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i have problem spending money

i spend too much and have very little control

he saves EVERYTHING - and doesn't spend much at all

we are like night and day

we have agreed that he will control the finances because we will be broke if I am in charge

my fear is that when i want to spend and shop - how do I get him to release money so I can splurge every now and then?

fstranger3:
Oh such a coward!

Thats why you refused to answer the other day. Anyway, I was in Indiana over the weekend, and I thought of coming to say hi to you. Hope you are doing great sha.

When next you are in Chi-Town, make sure you drop by ok?

I know, I know, I know.  I cringe everytime I think about it.  Also I knew you were going to yell at me - so I just couldn't answer you and tell you.  Because I knew I would be in trouble with you - because I talk so bold, but I am a cowardly lion sometimes.  

Where are you in Chi-Town - it is only about an hour and a half from here.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=621913.msg7904908#msg7904908 date=1300060539]You said to cucumber that and I responded by what I said. If that makes me ignorance because you didn't detect the sarcasm oh well.[/quote]yeah - ok

I pushed Lagos to a future date

He was not happy at all - but he loved me anyway - it took him some days to adjust - I love that guy. I have to make sure that I am ready for this, I fear it and am afraid so I pushed it forward - this summer - June or July.

fstranger3:
SHy-One: Did you like Lagos?

Are you still there?

I am ashamed of myself

I turned coward

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=621913.msg7904885#msg7904885 date=1300060315]I did not say that you didn't have the right to mention about dicks at all and if you feel that I am picking on you because I am commenting without mentioning your name then you can place me on ignore.

Just because people do not want short men does not make them ignorant and not everybody use cucumbers to get off either.

Top heavy means I have big bosoms.[/quote]what

ignorance is thy name

Also

Shy-one didn't say short guys have big dicks

Shy-one said height doesn't influence dick size

because

there are definitely Short Men who have big dicks and those men aren't hard to find and they are not few in number EITHER as you seem to insinuate - because you haven't found them - doesn't mean they don't exist and/or are hard to find.

I am offended by your reference to short men as you are aware that I am definitely dating one. You are stereotyping and your stereotypical comments and jesting are incorrect and offensive.

you are top and bottom heavy?

you have a big head and a big azz?

Chima - actually - you had already responded to that person because I was responding to that person as well - you don't have to catch me up with the thread - I wasn't responding to you, I was responding to him and basically agreeing with him.

I mentioned the dick and had every right to mention the dick since ignorance seemed to be running loose and free regarding men who stand under 5'9 - that is why I stressed the dick - some ignorant writers on NL seem to act like they know everything and I want to set the record straight - don't equate height with size of dick.

cucumber that!!

@ Cork

I absolutely do not look like Mrs. Chima and I am definitely not on a diet

I love working out and enjoy it daily.

quote by Mrs. Chima

There is a difference between telling someone who they should date or accept AND sharing personal experiences. Let not confuse the two.

People seems to be sharing personal experiences and TELLING people who they should accept and disregard.

My issue is not people sharing personal experiences about short men or women they have dated or whatever. My issue is people telling others what THEY FEEL people should do or accept. All short people are not the SAME and not all tall people are not the SAME.

Just because you had this person in the past doesn't mean the next person is going to be the same just because they look like the previous person you have dated or married. If you find someone that meet your preference and is good to you be thankful because not everybody can meet someone that fit their desires of a person they want in life however if you meet someone that that is opposite of your preference/desire and they are good to you by all means be happy and go forth and multiply.

I hope you don't have an issue with me - I notice that after I responded - suddenly - 'you had a problem'

Again - I am sharing personal experience ONLY - not giving advice to tall or short people - I encourage everyone to go after their preference

Just keep the record straight - short men don't = small d.ick

koolchicco:
I like the highlighted parts. Very unassuming, just like my person. Tell it as it is already!

Sadly most girls hate realists hence they end up with pretenders/lairs. I'm glad you found HIM. Congrats!

Yes - I love it! - We go at it - he is very fulfilling

very, very fulfilling - very enjoyable - i thank God every day for bringing us together. i love intelligent people who are both book-smart and common sense that is spot on - on multiple topics.

Kool - I am off to the gym - have a great Sunday!

@ Mrs. C

I guess I didn't understand 95% of the comment you just made and was only interested in your clarifying the shaded area since every comment I read in this thread prior to my posting didn't seem as though any of the writer(s) were trying to tell anybody who they should or shouldn't date.

My assumption is that everyone is responding in reference to their personal experience which is just as valuable as the next person's experience.

So I was just a bit confused by your starting statement.  You are pretty verbal so I didn't think you would mind my asking for clarification.

OK, you have a great day - I am off to the gym

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=621913.msg7902093#msg7902093 date=1300026294]I will be glad when people stop telling other people who they should date, marry, talk to, or even consider.  EACH ONE OF us have a preference of who we want.  Not everybody into tall people and not everybody into short people.[/quote]I agree with you

who is telling people who they should date, marry, talk to or consider? Did i miss something Mrs. C?

Oh Happy Sunday to you

koolchicco:
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Damn!! Girl, that's a very sweet thing to say of him. He must really be a nice guy. Big up you two!

thank you

you know i have dated some great men - and some not so great men

But this one - he is sooo good to me, I cannot compare him to anyone before him. He is honest, blunt, not a sell out, he speaks his mind whether I agree or not, I did something(s) I wasn't suppose to do and he called me on them without overreacting and was soo loving, kind and forgiving. He also allows me to be myself without condemnation. How can I not toast this King?

kool


ahahahahahahaha - your profile - ooooo - ahahahahahahaha - lololololol. where did you get that?

Looking at someone's profile is not stalking

Your profile is your e-face

If I were in front of you in person - I would be looking at your face and at everyone else's face who is talking.

I look at EVERY SINGLE profile on NL - I want to know who is talking

That is my right

That is why NL gives every user the option to post their photo, yim, email, age, etc. So that those who want to view your information can if you post it.

Looking at a profile isn't stalking.

Yes - I will date a shorter man

I am dating his WHOLE PERSON as that is what I will interact with on a daily basis. My current guy is shorter by 3 inches - I will drink his bath water.

hmmmm

i hate putting myself out here - but here goes


i dated 2 guys who stood 5'6 and 5'8 and the size of their cucumbers still haunt me - HUGE and I mean HUGE

i dated a guy 6'4 (pencil thin and small cucumber), 6'3 (medium cucumber) and a guy 6'2 (HUGE cucumber)

I promise you - HEIGHT has NOTHING to do with size of cucumber.

Prior to my personal experience - I too thought that height was a true indicator of the size of the cucumber.  I WAS COMPLETELY WRONG.

Again - how tall a man is - has NOTHING to do with the size of his family jewel.

I belong to someone else

so i would have to end the friendship immediately

his advances would be unacceptable for me.

wow - you actually have it in you

you are intelligent - you are logical and i agree with everything you just said

i never thought that day would come

thank you for your contribution

ooooooooooo

wow

Communication is key I agree with deniyor

time together, in each other's presence unravels culture similarities and differences

couple investigation is fun, exciting and makes for a great story years later

Orton

thank you

you are too kind and i think you are wonderful

roki

i humbly thank you - you are absolutely beautiful

one of a kind

you are fantastic yourself.

well - if A is the black chic

that is the one I would prefer to have

her body is closer in shape to the one i currently have

her backside, thighs, waist are very similar to my own so it would be easier for me to align myself with A than with the white girl's shape

i wish i had bosoms that were similar to hers - i just don't want to carry a load that is as big as her bosoms - they look really great on her but would be too much for me to carry on my frame  - she really does have a great shape

big ups to the sista

no competition

A - it is

I won't date a man who is out of shape - big belly - NO WAY

It is important to be in shape and if you are not in shape you need to get yourself together before you give yourself to another person.  No matter how long it takes - you should focus on yourself. Before you share yourself with another.

@ OP

ahahahahahahaha

oooooo - lololololololol

"kindly asked for BJ"

How do you "kindly" ask that question?

ahahahahahahahahahahahah

you are such a clown - you "kindly" asked and guess what she said hell noooooo.  ahahahahahahahahaha

NL - what am I going to do with you?

excuses stack up =

naija guy good in bed
cameroon guy she saw standing behind the naija guy has great swag and large cucumber
white guy (tourist) has blue eyes and white teeth and smiled at her, made her wet
italian guy - tall, dark, handsome - cologne smell good - let's bleep
yoruba man - hmmm, hmmm good - let's go, stretch me like eagle

= excuses stack up to replace one man for another continuously