times n can tell you that ladies need d*ck more than us. A girl once told me that, if guys knew how sweet d*ck was to women, we go dey do shakara

If na woman now they would say you should over look and marry her if you love her. Wo everyone should marry their class

Oluolad86:
I'm so grateful to God Almighty and all that contributed to my health concerns, for all your prayers and support, God will grant you all your heart desires, you will never beg for food, no weapons fashioned against you shall prosper. God bless you all, I'm writing this in tears to say a big thank you all. I have received #86k now.

Mr Olaopa #5k
Unknown #50k
Mr Adeyemi #5k
Mr Abiodun #1k
Mrs J #2k
Mr Chibueze #3k
Mrs Isioma #15k
Mr Oghene #5k
Total #86k

I'll save the remaining balance to the surgery fee, please don't relent in your financial and prayers contributions please till the surgery is done, don't be tired please. I'll go to OAUTHC Ife tomorrow to do the tests, I'll show you the receipt and the results when they are out. 25th of this month is my next appointment with the doctor, he has fixed November for the surgery, you can send someone to come over to pay directly to the hospital, all I need is to do the operation. Thanks everyone and God bless you all Amen.

You are very genuine unlike some others here. I have been reading each page and you gave us detailed breakdown of the process. Keep on giving us details each step of the way

sirkaebs:
The blood of Jesus will speak for you, dear. I declare total healing to come upon you in Jesus' name.

give money if u get.

bodybuilder:
I'm just curious, it seems that's only guys that are cautious of not catching some disease through sex. Most girls won't suggest condom if you don't suggest it first. These girls dey fear me. Most girls aren't scared going raw. E be like say na only guys dey fear am. What could be the reason for this?

lol

Firstandonly:
Lately my girlfriend is no longer comfortable leaving her phone around me, she is so close to her phone even when we are eating or early in the morning when she's supposed to start doing morning activities....
I am someone who hate the idea of partner checking each other phone and i always advise others not to look on their partners phone. Pls I just can't take it any more it's just as if am being thrown away in my relationship and there's this force that keeps pushing me. Pls if u where in my shoes will u start check on her phone or let go to prevent BP

oga check oooo. Comot that “I don’t check” mentality. Checking can save you from STI

Mercychen:
Why should Snapchat be destroyed?

Are you handsome yourself?

Do you know what the girl also thinks about you? You come here sounding as if you've seen a monster.

Like attract like. So suck it in.

Why are you so pained

seankafor:
Relax 200k isn't that big money over there..

He might get mad at you first but he sure won't kill you..
Highest he will develop trust issues towards you..

Shit happens

see as e easy to talk. 200k aint big.

frozen70:
If a poor man will have the confidence to approach a rich woman for marriage

He already knows that he will humble himself

Or do you expect him to be poor and have pride

Abeggi, if this case was reversed, most girls would run. Make d bros go for him class. no b only girls get class

Mercychen:
Are you yourself rich?
If you are, you won't bother asking this question.

Most rich couples you see today started small. They worked hard to get there. So stop thinking every one must be ready-made before they can get married.

Marrying from a middle class family doesn't guarantee a successful or happy marriage. Don't let your mum make such lifetime choices for you because you might live to regret it.

Marry the woman you love and rub minds with her as regards her familys liability placed on you and try to see how she can assist to relieve you of some of their burdens.

Finally, it's not a crime If God uses you to lift a family. However if it's telling badly on your finances, I'll advise you discuss with your sweet heart. She'll know how to stylishly tell her family to free you. Na normal thing. Her family will understand and adjust.

Love no easy to find o.

Can you marry a poor man?be sincere

Obaxxx:

Op, . You be full-time olodo......

But let's come to think of it...Are bannies not really brainless? . You said you can't visit a guy at his place,but you wanna meet him up at an eatery .

This op just reminded me of what one of my nigha did to a banny he was lashing..All of a sudden,she picked up a quarrel and was ignoring my friend..So we drew a map and decided to teach her a lesson that was similar to that of the op....We disguised and started calling her..the funny part was that she even went along with her friend . Na so my guy fool them to the extent that she started to rain insults on my guy..

You go like make ur sister visit person wey she just dey get to know for him house?

Babara1994:
So I was wooing this campus babe recently, I decided to see her one on one eventually. She told me she was going to meet me at one popular eatery instead of my place.

Having swallowed some redpills, I decided to teach her some lessons. I told her I'll be ready to buy her anything she orders for, and I'll be waiting inside the eatery.
She came this evening (8pm), all the way from her house, looking for me inside the eatery. Meanwhile I was at home eating my bread and butter.

When she got there, she told me she couldn't see me. I told her I was inside the next eatery, which was 150# from the first. Na so babe run go find me for that eatery.

When she could couldn't find me there, she became so angry and told me I had wasted her time before nko?

She went back home and sent series of VN to me, showing her anger. I then told her I had ordered for pizza and icecream already and I was waiting at the ATM area. Na so this babe carry okada dey find me

When she got there, I blocked her on WhatsApp immediately.

I'm currently on the next lady.

Her plan was to chop me, but I ended up chopping her money. Ladies, don't try to play smart with me. I'm a redpiller.

Guyman to guyman, you no get sense. How you want babe make she just come your house straight

Foodqueen:
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate.

yinmu

Stephen2324:
Stop crediting other people’s girlfriend help a guy man today

Then the guy man will help his gf

Munamoqel:
Please canada resident i need advice. I plant to liquidate my investments that generates 1m naira monthly to move to canada via study once my visa is granted. Is this a good move .u people have tested both expirence. I practical yarn to live in a normal sane society but I luv money making .

dont do it

Chuky7:
A female friend on mine said she burnt through 1m she's says Nigeria is expensive from houses data etc and that you have to keep spending she prefers the one time payments for services( i.e. in some cases)

i like this topic

siofra:
There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted.
Is it okay to tell him this?
Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?

Have u bin eating his money? if not you don’t need to stress urself with lies. But if u don dey chop him money, go n pay back

AmericanDad:
My girl of 5months who iv been dating and caring for and also giving 30k every 2weeks and even bought a phone worth 120k for during her birthday posted this on a bloggers comment section. I liked her both comments and she has been calling to talk to me but I have not picked her call. Pls folks should I listen to her pleas or move on. This is a girl that iv introduced to my dad as my babe and I'm eyeing her for marriage. I think am being used here....pls i need mature comments.

Note: Find attached her post...I circled her comment

leave miracle joor

JESHAL:
Women know deep down in their heart that it's very difficult for men to get sexual access, you can't compare a promiscuous man to a promiscuous woman, one is a hoe that nobody will respect, the other is respected for his feats, women must preserve their value ( sexuality), men must create their value ( success), a woman can get sexual access without any effort, men come to her, she picks who she wants, men Chase and rarely get, most settled for porn, masturbating or visiting cheap prostitutes

Don't compare the two

sup, u b analyst?

SportsHD:
I don't think it's bad. As usual, everyone has his or her preferences. I have a couple of nude pictures someone sent me as far back 2017. We're no longer together and the nude is still intact, I have no plans of leaking it or sorts. This thread sef just reminded me that I have it. I've forgotten about it. It's all about making memories.

so y u still keep am?

Jayzx:
Doctors in the house please I need help. Some colorless sticky discharge have been coming out of my pe***nis recently with right ball a little bit swollen. I have visited lab twice, they collected my urine and at the end they didn't detect anything. What should be the next step because I was actually thinking it is an STD

did u just go directly to a lab or a doc referred you there

Esseite:
Someone earns about 400k monthly which is suppose to be a very good salary, but his expenses despite frugal is not cutting it.. he has been advised on marriage countless times, but he does not just know how to support such. He tries to make people see reason as to why the "big boy tag" does not fit because he cant see it at all..

- his job prevents me from cooking and he really does not know how to cook either, really really bad at cooking.
- he stays in an apartment of 1m/annum, which is somewhat not luxury I think.

Rent - 84,000 monthly (average 2 bed)
Security - 5,000 monthly
Estate security - 3,000 monthly
Cleaner - 5,000 monthly
Dstv - 9,500 monthly
Auto Fueling - 50,000 monthly
Auto servicing - 7,000 (3mths projection)
Auto miscellenous/charges - 10,000 (tolls,pr)
Generator fuel/service - 30,000 monthly
Laundry - 10,000 monthly
Feeding - 77,500 (2,500/day)
Hangout/chills/network - 30,000 (7,500/week)
Clothing/wears/accessories - 10,000 (monthly)
Electricity bill - 10,000(monthly)
Gifts - 10,000(monthly- No wife/No GF)
Home maintenance/personal care- 10,000 (monthly)
Healthcare miscellenous - 5,000 (monthly)
Internet data - 10,000 (monthly)
Recharge card - 16,000 monthly (500 daily)

Total = N395,200
Savings - 7,800

How in the world would he explain to people that he does not have. He is an introverted character and a very frugal in finances. He didnt not factor in furnishing et all.. he has no school fees and multiple mouths to feed.

Him go dey pay 1mil a year ?na big boy joor

ThaThinka:
Big belle na good thing? Me no get na.

big belle na bad thing?

ThaThinka:
Sorry to bring this thread back from the dead. It's just about something I am trying to unravel right now.

I currently know a couple "single" ladies with this "issue," which they probably don't see as a problem. It's a turn-off of sort for me - plus the small b**bs (those aren't really turn-offs, though).

Sometimes, I find myself wondering if the big tummy is due to some medical condition, such as fibroids. It's just confusing to tell.

PS: OP, are you sure this is only a problem for Nigerian women?

una dey complain about women, Men nko?
or women no dey like good thing?

chimimi:
Hello..
Please I need an advice on how to treat stubborn typhoid!! I always feel okay one or two weeks after treatment and it comes back again whether I take tablets or injections. I hardly eat out. I wash my veg n fruits with salt and clean water.
I have visited hospital and spoken to a doctor several times but it's still the same thing. Their medicine was even worse, I react to it cipro and amoxil. I complained but nothing was done.
Please my fellow nairalanders, your advice is needed. I'm tired of spending money treating typhoid almost every month. What can I do?? Thanks

I used to be like you. I must fAll ill with typhoid monthly. This was on for years, I opened few threads here to seek solutions but all na yimu. Until i went to Luth. My major symptom was stomach pain, fever. A young doc there told me that what was doing me wasn’t typhoid. That most of these widal test would show typhoid but it’s not a good test for it. With time, I’ve realized it was not typhoid but stomach issh

Samstrange44:
Please I need urgent answers..I recently received a Bj from my Gf without protection am scared of getting an Infection pls what should I do..

�����I understand this feeling. Oga you can’t get it, especially you being the receiver.But don’t google ooo

DDDEnterprises:
Women don suffer for this world. Just imagine the comments above; most of them making impressions that are directed towards the idea that the woman should shun her own desires and will and yield to those of the husband. A marriage where compromise and inclusive arrangement cannot be reached, which will give both parties the chance to pursue their interests and fulfil their individual, distinct desires in the home, is that one marriage or subtle slavery?

Someone was even saying she should be prayerful he doesn't find someone interested in the sport? Does that not apply to the man too?

Should he also not be careful and prayerful that the freedom and joy he's depriving his wife of in the home, she gets it somewhere else and someone snatches her from him?

What's so special about him that should make the wife fearful of losing him and doesn't apply to her too?

It's quite saddening this exaggerated sense of authority many men possess in today's world.

But little worries do we have though, after coming to know of the coming of The Unity.

In the New Era, The Unity will orchestrate a turn of events and soon enough, women will start getting the respect they deserve. Men will be forced to bow to the right orientation and consciousness and a society that respects women's desires and wishes and grants them the chance to satisfy them in an honourable manner will be fashioned!

Humanity must learn the lessons of the true and upright ways to live. That time is nigh!!!

And we await your coming, our dear Unity!

Abi she has a job. Let her buy the Tv

Frank2021:
Good morning guys please I want to ask a question o ? I was having MouthAction with my girlfriend at night as I was sucking her pussy I didn't know when I suck her anus too and she was enjoying it. It was when I discovered there is hole up I noticed I was sucking the anus all the while she beg me to continue I was so disgust for doing that although she took her bath before the sucking I was scared I might get infection of anus. Please is it likely to be infected by it?

lol, are you scared of sucking entirely or just the anus? cus u can also get infected from d vagina too

naijaoil:
Hello Nairalanders, Please i need advise from experienced and regular international travellers on situations of things when one arrive at Murtala International Airport. I have been away for few years and am just coming back to Naija for the first time. I have families and friends in Naija but i dont want to announce my coming home to them. Kindly let me know from the moment of unboarding from a plane:
* What to do
* What not to do
* What to avoid
* Where to change Money to Naira
* How to get taxi/uber to Allen Avenue and the likely cost

Thanks so much as i await your responses.

Abeg when you reach, tell me how e dey go. mke i plan

Peterpisco:
Pls help me, people that have already been in this kind of situation, I really need time for myself and I can't find it here... My elder brother do leave the shop for me to manage and that makes me not to have time for myself, even on Sunday..pls I need help,that's if I should tell him my mind (which is leaving here) or I should just stay and watch him leave the business for me totally which is wat I don't want

If you leave, do you have another thing to do?

Franzinni:
Do not marry a man educationally below you ... as a woman, it will always ...ALWAYS end bad !

A man's Identy is strongly tied with his ego. And a woman's identity is strongly tied to attention ...

The fact that the man is below her will automatically take some of the attention e.g. ojuaye. Off from her and then resentment creeps in mostly unsuspecting.

The next thing you as a woman will be using it as a tool to shame him and it will hit his ego the wrong way next thi've you both can't stand each other .. Next thing your ex is sliding in your dm and you can't wait to see em.

Marriage la mort! Se fini!

so a woman with an Msc should not marry a man with a Bsc? una funny