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Action man! he hardly talks, but he's always doing!.
Na this kain people I dey like emulate.

Tenshades:
No, don't it get twisted.

We love ladies.

It's just that we're trying to educate ourselves on how not to be fools in the society because we love you guys.

Not all ladies are manipulative but majority are trained to manipulate men to get what they want.

The 'RED PILL' is just to open EYES.

It's a man's world but it would be nothing without a woman or a girl ~ JAMES BROWN

Look bruh, live anyhow you wanna live. And let the ladies live as they please. That's just it. As you're educating yourselves from not being manipulated, so are the ladies. Do you know how many women that are being emotionally manipulated as we speak?
And no, it's nobody's world. Everyone owns their world.

Which girls again?

Doortun:
True Redpill is not about hating women. It's about understanding and being immuned to manipulation from women and society at large.

The red pill I see here and the one I've witnessed, says otherwise. It is toxic masculinity.

And I'm not against whatever you all believe in, as long as you allow others to believe in whatever they want to believe in too.

Nonexistent1:
You said he is not financially stable but here you are doubting his role in your life because he didn't give you money. You see why I call Nigerian girls parasites. The bobo is probably drinking garri and struggling but you are here saying nonsense. I pity men that fall in nonsense love these days.

Look at them and their double standards crawling out. Assuming the guy was the person that lost all, and the lady is still financially okay, the gospel would've been to help him, build with him, suffer with him and all the nonsense y'all say.

Ndi ala

First of all, why are you with him? Is it love? Infatuation? Lust? His personality? The sex? or the money?

Answer this question and I'll tell you what to do.

No one created anyone to be a particular thing. Society made it so, and it is left for you to decide how you'll live your life. It is solely your choice.

If you decide to be a hateful creature towards another human because that's what society says, then it is all left for you.

But never contradict nor try to decide how another person lives theirs.

This ones life revolve around sex.

Snaagg:
In that case,
don't cry wolf the next time you slap a dude and get an uppercut in run.
don't expect xmas bone straight from ur bf, only to give singlet and boxers in return
dont request for urgent 2k because to feel entitled because of a pucci you are sharing with your bf and three other dudes.

We gladly take our chivalry back!

Seeetheart, stop dating clueless girls. That's the only reason you'll think every girl reasons like the girls around you.

olanipekun65561:
We are all different forks with different ideas, I might tell you after our first date, another will tell you after one year, meeting a bae parents depends on individuals and luck too.

Different fork ko, different spoon ni

CuteMike01:
Don't be delusional

Take that chivalry and shove it up your ass.

Transformation begins with nobody.
Y'all men always make everything about you.

If a woman wants to be a better person for herself, I don't think she needs the permission of any person or to wait for anyone to be better first.

If you men like, continue misbehaving thinking the world revolves around you, no. It doesn't.

If only women could see that life isn't all about getting a rich man or being swept off your feet by a rich prince. There's more to life as a human.

Broke people think everyone is broke like them.

They believe that everyone is going through misery just like them. So it baffles them to see someone planning on settling down.

The question ringing in their heads is "how is this person financially ready for such"?

They'll start comparing their wretched lives to that of the person, thinking everyone is as wretched as them.

Block button should really be introduced on this forum. That insignificant object up there that keeps mentioning me needs to be blocked.

AmazonTopaz:
You are very correct.I keep hearing men are this that men are egoistical lol some of these men have not met women.Many women have ego/pride but just keep it under wraps because of society and religious beliefs ego is not a gender thing at all.

Sweetheart screw society. By the time you stand tall and show them you're better, society itself will respect you.

Authority1o1:
Okay...




Now you are talking. It is only better to make admittance for your help to be issued. Females are at the receiving point when it comes to violence—domestic violence.

Gender is something nature has enforced which cannot be changed.Are you burnt out already? Aren't you going to make your numerous quotes and talks that suggest that women and men are equal?

Come on Amanda.

Men are egoistical and self-aware creatures. They are drunk with pride and self. If you keep on demanding equality, you are passing the wrong signal that the canal radars of these beings would pick up and act upon because they want to prove a point.

Just do your thing as a woman, no competition, no limits. And of course no incitements.

And about the topic, I do have a personal conviction that a man should not mete violence on a woman. It's degrading. Totally degrading.

Men were raised to believe they're superior than women. The day y'all begin to realize that everyone is the same, the better for y'all.
Egoistical my ass. Hello, have you met me? Your ego is nothing compared to mine!
Boy sit down!

Lol. You want to be adopted? And why painting your parents bad? You don't know the battles they're fighting too. It's never juicy anywhere. Have patient with them, manage with the little they're giving you. With time, all these will be over.

Remember the devil you know is better than the angel you do not know.

You don't know the plans the person who'll adopt you at your age has for you.
Could be a ritualist, a rapist, or even a child trafficker.

Relax, it'll be all over soon.

Hmm. You're still too young for this kind of pressure on yourself. And judging from your replies, you are introverted and haven't been with lots of women. Enjoy yourself for now, have a fulfilled youth. Don't be In a rush, as you're obviously not financially ready to be buying diapers, baby's food and paying school fees.

Take your time, in the next 3 or 4 years, you'd be ready.

Remember ladies, never live a fake life. Always be yourself. If you work hard very well, you can get every thing you want, and more.

I blame women that give a shît about y'all useless opinions . No matter how a woman decides to act, she'll never please y'all miserable lot. I'll advise any woman reading this to be yourself unapologetically, and never bother about what anyone thinks or says about you.

That gender isn't any better than you. So be you, honey.

Hmmm

Remijuice:
You no get forgiving spirit??


I dey fear all these girls wey get the same height with 50kg cylinder...

Forgiving spirit kill una there. As if, if na the girl una go forgive.

Narcissist men are toxic males. And any woman that likes such a person needs a psychological and mental evaluation.

lmaoooooooo. This one na real alpha female oo ����.

Remijuice:
In Marriage or girlfriend and boyfriend things??

In boyfriend things. In marriage, I'll divorce you asap. Time no dey.

Remijuice:
In Marriage or girlfriend and boyfriend things??

In my boyfriend things. In marriage, I'll divorce you asap. Time no dey.

Congratulations, now use it and go cash out in the bank.

Hehe hehe na today? my dear live your life as you please. If they cheat, cheat back. No let any body give you high bp for this life.

This is why advice everyone fend for themselves. To avoid, after all I've done for you. Or what will you give me in return.

Bobmaintain:
Is there any particular go-to thing that you use in keeping your mind busy when (a) heartbreak(s) occur(s)?

I just told you. Thinking about things I need to achieve

Bobmaintain:
Hmm...we can always forgive, but we can hardly forget coz every single thing, no matter how minute, is ingrained in our memory.

Anyway, how do you handle the flashbacks when they come? What's your coping mechanism?

By getting my mind busy. Thinking about all the great things I want to achieve in life. By so doing, whatever that's troubling my mind will be bygone.

The problem isn't the heartbreak, the problem is the flashbacks.