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190:
[color=deeppink]***Imagining shy-one in size 87 EE *** Dammmit!![/color]

please don't curse me

what did i do to you?

whatever it is - I'm sorry

dd - is quite large

d cup and up is large

Here is the size chart:

Training Bra
A, AA, AAA - small
B, BB
C - mid-range - between small and large
D - large
DD, - larger
E, EE - ugly huge, gigantic
etc.

yayyyy for tpiah!!!!

thank you my friend!!!

thankyouuuuuuuu

Omo

don't do this to anyone - i just thought the song was funny - i laugh everytime they play it on the radio here

it is sooo funny

ooooooo

yayayayayayay

thank u 190 - whooppeee

ok Omolola - listen to this one

ahahahahahaha

190 how do u know how to do this? this utube stuff? thank u very much

hahahahaaaa

ok i don't know what i am doing

190

please put my song up for omo to listen to

i don't know how

leave my song alone

i am trying to put my song up here

stop poking fun

give omo the right advice - you are wrong and u know u r

@ 190

Omolola deserves the best and everyone on NL knows that she does

She shouldn't go back to her Ex and YOU KNOW I AM RIGHT.

You are friends with her - she deserves happiness just like you do. She should be with someone who is 100% in her corner, has no other female in their video, a man who can give her the world.

Wouldn't you agree? Anything less is GARBAGE.

So how are you doing today 190?

violent:
Don't ask him, if he still loves you, he would have made it known since!. . plus he's called an Ex for a reason.

Use your head darling, asking him will paint you in a red desperate colour, and trust me no one wants a desperate person as a friend, talkless of a a girlfriend.

100% correct

Give the new guy a chance - he could very well shock and surprise you beyond your wildest dreams.

Don't go back Omo

don't do it

leave that garbage in the trash where it belongs

God didn't put him in your life - if it was blessed by God - you wouldn't be looking for him because he would be in your presence YESTERDAY!

Enjoy who you have right now!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7742435#msg7742435 date=1297874752]The woman prolly said the same thing.  "That wouldn't happen to me and I will ask hell to swallow them whole if it does".  

Look at her now, she is busted and swollen.[/quote]You seem to only highlight and focus on what "the husband did to the wife" - you are not seeing the unethical/immoral behavior that influenced his decision to do what he did to her.

If the wife has a busted and swollen exterior - she influenced that behavior and brought it on herself. I am in no way condoning violence - but all humans definitely have breaking points and that was husband's - if you recall it was Valentine's Day and he might have been there to surprise her and got a horribly embarrassing surprise himself and it was horrific for him to observe so I'm sure that he didn't choose his response to that situation because had he chosen his response he wouldn't have hit her because it makes him look bad as well which makes the situation even worse. Who do you know that enjoys being involved in such? The husband was HER VICTIM. And that my dear is truth.

adamsrib:
I just don't agree with that.  The men have already displayed lack of respect for her, you then take it a step further and slap her in public? Two wrongs don't make a right. Now the men at work will feel they can do whatever they want to her with no repercussions from her or her husband.  She is in deep poo!

SHE is the one who is disrespected?  HOW SO?  Explain that to me because I don't see it.

If she felt disrespected by the men at work - why was she laughing and chasing him in return to him touching her butt?  EXPLAIN THAT ONE SINCE YOU SEEM to have all the answers - explain that to me.  She didn't correct him or shut him down when he did that - which tells me that there is something between the two of them previous to this incident.  

violent:
You don't get it!

The Husband has no grounds whatsoever to confront the other dude when his wife is in fact enjoying the act!. . .The wife disrespected her husband by not showing signs that she wouldn't tolerate such acts, and that's what made the dude furious.

YOU ARE 100% CORRECT

violent:
You don't get it!

The Husband has no grounds whatsoever to confront the other dude when his wife is in fact enjoying the act!. . .The wife disrespected her husband by not showing signs that she wouldn't tolerate such acts, and that's what made the dude furious.

YOU ARE COMPLETELY AND TOTALLY CORRECT!!!!!!

why can't people even see this?  I don't understand.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7742323#msg7742323 date=1297873901]I bet you she wouldn't have beat him.  If that happened to you, I am sure you wouldn't divorce him because a woman tapped his arse.  This go for EVERYBODY.[/quote]That wouldn't happen to me - and I will "ask hell to swallow them whole if it does,"  - another woman better not have the audacity to touch his backside and if she did - his response better include a mental picture of me standing beside him if that occurs.  That response better NOT include a smile on his face or him chasing her around with laughter.  [shy-one breathing hard and getting very upset just thinking about it]

adamsrib:
Sorry but that is lame. In public a husband and a wife should have each others back. I would think his very first instinct would be to confront the man. If he had any questions for her it should have waited until they were at home.

I really feel sorry for that woman. She gets no respect at work or at home!

He didn't confront the man because he didn't marry the man - and his own wife allowed it and encouraged additional behavior by chasing the man around.  So he did just what he should have done - he confronted "Who owed him" - his wife owed him "proper behavior" - that is cut and dried.

He didn't wait to get home - because she didn't wait to do what she did behind closed doors - she did it publically for ALL TO SEE - he shouldn't have hit her - but he definitely should have disciplined her publically - more so verbally not physically.

also her response of laughing when the man touched her is a DIRECT AFFRONT to her mate.  She allowed it and reciprocated by chasing the guy around.  That is disrespectful on sooo many levels to a REAL MAN and then her husband saw it.  Does she not know how to carry herself or conduct herself when not in her husband's presence?  She is a representative of her marriage AT ALL TIMES.  Joking or serious.  When people see her [they see him] and vice versa.  PEOPLE=  When you take your marriage vows - be aware of JUST HOW MUCH YOU ARE COMMITTING yourself to.  You are a role model and if you think you are not - you are in denial and are unaware of your position in your marriage and in life.

“familiarity breeds contempt”

She was wrong – completely in the wrong – her relationship was too familiar as a married woman and it bred contempt in the husband as it would any man on earth – her chasing him around after he smacked her butt – this is black and white (not gray shaded) .  The joking went too far – absolutely too far and it is obvious.  When you joke always mentally have “your husband at your side.”  For instance – had he been standing there – she wouldn’t have joked to that level with another man.  This is not rocket science.  Don’t do with another what you wouldn’t do in the presence of your mate.  She was shocked because she was WRONG.  Had he called her name and she was just standing there talking and laughing – she wouldn’t have been shocked.  She was wrong and she knows it.  Better yet – how would she have acted if “her husband did that and she was the observer?”

ahahahahahahaha

i agree with you there boo-boo

don't mention my babe - i will go on and on and on and on

ooooooo weeeeee - i love him - lololololololol [now shy-one is giddy, skipping like crazy and out of control with joy - singing - my baby, my baby, how i love my baby] - yayyyyy

@ A

Actually - TODAY - u beat me - do a word count - And according to my resolution - Thanks for the reminder sis  

@ A

Hey - I just saw your paragraph - you wrote much more than I did and you are calling my little murmurings an epistle?

You better "Jump Back Jack."  

@ A

I did good - and you know I did

I just put spaces between sentences - you know it didn't take you long to read my statements. Admit it!

Omo

don't try to reciprocate - don't be who u are not with him - don't try to force it

just enjoy him and give it time

you will see that in the end you will love him deeply

also - don't compare the two mentally - as the new guy will show you so many moves that will outshine the previous guy

open your thought up to allowing this new guy to "show you" who he is without mentally comparing him to who you are no longer with

what God has in store for you is a million times more fabulous than even u could have imagined or hoped to receive

don't go back

Omo

This is Shy

I am following this thread very closely.

STAY WITH YOUR CURRENT GUY

He is mature, understanding - he is able to clearly see what you are feeling and he isn't angry about it - he is understanding of what you are going through - even if it is at his detriment.  

That alone SPEAKS VOLUMES - he is also head over heels in your corner

The other guy WASN'T ON THAT LEVEL AND STILL ISN'T ON THAT LEVEL.

You cannot go back to -  You cannot hold onto - WHAT YOU NEVER HAD

The other guy - you can find him on any street corner - nothing is special about him - he was into himself and life is about him - life is not about you and him being together

You will live to regret that guy

Stay with the one you have - if you leave him you will miss him on so many more deeper levels than you miss your ex.  The current guy is into you - the previous guy is into himself and trust me - the girl he has now will be a distant memory to him as well.

Be aware of just how lucky you really are to have who you have right now.  You have been given a chance at happiness - grab it with both hands and arms; relish it and enjoy it immensely.

Don't look back - you will turn into a pillar of salt.

yessss

oooooo

will u ever forgive me?!!!

i feel ashamed,

EVERYBODY ON NL - PLZZZZ FORGIVE ME.

I actually felt dizzy trying to read the post on this thread,

i repent and won't do it again.

oooooo

i thought i had long essays - this is the first time on NL that i say "i give up"

i just couldn't read it

now i see what i do to others

O NAIRALAND - PLEASE FORGIVE ME WITH MY LONG ESSAYS - I PROMISE TO CUT IT OUT IN FUTURE

It is my genuine hope that you experience more and more of what you deem as "sugary" - for me "sugary" is the NORMAL BEHAVIOR not the ABNORMAL.

Thanks for your thought process.

I too am definitely not wanting to offend you - as you are very valuable to the forum as we all are and we are all needed here.

The world needs us and that is TRUTH.

@ Mrs. C

I am fine with agreeing to disagree.

Remember what is far-fetched to you can be another persons EXACT REALITY and can be not only within reach but is their DAILY PRACTICE.  99% of what I speak is personal experience or I wouldn't speak it.  So when I speak sugary [per your terminology] - just imagine what I am receiving from others and what I am giving to others. 

There is something very real to the saying that "you give what you receive."  I am sharing with others what has been given to me.  Many times I read that people on NL really think that many of the posters are fake or say things that they think others want to hear.  I am about as genuine about who I am as a person as you can get.  I have just about any and everything I could ever want so no-one on NL is there for me to impress and gain anything from - so when you hear the me I profess to be on NL - you are really getting the genuine me.  If I am upset it isn't a front - I am genuinely upset and if I am giving out sugary [per your description] then that is the sweet side that I am experiencing in my life more and more each day in bulk.

I love my life and I am the same in person with family/friends/strangers as I am online with my NL family.  It's too much work to be one person online and another up close and personal.

i am on a diet

chocolate cannot see the inside of my mouth [i love chocolate but it cannot see the inside of my mouth]

can we vote for more than one couple?

if we can only vote for one couple - i cannot vote - i like too many of you people as couples

mz dark is very good for you - you seem different - not as bossy anymore

fire and tjski - fantastic together

dsense and annawhite - gave the best barbecue i have seen in years - i have a great time and they are wonderful as a team - i don't know why i didn't pair them up before in my thought - when i saw them interacting it was magic

no - if we can only vote 1 time - i cannot vote

sorry

I do like omolola - she is very sweet - her posts are quite intelligent, funny - she also has qualities that are admirable.  I don't admire many people and those that I do admire - are special enough to stand out in a crowd.

I don't know you but if you are the one making her happy - you are acceptable in my book. I knew that she was too special to be single for long.  I am very happy for her - she deserves a good mate. thanks for being that person.

have a great v-day to you and her.

Happy Valentines to Everyone

I can't vote

there are too many people that are couples that I like very much and I can't put anyone of them over the other.

I like omolola, mzdark, tjski, annawhite, mygoldie and I think they are paired up with some good guys so I can't make up my mind.

I don't know any of the other names too well.

But regardless, Happy V Day to u all. I had a great day and I hope you did too.

I love this - very wonderful - very creative - the food wowwww, yummy

congratulations to Dsense and Anna White - I have seen pictures of you both - what a lovely couple you will make.

i also think that you are both very good for each other - spunky, witty, intelligent - a fantastic pairing

i also really love the food selection

thank you for the party

yayyyyyy!!!!