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it is never ok for a woman to hit a man or a man to hit a woman

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=590613.msg7583496#msg7583496 date=1295721205]I had definitely noticed my husband's eyes! Oh my goodness they are so breathtaking gorgeous!

That hands oh my goodness! OOoh lawd! The lips! Awwwwwww!

(looking at the room) Can I have some privacy please? Thank you.[/quote]hahahahahahahahahaha

Pame:
the pointing bosoms and the dangling BAKYARD! Just kill me wt your gaped-tooth if u av one, then, u gat to kill me if combined with chocolate skin!

I AM FRONT GAP-TOOTHED MYSEF!

hahahahaha

ok - I am not trying to flirt with you - I want you to know that when I say this: "You have no shame in your game, I like that about you, you are definitely who YOU ARE 'no bones about it', you are very honest and sure of yourself and that is very good" - it is evidenced by your profile picture - go ahead with yo bad self.

eyes - that is the very first thing i look at on everybody

eyes - key to who they are

if you have discernment u can immediately see from the eyes if their experience in life has been good, bad or ugly

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
can you imagine that you will have no teeth mark on your dikc anymore after BJ?! this is the perfect lady, lol!!!!!
marry her quick and have her invest on DENTAL IMPLANTS instead!

******dreaming of bj without teeth, while drooling on my keyboard******

ahahahahahahahahahah

whooooo - hahahahahaha

u r too much

Tell her to pop her teeth back in so you guys can resume

You said you went past the point of return

Fake bosoms?  So what - actually they are better because they stay firm forever (10-20 years per surgery and sometimes longer if it is inserted under the bosom muscle) - well into her senior years you can still proudly present her on your arm

As far as liposuction - you can't tell that she has had liposuction. So that makes me wonder to the validity of your story.

You too will have dentures one day so what is the deal?  How is her other attributes?  Her personality, intelligence, sense of humor, bank account?  What up with those?

MOBO444:
^^^ How dare you call me broke, you America are all the same, you want every body to be broke so you can lord it over us, well China and India are here, Russia too, i bet you angry now.

what? i am lost, please find me so i can answer. what sense did that make? what are u talking about? i don't understand.

MOBO444:
^^^ Then i can bet my last penny you are already sleeping behind his back and opening you legs for them male in the vicinity, be honest.

wow, I was really enjoying your posts and you had to go an ruin it with that sentence.

I just lost my sense of humor.  I don't cheat, I don't open my legs and I don't talk to men in the vicinity - I am VERY LOYAL.   And I am very mad at you!!  U are no longer funny Mobo.  And if you bet your last penny then you are now broke because you have lost your bet!!

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=588046.msg7577503#msg7577503 date=1295630226]Shhhhhhhhh! Yes, we are! Mobo just venting. It make him feel better.[/quote]ohhh ok - sorry.

MOBO444:
So you are also awake, is like the men in America are weak, maybe the cold and snow manke them weak and shrink them manliness to a small size, yes I head of that also, now why are you awake, if your man gave you a good time last night you suppose to be in bed and not online, you suppose to be sleeping, not unless he cant satisfy you, so you get to wake early and get online.

sadly, he is in Nigeria

All Americans are not self-centered and greedy - stop it Mobo!

That's ok - let's just change the subject please.

Sagamite:
[Shakes Head]

You did not grow up in Nigeria I take it?

You never had to buy 50 kobo epa (roasted groundnut) to garnish, design and soak in your garri and give it niiice flavour?

I'm sorry I don't know what those items are, but they sound interesting. Mrs. Chima, have you ever tasted a groundnut or a garri? If so - please tell me what it compares to so I can experience a "taste similarity visual."

@ Kool

u really must warn people prior to commenting - I took a look at you - your profile picture

I don't know what to say, I am at a loss for words. Shocked, stunned, nauseated - it might have been more acceptable if the color were darker in complexion  

@ Mobo

Mrs. Chima posted a photo of a kitten on the previous page - I tried to repost it - but it didn't transfer properly - I was laughing about the photo.

I then said that there are several different profiles [on NL that keep me laughing and/or are enjoyable reads - you and Mrs. Chima are actually 2 of them].  That is what I tried to say - it must not have come out right. 

I have been ill for a while and just now trying to feel a bit better so there are times in which I am not communicating up to my normal par.

1) He has to have a daily, active relationship with God and he has to be active in his church, volunteering

2) He has to have a job or be self-employed

3) He has to see the importance of family

4) He has to allow me freedom in the relationship

5) He has to smell good and take pride and care with his appearance

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=588046.msg7565333#msg7565333 date=1295469676]To all the cheating black brothers.[/quote][img]http://fuckyoucat.jpg[/img]

hahahahahahah - ooooooo - lrlrlrlrlrlrl - lololololol

u clowned!!!  I laugh soo hard - there are like 10 different profiles that have me dying with laughter and yours is one.

ahahahahahaha

ohhhh - thank u Mrs. Chima

hmmmmm

oohhh ok

thank you for that information

binhozie:
@OP,
You claim you didnt post with your original nl username cos your friends know your handle,
Then you go ahead to give your age, your school, your family history, and just about every other thing
So even if it was true and your friends saw this story they'd probably know it was you

BOTTOMLINE: THIS STORY IS (FIX APPROPRIATE ADJ HERE)

OP is most definitely male, and probably is still wankking to the replies. . .ode oshi!!

Oh my goodness

Now I feel stupid. I hate when someone makes a fool out of me. I believe you. Everything you just wrote makes sense. Why didn't I see that?

@ OP

I don't believe your story anymore - you wasted my time and I was actually feeling sorry for you. If you are lying - SHAME ON YOU@!!!

Sagamite:
10 kobo royalty per month of use.

ok

but what does kobo mean? and why 10?

MBG4Real:
Yes, I think you are more than weird, or rather, you are too mean. You were once unemployed, didn't you have friends then.

I completely agree with you.  I am mean - you have to be sometimes.  You cannot feed the nation by yourself.  I did use to be unemployed - I know just how hard it is - I suffered - I lost my job in 2008 and started my own business because I couldn't find work - this recession killed jobs in the U.S. and worldwide.  I cannot afford to hand my hard-earned cash over to friends who are unemployed forever or temporarily unemployed. I have a friend who doesn't want to work either even if the recession didn't exist.  I'm sorry but I have to be mean.  I don't like it either - but it is what it is.   

wow

thanks - u definitely did your research

I am going to file that away and utilize that up the road if that is alright with you.

ooo ok

thank u

I do see men that seem taller than me - the women seem shorter as well - overall

how do u know so much?

Sagamite:
Maybe southern women are taller but I can almost guarantee you 5'7 would not be average.

Otherwise they will be regarded as the tallest women on Earth.

Most people have no idea of their real height and over-exaggerate it. Moreso, women that include heels. I am yet to meet any woman below 5' 8 that has accurately said her height.

The people that do know are the ones that are really really tall, like dayokanu and mukina, as they would have got measured sometime.

I remember one 5'9 foool in London telling me he was 6ft. I was looking at him like if he took drugs because I could tell his height instantly.

Ohh ok

thank you for the correction

I really am not sure about average height - I just don' t keep up with it

Do you know what the average height is for women and men in the U.S.?  I find that I am taller than the majority of my female friends.  The only time I was the shortest one in a group of women was when I was always with my sister-in-laws, my deceased husband's sisters.  They are 6ft 2, and 6ft and 5ft 11 inches.  I was the shortest in that group.  I was amazed.  Also, when I modeled, one other girl and I were the shortest because all the other females towered above us in their bare feet.  I was surrounded by Amazons.  But here lately in Indiana, I am the tallest - that is when I pay attention.  I am usually so engrossed in trying to remember how to drive (he used to do the driving) and when shopping - I am soo unaware of people around me - I can't really recall how tall, how short or even their clothes or faces.

I don't know - sometimes I think I am weird - I really do - more and more I think I am prejudice.  I don't want to be, but I think in my heart that I am.

I don't want to be around or befriend a female that isn't working.  I just don't.  I don't want her hand out to me because she can't or didn't get enough from her bf/husband that week, day or month.  I don't do loans.

But, I also hate loud mouth, ignorant, unfeminine women who belittle men and they better not do it in my presence - because I leave the vicinity really fast.  I have a past  friend (female) that is unemployed and talks loud and crazy to her husband, the poor man looks horrible when she does it - which is the beginning of the end because he bottles it up and then explodes on her up the road.  Not only is she penniless w/o him, but she gets all ghetto with him and will do it in front of me.  Embarrassing me.  I ended that friendship.  I don't have the time to school her.

But I also find that women that don't work and don't have a bit of independence of their own, rely too much on their mate and many times, that mate will disrespect her and talk down to her and I don't suffer fools in my presence - male or female.  Regardless of who is or isn't working - respect each other.  So u can have a mate that wants you around.

I don't know what average height is for men or women here in the U.S.

I know that areas are different.  I have never seen as many TALL WHITE PEOPLE in my life than when I moved to Wisconsin.  I think it is the pure water in Wisconsin and the farm fed people that are there.   I don't see many tall white people in the South Bend area.  But I see more tall blacks in the Indiana area.  The Southern States I see soo many fat AA's - I am stunned - the women, alot of them are huge and big boned and really tall - alot of them - I think the farm lands in those areas are responsible as well.

I don't know about what is or isn't average - but I think Tall definitely isn't average here and or really short either.  I think maybe 5'7 is an average height for women in U.S.  I am not sure about average height for men in U.S.

omanzo02:
@poster,

Its an acceptable fact that what u are doing is totally wrong, so I'm not interested in criticising u.

Yes, u can get out of your situation if u intentional want to, the best way to go about it is to have a deep dialogue with the husband of your sisters in a very serene enviroment. To start with, explain  the implication and damages of your affair with them is causing and its resulting effect when everything comes to light, let them know u have thought over it and u are not willing to do more damages than u have already done, call it a "breakup" if u like, but is the best way to go. its obvious from your post u are enjoying their company and the favours u get, let them know u enjoyed your time with them and appreciate the help they rendered to u and sound it clearly u feel it's deem that the affair comes' to a close, give them the assurance that u would keep whatever happened secret and live with blames that goes with it.

To prepare u more for their reaction, knowing men for what they are, they might want to convince u to change your mind to continue the affair, this is where u need to stand your ground that u want to call the whole bullshit over with and open a new chapter in your life.

Those fake pastors on this forum who are asking u to call them for prayer are just trying to captialize on your current situation to take advantages of u, If u believe u can change, then u can, afterall changes is  when human changes the way he do things, Yes I believe God exist somehow, but come to realise God will not come down or send an angel down to earth to rescue u from your problem, it's u who will show the will power, creative and pyschological wisdom to pull yourself out. So the fraudulent Nigeria religious brainwashing cant help u. The solution to your problem lies practically in your hands.

Goodluck.

This is very, very good advice

Also, the writer Chaircover gave good advice to you as well.

5'10

With heels, even taller.

3triangle:
Leaving my sister's house is out of the question because my big sister wont here of that.I wish really could.I have toasters from school and even my neighborhood, but dont give them ears cos I could pass for a virgin due to the way I conduct myself outside. I have an IT friend that fixes my laptop but it doesnt go beyond that. He has tried making passes at me but I usually always politely decline without hurting his ego. Generally, I dont have a boyfriend because I dont want to pass for (one of them girls) as boys will say, and my sisters and their husbands are way too protective of me. Even if I met one, I cant keep up the relationionship because I wont be there for him. I am ready to die with this secrete cos I can not stand it going public or my family findind out.

WOWW

what u just said shows that u aren't serious about stopping.  u are condemning yourself.  If you don't leave the house regardless to what your family says - u will continue to lay with these men.  so why are u on NL?

Drug addicts have to get away from drugs to stop using as well as cigarette smokers and alcoholics.  Cheaters need to put space between themself and the one(s) they are cheating with as it will continue if you don't.

stop using excuses - he say/she say - u are responsible for your life - u are 23 now.  don't fool yourself or NL - u stay in the house and u will continue to sin and u know that is true.

ask the computer friend to help u find a place to stay - let that friend know that u need to move and u just don't want to discuss it.  he might have a solution that is pure - TALK TO GOD - God has better and more immediate answers than what u would find on NL.

My man is 5'7

I don't know what it is about "shorter men" but they have really BIG ATTITUDE - THEY WALK REALLY TALL - a whole lot of them. That is soo sexy to me. I have seen really tall men that are meek mannered and then these "shorter guys" are soo bold and masculine - I LOVE IT.

@ OP

This is truth:

Talk to God - because he loves you soo much - he will definitely forgive you
then
Look in the mirror and "forgive yourself" - until you forgive yourself and go and sin no more - you will continue to spread your thighs for VERMIN

U were underage (17) when a married man - "got you" - this man was your brother-in-law "VERMIN"

As far as I am concerned the criminals are the "married men" - YOU AREN'T MARRIED
They are not blood to you - so it isn't Inbreeding

But u owe your sisters - u live in your sisters home
Once u are forgiven by God - if u sin again
U will marry and have your husband sleeping with your sister(s), friend(s), stranger(s), your own daughter(s)

My advice is to go to God, then forgive yourself
God will provide housing for you immediately a door will open as soon as you ask for God's forgiveness - God will then provide for you

Make sure u are sincere.
Don't focus on condemning yourself - FOCUS ON CHANGING YOUR VIDEO RIGHT AWAY

O, by the way - I promise you that you aren't in love with either of those 2 men - Psychologically speaking u had sex underage by older men who have taken care of you financially, emotionally and physically and TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF YOU SEXUALLY - your inner voice tells you that you love them because you are grateful to them and you have experienced them sexually.  My advice to you is to replace that experience with new shelter, a new relationship with God, a new man who isn't married - if you don't, you will start dating other married men - break the cycle that has started.  Be proud of yourself, you are courageous enough to get it off your chest so that is the first step - now get out there and do something about it - DON'T CONDEMN YOURSELF - many times people get paralyzed by depression, fear, anger, emotions and don't "act on" moving forward.

Move Forward TODAY!!  Woman Thou Art Loosed - Go and Sin no More.