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Handsomejok:
I am not willing to give her away to a stranger outside the country. I will rather send her to a motherless home until her mother will be available to pick her up because her mother is alive she is just nowhere to be found and I can't make the decision on her behalf. Also my family has nothing to do with my downfall because I was doing well for 7 years before I got married everything was fine and if truly the bad luck was from my family then my business would have not been successful for that long.

Handsomejok:
I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old. After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me. After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch

Emarvel:
I mean not to insult you buh keep quiet, drop your pen and think well before you write again.
His parents are not dragging the property with him, unless the OP is schooling abroad, there's really no point why he should be furious about this.
Even if you give birth to 20 children abroad, none of them will come here and drag the property.
Living abroad and having a house in Naija, is just like saving for the rainy day, should incase you're deported, you'll have a place to stay.
Buh other than that, if you live all your good life abroad, none of your children abroad will come to Naija and drag property.
Logically, it makes no sense, having a house and your parents are in rent.

mastermaestro:
People like you will always be helpless and stranded in your greatest moments of needs. I am not in anyway cursing you though. You are advising him to uproot his parents and send them back to a rented apartment when there is a free empty house?

DWJOBScom:
it's tough when they have settled to ask them to leave the house - trust me.

It's best right now before it becomes tough. I have seen brothers reluctant to leave a house they were squatting o pending the return of the owner.

It's best they go back to the rented apartment immediately

Kehindeaj78:
I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?

Hardeysolution:
You've done quite well.

I'll like to say a few things before I comment on the major thing.

1. People don't go to hell fire because of what you think. It's because they have refused to accept Jesus Christ. If you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and saviour, then he will direct your steps into what or what not to do.

2. God is not a barbaric God that throws people into hell like some goddess or stuffs. It doesn't work that way. I think it's important we all have encounter of the person of God so we don't remain shallow.

3. There's something knowing God does for us. It's not about going to church primarily. It just makes us want to please God. And this is not a religious running about - it is a life. So if it hasn't happened to you, even though you go to church - and you don't know God - it's just jamboree.

Now to the topic itself,

The lady preaching to you didn't come to ask you to leave where you're going to eat. She's only inviting you to church. She's inviting you to ensure you receive from God.

Now this is important - it's not about church but about your heart.

Now I need to ask,

Why do you think you sold better today and then felt the sister was about to do you a bar thing? Did you know read that your God is the God of the times and seasons.

I see few things,

1. Lack of trust in the God you claim to know.
2. Lack of understanding of the God you claim to serve
3. Shallow knowledge in the things of God
4. Christianity to you isn't about God but about the things you can get from God

Now this is the summary,

Whether you get to sell better or not, you have only decided to show your love for what you want. If you trust God, whether now or later, you'll seek him - not just in church but everywhere.

Just imagine, your friends have a party to attend, or your parent called for a meeting that's emergency or there's a match or a movie... You would probably have missed the sales too and truthfully, you're not always at seat for sales so you have missed several hot moment for sales.

God is the one that owns times and chances. Trust him and when to eat or not, when to move or not becomes easy and it won't cost you anything to leave your trade for him.

Look at the Muslims, they can't say the same thing you've come hear to say. Whatever it is, they leave it to pray.

Selah

Bighead9:
The first was an error from my side. But for the bolded part. Oyinbo security agents do. They hunt them down daily. That's why those guys deviced this means of impersonating Peaceful Yoruba, HAUSA or FULANI. They learn how to speak any of these languages by fire by force

fergie0o1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6779950/defence-minister-general-bashir-magashi-gun#106321471


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjFCJC20S9Y



HQNigerian Army

chival:
Fridge and refrigerator are the same thing. Did you mean to write freezer?

Omicron007:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I bought one small sized apple the other day for Two Hundred Naira.
After consuming the fruit, I began to reminisce on how I have planted apple seeds as a young kid and watered them every time. Sadly, none of the seeds I planted was able to germinate.

Growing up, I once heard that Apples cannot grow in Nigeria because the land is not fertile enough.

So, does apple really grow in this country?
Have you seen an apple tree?

Litmus:
At work here is another example of the entitled, immature political brain of too many Nigerians that is without sense or perspective. Misunderstanding international politics and social movements that encompass human rights, this type of annoying Nigerian believes the world is sympatric to his cause, which is in reality not a special cause. I bet he was telling himself before he struck the Nigeria Government Official , ‘this is the West, and not Nigeria, where you people act “Big Man, Big Man”, here in the west I can do you anything and you cant touch me because I’m protected by the law !’. He then proceeded and slapped the Official. What he forgot, however, was that in the West the law is meant to protect everyone. In the West, unlike in Nigeria, the poor or ordinary people are not automatically granted moral authority due to societal guilt at not being able to provide, create jobs or grant security for the so-called poor masses. Government is not frightened by the prospect of you running to complain to the West, you’re already in the West. And in that West, just as the “Big Man” is not above the law by virtue of his wealth, the poor man is not above the law either by virtue of his poverty. For slapping the minister, he can expect arrest, prosecution and penalty, should the Official press charges.

kazyhm:
If women are agitating against men bathing their daughters....I think the op's wife should stop kissing her son in the mouth.

ultraviolet27:
. But what u Googled out implies Mothers kiss their Babies on the Fore Head na not the Lips even d Picture showed the Mum kissing Her Baby on the Forehead or How will kissing a Barbie's Lips Protect His/,Her immunity?

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

omooba969:
Unless one of them specifically states that they want out, I will favour 'meaningful engagement' on the problems over temporary separation.

Amhappy:
If you divorce na who go come take care of the children? Start from no more church except Sundays. Call the elders if necessary. Stamp your feet down

omooba969:
With the prescription of separation, both will definitely feel differently about their marriage.

It's helpful to engage husband and wife in talking about their problems rather than trying to run away from their shadows...in the guise of temporary separation.

Kobojunkie:
Have you considered sending your kids away to your parents or hers so you two can talk adult to adult about things?

Her objection to the hiring of a maid, her church schedule...something is hidden that needs to be revealed..

omooba969:
@bolded, is often a recipe for disaster coz as interim separation helps to figure out if we indeed love/miss our partner, it also has the tendency to create a vacuum; providing us with the chance to ponder better on reasons we don't need our partners again.

Very dicey!

neonly:
On d contrary I have ask her if she tired abt d relationship and she said no with a smile on her face I can never forget d evening dat was one of d reason dat gave me hope abt us

neonly:
D Gods must have reveal dis to u
I swear any time am out of Lagos
I come back looking heather fresher happier
But before u know again depression come it and I being to loose weight
Dat not even d issue I can sacrifice anything to my family happiness but dis days is getting worst as if she know my weak point

neonly:
From 5yrs to 15yrs
Me am a contractor travelling Na my hubby sometimes I can stay at home for days
Wife is teacher in private school goes to work from 7 till 5 or 6
Saturday say she want to go to event in church most time
Sunday goes to church from 8 till 2 in d afternoon
So u see nothing to hide

neonly:
Any man dat snoops around her wife wan die quickly be dat honestly I don't do dat I don't even have d time
me dat my hands are full both at work and home
I talk have to my people were going to her people place at inyanpaja tommorow dat if u stay in Lagos u will know der
Thanks sha I know u are marriage may yur own marriage never turn south like u said earlier

mybiz234:
Abeg waka