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SweetBuns:
What exactly is the point of all these write-ups?

This is simply a time wasting activity and I don't see what any sane man would benefit from this

Sheesh... You guys should find something doing that'd be useful to society. Not all this crapp

They stay up all day and night obsessing over women and their bodies. Very pathetic

BigBellyBurst:
There are 7 billion people in the world. Shove it up ur smelly ass for all I fvcking care.

Lmao you sound like a pregnant woman. Lmfaooooooo

Nice thread. Especially that emotion part.

Most women are emotionally weak, and it's very pathetic. You'll see them begging a man or crying for a man that treats them like trash. Very pathetic!

And why are you afraid of loneliness? Thousands and millions of men out there you can get for free and you are afraid of being lonely? Dafuq? Go get a cat or something if you're tired of humans.

He provides for you? Are you handicapped or bedridden? Learn a skill or something and be financially stable.

Which people? Are people you? Or do they control your life? Why should people's idea or notion of you worry you? People will definitely talk regardless of what you're doing in life. Whether good or bad. So do you.

You lost her because of your ego.

I pray she's moved on and forgotten that you ever existed.

This will make a gullible girl fall for you, and when she does, you're finished.

onyxo76:
an idea of what she is really up to? she claims that she is happy with her marriage but i think otherwise there is something she is hiding from me...

Oga leave married woman alone. Smh.

I don't think I just see people and start telling them anything about me. Lol. I even try to be on my own to avoid that closeness or "secret-spilling."

So what do you want?? A go-ahead order from Nairalanders to go and cheat in peace or what?

BigBellyBurst:
Of course u don't care...

Since when did u lots care about others other than urselves??

Selfish things.

Lmao, so I should be bothered because you want me to bothered? Boy bye. Lol

xrayj:
No one can do it alone!
We all need help at some point in our lives!
Pray u do not find yourself in that position!

Yeah right. Y'all are full of yourselves, I'll rather not.

BigBellyBurst:
Your wasting ur time. Many ladies out there won't even give u a listening ear if u tell them this. The environment, society, economy and greed have turned lots of women into sex clowns.

And men ain't ruthless.

We shall see

BigBellyBurst:
When ur a good guy, ur weak
When ur a bad guy, ur an asshole or "ruthless".
According to Shortyy

Confused people.

When did you and I discuss that?

Bruh you can be whatever you want, I do not care. As long you allow me to be whatever I want.

BigBellyBurst:
When u people have decided to sell ur bodies, who will take y'all serious?

Every corner and crevice of this country is swarming with hoes. And see what ur here yapping.

What I'm "yapping" is why women should stop reducing themselves to absolutely nothing and be in charge of their lives.

Read before jumping into conclusions.

Mrscarter:
Still not reason to pull a knife on somebody

That op will do worse. Men are emotional blackmailers. Who knows what he's done to the girl? He's not telling the full story. So I have no pity for him.

Ardar:
I don't blame the babe for placing her friend high above you.

Never let any useless mail come between you and your babe, they're not worth it.

Atta girl

Lmao nairaland toxic men won't like this at all.

Congratulations my niggarr.

CuteMike01:
Educating the public on crucial truths for the possibility of a better relationship. You're welcome

And I'm telling you, you wrote a bunch of baloney.

Sixfeetbelle:
You can still be taken advantage of, even on top knowing all your worth. But that is not my question.

The point is when you know your worth, and set a high standard for yourself, you'll hardly be taken for a ride. Even when it happens, the law will back you up, because they know your standard.

Now to your question, I already modified my post. Nigerian men are ruthless, and the only way to match their ruthlessness is setting a high standard for yourself.

Nothing can be done because to them a woman is nothing but an object of satisfaction. It is left for you to change that narrative.

CuteMike01:
Fact no 23. Whatever you do, good or bad, women will always have something negative to say!

And what good did you do?

You know what? I've given up on this topic.

If only women can respect themselves, set high standards for themselves, tell me how they'll be treated like trash, and taken advantage of?

When you know your worth and your standards, you'll not be taken for granted and mistreated.

And just so you know, Nigerian men know nothing about consent. They're toxic, rude, and disrespectful.

They believe women are toys and objects of satisfaction.

Women should either stay on their own or continue to be subjected to this perpetual suffering by Nigerian men.

You seized her phone and you want her to rejoice and lick your feet abi?

And she's even begging sef. Nonsense.

I'd be the one to dump your toxic ass.

You had to put successful women on this crap.

purples25:
Thanks so much for this nice contribution. Much love sister .


Wow, you have a book now? Can't wait till its out! I love the fact that you are helping to empower women. That's just so nice of you.

Yeah, it's not out yet. Still on it.

This is a very nice topic you've brought up sweetheart, and I'm working on it. I just pray they'll read and put it into action.

A woman who thinks she's weak because society has labeled her so will continue to be mistreated and disrespected by men.

Before you'll gain your respect as a woman, you need to prove to society that you're not weak, and your life does not revolve around men.

You can only control your emotions if you set your standards. Not the standard from society or men, but your own.

And being financially dependent.


Okay, I've said too much already. My book will soon be out.

humilitypays:
women cannot help themselves without the help of men, sadly

Aww, your poor sisters. It's a pity tho.

BigJoe19:
Lol, just continue selling your pepper and tomatoes in the market, it's still early and you need customers to buy it so you can eat this morning.

At least that pepper and tomatoes business put you through school. Be grateful boy!

Unrated900:
Good me want to help you dm

Help yourself first.

BigJoe19:
Lol, says a girl that her ex bf bought her phone she uses to type nonsense on Nairaland.

Hey, ex-boyfriend, after paying your university tuition, giving you a job in my company, literally rescuing you from poverty. A thank you gift shouldn't be a reason to be whyinig like a horse all over this forum.

Women should stop looking for men to help them. Help yourselves.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
His personality , that's what attracted me to him

What kind of person is he? Describe his personality to me.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
His personality , that's what attracted me to him

What kind of person is he? Describe him to me.

banmee:
You better re arrange your priorities about who you admire.

Okay dad.