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sapphiere:
The lady did not breach anything. She just taught him a lesson. What is the proof that the money sent was meant for her transport to go see him? What if the lady tells court that he gifted her the money?

If this was a case where a man slept with an olosho but him no pay, you wouldn’t say this. My dear go and read the meaning of an agreement

sapphiere:
Scam him how? Why should a lady who is not your wife visit you in your house? To do what exactly? What happens to meeting at an eatery?

Then she shouldn’t have agreed to come or collect the money. it’s as simple as that. This is a clear case of fraud

DECENCY3:
This actually brought tears to my eyes.

How I come about this deadly disease is what I can't figure out.

Because of the dearth of Radiotherapy machine and high cost of treatment, I opted for cutting off one of my breast ( not easy emotionally).

Where do I get #800,000 for chemotherapy treatment?

Why shouldn't I just get myself off this world instead of watching myself die gradually in pains? But if I die, who will take care of my little kids and my aged mother? And if I live how do I face the pains?

All efforts and entreaty I've made, yielded no positive result. Couldn't even blame anyone the economy is so hard. But if I die, at least I'll be buried and I'll find peace and rest.

Oh God! Please use my tears, prayers and faith and the innocency of my kids to give me solution or give me a quick rest in....

Sorry all, I needed to pour out my emotions.

Please if the bills too much on you, show proof online. You can go to twitter and beg people to retweet. Helpers would come if you have proof.

mfm04622:
It is because it is expensive it is not covered. However, many insurance companies offer health insurance and they offer packages that cover cancer treatment

it’s because it is expensive and that’s why it should be covered. So wetin them wan cover? Malaria and typhoid?

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Anoymus4u:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I don't know if I should ever trust my soon to be wifey. I proposed to this lady last month during the festive period, although I have seen a one or two red flags but I decided to ignore them and forge on because I felt every one had their own shortcomings. Including me.

One of them was, I read her whatsapp chat where she told about 4 guys that was wooing her that she doesn't want to accept to date any of them because she doesn't want to be in any relationship and she likes being single and she wouldn't mind having them as friends. It was a tale of mixed feelings for me cos I was furious with her telling those guys she was single and won't mind keeping them as friends when she was very much in a relationship with me. Why not tell them that you are already in a relationship? I was glad she didn't accept to date any of them. I went ahead to propose to also assure her that I'm here to stay and not wasting her time.

Second was that she had so many exes. She chats with them freely, and wants to hook up with them at any point. She's very vulnerable to compliments. All the chats I saw with her exes, they already know her weak point. Once they start complimenting her beauty, her features and the rest , she will to hear more and more and more. From there they would initiate a meeting. Your guess is good as mine.

When confronted, she begged and begged and promised that there was nothing between them blah blah blah. I chose to forgive her and let go.

Out of my curiosity, I decided to clone her whatsapp at least to get to track her and to know if truly changed because the wedding is coming up this EASTER. I don't want to make a life long mistake.

We had a little issh this weekend, she had to find solace with her ex. She started painting me wrong to her ex, saying that I don't appreciate her, and that she could have chose the ex instead of me. Her ex started persuading her and start complimenting her. Before I knew what was happening. The guy start sending romantic pictures and sex videos, telling her he wish he was there he could have used sex to ease her pain. She also responded by sending sex stickers back to her ex.

They have fixed appointments by Friday evening 4th Feb. They are to meet at a bar/lounge. From there, they would surely want to make out. But it wasn't stated in her chat with the guy.

I don't know what to do at this point. Should I confront before the D-day tomorrow or watch as things unfold? I love this girl and practically done the best I could for her. If she eventually goes out with this her ex. That's the deal breaker right there. She's a gooner.

Also should I be worried because of her vulnerability? She likes to be complimented. I give her tons of it, maybe she enjoys outsiders the most I don't just know. Won't this be a problem if all this storm is over and I decide to marry her? A little compliment she's hooked. I could go on and on.

Just trace them, watch how today goes. Don’t interfare. Just video them so you would have proof. But bro, free that girl. The ex go knack am. e sure for me

lagdmark:
Good day good people!
Please i need urgent advice from experienced ladies and gentlemen in the house.
My girlfriend only treat me with love and understanding when i upgrade her financially standards, or she scolded me harshly when i don't.
I met her when i visited Lagos 5 years ago and two months later after my departure she broke the news of her pregnancy. To make tory short, I accepted the pregnancy and started sending her 100k monthly upkeep after the child birth.
I also rented a flat for her and the baby with all bills paid just to move her away from her family palaver. After my boy's 3 years birthday i increased her monthly maintenance to #160k because of nursery school.
Frankly, her beauty was appealing, i didn't ask for much, but I wanted her to take good care of the baby.
I was always honest in the relationship, so i didn't promise her marriage.

Our Wahala started after my boy became 5 years, she wanted me to upgrade to 250k monthly upkeep for her and the baby which I refused. For the fact that I paid the house rent, school fees and utility bills separately. She went crazy reported me to my family members that I'm a stingy man that I don't know how difficult cost of living is in Nigeria.
Perhaps i feel i was just brainwashed in our relationship because of her beauty.
Should i upgrade her or ignore it, i want my boy to be well taking care of in Nigeria.

What is she contributing to take care of her son too? bro she just dey use you cash out. Pay your sons fees directly. Give her 50k monthly make she bring the rest. Training pikin na two way job. Na u even stress go rent house for person you never marry. She dey use you do yahoo

membranus:
Since you are still living in the village where dey born you, who go come hate you for your skin color?

Lol. Find who your problem dey with

mamaafrik:
Kindly advise on this,He saw the pictures attached below on his girlfriend WhatsApp status and felt ruffled.
He has been disturbed since he saw the caption on her WhatsApp status and need an advice .

oga na you

I have never experienced Racism where I am

BonPatrick:
I just feel like dying now the girl I love so much in anambra we have dated for 3 years but of recently I notice that another guy might be sleeping with her since we are not close. I am in Nsukka, I have feeling that she is cheating how can she call me and told me she is going to plug her phone that I should not call till evening. I smell some lies maybe she is going to a guys house and don't want to see my call. What should I do

my guy dem dey bang her like ds

musicproducer:
den marry her

so that it will b difficult for her to sleep with another guy when u are far away

una dey think say marriage would stop a cheat. lol
A cheat will always be a cheat

NoToPile:
Not necessarily @ bolded she was most likely trying to be very sure she was AA ( Knowing how often these mistakes happen ) because she knows her fiancee is AS to avoid stuffs like this.


Its simple if you want to marry an AS, its common sense to confirm, confirm and reconfirm your AA status.

twice is enough. 7 times is fishy

Preshieben:
this is 2021
And you're still broke?
Wonders

ahhhh you dey time am?

Olunmercy56:
Please stay with them for now, they need you now unless you are of marriagable age. You can employ a nanny for them, don't live far from them, be checking them weekly. Don't let anyone distract you from taking care of your parents, they are our small gods

lol so make him no leave him life? Op abeg tell them to get a teenage child from the village. You guys should train the child in school, In turn the child takes care of them. Buy phone for the child

Baldwretch:
Getting used to it is an understatement. I am moving out to avoid this unpleasant experience and condition. In fact, I told her that she's NOT going to know my new place of abode. We may live in the same state and that's if I still decide to remain in the same state.

Its fine. I mean if this is the only character she exhibits then na normal. but if she has other bad characters, lol

Emmanueladegoke:

it’s your problem

Stealthassasin:
I'm a guy
I'm only only attracted to women , I find it irritating to see men attracted to men , never in my life have i been attracted to a guy b4 and it won't even happen in future, i watch all sort of porn. Each time i masturbate sometimes i love having anal sitmulation with my self. This i'm really confuse right now about my sexuality.

Nothing is wrong with you. The males center of gravity is at the back. Read about it

Baldwretch:
I was living rent free in my father's purchased house when she called me to come over. I didn't have to pay for anything in my dad's house where I live.

Lol bro, seems you just wanna avoid bills. The reality is you just need to start getting used to doing things with money. You’re an adult and at some point you’d stay alone. Try to get used to it

MickzyDonald:
Wait if shes the one feeding you and you are still staying with her that isn't much, considering you are paying house rent and you are eating outside everyday then calculate that for 30 days But you probably need to also save up, so the money might not be on that same level always

exactly my thoughts

Baldwretch:
Hmm, 5k? Did your mom live with your dad?

Na my papa dey pay rent. See just imagine that you stay alone or stay with a friend. You dey look am like this because say na your mom. Once you’re above a certain age, see it like your parents are doing you a favour by allowing you stay with them. If you stayed alone or with someone, you’d save a portion of your income for rent, and other bills. You’d also eat from that money. Staying with your mom just subsidize these things. Just remove the entitlement mentality and you’d understand what I am saying. When know things hard na why most of us still dey parents house at certain age but you also have to help.

OGWILLS123:
If we say now nigerian girl's her useless, you people will be ranting nonsense. Just take a good look at the level of entitlement mentality the op mom is having . Op if you can, dump that demanding b*tch called "your mom" , after all you owe no one anything in this life . Bottom line: Any nigerian being that have hole in between is two legs is useless

point of correction, you owe only your parents something in this life. You don’t owe any other person.

Baldwretch:
whom you live with.

I live with my mom. Late 20s.

If you were in my shoes and you earn 40k, 3k transport, eat only once, sometimes you would not eat for four straight days.

You earn on the web but it is not consistent. Sometimes $50 in three months and sometimes nothing sef.

If you were in my shoes, how much would you give your mom who is divorced and whom you live with. She sells provision.

If you eat therr and don’t pay rent, it’s right for you to drop something monthly. Not only that, if things finish for house, you can buy without looking at anyone’s face. This shows sign of responsibility because if you were on your own, you’d spend more than that. I used to stay with my mom until almost 2 years ago when i left.Then I earned 35k but gave her 5k monnthly. I planned myself around 30k every month.It just depicts responsibility

Them donr ban am before, e no work

IntersexSherry:
Please women, let men never dictate your life for you. Most are assholes.

I admit some of them are really good and sensible, others are just into big Breast and vagina, big ass. Totally no respect for women. They only see women as a sex object to satisfy their lustful desire.

You think they care about you? Say all those complimentary words, buy you all those gifts just to take you to bed.. Then you see them laughing at you.

I have said it, the energy we women have inside of us is ten times stronger than the energy men have inside of them so lets focus on this our energy and forget these stupid men.. They are not worth it.

Except you enjoy being used and heartbroken. Some are really good, if you are lucky enough to find the good ones, grab him!!

And they can never help you without asking for sex in return. Just imagine. Very heartless creatures.

Women put themselves in this position everyday. Go to instagram, all they do is talk about how a man should dash money.

prince2pac:
As someone who has never fallen in love, nope

Lemme tell you something, love sometimes fades you know.

prince2pac:


Lawd, uncle she is/has fallen out of love for you..


Now take some step backwards, retrace your steps, what could have gone wrong?

If nothing, then you need to build back that love, the romance, take her out, make her smile, movies, plays, just try to see if you can build back that spark...


Good morning

forget these ones. Shey person no dey tire?

Mikester:
Finish school at 21 and getting married at 25? Enjoy life a bit longer my friend. Even if you're financially buoyant as a guy, I would advise you don't jump into marriage too soon. There's a lot to enjoy as a single man. Enjoy it while you can.

Personally, I intend to enjoy my life and explore the explorables. Then when I'm 35 and had my fun, I would find a decent lady from ages 18-24 to settle down with.

E be like you dey read my mind. I’m currently 27 and not stressing about it. Na 34-35 i wan marry. Then marry girl of 20-25